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over a year ago
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Girls are great for saying that they just want a reply to message even if it's a no(manners).....have done this but why do ye keep insisting to give ye a go even when i say no?
Honestly can we stop claiming that to be abusive you have to own a pair of testicles ? |
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over a year ago
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That's why I don't even bother replying. It just opens the door for them to start the sales pitch. And giving out about not getting a reply just proves too me I did the right thing by deleting. |
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over a year ago
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"Girls are great for saying that they just want a reply to message even if it's a no(manners).....have done this but why do ye keep insisting to give ye a go even when i say no?
Honestly can we stop claiming that to be abusive you have to own a pair of testicles ?"
Don't understand what u mean. No mention of abusive in my post!!!! |
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"Girls are great for saying that they just want a reply to message even if it's a no(manners).....have done this but why do ye keep insisting to give ye a go even when i say no?
Honestly can we stop claiming that to be abusive you have to own a pair of testicles ?"
Well said Tom.... |
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over a year ago
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I got a message last nite from a guy wanting a meet and I told him I cudnt meet for a few weeks as I was in holidays and he replied and I quote
'Why do you not be like the rest of the time wasters on here and not reply at all?'
So tell me guys.....is it best to reply and say you are not interested atm or ignore messages??  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Yes I can see where ur comming from as we have seen many times now but to paint us all with the same brush is a bit unfair what about the polite replys U get to a thanks but no thanks I know U get them because I my self have sent them 
May be no harm in a few of those one to balance the debate  |
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"Yes I can see where ur comming from as we have seen many times now but to paint us all with the same brush is a bit unfair what about the polite replys U get to a thanks but no thanks I know U get them because I my self have sent them
May be no harm in a few of those one to balance the debate "
Spot on same old thing being rehashed in forums. We get it but can't change how some behave. As with all things in life learn to live with it ignore it but keep complaining about it won't help. |
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"Yes I can see where ur comming from as we have seen many times now but to paint us all with the same brush is a bit unfair what about the polite replys U get to a thanks but no thanks I know U get them because I my self have sent them
May be no harm in a few of those one to balance the debate
Spot on same old thing being rehashed in forums. We get it but can't change how some behave. As with all things in life learn to live with it ignore it but keep complaining about it won't help."
but when the men give out bout the women bring rude which has been repeatedly repeated on the forums. That ok is it  |
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"Yes I can see where ur comming from as we have seen many times now but to paint us all with the same brush is a bit unfair what about the polite replys U get to a thanks but no thanks I know U get them because I my self have sent them
May be no harm in a few of those one to balance the debate
Spot on same old thing being rehashed in
forums. We get it but can't change how some behave. As with all things in life learn to live with it ignore it but keep complaining about it won't help. but when the men give out bout the women bring rude which has been repeatedly repeated on the forums. That ok is it "
No falls into same category. I've never given out about women being rude. |
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"Yes I can see where ur comming from as we have seen many times now but to paint us all with the same brush is a bit unfair what about the polite replys U get to a thanks but no thanks I know U get them because I my self have sent them
May be no harm in a few of those one to balance the debate
Spot on same old thing being rehashed in
forums. We get it but can't change how some behave. As with all things in life learn to live with it ignore it but keep complaining about it won't help. but when the men give out bout the women bring rude which has been repeatedly repeated on the forums. That ok is it
No falls into same category. I've never given out about women being rude."
I never said u did I was generalising |
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"Yes I can see where ur comming from as we have seen many times now but to paint us all with the same brush is a bit unfair what about the polite replys U get to a thanks but no thanks I know U get them because I my self have sent them
May be no harm in a few of those one to balance the debate
Spot on same old thing being rehashed in
forums. We get it but can't change how some behave. As with all things in life learn to live with it ignore it but keep complaining about it won't help. but when the men give out bout the women bring rude which has been repeatedly repeated on the forums. That ok is it
No falls into same category. I've never given out about women being rude. I never said u did I was generalising"
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Yes I can see where ur comming from as we have seen many times now but to paint us all with the same brush is a bit unfair what about the polite replys U get to a thanks but no thanks I know U get them because I my self have sent them
May be no harm in a few of those one to balance the debate
Spot on same old thing being rehashed in
forums. We get it but can't change how some behave. As with all things in life learn to live with it ignore it but keep complaining about it won't help. but when the men give out bout the women bring rude which has been repeatedly repeated on the forums. That ok is it
No falls into same category. I've never given out about women being rude. I never said u did I was generalising"
Jayus us men never give out U make us sound like a load of bitches always Moaning
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over a year ago
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Ok perspective lads.
