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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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Yep, sending disappearing pictures on tele too, like for fucks sake , what are they getting out of it? Fake News 😂 its an inconvenience for me , but imagine if that was the only way you could get your jollies, wankers.
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We had a bad experience when were new to fab with one of those "couples", we nievly started a chat on kik with him, didn't go well and its now the reason why all single men are blocked with us. I know cant paint all with same brush but its easier for us that way. |
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I just feel bad for the women who’s pictures they’ve taken from insta or the likes to entice you, “she’s just too shy to be on fab”…. Or “she wants me to set it all up and then she’ll magically appear” |
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I once had a female on here - she was getting so much crude and rude mails all the time and was leaving but she enjoyed the social and chats with friends without giving out personal details
We chatted and said open a males profile, she did and just let her friends know her new profile is and she stayed active on here for another 2 yrs |
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This has been a problem on this website for as long as I have known (15years)
I have had a couples profile, and we were inundated with what were clearly a man "couple"
They use it as a way to get around filters.
Have the same with local "women" messaging clearly men again, trying to sus out who you are in real life. Easily spotted because women never message first  |
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"I once had a female on here - she was getting so much crude and rude mails all the time and was leaving but she enjoyed the social and chats with friends without giving out personal details
We chatted and said open a males profile, she did and just let her friends know her new profile is and she stayed active on here for another 2 yrs "
Innovative, fair play |
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A high percentage of new " couples" pages, in our experience, are fake, and to be fair theres a fair few who are on it years are fake too. Its completely turned us off engaging in conversation on Fab.
I will say we are battle hardened to it at this point. The red flags are always the same, these sad indivuduals think they're being original but its always the same story and excuses as to why they cant be open.
Its absolutely demented as to why any sad man would put energy into a complete fantasty thats going nowhere.
Sad indictment on this site to be honest |
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By *-teamCouple (MM) 18 weeks ago
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I think they should make validation periodic, make it a video with a date on a crumpled piece of paper like reddit, AI tools now are able to determine its the same person or couple.
People who are genuine won't mind getting naked to do it  |
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By *-teamCouple (MM) 18 weeks ago
Dublin |
"Just had one of these message today and the tantrum thrown when I declined. Insults thrown and a block. Nice when the trash takes itself out - Trouble "
I suppose its the same with mainstream social media, people want the attention and are acting out consequence free as its never been real for them.
God forbid you genuinely wanted to arrange some sex  |
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What's almost as weird is that so many trip over themselves to offer to meet a girlfriend with no presence on Fab, join in an impregnation lottery with a couple (completely ignoring a China-sized volume of red flags), or chat up some imaginary wife in a bar.
Shills gonna shill as long as they have a customer base |
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"What's almost as weird is that so many trip over themselves to offer to meet a girlfriend with no presence on Fab, join in an impregnation lottery with a couple (completely ignoring a China-sized volume of red flags), or chat up some imaginary wife in a bar.
Shills gonna shill as long as they have a customer base "
You’ve been reading the same threads as me and laughed at the red flags being hoisted. |
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we had a similar experience, checked the profile verifications, pics etc. drove 1 1/2 hours to meet the "couple" got there sent text got a reply saying "oh we just had a falling out and she went out, but I'm here I can watch or join in if ye want" didnt even reply turned around came home. sad sad individual. |
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There are plenty of messers and timewasters on here at the moment.
Its strange why the female member of the "couple" is never available to chat or leaves it up to her husband.
I have heard all of the excuses here lately, Its all part of it unfortunately. |
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"Can I ask why nobody seems to organise a coffee first
We do... Just to sus things out. Nothing more annoying than meeting another couple for fun and realise there is nothing there... "
Or that the wife is too busy but he’s okay to play coz he turned up.  |
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"Can I ask why nobody seems to organise a coffee first
We do... Just to sus things out. Nothing more annoying than meeting another couple for fun and realise there is nothing there...
Or that the wife is too busy but he’s okay to play coz he turned up. "
That would be an instant 180 for us.
I do wonder, does that ever work out for those single men couple profiles? Where the real couples goes... Ah... OK let's just do this! |
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I am sort of still relatively new to the scene and pretty naive but yeah I was definitely getting a bit suspicious of some of the couple messages I was getting when it seemed to be only the man doing the talking and really pushing to meet! |
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They are fairly easy to cop. Hidden veris, zero pics of the lady and that opening message.
Even new genuine couples to the scene the male half always comes across pretty chilled and the pics are predominantly of the female half of the couple. This is from my experience.
If the message comes across as demanding or overbearing I doubt any woman would stand by it.
It’s 100% a single man
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The Saturday Night Special is one of our favourites.
If we get a one liner from a couple asking for a meet without so much as a by your leave? It's a man on his own.
There's either no partner or she doesn't know he's up late cracking one off at the keyboard.
You can tell because as soon as you demur they don't even bother to reply. Just move on to the next dopamine hit. |
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