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I wonder do people have differing views of an orgy?
In my head it's where a group of maybe 6 or more men and women are having sex in a room and everyone is playing with everyone...
Or is it just a room full of people having sex with each other?
And some people watching?
Do people move between partners?
Having never been involved in one I wonder what people count as "an orgy" or is it a thing people just like to say they've done?
I'm probably overthinking it, but just curious what the thoughts are? |
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Interesting subject Mrs S.
I have always had an image of naked bodies in a ‘warm’ room (sweaty) all naked and touching each other with full play and swapping partners.
Clubs in PDI come close but mostly one on one with permission. Recently was in room with three couples. Realised it’s not for me - happy to watch but not necessarily to participate.
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By *om TangoMan 3 weeks ago
Tedavnet Co.Monaghan |
Personally and I’m likely wrong but I think 4 or more people having sex in same area is an orgy. I stand open to be corrected on that. Most I’ve be involved in was 6 people in the same room have sex and there was no going from partner to partner. Things can go wrong going from partner to partner because condoms would need change moving from one partner to another and in the heat of the moment that might get over looked. Just my view. I’d much rather stick to one partner. Rest, regroup and go again. |
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"I wonder do people have differing views of an orgy?
In my head it's where a group of maybe 6 or more men and women are having sex in a room and everyone is playing with everyone...
Or is it just a room full of people having sex with each other?
And some people watching?
Do people move between partners?
Having never been involved in one I wonder what people count as "an orgy" or is it a thing people just like to say they've done?
I'm probably overthinking it, but just curious what the thoughts are? "
Been to a few parties in Dublin and kinda starts with 10 couples in sitting room drinking wine chatting and then theres private rooms if you wanna go off together to a room and fuck. These were pretty posh ones I went to in Dublin I am sure there are more messy ones to be honest. |
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"I wonder do people have differing views of an orgy?
In my head it's where a group of maybe 6 or more men and women are having sex in a room and everyone is playing with everyone...
Or is it just a room full of people having sex with each other?
And some people watching?
Do people move between partners?
Having never been involved in one I wonder what people count as "an orgy" or is it a thing people just like to say they've done?
I'm probably overthinking it, but just curious what the thoughts are?
Been to a few parties in Dublin and kinda starts with 10 couples in sitting room drinking wine chatting and then theres private rooms if you wanna go off together to a room and fuck. These were pretty posh ones I went to in Dublin I am sure there are more messy ones to be honest."
That sounds like a play party not necessarily an orgy. |
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"I wonder do people have differing views of an orgy?
In my head it's where a group of maybe 6 or more men and women are having sex in a room and everyone is playing with everyone...
Or is it just a room full of people having sex with each other?
And some people watching?
Do people move between partners?
Having never been involved in one I wonder what people count as "an orgy" or is it a thing people just like to say they've done?
I'm probably overthinking it, but just curious what the thoughts are?
Been to a few parties in Dublin and kinda starts with 10 couples in sitting room drinking wine chatting and then theres private rooms if you wanna go off together to a room and fuck. These were pretty posh ones I went to in Dublin I am sure there are more messy ones to be honest.
That sounds like a play party not necessarily an orgy."
Well in the private rooms there was 6 couples fucking at one point I guess that part was an orgy |
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"I wonder do people have differing views of an orgy?
In my head it's where a group of maybe 6 or more men and women are having sex in a room and everyone is playing with everyone...
Or is it just a room full of people having sex with each other?
And some people watching?
Do people move between partners?
Having never been involved in one I wonder what people count as "an orgy" or is it a thing people just like to say they've done?
I'm probably overthinking it, but just curious what the thoughts are? "
I'm surprised no1 else has said it already but I'd happily help you out in this scenario.
I'd give Mr S a right good cheeky slap on the ass when he's not looking  |
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"I wonder do people have differing views of an orgy?
In my head it's where a group of maybe 6 or more men and women are having sex in a room and everyone is playing with everyone...
Or is it just a room full of people having sex with each other?
And some people watching?
Do people move between partners?
Having never been involved in one I wonder what people count as "an orgy" or is it a thing people just like to say they've done?
I'm probably overthinking it, but just curious what the thoughts are?
I'm surprised no1 else has said it already but I'd happily help you out in this scenario.
I'd give Mr S a right good cheeky slap on the ass when he's not looking "
I don't think I actually said I wanted to do one 🤣😜 but if I do I'll send you an invite 😘 |
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I think we have been guilty of organising or starting more than a few in our time. It's just getting a good group together and plenty of time given to share. Hot tubs are a great way to kick things off, or over in PDI. |
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It depends on the setting, the group and the individual. This is what I remember from a small get together I was at some years back in Alicante.
