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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, just curious,
I joined this site to experience new sexual encounters and to do things which the wife wouldn't or I was too embarrassed to ask her to do
What reasons have other married people joined |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, just curious,
I joined this site to experience new sexual encounters and to do things which the wife wouldn't or I was too embarrassed to ask her to do
What reasons have other married people joined"
Does she know you signed up here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really depends on what things your asking for. Like the women is your wife. How could you ask a complete stranger to do something that you can't ask your wife. I'm not being snappy with you just a question
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really depends on what things your asking for. Like the women is your wife. How could you ask a complete stranger to do something that you can't ask your wife. I'm not being snappy with you just a question
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obviously you are not married...!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well it's simple really, the women you meet on this site are a lot more experienced and confident and are here for same reason . They want to be enjoyed and to enjoy sex.
Could you ask your wife girlfriend to rim your ass knowing she'll be kissing the baby in the morning (ha)
Plenty of things because you live and eat together would be out of question |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well it's simple really, the women you meet on this site are a lot more experienced and confident and are here for same reason . They want to be enjoyed and to enjoy sex.
Could you ask your wife girlfriend to rim your ass knowing she'll be kissing the baby in the morning (ha)
Plenty of things because you live and eat together would be out of question"
In some cases yes that would be true, but not for all cases. I'm pretty sure the couples on here would say different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it's simple really, the women you meet on this site are a lot more experienced and confident and are here for same reason . They want to be enjoyed and to enjoy sex.
Could you ask your wife girlfriend to rim your ass knowing she'll be kissing the baby in the morning (ha)
Plenty of things because you live and eat together would be out of question"
Why would things be out the question just cos you live and eat together??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it's simple really, the women you meet on this site are a lot more experienced and confident and are here for same reason . They want to be enjoyed and to enjoy sex.
Could you ask your wife girlfriend to rim your ass knowing she'll be kissing the baby in the morning (ha)
Plenty of things because you live and eat together would be out of question
Why would things be out the question just cos you live and eat together??
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Exactly what Nippy said
Grouphug (especially for nippy because they drive her nuts/she thinks they're silly)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well it's simple really, the women you meet on this site are a lot more experienced and confident and are here for same reason . They want to be enjoyed and to enjoy sex.
Could you ask your wife girlfriend to rim your ass knowing she'll be kissing the baby in the morning (ha)
Plenty of things because you live and eat together would be out of question"
I have to disagree with you totally if mr. Curvy ever wanted to do anything he'd ask not go behind my back and ask a complete stranger. You must not have the courage to ask her.. If your that in love with someone you will try new things I've tried loads of new things even b4 we signed up here... Trust me if she brushes her teeth after rimming ya she'll be fine kissing the baby |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it's simple really, the women you meet on this site are a lot more experienced and confident and are here for same reason . They want to be enjoyed and to enjoy sex.
Could you ask your wife girlfriend to rim your ass knowing she'll be kissing the baby in the morning (ha)
Plenty of things because you live and eat together would be out of question
Why would things be out the question just cos you live and eat together??
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well it's simple really, the women you meet on this site are a lot more experienced and confident and are here for same reason . They want to be enjoyed and to enjoy sex.
Could you ask your wife girlfriend to rim your ass knowing she'll be kissing the baby in the morning (ha)
Plenty of things because you live and eat together would be out of question I have to disagree with you totally if mr. Curvy ever wanted to do anything he'd ask not go behind my back and ask a complete stranger. You must not have the courage to ask her.. If your that in love with someone you will try new things I've tried loads of new things even b4 we signed up here... Trust me if she brushes her teeth after rimming ya she'll be fine kissing the baby "
ah ritually missing the point! he wouldn't ask the mother of his children to rim his ass out of respect and love but a stranger is different! its lust ffs its obvious |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well it's simple really, the women you meet on this site are a lot more experienced and confident and are here for same reason . They want to be enjoyed and to enjoy sex.
