Feeling pretty deflated. A fab fuck buddy has left. After a year of damn good sex every now and then to nothing is shit.
It's not just the lack of sex, it's the fact that every meet was amazing with both of us out to please the other. It worked. It was perfect. It was different every meet, we knew what made the other hot and bothered....
I know I have little to be complaining about but I'm just sad and feeling really lost. |
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"It looks like you got emotionally attached. Sorry to hear but you will get over it. Time and sex will fix it all. "
Yes and no. It was always a well managed thing. No constant contact. We did discuss lots over the year so there was always going to be a loss.
Honestly, it's the sex that I'm really going to miss. He hit the right spots for me and I for him. I have met a few people but the sex was never as good. |
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"Feeling pretty deflated. A fab fuck buddy has left. After a year of damn good sex every now and then to nothing is shit.
It's not just the lack of sex, it's the fact that every meet was amazing with both of us out to please the other. It worked. It was perfect. It was different every meet, we knew what made the other hot and bothered....
I know I have little to be complaining about but I'm just sad and feeling really lost."
Big hugs for you 🤗 I can only imagine how that must feel |
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"Hope you find one soon or he comes running back  "
I don't want or need to know the details but if he has decided to move on that should be respected and he shouldn't need to come running back.
I'm sure the op is upset and missing him but we shouldn't assume that he has done anything wrong or should feel guilty.
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"Feeling pretty deflated. A fab fuck buddy has left. After a year of damn good sex every now and then to nothing is shit.
It's not just the lack of sex, it's the fact that every meet was amazing with both of us out to please the other. It worked. It was perfect. It was different every meet, we knew what made the other hot and bothered....
I know I have little to be complaining about but I'm just sad and feeling really lost."
Take some time to meet new people. And enjoy that. Everything happens for a reason |
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By *aseylee324Couple 1 day ago
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I know people like to pretend otherwise, but seeing someone for a year is a relationship regardless of whether or not it's admitted, humans have literally evolved to develop feelings and attachment bonds when we have sex. What you are feeling is a loss like any other, which needs to be grieved. I hope you have someone you can speak with as you process this.
It will pass, everything does. Best of luck. |
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"I know people like to pretend otherwise, but seeing someone for a year is a relationship regardless of whether or not it's admitted, humans have literally evolved to develop feelings and attachment bonds when we have sex. What you are feeling is a loss like any other, which needs to be grieved. I hope you have someone you can speak with as you process this.
It will pass, everything does. Best of luck."
Beautiful sentiment here, op is blessed to have found that connection, I hope she maintains this standard for herself in the future (: |
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It may have started off as an agreed FB situation but that can be hard to compartmental.
Something changed along the way, atleast for you and the attachment was more than sex. (thats how it was for me in a similar situation but i wasnt ready for sonething serious and she decided to move on and I'm happy she did)
The way i see it now, you have 2 choices.
1) you can linger in the world of "what if"
2) you pick the harder option of plodding through and find someone to chat with (who is on the same wave length and move on)
Either way, time is great but very long way for any healing process. |
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"Physiologically you have a wall built now and you have yourself convinced that you will never be satisfied again sexually....you should keep an open mind...it may get better!!"
That’s a bit of a stretch. No where does she say she’ll never find sex like it again! |
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"Sorry to hear how you are feeling. When 2 people hit it off sexually it's a truly magical thing. Sending you hugs and stay positive."
Absolutely. The sexual compatibility was really what made it special. |
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I spent 25 yrs with someone who would cum really fast and then roll over and snore. Sex was limited due to his excessive weight. I always had to be on top. Minimal penetration due to the excessive weight. I stopped giving BJs as it just left me horny and unsatisfied.
So yes, I will look on the bright side. It was amazing sex and if I hadn't joined Fab I may never have gotten that experience. I will always be grateful for actually learning that sex is amazing and not all guys are only out for themselves. |
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"I spent 25 yrs with someone who would cum really fast and then roll over and snore. Sex was limited due to his excessive weight. I always had to be on top. Minimal penetration due to the excessive weight. I stopped giving BJs as it just left me horny and unsatisfied.
So yes, I will look on the bright side. It was amazing sex and if I hadn't joined Fab I may never have gotten that experience. I will always be grateful for actually learning that sex is amazing and not all guys are only out for themselves. "
Good for you OP |
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