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Why do us married men swing to bi mode from time to time
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Id always consider myself bicurious before I joined the site and the site gave me a chance to explore that side of my sexuality
I still remember the first time I mentioned that I was bisexual on a forum post after my first bi mmf
First time ever admitting it to anyone publicly
Got nothing but encouraging words and understanding from everyone that posted after me
A tiny tiny percentage of men are bi or bi curious its just a bit more open on a site like this
Just be yourself and true to who you are or can be.
Its better for your mental health in the long run |
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"Nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality i adore bi guys "
Exactly. We only live once. Imagine if the one thing we were always afraid to try would have been the thing that gave greatest pleasure...
It's that thing in life that causes us to not try new things, not the fear of failure, but the fear of success
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Yeah I think Belle hit the nail on the head above. I would never have considered myself bi but when you are on this and chatting to people, you can just build a connection and start to see beyond their gender and just be attracted to the person that they are |
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"Yeah I think Belle hit the nail on the head above. I would never have considered myself bi but when you are on this and chatting to people, you can just build a connection and start to see beyond their gender and just be attracted to the person that they are"
exactly why do people always need to put labels on things just do what gives you pleasure and feels good to you life is too short and if people want to judge you for it let them thry ate just jealous because thry dont have the balls to do it themselves
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Plenty of married men are bisexual. Repressed urges have a way of leaking out now and then.
I guess also if you're playing away then it may be easier to find a promiscuous willing man rather than a woman. |
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"If there are two couples naked on a bed does it really matter who's hand is playing with your knob? "
There's the small issue of consent in that case.
Also, straight men tend not to agree with this theory. |
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"If there are two couples naked on a bed does it really matter who's hand is playing with your knob?
I reckon you just nailed it..!! Does it really matter - it's all about having fun surely.!"
Of course it does. I'm heterosexual. That's what that means.
And I've had plenty of group sex with bi men in the mix. I never gave a second thought to it and I'm sure they didn't either because, you know, respect, consent etc. |
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There has always been a double standard in how society treats certain issues.
Think back and correct me if I am wrong...
-Women experimenting is often sexualised and framed as "hot"
The porn industry frames it as a performance for the enjoyment of others - i.e. It's what "real men" are into (I knew a lady who did a lot of F&F films. She told me that for some of the stuff, she was paid extra for anal)
-Traditional masculinity pressures men to appear and behave heterosexual; there is no deviating as it threatens your "status and invites labels" (I knew several people in school who were gay, possibly bi, but had to conform to being heterosexual - thar t was the Ireland of the time and it still is to an extent)
For a man, there can be a greater social stigma, potential ridicule, or doubt about what masculinity is when their sexuality is fluid.
Someone mentioned somewhere, does it matter who's touching your knob (or something to that effect) - it depends on the consenting adults, but I'd see consent and boundaries as important discussion points.
A single experience doesn't automatically define your orientation as gay/bi.
Sexual preference can shift. (I knew a fella who was big into body building and was paid to partake in a M & M film a few years back, his take on it was, the money was good so why the feck not - that was his choice)
Let's be honest, if some guys think 2 women playing together is hot, why is it not possible for a woman to also think 2 guys playing is hot?
Is it wrong for her to sit, watch, enjoy and perhaps partake?
It comes down to choice
Is it fetishisation? 🤷
If its consensual, wheres the harm?
Finally, someone, somewhere is going to say 🐂 💩 that I know / knew people involved in the adult entertainment side of stuff, I don't care (one of them is here but I'm not outting that person) - The world outside of Ireland is not parorical - the same rules don't apply. |
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"Could it be because in this world many like pushing boundaries, new experiences or just being in the moment. Then we revert back to normal life. "
I think this definitely describes how it is with me. The thought of oral bi for The Lady's voyeuristic pleasure is mind-blowing - whilst not actively interested in men, or fancying them - I've now found myself at the stage if looking at the 🐓 and saying to myself, yep I would or no I wouldn't lol |
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Ask yourselves this question fellas: If you could suck your own knob, would you do so?
If the answer is yes, then surely it's not that great a leap to imagine sucking someone else's in certain circumstances? |
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I to lately find myself thinking that if everyone is playing and enjoying and a man sucks my cock in play maybe I might like to try it to see if I like it or not .
But I would only consider it if I like the look of the cock.
I've meet couples where the man's cock looked quite impressive and inviting.
And ive also meet couples where i didn't think his cock done it for me |
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"Ask yourselves this question fellas: If you could suck your own knob, would you do so?
If the answer is yes, then surely it's not that great a leap to imagine sucking someone else's in certain circumstances?"
By this logic, all men will be thinking of wanking off other men. |
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"I to lately find myself thinking that if everyone is playing and enjoying and a man sucks my cock in play maybe I might like to try it to see if I like it or not .
But I would only consider it if I like the look of the cock.
I've meet couples where the man's cock looked quite impressive and inviting.
And ive also meet couples where i didn't think his cock done it for me"
That's pretty much how I feel about it. |
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"If there are two couples naked on a bed does it really matter who's hand is playing with your knob?
Yes"
I think you just have to be comfortable with who you are as a person. I certainly am with myself |
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I dunno. I'm pretty comfortable with myself and I still don't want to suck cock or have any kind of a sexual contact with men.
And I've tried. Twenty five years ago. Men do nothing for me.
This idea that everyone is a little bit bi under the right circumstances is only ever espoused people who are bi themselves. |
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By *om TangoMan 1 day ago
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I’ve no problem saying I have had my penis touching another man’s penis during a few 3somes. Didnt bother me. I’ve help guide a man’s penis back into her, no problem, during a 3some the lady asked if the other guy could suck on my penis and at first I said no but eventually give it ago. Would I try more. Fucking sure I would but to date I’ve no desire to meet a male one on one, nor is anything going up my bum. I honestly don’t think I could suck another man off. |
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"I’ve no problem saying I have had my penis touching another man’s penis during a few 3somes. Didnt bother me. I’ve help guide a man’s penis back into her, no problem, during a 3some the lady asked if the other guy could suck on my penis and at first I said no but eventually give it ago. Would I try more. Fucking sure I would but to date I’ve no desire to meet a male one on one, nor is anything going up my bum. I honestly don’t think I could suck another man off. "
Totally agree with you Dom |
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Its probably because you're older and getting less sex at home. Also the lure of the new. Once you're of a certain age you get fewer offers and also a part of you might feel it's not really cheating with a man |
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This idea that everyone is a little bit bi under the right circumstances is only ever espoused people who are bi themselves."
This is also widely assumed about women. People watch (and believe in) too much porn these days  |
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