Could you ask your wife girlfriend to rim your ass knowing she'll be kissing the baby in the morning (ha)
Plenty of things because you live and eat together would be out of question I have to disagree with you totally if mr. Curvy ever wanted to do anything he'd ask not go behind my back and ask a complete stranger. You must not have the courage to ask her.. If your that in love with someone you will try new things I've tried loads of new things even b4 we signed up here... Trust me if she brushes her teeth after rimming ya she'll be fine kissing the baby ah ritually missing the point! he wouldn't ask the mother of his children to rim his ass out of respect and love but a stranger is different! its lust ffs its obvious"
I was been smart about the rimming!!!! |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"Hi, just curious,
I joined this site to experience new sexual encounters and to do things which the wife wouldn't or I was too embarrassed to ask her to do
What reasons have other married people joined"
so what you want is free prostitution. because if you where willing to pay for it then im sure escorts would do anything you could think of for a price. so the fact that you are just too tight pay for sex u think the the women on a swingers site are just easy and free its this mentality that really gets on my nerves about 99% of men that join the site.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, just curious,
I joined this site to experience new sexual encounters and to do things which the wife wouldn't or I was too embarrassed to ask her to do
What reasons have other married people joined
so what you want is free prostitution. because if you where willing to pay for it then im sure escorts would do anything you could think of for a price. so the fact that you are just too tight pay for sex u think the the women on a swingers site are just easy and free its this mentality that really gets on my nerves about 99% of men that join the site.. "
this is a swing site for people to express and try full fill there fantasies with others that enjoy sex ! totally different to prostitution ! I personally get no kick from meeting prostitutes as I know its just for the money and that they don't enjoy it usually! its nothing to do with money! and you say 99% of men! your a man you idiot well so says your profile but I doubt a real man!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and children should not be present to see such a thing as rimming !! its outrageous to even suggest such a thing"
hang on there a min climb down off ur high horse was I the one who first children so ya can go give out to him!!!
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By *lutaxiMan
over a year ago
Dundalk |
People's marriages are different and what happens behind the front door can be hard to explain or justify.
But all here are here because we like sex or trying different things, which our partners may not like or refuse to do. So please don't throw stones until you have tried or lived in my shoes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and children should not be present to see such a thing as rimming !! its outrageous to even suggest such a thing hang on there a min climb down off ur high horse was I the one who first children so ya can go give out to him!!! "
i'm having a laugh sexy x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, just curious,
I joined this site to experience new sexual encounters and to do things which the wife wouldn't or I was too embarrassed to ask her to do
What reasons have other married people joined"
I guess every relationship is different. I feel sorry for you though that you feel embarrassed to talk to your wife, the person that presumably you sleep with every night and love, about the most intimate act of all.
(Also... I'd advise you to be careful when talking about women here doing things 'the wife wouldn't do') 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and children should not be present to see such a thing as rimming !! its outrageous to even suggest such a thing hang on there a min climb down off ur high horse was I the one who first children so ya can go give out to him!!! i'm having a laugh sexy x"
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
otherside of nowhere |
"Hi, just curious,
I joined this site to experience new sexual encounters and to do things which the wife wouldn't or I was too embarrassed to ask her to do
What reasons have other married people joined"
Is this another way of saying the wife doesn't understand me......maybe your question should be to other married ppl that join alone |
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By *he VansCouple
over a year ago
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I the male personaly would never ask any woman to do what i wouldnt ask mrs v to do ! When we decided to explore swinging it was evolved from our sexual fantasies of having sex with other couples , nothing to do with expecting others to do what we wouldnt do to eachother , our relationship is built on trust , trust in all ways . Mrs v had bi curious side to which we both wanted to explore for her and visa versa for me , we also enjoy the social side of swinging ie making new friends and meeting similar mindsetted people . That been said we have enjoyed it so much we have stayed at it !!!! People be resective of others wishes and boundries and that in most cases will be returned back to you . Enjoy this lifestyle and be happy , life is too short . Xx Mr V .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I the male personaly would never ask any woman to do what i wouldnt ask mrs v to do ! When we decided to explore swinging it was evolved from our sexual fantasies of having sex with other couples , nothing to do with expecting others to do what we wouldnt do to eachother , our relationship is built on trust , trust in all ways . Mrs v had bi curious side to which we both wanted to explore for her and visa versa for me , we also enjoy the social side of swinging ie making new friends and meeting similar mindsetted people . That been said we have enjoyed it so much we have stayed at it !!!! People be resective of others wishes and boundries and that in most cases will be returned back to you . Enjoy this lifestyle and be happy , life is too short . Xx Mr V . "
well put and love the profile name by the way |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"I the male personaly would never ask any woman to do what i wouldnt ask mrs v to do ! When we decided to explore swinging it was evolved from our sexual fantasies of having sex with other couples , nothing to do with expecting others to do what we wouldnt do to eachother , our relationship is built on trust , trust in all ways . Mrs v had bi curious side to which we both wanted to explore for her and visa versa for me , we also enjoy the social side of swinging ie making new friends and meeting similar mindsetted people . That been said we have enjoyed it so much we have stayed at it !!!! People be resective of others wishes and boundries and that in most cases will be returned back to you . Enjoy this lifestyle and be happy , life is too short . Xx Mr V . "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I the male personaly would never ask any woman to do what i wouldnt ask mrs v to do ! When we decided to explore swinging it was evolved from our sexual fantasies of having sex with other couples , nothing to do with expecting others to do what we wouldnt do to eachother , our relationship is built on trust , trust in all ways . Mrs v had bi curious side to which we both wanted to explore for her and visa versa for me , we also enjoy the social side of swinging ie making new friends and meeting similar mindsetted people . That been said we have enjoyed it so much we have stayed at it !!!! People be resective of others wishes and boundries and that in most cases will be returned back to you . Enjoy this lifestyle and be happy , life is too short . Xx Mr V . "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if your wife is not into oral sex? Would you explore oral sex elsewhere?"