I started this post but no where in it did I mention abusive or say it was ALL lads.I can only comment on the way I've been treated and have to say the majority I have replied thanks but no thanks to don't take it nicely |
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over a year ago
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"Fab is like real life....mostly nice people with a few dicks to try and spoil it...if we let them!!! "
Have to agree if we let them but do make the distinction between twats and decent peeps |
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over a year ago
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"Ok perspective lads.
I started this post but no where in it did I mention abusive or say it was ALL lads.I can only comment on the way I've been treated and have to say the majority I have replied thanks but no thanks to don't take it nicely"
We know there twats every where block their asses and move on to greener pastures if ur not having fun its not worth it |
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"Ok perspective lads.
I started this post but no where in it did I mention abusive or say it was ALL lads.I can only comment on the way I've been treated and have to say the majority I have replied thanks but no thanks to don't take it nicely
We know there twats every where block their asses and move on to greener pastures if ur not having fun its not worth it "
I don't let the twats get to me no more they can kiss my sss  |
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over a year ago
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"I got a message last nite from a guy wanting a meet and I told him I cudnt meet for a few weeks as I was in holidays and he replied and I quote
'Why do you not be like the rest of the time wasters on here and not reply at all?'
So tell me guys.....is it best to reply and say you are not interested atm or ignore messages?? "
personally I like a reply, even if it is a no, I will probably rely thanks and leave it at that but I can understand alot of women dont because of the hassle that this might lead to |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Ok perspective lads.
I started this post but no where in it did I mention abusive or say it was ALL lads.I can only comment on the way I've been treated and have to say the majority I have replied thanks but no thanks to don't take it nicely
We know there twats every where block their asses and move on to greener pastures if ur not having fun its not worth it
I don't let the twats get to me no more they can kiss my sss "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can't control the reaction you'll get from a message. I'd say respond in good faith how you'd like to be treated. If you get weirdness in return it's not your fault, take note and move on ... it certainly can put you in a bad mood if you let it |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"You can't control the reaction you'll get from a message. I'd say respond in good faith how you'd like to be treated. If you get weirdness in return it's not your fault, take note and move on ... it certainly can put you in a bad mood if you let it"
I think U just put it all in context there treat others as U like to be treated and ladies I know it can be hard and weary but any white then block |
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"Ok perspective lads.
I started this post but no where in it did I mention abusive or say it was ALL lads.I can only comment on the way I've been treated and have to say the majority I have replied thanks but no thanks to don't take it nicely"
Call me nit picky but I read your first post before I commented on it . It says "guys " it dosent say some guys . It dosent say most guys . It says guys and that suggests all .
The "perspective" is to accept that 90% of people using this site are grade one certified arseholes who use it for porn and then to accept that both men and women have arses .....
Now fan has a fantastic tool to help you out most arseholes . It's called verification . If a user is well verified then the chances of them been abusive is much reduced . Not eliminated just reduced .
But on your profile you totally dismiss verifications and say you will verify people yourself .
And therein may lie your problem with getting abusive messages .
Just a thought .... |
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"Ok perspective lads.
I started this post but no where in it did I mention abusive or say it was ALL lads.I can only comment on the way I've been treated and have to say the majority I have replied thanks but no thanks to don't take it nicely
Call me nit picky but I read your first post before I commented on it . It says "guys " it dosent say some guys . It dosent say most guys . It says guys and that suggests all .
The "perspective" is to accept that 90% of people using this site are grade one certified arseholes who use it for porn and then to accept that both men and women have arses .....
Now fan has a fantastic tool to help you out most arseholes . It's called verification . If a user is well verified then the chances of them been abusive is much reduced . Not eliminated just reduced .
But on your profile you totally dismiss verifications and say you will verify people yourself .
And therein may lie your problem with getting abusive messages .
Just a thought ...."
wow |
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"Ok perspective lads.
I started this post but no where in it did I mention abusive or say it was ALL lads.I can only comment on the way I've been treated and have to say the majority I have replied thanks but no thanks to don't take it nicely
Call me nit picky but I read your first post before I commented on it . It says "guys " it dosent say some guys . It dosent say most guys . It says guys and that suggests all .
The "perspective" is to accept that 90% of people using this site are grade one certified arseholes who use it for porn and then to accept that both men and women have arses .....
