No one owes anything to people on here. There is no obligation and no commitment. Many interactions are just like transactions. People sometimes are so out of line they do not deserve replies. Or manners or empathy. I get it. All that I get it.
But there are those that do deserve these things are treated terribly and I feel for these people. I think about it.
There's all those genuine messages that go unanswered or worse answered at first and stopping for no clear reason. Terrible for a face pic to just get silence as an answer. So hurtful. There's the ghosting where you've been in contact for weeks and it stops. Nothings changed on the surface. But something must have or it was never right in the first place. Worse when you've met someone and then it stops. No contact. The pain of that. There's the people that dont show when they say they will. Leave you waiting an hour to realise. So confusing. There's the people who show up physically but disappear. Not saying anything. What is that about? And of course there are the people that never meet but say they will keeping you warm knowing in reality it will never happen. Weird that. Is it ego? Boredom. Bit like a cat with a ball of wool. Tossing it every so often.
I suppose some people have the power to do this so they can. I guess they have the ability override any sense of empathy. Not thinking about how the people who they do this to will feel.
I wonder where the karma goes what the eventual return is. I dont think any good comes from it. I think it catches up but with us all. |
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By *iscuits8Man 2 weeks ago
Dublin / Meath / Birmingham |
As above. Threads like this aren't going to help you. You've started multiple ranty threads at this stage.
I've been ghosted multiple times over the years here. Is it right, no, it's a shitty thing to do. I've travelled great distances and taken mamy hours off to be ghosted. Never crossed my mind to start a thread having a go. Getting annoyed about unanswered messages is bizarre. You've completely contradicted yourself opening by saying nobody owes anyone anything and then going on about this. |
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Sounds like someone, or multiple people hurt you OP.
It's always hard if you make an emotional connection and it vanishes or somebody breaks it. Especially if it feels callous.
On the other hand rejection is the baseline for places like fab.
It might not be a good place for you if your feeling it that hard.
As for the Karma. Most of the assholes I know seem to be deeply unhappy. |
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By *rnicaMan 2 weeks ago
Cork, Kerry, Limerick, Waterford and surrounds |
"I bottle it all up.
And inject it straight into my arse.
Its why my buttcheeks are so perky"
And to think there are those poor fools out there still paying through the nose for therapy when we are getting the benefit of your wisdom here every day... For free! 👏🏼 |
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"No one owes anything to people on here. There is no obligation and no commitment. Many interactions are just like transactions. People sometimes are so out of line they do not deserve replies. Or manners or empathy. I get it. All that I get it.
But there are those that do deserve these things are treated terribly and I feel for these people. I think about it.
There's all those genuine messages that go unanswered or worse answered at first and stopping for no clear reason. Terrible for a face pic to just get silence as an answer. So hurtful. There's the ghosting where you've been in contact for weeks and it stops. Nothings changed on the surface. But something must have or it was never right in the first place. Worse when you've met someone and then it stops. No contact. The pain of that. There's the people that dont show when they say they will. Leave you waiting an hour to realise. So confusing. There's the people who show up physically but disappear. Not saying anything. What is that about? And of course there are the people that never meet but say they will keeping you warm knowing in reality it will never happen. Weird that. Is it ego? Boredom. Bit like a cat with a ball of wool. Tossing it every so often.
I suppose some people have the power to do this so they can. I guess they have the ability override any sense of empathy. Not thinking about how the people who they do this to will feel.
I wonder where the karma goes what the eventual return is. I dont think any good comes from it. I think it catches up but with us all."
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This is going to appear wooly nonsense but learning to forgive and forget can bring eventual peace.
MOVE SWIFTLY ALONG and look to the next 
Karma is always around the corner and it's import that you dont gloat. Acknowledge it's passing. Here is no different to the real world where there arw people who will tire the be jaysus out of you.
Domt overthink it or you will drive yourself nuts  |
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