There was perhaps 20 people total. The majority were women (the host had planned it that way as per her preference) the main area for use was the walled pool of her place and two adjoining rooms which opened out onto the area. Clothing was optional once you were comfortable, there were light robes (she thought of everything)
There were no cameras/phones which had to be locked away upon entry and could be returned only when leaving. It was a BYO which went into the cooler to be shared and a bbq (her b.day) - the sex if it did happen wasn't planned and if you engaged, it was by consent where a lady welcomed you to participate (if you showed interest)
There were some people playing and in one room, there were c. 8/9 people engaged in different activities. Some were moving, others were joining, some watched (if your expecting something from an xhamster private society scene, then you will be disappointed)
Condoms for penitrative sex were a must.
Personally I wasnt that interested (I was there because my friend had invited me and it just so happened that I had some rest time coming up from thr job I was on) There was some light play but that was it.
If you have some wild expectations. Well you need you revisit those perhaps.
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I'd say everyone playing sounds like an orgy 🤔 we love the idea of that (we are a long way off that before being invited 🤣🤣)
6 couples having sex in the same room and all watching sounds amazing to us at the momentnin our swing journey....maybe a soft swap orgy...is that a thing!? 🤣🤣
I'm sure we will get to the higher levels one day. 😜👀 |
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In the past from biblical times the Egyptians and mostly the Greeks. Saying the Greeks seem to have been kinky Feckers. Even more than the Roman Good music good food good fertility for get together. I also knew I was born in the wrong era  curious to the difference between an orgy and a play party. Is it the music ? |
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For me, an orgy is when you lose yourself deeper in the moment than even your partner. Six couples entwined in a room that’s merely a same room same partner rhythm. If they simply switch partners, it’s a casual swap. But when the air thickens with moans, when every stroke from another pair sends a shiver through your core, when you feel the heat, the lust, the pulse of others as if it were your own then, truly, it becomes an orgy.
In the language of desire, it’s being in a room that sounds like sex, smells like sex, feels like sex where you don’t just witness, but sense the very essence of others’ pleasure. It’s an empathic, almost telepathic communion, a shared dance of passion beyond touch. 
So if u are having sex and forgets the surrounding then u are not in an orgy , if u are having sex and you dissolve into the surrounding then its an orgy. |
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"For me, an orgy is when you lose yourself deeper in the moment than even your partner. Six couples entwined in a room that’s merely a same room same partner rhythm. If they simply switch partners, it’s a casual swap. But when the air thickens with moans, when every stroke from another pair sends a shiver through your core, when you feel the heat, the lust, the pulse of others as if it were your own then, truly, it becomes an orgy.
In the language of desire, it’s being in a room that sounds like sex, smells like sex, feels like sex where you don’t just witness, but sense the very essence of others’ pleasure. It’s an empathic, almost telepathic communion, a shared dance of passion beyond touch.
So if u are having sex and forgets the surrounding then u are not in an orgy , if u are having sex and you dissolve into the surrounding then its an orgy."
hell of a description 😋 with so much passion 🤭 |
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"For me, an orgy is when you lose yourself deeper in the moment than even your partner. Six couples entwined in a room that’s merely a same room same partner rhythm. If they simply switch partners, it’s a casual swap. But when the air thickens with moans, when every stroke from another pair sends a shiver through your core, when you feel the heat, the lust, the pulse of others as if it were your own then, truly, it becomes an orgy.
In the language of desire, it’s being in a room that sounds like sex, smells like sex, feels like sex where you don’t just witness, but sense the very essence of others’ pleasure. It’s an empathic, almost telepathic communion, a shared dance of passion beyond touch.
So if u are having sex and forgets the surrounding then u are not in an orgy , if u are having sex and you dissolve into the surrounding then its an orgy."
Ah see...
I knew someone would know. Thats definitely more appealing than a group of random people having sex 😁 |
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"For me, an orgy is when you lose yourself deeper in the moment than even your partner. Six couples entwined in a room that’s merely a same room same partner rhythm. If they simply switch partners, it’s a casual swap. But when the air thickens with moans, when every stroke from another pair sends a shiver through your core, when you feel the heat, the lust, the pulse of others as if it were your own then, truly, it becomes an orgy.
In the language of desire, it’s being in a room that sounds like sex, smells like sex, feels like sex where you don’t just witness, but sense the very essence of others’ pleasure. It’s an empathic, almost telepathic communion, a shared dance of passion beyond touch.
