Im guilty of doing this. I'll often look at a profile more than once. Sometimes maybe profile pic has changed and I dont remember every profile name. Sometimes I just look at whoever is online. I didn't realise people would be annoyed by this. I dont message ladies on this anymore. I assumed ladies wouldn't be checking who viewed their profile as they have enough to be doing with all the messages they get. |
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I rarely pay much heed to who has viewed my profile so I wouldn't notice someone repeatedly viewing it.
I guess you have three options:
1.Do nothing
2. Block them (if you're not interested and their constant viewing bothers you)
3. Reach out and message them yourself if you're interested. |
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It could be worse just think some may be doing it in stealth mode 🤔 unfortunately there's nothing you can do unless you block them or hide your profile or give them the bird and not waste your time on them 😉 |
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By *ustBoWoman 5 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I rarely look at who looks at my profile. But no it doesn't bother me if someone looks often anyhow because well, isn't the point of having a public profile is so people can look at it ? |
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"Anyone else find it annoying..those constant lurkers who check your profile and just be nosy...and do nothing...
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Would you not just message them?
Girl power an all 💪💪
Doesn't generally work but still.. |
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If it's really bothersome you could put your page on private or if you notice it's the same person viewing constantly just message them and ask what the craic is? Alternatively you can just block.
I feel called out because I viewed your profile last night when you popped up on a few threads 😂😂 |
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"Anyone else find it annoying..those constant lurkers who check your profile and just be nosy...and do nothing...
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Imagine all those little 🥷 running along to your profile and having a gander at some lovely little toes from the Kingdom.
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Little ninjas in disguise. Probably 10 🥷 looking to every 3 lurkers, 🤷 but probably. |
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"I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you "
This is exactly why most women are on ninja mode. Just because I look at a profile, doesn’t mean I have any interest. Sometimes I’m just a nosy git. |
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"I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you
This is exactly why most women are on ninja mode. Just because I look at a profile, doesn’t mean I have any interest. Sometimes I’m just a nosy git. "
And some of us have a bad memory so might have to check a few times... hence the trying not to look like a stalker mode |
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"I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you
This is exactly why most women are on ninja mode. Just because I look at a profile, doesn’t mean I have any interest. Sometimes I’m just a nosy git. "
see at least you replied and said it, I respect that actually.... For me it's more like the repeat lurkers and you even just sent a hello I seen you checking my page so saying hi message and it's seen and ignored but yet same group lurk the next day. Even if there's no interest a bit of manners to when just reply would be nice |
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"I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you
This is exactly why most women are on ninja mode. Just because I look at a profile, doesn’t mean I have any interest. Sometimes I’m just a nosy git.
And some of us have a bad memory so might have to check a few times... hence the trying not to look like a stalker mode"
I get that too and that's understandable, as for me I've been here before with a well verified account and I noticed the same peekers over and over, most I'll reply to just to say hello and get ignored.b |
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"I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you
This is exactly why most women are on ninja mode. Just because I look at a profile, doesn’t mean I have any interest. Sometimes I’m just a nosy git. see at least you replied and said it, I respect that actually.... For me it's more like the repeat lurkers and you even just sent a hello I seen you checking my page so saying hi message and it's seen and ignored but yet same group lurk the next day. Even if there's no interest a bit of manners to when just reply would be nice "
Or you could then block them 🤷 |
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"I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you
This is exactly why most women are on ninja mode. Just because I look at a profile, doesn’t mean I have any interest. Sometimes I’m just a nosy git. see at least you replied and said it, I respect that actually.... For me it's more like the repeat lurkers and you even just sent a hello I seen you checking my page so saying hi message and it's seen and ignored but yet same group lurk the next day. Even if there's no interest a bit of manners to when just reply would be nice
