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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we have tried at least a dozen guys to meet us friday night in athlone. we are looking for 2 guys but each one we contacted dont want another guy there. shy or what |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel your pain. A lot of guys have come up with excuses like I don't like to share or I'd prefer to meet you one on one, even though on their profile they say they're into threesomes, parties and group fun. I don't get it  literally 
Mention mff and that's a different story
Hope you find the right guys x |
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"of course they can have preferences but all of their profiles said they were interested in group sex"
Oh, k, that's slightly different. Maybe they're only comfortable with men that they already know? |
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If a man has never experienced if before
why can they be shy. Not everyone would feel comfortable stripping off.
I would understand a man feeling uncomfortable in that surrounding.
we all have to overcome it in any surroundings. Even the mmf or ffm you have to be comfortable with all. parties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have tried at least a dozen guys to meet us friday night in athlone. we are looking for 2 guys but each one we contacted dont want another guy there. shy or what"
interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why dont ye get another cpl and a single guy that way ye will still have 3 guys and maybe the single guy will be more relaxed knowing there is two girls there ."
great idea
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why dont ye get another cpl and a single guy that way ye will still have 3 guys and maybe the single guy will be more relaxed knowing there is two girls there ."
plus more people could add more fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive heard this complaint from a number of couples, us guys rapidly gettin the reputation as lacking bravery in these situations....personally..i find multiple guys around one girl very impersonal, especially in a doggin situation..and frankly dont enjoy paticulary.....if its just mmf in a hotel room then thats geat..but mmmf, mmmmf, it can get cold when its hangin out and ur standin around!!!!  |
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"we have tried at least a dozen guys to meet us friday night in athlone. we are looking for 2 guys but each one we contacted dont want another guy there. shy or what"
you will almost always have that prob god knows we tried hard enough for a long time before we got them! |
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"we have tried at least a dozen guys to meet us friday night in athlone. we are looking for 2 guys but each one we contacted dont want another guy there. shy or what
you will almost always have that prob god knows we tried hard enough for a long time before we got them! "
Phwooarr! She said hard!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have tried at least a dozen guys to meet us friday night in athlone. we are looking for 2 guys but each one we contacted dont want another guy there. shy or what
you will almost always have that prob god knows we tried hard enough for a long time before we got them!
Phwooarr! She said hard! "
you were reading the words? As usual i just look at the pictures   |
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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago
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A lot of guys are just not comfortable naked around other guys.
I dont know why this is the case but i have seen it with my own eyes many times.
For me its about the girl and i have no issue with other guys being there but i suppose life experience and exposure to these situations makes it easier.
Hope you get sorted. |
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I think the importance is for you to find the right genuine guys. Willing to meet you as a Cpl or as group. Person with experience of Groups, Cpl, single and Swingers clubs.
There are many there including myself and always happy to join the party but like many Cpls or singles here I do not turn up at the click of your fingers.
Hope you've got sorted and don't hesitate to shout next time.
Regards, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"of course they can have preferences but all of their profiles said they were interested in group sex
Oh, k, that's slightly different. Maybe they're only comfortable with men that they already know? "
i think id be more comfortable with someone i didnt know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is quiet daunting for a fella to meet with a couple or woman who wants multiple fellas there..If it was with a couple for a mmf and the ice was broken by chat or a coffee meet then maybe different. Most fella just wont take the chance. Its not that they shy its prob more that they are cautious!! |
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By *itan79Man
over a year ago
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I think a lot of guys just tick all the boxes and hope to get lucky in casting there nets wide, alas the same kinda guys are selfish in other ways and really prefer a one to one meet.
I have had the same issue with organising parties before, single males are often the first to back out with excuses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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coming from a guy who has done a mmf meet i was very nervous and didnt have a good time at all but a few weeks later i met her on her own we had a great time then the second mmf meet up was a blast! still now though i prefer to meet up with the woman first if we get on well then i will meet the guy after as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exactly so they should not be on here. "
There's a lot that shouldn't be here:
*The Men who pester women
*The Men who have fake women profiles
*The Couples who are here to ONLY flirt to boost marriage/relationship and never stating it therefore leading folk on
And the women who are here for 9 years and are too shy/not ready for it- lol go back to Facebook in that case-
A lot of classic "Facebookers" here
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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And there those of us who want to walk the walk who have the Cpl thing done but find it hard to find a tag team buddy so come on guys get ur cocks out in front of each other don't be shy we aren't going to touch ou r aimiz to please the lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And there those of us who want to walk the walk who have the Cpl thing done but find it hard to find a tag team buddy so come on guys get ur cocks out in front of each other don't be shy we aren't going to touch ou r aimiz to please the lady"
Exactly and ur well able cj and we gonna end up with another forum thread looking for tag teams. GRRRRRRR!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have tried at least a dozen guys to meet us friday night in athlone. we are looking for 2 guys but each one we contacted dont want another guy there. shy or what"
Push the right buttons with the right people and I'm sure they won't be so shy... It's the quiet ones you want to look out for  |
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By *at2Couple
over a year ago
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"It is quiet daunting for a fella to meet with a couple or woman who wants multiple fellas there..If it was with a couple for a mmf and the ice was broken by chat or a coffee meet then maybe different. Most fella just wont take the chance. Its not that they shy its prob more that they are cautious!!"
We have had a few guys when meeting with us for a mmf and we get down to the fun have failed to rise to the occasion which is a waste of time but shit happens even when you think everything is going great.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ur not contacting the right guys
That being said, location would be an issue for me, I'm not gonna travel 2 hours for a few hours fun...am I just being silly?? Or is that the norm?:"
They want the single guys, I'm sure they can travel if they want it badly enough. |
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Well for me when i started a mear 27 i was quite shy but after my first party meet that was gone i know when i first started i just wanted to meet women one on one but once you have a full swing party you never go back to shy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most guys would be more comfortable if they met the woman first and seen if they got on, there is no point putting yourself into a situation where you don't know anyone |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"And there those of us who want to walk the walk who have the Cpl thing done but find it hard to find a tag team buddy so come on guys get ur cocks out in front of each other don't be shy we aren't going to touch ou r aimiz to please the lady
Exactly and ur well able cj and we gonna end up with another forum thread looking for tag teams. GRRRRRRR! "
why thank u xxx 
well op good news i hope u were not let down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i joined here to meet women, i said i might be interested in a couple, might. not when i was contacted by one couple in particular they asked if i would be interested meeting her on her own i said i would be we exchanged numbers i get a late night phone call asking me to come over to "them" i said no thanks as i said id prefer to meet her on her own. my fone had 28 missed calls by the end of that night. also not the first time its happened. now for a guy who isnt that comfortable with meeting a couple and getting that you would be taken a back but what your saying is i shouldnt be on the site because that made me un easy???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there is less pressure with more guys, if you then feel nervous or to excited (if u get what I mean) the other guys can keep the lady happy while you relax and join back in.
That's my take, but not from a been there done that point of view. (I wish)
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