Used to regularly meet a friend in a particular hotel. She had a preference for a particular room. Sadly she has since married and moved on (best of luck to them both)
Last hotel meet, was a no show - didn't particularly mind because was only getting back into irl and was wrecked from a job, but a no show can be annoying
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By *ustBoWoman 8 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I prefer hotel meets for the first time I meet someone off here for sex as said above it is neutral ground.
But I would have had a social with the person first before I would agree to a meeting at a hotel later on . |
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By *hellyGWoman 8 weeks ago
Sandyford |
I enjoy hotel meets when I get the opportunity but the cost is becoming ridiculous. I generally can't do day meets so I find they just arent worth the cost.
I've also met for coffee only to be told that there's a hotel booked for us too. 🙈 |
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Personally i had a bad experience seen by a friend, it was embarrassing and especially when i seen him in afterwards in a group we are both involved in. He actually had the cheek to ask me about who he was anf what i was doing there.
Now I don't really like going especially in my own area. I don't leave it completely stop me but if there's a better option then I go with that. I do limit my meets in hotels for that reason and of course the cost of hotels. |
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By *INTMan 8 weeks ago
Minutes from Somewhere Else |
Social first, but hotels are the way to go with new partners or ONS. If we start seeing each other more regularly I might invite them around to my place. Rare, but it's happened.
There are day use hotels as well for hook ups during the day.
Never got the appeal of sex in the back of a car. I'm sure it works for some but it's not my jam. |
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By *og-ManMan 8 weeks ago
somewhere |
Its probably a lot safer than someone's house
If someone has booked a room then they're traceable since most hotels insist on credit cards
Its also very handy if you're staying on the company money anyway so no cost to anyone
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I only do hotel meets for fun really unless I know the person awhile then I'd go to their place if they accommodate. Mornings suit me so usually meet at hotel in morning and they book a late check out. I don't accommodate at mine so hotels are perfect |
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If it was a play meet, I’d prefer a hotel. Sheets tossed, shower, table, bed, chair all in very close proximity. If it’s going to be an on going thing then I don’t mind bringing them to my house down the line. I’ve always paid for the hotel, I’ve never asked for money or taken it from a lady, it just doesn’t seem right to me. |
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"I prefer a hotel for neutrality. I don't ever accom and always feel i can't relax relax properly in someone elses home"
But how do you like to decided who gets to wear the home kit and who has to wear the away kit!? |
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"I prefer a hotel for neutrality. I don't ever accom and always feel i can't relax relax properly in someone elses home
But how do you like to decided who gets to wear the home kit and who has to wear the away kit!?"
No one's wearing anything  |
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"I prefer a hotel for neutrality. I don't ever accom and always feel i can't relax relax properly in someone elses home
But how do you like to decided who gets to wear the home kit and who has to wear the away kit!?
No one's wearing anything "
Not even the referee?? |
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I don't mind. Love them. It's a night away either way. Love to build my whole day around them. If I stay single I'll probably do a few around the country this year.
Lol even if I don't stay single I'll probably do the same with whoever I hook up with 😋 |
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"Safest way for all especially women, as your never far from help if needed "
The family of the lady murdered in the Clarion Hotel Limerick about 15 years ago would surely disagree with you.
The safest place for a lady to play with strangers is actually a party hosted by experienced swingers. The lads are vetted, there are clear rules and the hosts make safety their number one priority.
It's a shame that more women don't know to take advantage of this scenario for meeting guys. |
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By *liviacdTV/TS 8 weeks ago
Greystones, Galway |
I've had a few lovely meets in hotels. To me, they're safe and sexy. It's great to hear the comings and goings in the coridoor, and know you're safe and sexy in the room. My best experience was when I was staying on my own in a hotel and looked up fab to see who was nearby. Another l I very cd three rooms down the corridor! That was a great night!! |
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Exclusively hotels. I have a penchant for hotels. It's neutral territory, convenient and secure.
I take delight in the chivalrous notion of meeting someone at a hotel bar, imbibing and taking our sexual frisson to the next level, before being sequestered into a modernistic stylish room and embarking on a dalliance that lingers for days afterwards. |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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Hiya, if you check out my profile all I’m looking for is online friendship and discreet weekday hotel meets. Any ladies into weekday hotel meets take a butchers of my profile and if even the slightest interested come say hi 👋 x |
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By *avie tCouple 7 weeks ago
otherside of nowhere |
"Safest way for all especially women, as your never far from help if needed
The family of the lady murdered in the Clarion Hotel Limerick about 15 years ago would surely disagree with you.
The safest place for a lady to play with strangers is actually a party hosted by experienced swingers. The lads are vetted, there are clear rules and the hosts make safety their number one priority.
It's a shame that more women don't know to take advantage of this scenario for meeting guys."
absolutely agree...I think a hotel meet is extremely dangerous for any single person |
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"It's surely the safest option once you have had a social. A hotel near me has an underground carpark where lift goes straight upto the rooms. So no awkward walk across the foyer.  "
If its the one I'm thinking of, last time I was there, it stopped in the lobby/foyer and you needed a card to go to the rooms |
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By *og-ManMan 6 weeks ago
somewhere |
"I much prefer an Air b&b set up.No meeting people you might know at a hotel and certainly no awkwardness passing reception areas....its a lot more comfortable and feels more natural."
Are airbnb not just expensive accommodation thats not as good as hotels
You do know that hotels know that most people that stay overnight have sex ...thats natural |
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"I much prefer an Air b&b set up.No meeting people you might know at a hotel and certainly no awkwardness passing reception areas....its a lot more comfortable and feels more natural.
Are airbnb not just expensive accommodation thats not as good as hotels
You do know that hotels know that most people that stay overnight have sex ...thats natural "
It really depends on how much you want to spend.Hotels can also be very expensive or cheap for that matter.Im well aware that sex is natural and my point of awkwardness was alluding to some comments earlier about how people felt in hotels. |
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