So if u are having sex and forgets the surrounding then u are not in an orgy , if u are having sex and you dissolve into the surrounding then its an orgy."
Beautiful 😍 |
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I was at one recently and to be honest it was not for me I left about about 15 mins the hotel room was a tip 2 of the females were extremely d*unk and the hygiene aspect of some was not great at all so have come to terms of I'm ever going to attend one again il be taking my time to know more about the event before hand |
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"I was at one recently and to be honest it was not for me I left about about 15 mins the hotel room was a tip 2 of the females were extremely d*unk and the hygiene aspect of some was not great at all so have come to terms of I'm ever going to attend one again il be taking my time to know more about the event before hand "
Dude ive been saying this for a while now, I completely avoid the hotel ones , I hate drugs and they seem to be rampant. Totally put me off. I just organise my own now, well try to and get an airbnb and stick to wine only. Ive seen some fucked up shit lol |
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I tried to organise one a few years back and called it "The school run " 😂 it was on a Wednesday morning at like 10:30am, got so many women wanting to attend as it was perfect time but then we couldn't get enough men. |
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By *ddcoupleCouple 2 weeks ago
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Years ago they used to house party's where everyone would gather for few drinks down stairs then girls would dress down an everyone interested would head up stairs sn play on the beds usually 2 an floors anything went as long as everyone was happy I think that would count as one well they used to be lots of fun |
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"Years ago they used to house party's where everyone would gather for few drinks down stairs then girls would dress down an everyone interested would head up stairs sn play on the beds usually 2 an floors anything went as long as everyone was happy I think that would count as one well they used to be lots of fun "
Sounds like fun 🕺 |
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Pretty sure there's several ways to interpret it but multiple people involved in sexual activities in close proximity to each other would cover most interpretations. Been a while but had the pleasure of attending a few and being the centre piece of one. Thanks mainly to a very attractive woman who took a shine to me and her partner who oversaw & encouraged her, followed by others joining in, always wondered how that bed survived the pressure. |
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One of my earliest experiences was a party arranged at a house in north Dublin. I was here as part of a couple back then and really wasn't sure what to expect. Even before going in the agreement was made we can always leave and laugh about it later. Needless to say that didn't happen.
Started off tame, few hellos, shown around, spot a few familiar faces off the site, everyone dressed, some music, a dance/play area room set up for all downstairs and more private rooms upstairs in the bedrooms.
one couple who I won't name directly but where absolute "saints" met us at a bar social a few weeks prior and introduced us round to people. The night moved on and people loosened up, clothes slowly disappeared and myself my female companion, and another couple disappeared upstairs with the intention of swapping. Itbwas only getting started when a 3rd couple joined in and we were all okay to keep going. Fingers and tongues exploring, things getting more progressed and relaxed and then all of a sudden there was about 12 to 15 people in the room in various stages of orgasm.🤣 10/10 would recommend |
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By *og-ManMan 2 weeks ago
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Id imagine the biggest problem with taken part in an orgy is actually finding the right people to be sharing with everyone else
Couples find it hard to find another couple were all four are relaxed and like each other enough to share a bed
Then you've to add another six or eight people .If you dont like one person do you try to stay on the other side of the bed
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"Id imagine the biggest problem with taken part in an orgy is actually finding the right people to be sharing with everyone else
Couples find it hard to find another couple were all four are relaxed and like each other enough to share a bed
Then you've to add another six or eight people .If you dont like one person do you try to stay on the other side of the bed
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This. There ARE people who are far more open to free sex with most other people. Orgy type things would be no problem for these people. We prefer a bit of a connection. |
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"Id imagine the biggest problem with taken part in an orgy is actually finding the right people to be sharing with everyone else
Couples find it hard to find another couple were all four are relaxed and like each other enough to share a bed
Then you've to add another six or eight people .If you dont like one person do you try to stay on the other side of the bed
This. There ARE people who are far more open to free sex with most other people. Orgy type things would be no problem for these people. We prefer a bit of a connection."
Yes definitely. But you can still have an orgy if you already have a connection with the people involved. Assuming you know them and there's an attraction between them all. Virtually impossible but the only scenario for me I think. |
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We had a brilliant night after a local social, we where the only couple, everyone else where singles, guys and girls. There was more single girls than guys which was brilliant fun. But we all knew each other. Round two was a few months later and the guys knew in advance what was in store. Very little drink, kept their energy and lasted until breakfast. Hot tub in Tantra is brilliant for communal fun, think the most we had was 16. Quite a few events like this goes on. |
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"Id imagine the biggest problem with taken part in an orgy is actually finding the right people to be sharing with everyone else
Couples find it hard to find another couple were all four are relaxed and like each other enough to share a bed.
