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By *ineapple13 OP   Couple 18 weeks ago

Nearby

I have been chatting with several couples (obviously men and it's pissing me off) feel like posting their usernames in a group to avoid)

Rant over for tonight...

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By *haggyherhimCouple 18 weeks ago

Longford

Yes we’ve been caught by a few too lately .. 20 messages in and “Ooo well she’s not really ready to play but she is ok if I play on my own”

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By *rxmrsCouple 18 weeks ago

dublin westmeath Dublin all over

We had a few come up too

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By *ot neuteredMan 18 weeks ago

Kildare

Greatest nuisance on this site

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By *aptain Caveman41Man 18 weeks ago

Home


"Greatest nuisance on this site "
it's fair annoying

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By *inkyDragonMan 18 weeks ago

Castleknock

DownRightFuckingWasters

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By *otownkid1967Man 18 weeks ago

Portlaoise

It would rot ya

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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago

Yep, sending disappearing pictures on tele too, like for fucks sake , what are they getting out of it? Fake News 😂 its an inconvenience for me , but imagine if that was the only way you could get your jollies, wankers.

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple 18 weeks ago

Cork

We had a bad experience when were new to fab with one of those "couples", we nievly started a chat on kik with him, didn't go well and its now the reason why all single men are blocked with us. I know cant paint all with same brush but its easier for us that way.

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By *rishcouple12Couple 18 weeks ago

Cork County


"Yes we’ve been caught by a few too lately .. 20 messages in and “Ooo well she’s not really ready to play but she is ok if I play on my own” "

Hasnt he got a really understanding wife

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By *ilMsStickyWoman 18 weeks ago

Galway

One of the reasons I trust no one on this site until they physically show up to a meet, which very few ever do. Sad way to exist living in dreamland for them!

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By *xstevenxxMan 18 weeks ago

dublin

Theres a lot - why I just don’t know why they do bar to get attention via a message

But As I always say trust ur gut feeling

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By *eordie.Woman 18 weeks ago

The Sticks

Plenty of single men pretending to be single women too

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By *og-ManMan 18 weeks ago

somewhere


"Plenty of single men pretending to be single women too "

Plenty of single men pretending to be single men too

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By *otel CaliforniaCouple 18 weeks ago

Dirty old town

I just feel bad for the women who’s pictures they’ve taken from insta or the likes to entice you, “she’s just too shy to be on fab”…. Or “she wants me to set it all up and then she’ll magically appear”

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By *og-ManMan 18 weeks ago

somewhere

New male profiles with no verifications

Yet they have pictures of women sucking them off or riding them

I actually assumed that they are illegal to share or post

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By *osyRedLipsWoman 18 weeks ago

KILDARE

Missus isn't meeting she's ill... mmm really I think the wife is a figment of your imagination

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By *amsevenMan 18 weeks ago

cork

Single men pretending to be swingers🙈

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By *ilted lightMan 18 weeks ago

Portadown

Personal i dont think its just the men who are pertaining to be in a couple 🤔

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By *xstevenxxMan 18 weeks ago

dublin

I once had a female on here - she was getting so much crude and rude mails all the time and was leaving but she enjoyed the social and chats with friends without giving out personal details

We chatted and said open a males profile, she did and just let her friends know her new profile is and she stayed active on here for another 2 yrs

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By *thwonderMan 18 weeks ago

nearby

This has been a problem on this website for as long as I have known (15years)

I have had a couples profile, and we were inundated with what were clearly a man "couple"

They use it as a way to get around filters.

Have the same with local "women" messaging clearly men again, trying to sus out who you are in real life. Easily spotted because women never message first

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By *andomGuy200Man 18 weeks ago

Can't Say??


"I once had a female on here - she was getting so much crude and rude mails all the time and was leaving but she enjoyed the social and chats with friends without giving out personal details

We chatted and said open a males profile, she did and just let her friends know her new profile is and she stayed active on here for another 2 yrs "

Innovative, fair play

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By *aul100123Man 18 weeks ago

drogheda

A lot of time wasters on here male an female

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By *aisyandTrigCouple 18 weeks ago

Cork

A high percentage of new " couples" pages, in our experience, are fake, and to be fair theres a fair few who are on it years are fake too. Its completely turned us off engaging in conversation on Fab.

I will say we are battle hardened to it at this point. The red flags are always the same, these sad indivuduals think they're being original but its always the same story and excuses as to why they cant be open.

Its absolutely demented as to why any sad man would put energy into a complete fantasty thats going nowhere.

Sad indictment on this site to be honest

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By *hocko87Man 18 weeks ago

dublin

What do these wasters get out of it. Ide never do anything like that .

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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago

Same here

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By *om TangoMan 18 weeks ago

Tedavnet Co.Monaghan

Only chat to couples that are picture verified. Easy. Then move over to tele gram and voice notes

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By *-teamCouple (MM) 18 weeks ago

Dublin

I think they should make validation periodic, make it a video with a date on a crumpled piece of paper like reddit, AI tools now are able to determine its the same person or couple.