Now fan has a fantastic tool to help you out most arseholes . It's called verification . If a user is well verified then the chances of them been abusive is much reduced . Not eliminated just reduced .
But on your profile you totally dismiss verifications and say you will verify people yourself .
And therein may lie your problem with getting abusive messages .
Just a thought ...."
Well said |
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over a year ago
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have to agree with Tom...filters work wonders. Also there are considerably more men than women on here (just like a good old fashioned barn dance), so the chances of more A holes are quite large...personally I think most women on here are very polite and patient...but I have come across some right B's...swings and roundabouts I suppose |
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"Ok perspective lads.
I started this post but no where in it did I mention abusive or say it was ALL lads.I can only comment on the way I've been treated and have to say the majority I have replied thanks but no thanks to don't take it nicely
Call me nit picky but I read your first post before I commented on it . It says "guys " it dosent say some guys . It dosent say most guys . It says guys and that suggests all .
The "perspective" is to accept that 90% of people using this site are grade one certified arseholes who use it for porn and then to accept that both men and women have arses .....
Now fan has a fantastic tool to help you out most arseholes . It's called verification . If a user is well verified then the chances of them been abusive is much reduced . Not eliminated just reduced .
But on your profile you totally dismiss verifications and say you will verify people yourself .
And therein may lie your problem with getting abusive messages .
Just a thought ...."
Yes you are correct I did not say some but yet I did not say all.
So justify why some of these guys have verifications? because my profile has been written and adjusted on the back of treatment from "some" guys on here.
The only verification I look for on here is fabs tool to verify if the person/s is/are male or female. |
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"Ok perspective lads.
I started this post but no where in it did I mention abusive or say it was ALL lads.I can only comment on the way I've been treated and have to say the majority I have replied thanks but no thanks to don't take it nicely
We know there twats every where block their asses and move on to greener pastures if ur not having fun its not worth it
I don't let the twats get to me no more they can kiss my sss "
 mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm mwah xxx |
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"Ok perspective lads.
I started this post but no where in it did I mention abusive or say it was ALL lads.I can only comment on the way I've been treated and have to say the majority I have replied thanks but no thanks to don't take it nicely
Call me nit picky but I read your first post before I commented on it . It says "guys " it dosent say some guys . It dosent say most guys . It says guys and that suggests all .
The "perspective" is to accept that 90% of people using this site are grade one certified arseholes who use it for porn and then to accept that both men and women have arses .....
Now fan has a fantastic tool to help you out most arseholes . It's called verification . If a user is well verified then the chances of them been abusive is much reduced . Not eliminated just reduced .
But on your profile you totally dismiss verifications and say you will verify people yourself .
And therein may lie your problem with getting abusive messages .
Just a thought ...."
Very well said Tom! |
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"Ok perspective lads.
I started this post but no where in it did I mention abusive or say it was ALL lads.I can only comment on the way I've been treated and have to say the majority I have replied thanks but no thanks to don't take it nicely
We know there twats every where block their asses and move on to greener pastures if ur not having fun its not worth it
I don't let the twats get to me no more they can kiss my sss
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm mwah xxx"
proper bloody order! |
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Ah Feck this yapping over not replying or saying no. If you don't like just block. It's happened to me. I've been blocked by a few and am I botherd...... Nope. I also work on the basis if I chat to someone on here and then mail them and they delete the message I block them. Saves me of looking at them and them at looking at me. There is a heavy man to women ratio on here so for every message I send to a lady I reckon she is receiving ten of the same. Fecking men on here need to grow a set and MAN UP ffs |
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"Ah Feck this yapping over not replying or saying no. If you don't like just block. It's happened to me. I've been blocked by a few and am I botherd...... Nope. I also work on the basis if I chat to someone on here and then mail them and they delete the message I block them. Saves me of looking at them and them at looking at me. There is a heavy man to women ratio on here so for every message I send to a lady I reckon she is receiving ten of the same. Fecking men on here need to grow a set and MAN UP ffs "
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"Ah Feck this yapping over not replying or saying no. If you don't like just block. It's happened to me. I've been blocked by a few and am I botherd...... Nope. I also work on the basis if I chat to someone on here and then mail them and they delete the message I block them. Saves me of looking at them and them at looking at me. There is a heavy man to women ratio on here so for every message I send to a lady I reckon she is receiving ten of the same. Fecking men on here need to grow a set and MAN UP ffs "
Thank you. Now you I agree with.. |
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"Ah Feck this yapping over not replying or saying no. If you don't like just block. It's happened to me. I've been blocked by a few and am I botherd...... Nope. I also work on the basis if I chat to someone on here and then mail them and they delete the message I block them. Saves me of looking at them and them at looking at me. There is a heavy man to women ratio on here so for every message I send to a lady I reckon she is receiving ten of the same. Fecking men on here need to grow a set and MAN UP ffs
Thank you. Now you I agree with.."