Then you've to add another six or eight people .If you dont like one person do you try to stay on the other side of the bed
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Making rules before the event is no harm but don't go bat shit when someone doesn't keep the rules, just don't fall into that trap. There's always a few will agree to everything but do their own thing when the action starts, give them a wide berth and an immediate red card. |
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"Beautiful 😍"
Thank you 😍😘 I believe many miss the essence of empathy and often confuse gang bangs or group sex with an orgy. But an orgy is something far deeper, a sacred, sensual ritual charged with energy, a profound ceremony of connection and passion. |
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"We had a brilliant night after a local social, we where the only couple, everyone else where singles, guys and girls. There was more single girls than guys which was brilliant fun. But we all knew each other. Round two was a few months later and the guys knew in advance what was in store. Very little drink, kept their energy and lasted until breakfast. Hot tub in Tantra is brilliant for communal fun, think the most we had was 16. Quite a few events like this goes on. "
Need to get myself onto 1 one these list |
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"Id imagine the biggest problem with taken part in an orgy is actually finding the right people to be sharing with everyone else
Couples find it hard to find another couple were all four are relaxed and like each other enough to share a bed.
Then you've to add another six or eight people .If you dont like one person do you try to stay on the other side of the bed
Making rules before the event is no harm but don't go bat shit when someone doesn't keep the rules, just don't fall into that trap. There's always a few will agree to everything but do their own thing when the action starts, give them a wide berth and an immediate red card. "
I absolutely reserve the right to go batshit if someone doesn't observe preagreed rules during any play. |
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The jury is out on this one I think im more of a one to one sort of guy enjoying long hot sessions but I would gladly watch and maby i could be persuaded to join in ..
You'll have to join me for that part to find out 😄😄 |
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I used to love this when I was in a couple and not all of the time did full penetration happen with anyone other than my partner just lots of touching, kissing and sucking. Not as enjoyable as a single girl as I ain’t got anyone to watch my back for those eager beavers who I wouldn’t want to play with and in an orgy session they chance their luck in coming in behind. I constantly am interrupting my flow in looking over my shoulder and manouvering into a safe position lol. Defo a couples thing in my book. |
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"Id imagine the biggest problem with taken part in an orgy is actually finding the right people to be sharing with everyone else
Couples find it hard to find another couple were all four are relaxed and like each other enough to share a bed.
Then you've to add another six or eight people .If you dont like one person do you try to stay on the other side of the bed
Making rules before the event is no harm but don't go bat shit when someone doesn't keep the rules, just don't fall into that trap. There's always a few will agree to everything but do their own thing when the action starts, give them a wide berth and an immediate red card. "
Don't think we have ever had to do any conversation on rules, the reason certain guys get a lot of fun and others get nothing is they just get it! It helps so much if you have played in group situations before. I do advise removing ALL the bedding and putting it some place safe, we have made that mistake lol. But do expect others to bolt when they realise what it's all about! And not everyone will be attracted to everyone else, some get more fun than others. All normal. |
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By *oradMan 2 weeks ago
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Used to attend them quite a bit back in noughties (pre this site) when we'd met at the front lounge. First was 7 cpls and a male host. A few of them and then the bibibaby ones in temple bar.
2 stories from them. A May 2007 one was the night of the general election count and Anna from Big Brother showed up to do a documentary (tv3?) and we all scarpered. Few years later a lady got hammered and fell through a table (Millennium qtr) and emergency ambulance called - again quickly dressing. Good old orgy days! |
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"I wonder do people have differing views of an orgy?
In my head it's where a group of maybe 6 or more men and women are having sex in a room and everyone is playing with everyone...
Or is it just a room full of people having sex with each other?
And some people watching?
Do people move between partners?
Having never been involved in one I wonder what people count as "an orgy" or is it a thing people just like to say they've done?
I'm probably overthinking it, but just curious what the thoughts are? "
Are you planning one? |
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"I wonder do people have differing views of an orgy?
In my head it's where a group of maybe 6 or more men and women are having sex in a room and everyone is playing with everyone...
Or is it just a room full of people having sex with each other?
And some people watching?
Do people move between partners?
Having never been involved in one I wonder what people count as "an orgy" or is it a thing people just like to say they've done?
I'm probably overthinking it, but just curious what the thoughts are?
Are you planning one?"
No 😊 |
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