People who are genuine won't mind getting naked to do it

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By *heeky_and_TroubleCouple 18 weeks ago

Dublin

Just had one of these message today and the tantrum thrown when I declined. Insults thrown and a block. Nice when the trash takes itself out - Trouble

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By *-teamCouple (MM) 18 weeks ago

Dublin


"Just had one of these message today and the tantrum thrown when I declined. Insults thrown and a block. Nice when the trash takes itself out - Trouble "

I suppose its the same with mainstream social media, people want the attention and are acting out consequence free as its never been real for them.

God forbid you genuinely wanted to arrange some sex

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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago

Well it’s better than men pretending to be men

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By *emlifeTV/TS 18 weeks ago

Dublin

I have guy tell there a female arrange a meet get to the hotel room and its a guy

And the profile are very convincing

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By *ealitybitesMan 18 weeks ago

Belfast

I've never understood why all the two faced people on fab have never created a couples profile with themselves?

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By *UIETELLE2052Couple 18 weeks ago

Dundrum

Yes we have come across a lot of this but we can spot early on at this stage so just ignore them then

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By *ust_us999Couple 18 weeks ago

Somewhere

I presume a couple is a single man, unless proven otherwise 😂

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By *ipstick KissesWoman 18 weeks ago

Newry

What's almost as weird is that so many trip over themselves to offer to meet a girlfriend with no presence on Fab, join in an impregnation lottery with a couple (completely ignoring a China-sized volume of red flags), or chat up some imaginary wife in a bar.

Shills gonna shill as long as they have a customer base

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By *Belfast_FellaMan 18 weeks ago

belfast

I’m a couple pretending to be a single man.

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By *inkyDragonMan 18 weeks ago

Castleknock


"What's almost as weird is that so many trip over themselves to offer to meet a girlfriend with no presence on Fab, join in an impregnation lottery with a couple (completely ignoring a China-sized volume of red flags), or chat up some imaginary wife in a bar.

Shills gonna shill as long as they have a customer base "

You’ve been reading the same threads as me and laughed at the red flags being hoisted.

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By *redandFredaCouple 18 weeks ago

Kildare

we had a similar experience, checked the profile verifications, pics etc. drove 1 1/2 hours to meet the "couple" got there sent text got a reply saying "oh we just had a falling out and she went out, but I'm here I can watch or join in if ye want" didnt even reply turned around came home. sad sad individual.

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By *og-ManMan 18 weeks ago

somewhere

Can I ask why nobody seems to organise a coffee first

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By *urfdudeMan 18 weeks ago

WEXFORD

There are plenty of messers and timewasters on here at the moment.

Its strange why the female member of the "couple" is never available to chat or leaves it up to her husband.

I have heard all of the excuses here lately, Its all part of it unfortunately.

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By *ust_us999Couple 18 weeks ago

Somewhere


"Can I ask why nobody seems to organise a coffee first "

We do... Just to sus things out. Nothing more annoying than meeting another couple for fun and realise there is nothing there...

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By *inkyDragonMan 18 weeks ago

Castleknock


"Can I ask why nobody seems to organise a coffee first

We do... Just to sus things out. Nothing more annoying than meeting another couple for fun and realise there is nothing there... "

Or that the wife is too busy but he’s okay to play coz he turned up.

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By *ust_us999Couple 18 weeks ago

Somewhere


"Can I ask why nobody seems to organise a coffee first

We do... Just to sus things out. Nothing more annoying than meeting another couple for fun and realise there is nothing there...

Or that the wife is too busy but he’s okay to play coz he turned up. "

That would be an instant 180 for us.

I do wonder, does that ever work out for those single men couple profiles? Where the real couples goes... Ah... OK let's just do this!

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By *ara TVTV/TS 18 weeks ago

North Wexford

How about a "Men, pretending to be Men" thread.

So many picture hunters on this.

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By *itch Buchannon84Man 18 weeks ago

Cork

I am sort of still relatively new to the scene and pretty naive but yeah I was definitely getting a bit suspicious of some of the couple messages I was getting when it seemed to be only the man doing the talking and really pushing to meet!

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By *andt2023xxxxCouple 18 weeks ago

wild west

Definitely all should be reported and named and shamed , very dangerous 😳

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By *azzandbobzeventsCouple 18 weeks ago

Cork

They are fairly easy to cop. Hidden veris, zero pics of the lady and that opening message.

Even new genuine couples to the scene the male half always comes across pretty chilled and the pics are predominantly of the female half of the couple. This is from my experience.

If the message comes across as demanding or overbearing I doubt any woman would stand by it.

It’s 100% a single man

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By *ookAndDorkCouple 18 weeks ago

The West

The Saturday Night Special is one of our favourites.

If we get a one liner from a couple asking for a meet without so much as a by your leave? It's a man on his own.

There's either no partner or she doesn't know he's up late cracking one off at the keyboard.

You can tell because as soon as you demur they don't even bother to reply. Just move on to the next dopamine hit.

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