Or you could then block them 🤷"
oh I have blocked quite a few, I'm always willing to give folk the benefit of the doubt but only for so long then of course they go in the block list |
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I've been guilty of this.. I mostly check a profile if they've commented on a thread and I like the look of their profile pic. Likewise,with Who's Near! I've the memory of a goldfish though and a lot of the time as soon as I get to their page and realise I've been there before and they're not what I'm looking for,I leave! Alternatively,if they're on my hotlist I'll look a few times and admire their pics. I've messaged quite a few and got no reply but that's just the way it is. A hot pic is still a hot pic! If it annoys anyone I'd have no issues being blocked. And if there was any interest on their part I'd be delighted with a message! One thing I'll never be accused of is being pushy though!!   |
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"I've been guilty of this.. I mostly check a profile if they've commented on a thread and I like the look of their profile pic. Likewise,with Who's Near! I've the memory of a goldfish though and a lot of the time as soon as I get to their page and realise I've been there before and they're not what I'm looking for,I leave! Alternatively,if they're on my hotlist I'll look a few times and admire their pics. I've messaged quite a few and got no reply but that's just the way it is. A hot pic is still a hot pic! If it annoys anyone I'd have no issues being blocked. And if there was any interest on their part I'd be delighted with a message! One thing I'll never be accused of is being pushy though!! "
this is something I can 100% agree with. I'm exactly the same for the most part |
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By *oradMan 5 weeks ago
South Central Dublin |
Oh I admire many pics/profiles here and never mail them, for varying reasons from me not matching what they want, be it age, looks or cock size (etc), marital status, genuineness, location (etc) but still enjoy admiring 'real' women (is that a bit 'readers wives'?).
I guess its a bit voyeuristic but then you see someone you think - I might be a good fit for that person and bingo. |
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"I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you
This is exactly why most women are on ninja mode. Just because I look at a profile, doesn’t mean I have any interest. Sometimes I’m just a nosy git. see at least you replied and said it, I respect that actually.... For me it's more like the repeat lurkers and you even just sent a hello I seen you checking my page so saying hi message and it's seen and ignored but yet same group lurk the next day. Even if there's no interest a bit of manners to when just reply would be nice "
Fuckers look at me in the street, I don’t go over and say what are ya looking at me for? |
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By *Js-EmmaCouple 5 weeks ago
dublins fair city |
"I don't mind lurkers at all but I don't like when you try to be nice and acknowledge someone and they just ignore you
This is exactly why most women are on ninja mode. Just because I look at a profile, doesn’t mean I have any interest. Sometimes I’m just a nosy git. "
I’m just like you xxx |
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I’d say the hit rate on your profile has taken a nice increased has it been matches with messages…. I wonder was this a Donal Trump reverse phycology test to see if we’d all look after you posted?? |
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By *dfabMan 4 weeks ago
Dunboyne |
There are those of us who respect profiles or don't Fab everything that has a pussy also.
We may look at a profile as a result of a forum thread or hot pic but may not match what you're looking for or don't qualify for smoking or the like.
So don't take offence as there's multiple reasons  |
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By *arbles00Man 4 weeks ago
Athlone, Mullingar,Longford |
"I'm guilty of this, just can't pluck up the courage to message anyone 🙈"
Conor, don't be a spanner. You have a massive tool so fire of those messages. There's plenty of nuts that would fit that wrench |
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"There are those of us who respect profiles or don't Fab everything that has a pussy also.
We may look at a profile as a result of a forum thread or hot pic but may not match what you're looking for or don't qualify for smoking or the like.
So don't take offence as there's multiple reasons "
Correct. |
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"Anyone else find it annoying..those constant lurkers who check your profile and just be nosy...and do nothing...
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Ok I’m guilty of this but I have to add I read bios haha. Something I regularly see people to please do. So if I read I may perv on pics but I don’t message because I already know I’m not what the person is looking for.
But if I fancy the profile in question and the pics are tempting ya maybe me poo in and out
I would like to think it’s a compliment more than seen as a fake profile or something negative. I don’t message because I respect the bio
Happy fabbing x |
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