But but but your original post was saying guys don't accept no for answer and they should have manners
This guy says just block block and keep blocking .
And you agree with him . So which is it? Do you want guys to have manners or so you want guys to block you?
I'm confused ...  |
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Think they mean no as in NO. I imagine some dont see the NO and continue to send messages. NO is a polite way of saying Feck away off I would rather take sandpaper to my pleasure bits then apply salt and rinse with vinergar. |
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"Ah Feck this yapping over not replying or saying no. If you don't like just block. It's happened to me. I've been blocked by a few and am I botherd...... Nope. I also work on the basis if I chat to someone on here and then mail them and they delete the message I block them. Saves me of looking at them and them at looking at me. There is a heavy man to women ratio on here so for every message I send to a lady I reckon she is receiving ten of the same. Fecking men on here need to grow a set and MAN UP ffs
Thank you. Now you I agree with..
But but but your original post was saying guys don't accept no for answer and they should have manners
This guy says just block block and keep blocking .
And you agree with him . So which is it? Do you want guys to have manners or so you want guys to block you?
I'm confused ... "
And there you go again reading more into something I DIDN'T write.
Im guessing your one of these guys! |
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It quite clear that the op is swamped with post as she is new to the site and is excited with all the attention and likes it that her posts and profile can carry mixed messages so let give her a break and no point out the short coming at this early stage let her enjoy all the attention she is creating for herself and let her figure out what she wants from the site |
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"It quite clear that the op is swamped with post as she is new to the site and is excited with all the attention and likes it that her posts and profile can carry mixed messages so let give her a break and no point out the short coming at this early stage let her enjoy all the attention she is creating for herself and let her figure out what she wants from the site "
Fair point. everyone handles annoying/rude people in their own way. |
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I think the point is if someone says not interested, be it a man or woman, take it at face value and move on. Don't keep messaging, pleading, whinging, or abusing.
I'm sure it is difficult for men to send out loads of messages and not get replies. It is as difficult for woman to go through loads of messages and sometimes it's just easier to do a complete delete of your in box. Has nothing to do with you personally and if you are that thin skinned that you can't take rejection perhaps fab isn't the place for you. |
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Well the claws are coming out. Personal jibes at someone through forum I think shows I was correct in blocking said person.
Believe me there is a lot of attention I can do without and like everyone new to this I am just finding my feet and will make mistakes but I will learn from them.
This was just meant as a general post not meant as a personal jibe towards any one person. |
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"Hell jammy my inbox is always full. It's not only the women that get bombarded with mail. Thinking of taking Alicat on as my pa and match maker lol "
Lmao....If you pay me as much as Cilla Black your on.....but I am quite good at it... |
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"Well the claws are coming out. Personal jibes at someone through forum I think shows I was correct in blocking said person.
Believe me there is a lot of attention I can do without and like everyone new to this I am just finding my feet and will make mistakes but I will learn from them.
This was just meant as a general post not meant as a personal jibe towards any one person."
Never take it personally there is a right bunch of cats on here. Fecking men and meows lol. |
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Maybe I'm odd but if I send a message and receive a polite no I take it on the chin and move on,I don't take it personally. I assume a no means no.
respectful at all times of other peoples point of view and a right to their own opinion and sense of personal, albeit virtual space.
Now when I send a message and don't revive a reply I just accept this as a discourtious no and move on.
I know I'm new here but is this the way I should be conducting myself? |
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I always read the profile and only mail if I fit the criteria the person has clearly stated they prefer as in age range etc. now it can definitely get a bit annoying if a polite hello is instantly deleted as people always moan about time wasters. In those instances it is my time that is being wasted by someone who if they are that fussy should really tighten up their criteria and use filters and stop moaning about the amount if mail they are getting. There we go. My Sunday rant is off my chest now |
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"Well the claws are coming out. Personal jibes at someone through forum I think shows I was correct in blocking said person.
Believe me there is a lot of attention I can do without and like everyone new to this I am just finding my feet and will make mistakes but I will learn from them.
