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A fabber , A swinger and a social meeter
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No its not the beginning of a dirty joke 
I have a question .if possible could you define each one . It sparked a conversation ive had recently . Just looking for options on whats what ?
Shud be interesting |
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By *ella.Woman 18 weeks ago
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"Im not sure tbh... its a funny one for me. As I think it all starts with being on Fab. Socials events meets are all accessible on fab. "
For me I use the site for the socials and I use the socials to meet people,make connections and my meets are as a result of that. Does that make me a fabber more than a swinger?  |
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I can only define them from my own perspective.
I'm a fabber in that I only engage with people through the site and contribute to the forums. There is no contact outside of the site apart from with close friends.
I'm not a swinger as I've never met a couple or experienced anything other than one to one meets and I've no interest in networking. This is a hobby, not a lifestyle choice.
I've been to a few socials but they aren't my thing mainly because I have no interest in chatgroups or talking to multiple people at once. |
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Bella ... since ive been to PDI ive change my views on the lifestyle. However at the end of the day it's about connecting with like minded people . Swingers , fabbers , serial meeters are just individuals utilising this site in away that best suits them |
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For me, I think, a Fabber is someone with an active presence on here.
A swinger is someone who does the swinging (in all it's variations) but is not necessarily on Fab.
A social meeter attends socials & has one on one socials but might not actually take things beyond that. Open to mislabeling for a number of reasons |
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When you put it like that I like to switch it up from time to time ..Thats the beauty of it all . I take what i need ,many years on and off the site . I have seen it all experience is a great teacher . |
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By *og-ManMan 18 weeks ago
somewhere |
Im a fabber and a social meet type of person
Have been to private parties
( including a very memorable one in Tipperary ) and group play meets in the part and a few one to ones
Im more than happy at the moment the way I am
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Ohh I think I'm all of the above tbh!
A Fabber: I use here for forums, attend socials, events, etc!
A Swinger: I like all aspects of swinging, attending events, PDI, Clubs in Spain & The UK!
A Social Meeter: I meet people socially for coffee, events etc, I do the help a fabber out etc.
I think we should all use what we find suits us best from here. Life is for living Kx |
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"Ohh I think I'm all of the above tbh!
A Fabber: I use here for forums, attend socials, events, etc!
A Swinger: I like all aspects of swinging, attending events, PDI, Clubs in Spain & The UK!
A Social Meeter: I meet people socially for coffee, events etc, I do the help a fabber out etc.
I think we should all use what we find suits us best from here. Life is for living Kx"
Yeah I definitely don't think you have to be one or the other.
I am, or have been, all of them at times - either individually or simultaneously. Ebb and flow.
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"Why are people on a swingers site if they aren’t interested in swinging?
Btws not judging or saying you shouldn’t be here I’m just curious."
Because the reality is some people use the site just for casual sex, others might have come here for the sex and stayed for the social element |
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"Why are people on a swingers site if they aren’t interested in swinging?
Btws not judging or saying you shouldn’t be here I’m just curious."
I've been here 10 years and joined when looking for a way of exploring. I knew nothing about swinging or sites like this but there were so many different options available here that I was interested in finding out more about.
Over the years my approach has changed but it still suits my needs. |
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By *hynot xCouple 18 weeks ago
Woop Woop |
I think we are a mix... I'd be all 3 but L' doesn't do fab or chat groups. She just wants to know where and when the party or social is and if there's a theme for dress! So I do the fab'min and that works for us! 💋 |
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Thanks everyone for your imput .Ive come to the conclusion that
There is difference between
Fabbers , swingers and meeters . You dont have be labelled a certain type . Its wonderful that we are all like mind but individual in our preferences. In the lifestyle those who know, know . It maybe a tad confusing but it will always be fun trying new things and finding out ××× Luna
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"For me, I think, a Fabber is someone with an active presence on here.
A swinger is someone who does the swinging (in all it's variations) but is not necessarily on Fab.
A social meeter attends socials & has one on one socials but might not actually take things beyond that. Open to mislabeling for a number of reasons "
I think that about sums up what I was thinking too. |
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"Why are people on a swingers site if they aren’t interested in swinging?
Btws not judging or saying you shouldn’t be here I’m just curious."
Some people have a curiosity about swinging, but not actually participating.
I'd bet that not everyone who read 50 Shades of Grey went out & got all the gear to try it out at home  |
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One of the more interesting forums I’ve read lately Luna!
"Thanks everyone for your imput .Ive come to the conclusion that
There is difference between
Fabbers , swingers and meeters . You dont have be labelled a certain type . Its wonderful that we are all like mind but individual in our preferences. In the lifestyle those who know, know . It maybe a tad confusing but it will always be fun trying new things and finding out ××× Luna
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From my personal viewpoint:
I'm a Fabber — I exist within the confines of Fab as a singleton and on the forums.
I'm not a Swinger in any shape or form. I'm vanilla and only engage in one-to-one dalliances and trysts.
I'm a Social Meeter: I attend the occasional group socials which are held in pubic bars or pubs but eschew other gatherings such as clubs or munches or parties (I have no interest in such events). |
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