This was just meant as a general post not meant as a personal jibe towards any one person.
Never take it personally there is a right bunch of cats on here. Fecking men and meows lol. "
id use the turn men lighty for some guys on ere lol |
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"Well the claws are coming out. Personal jibes at someone through forum I think shows I was correct in blocking said person.
Believe me there is a lot of attention I can do without and like everyone new to this I am just finding my feet and will make mistakes but I will learn from them.
This was just meant as a general post not meant as a personal jibe towards any one person.
Never take it personally there is a right bunch of cats on here. Fecking men and meows lol.
id use the turn men lighty for some guys on ere lol"
And in the spirit of equality the same must go for some women -0) just saying like ... |
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"I always read the profile and only mail if I fit the criteria the person has clearly stated they prefer as in age range etc. now it can definitely get a bit annoying if a polite hello is instantly deleted as people always moan about time wasters. In those instances it is my time that is being wasted by someone who if they are that fussy should really tighten up their criteria and use filters and stop moaning about the amount if mail they are getting. There we go. My Sunday rant is off my chest now "
I hardly think you can say someone is wasting your time by not replying to a message you chose to send. You weren't solicited to send said message, people are under no obligation to reply.
That's like me contacting Tesco every time I get a sales flyer through my door and saying thanks but no thanks. |
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"Well the claws are coming out. Personal jibes at someone through forum I think shows I was correct in blocking said person.
Believe me there is a lot of attention I can do without and like everyone new to this I am just finding my feet and will make mistakes but I will learn from them.
This was just meant as a general post not meant as a personal jibe towards any one person.
Never take it personally there is a right bunch of cats on here. Fecking men and meows lol.
id use the turn men lighty for some guys on ere lol
And in the spirit of equality the same must go for some women -0) just saying like ..."
I am not everyone's cup of tea and likewise a lot of guys on here aren't mine either.......but I don't loose sleep over it so lighten up everyone   My Sunday rant over.... |
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"I always read the profile and only mail if I fit the criteria the person has clearly stated they prefer as in age range etc. now it can definitely get a bit annoying if a polite hello is instantly deleted as people always moan about time wasters. In those instances it is my time that is being wasted by someone who if they are that fussy should really tighten up their criteria and use filters and stop moaning about the amount if mail they are getting. There we go. My Sunday rant is off my chest now
I hardly think you can say someone is wasting your time by not replying to a message you chose to send. You weren't solicited to send said message, people are under no obligation to reply.
That's like me contacting Tesco every time I get a sales flyer through my door and saying thanks but no thanks."
But but I always ring tesco when I get a flyer and say thanks but no thanks .... |
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I think it's fair to say that if you don't get a reply from a recipient by then sending another message is not going to give you a better chance of meeting them, make or female!
Man the F up, move on & keep looking, if someone replies, great, if they don't, so what. Lets not be so over sensitive.
This subject is a constant in the forums, maybe some people I suppose just like to have a good 'oul moan.
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"I always read the profile and only mail if I fit the criteria the person has clearly stated they prefer as in age range etc. now it can definitely get a bit annoying if a polite hello is instantly deleted as people always moan about time wasters. In those instances it is my time that is being wasted by someone who if they are that fussy should really tighten up their criteria and use filters and stop moaning about the amount if mail they are getting. There we go. My Sunday rant is off my chest now "
Nowhere did I mention or moan about the amount of mail I get...
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"I always read the profile and only mail if I fit the criteria the person has clearly stated they prefer as in age range etc. now it can definitely get a bit annoying if a polite hello is instantly deleted as people always moan about time wasters. In those instances it is my time that is being wasted by someone who if they are that fussy should really tighten up their criteria and use filters and stop moaning about the amount if mail they are getting. There we go. My Sunday rant is off my chest now
Nowhere did I mention or moan about the amount of mail I get...
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That's thing about forums. Some people never read the original post. |
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"I always read the profile and only mail if I fit the criteria the person has clearly stated they prefer as in age range etc. now it can definitely get a bit annoying if a polite hello is instantly deleted as people always moan about time wasters. In those instances it is my time that is being wasted by someone who if they are that fussy should really tighten up their criteria and use filters and stop moaning about the amount if mail they are getting. There we go. My Sunday rant is off my chest now
Nowhere did I mention or moan about the amount of mail I get...
That's thing about forums. Some people never read the original post."
The other thing is people when they don't get the reaction they thought (like lots and lots of sympathetic posts ) say that "what I meant was......" And "I never said that".
It's the good thing about forums . If you make a valid point you get good feedback . If you don't then ouch it hurts like hell |
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"I always read the profile and only mail if I fit the criteria the person has clearly stated they prefer as in age range etc. now it can definitely get a bit annoying if a polite hello is instantly deleted as people always moan about time wasters. In those instances it is my time that is being wasted by someone who if they are that fussy should really tighten up their criteria and use filters and stop moaning about the amount if mail they are getting. There we go. My Sunday rant is off my chest now
Nowhere did I mention or moan about the amount of mail I get...
That's thing about forums. Some people never read the original post.
The other thing is people when they don't get the reaction they thought (like lots and lots of sympathetic posts ) say that "what I meant was......" And "I never said that".
It's the good thing about forums . If you make a valid point you get good feedback . If you don't then ouch it hurts like hell "
You are dead right Tom and totally agree about the posts looking for sympathetic posts and terms of endearment reactions.
To be fair to funnygirl though in this case she didn't complain about how much mail she getting. I don't agree myself with the nature of the post and was surprised at the reaction myself. |
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"I always read the profile and only mail if I fit the criteria the person has clearly stated they prefer as in age range etc. now it can definitely get a bit annoying if a polite hello is instantly deleted as people always moan about time wasters. In those instances it is my time that is being wasted by someone who if they are that fussy should really tighten up their criteria and use filters and stop moaning about the amount if mail they are getting. There we go. My Sunday rant is off my chest now
Nowhere did I mention or moan about the amount of mail I get...
That's thing about forums. Some people never read the original post.
The other thing is people when they don't get the reaction they thought (like lots and lots of sympathetic posts ) say that "what I meant was......" And "I never said that".
It's the good thing about forums . If you make a valid point you get good feedback . If you don't then ouch it hurts like hell "
And he's of again. Omg. Reading something more into what was not written.
Not looking for sympathy
Never wrote 'what I meant'
Nothing hurt me in this post
I appreciate all feedback good and bad.
Obviously my point is valid otherwise there wouldn't be this reaction to it.
Again go back and read original post
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I've gone hard line. If I get a mail and it's obvious that they have completly ignored what I have written in my profile then I just delete the mail straight away. I especially love the I know I'm a little bit older/ younger/unverified/attached etc than what you are looking but.................. |
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"Yes I can see where ur comming from as we have seen many times now but to paint us all with the same brush is a bit unfair what about the polite replys U get to a thanks but no thanks I know U get them because I my self have sent them
May be no harm in a few of those one to balance the debate
Spot on same old thing being rehashed in forums. We get it but can't change how some behave. As with all things in life learn to live with it ignore it but keep complaining about it won't help."
it does if just 1 person reads the compaint and thinks 'shit, that could be me. i wont do that anymore'.
now, if everyone (male/female/couples/animals) would treat each other with the same respect, the place would be lovely, but they cant, so these threads will always be on the forum, time immamorium. |
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"Well I always reply.....was just showing an example of what happens when I do..... "
Ali with pics like that you can say anything to me and I will still be happy |
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"Well I always reply.....was just showing an example of what happens when I do.....
Ali with pics like that you can say anything to me and I will still be happy"
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Some quite sanctimonious and incongruent standards.Even though I ve experience of one or two who clearly are not what is says on the tin its a case of build a bridge and get over it.If you let them get to you they have won .........
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"I always read the profile and only mail if I fit the criteria the person has clearly stated they prefer as in age range etc. now it can definitely get a bit annoying if a polite hello is instantly deleted as people always moan about time wasters. In those instances it is my time that is being wasted by someone who if they are that fussy should really tighten up their criteria and use filters and stop moaning about the amount if mail they are getting. There we go. My Sunday rant is off my chest now
Nowhere did I mention or moan about the amount of mail I get...
That's thing about forums. Some people never read the original post.
The other thing is people when they don't get the reaction they thought (like lots and lots of sympathetic posts ) say that "what I meant was......" And "I never said that".
It's the good thing about forums . If you make a valid point you get good feedback . If you don't then ouch it hurts like hell
And he's of again. Omg. Reading something more into what was not written.
Not looking for sympathy
Never wrote 'what I meant'
Nothing hurt me in this post
I appreciate all feedback good and bad.
Obviously my point is valid otherwise there wouldn't be this reaction to it.
Again go back and read original post
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