no,that would be cheating(for us anyway)
the whole point of swinging for us is to explore sexually together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if your wife is not into oral sex? Would you explore oral sex elsewhere?
no,that would be cheating(for us anyway)
the whole point of swinging for us is to explore sexually together."
im jealous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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maybe it is a lack of respect for the women that u hope to meet here that u think its a fuck and do what u want and never have to chat to them again. so maybe the prob isnt asking ur wife to do it. it might be that u want ur cake and eat it. so say u are fine doing a mfm with another cpl but u would never let ur wife do a mfm with u and another guy. just raising the question. |
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By *he VansCouple
over a year ago
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"I the male personaly would never ask any woman to do what i wouldnt ask mrs v to do ! When we decided to explore swinging it was evolved from our sexual fantasies of having sex with other couples , nothing to do with expecting others to do what we wouldnt do to eachother , our relationship is built on trust , trust in all ways . Mrs v had bi curious side to which we both wanted to explore for her and visa versa for me , we also enjoy the social side of swinging ie making new friends and meeting similar mindsetted people . That been said we have enjoyed it so much we have stayed at it !!!! People be resective of others wishes and boundries and that in most cases will be returned back to you . Enjoy this lifestyle and be happy , life is too short . Xx Mr V .
well put and love the profile name by the way "
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"this is a swing site for people to express and try full fill there fantasies with others that enjoy sex ! totally different to prostitution ! I personally get no kick from meeting prostitutes as I know its just for the money and that they don't enjoy it usually! its nothing to do with money! and you say 99% of men! your a man you idiot well so says your profile but I doubt a real man!!"
firstly this is a swinging site swing is a type of music..
secondly swinging is a lifestyle where you have sexual freedom and experimentation not to do things with somebody that you wouldnt ask your wife to do and behind her back whilst you are doing it thats just plain old cheating.
thirdly i said 99% of men not 100% so there are a lot of decent genuine guys in the lifestyle they are the 1%
and finally i'd love to hear what you think makes a real man ? please do tell  |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
Cork and surrounding areas |
"What if your wife is not into oral sex? Would you explore oral sex elsewhere?
no,that would be cheating(for us anyway)
the whole point of swinging for us is to explore sexually together."
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"a real man doesn't lick doughnuts wishing for brownies"
who licks doughnuts ??
i have fulfilled all my wishes to date and when i come up with more ill fulfill those to. so your point of me not being a real man is mute now isnt it ?? as i dont wish for anything so i must be a real man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know what really ticks me off is the sanctimonious Twats on here Pontificating about married people on here alone.... "prostitution!!! no respect for women!!! cheater!!! not a genuine guy!!!"
Mostly from guys trying to look good on here to attract couples and women... Like we can't see throught your B.S!
Drives me insane how judgemental and up their own arses some people are..
Here's something for ye all to think of, Single, Married, here alone, or with a partner..........
Under the laws Ireland and the UK,and under ANY moral code, when a single person has sex with a married person they are commiting Adultery.... when a married person has sex with another person, with or without consent, in the presence of, or behind the back of their partner, they are committing ADULTERY A.K.A CHEATING....
the Problem about the Higher moral ground is that it's an Awful long way to fall... and eventually you will...
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"You know what really ticks me off is the sanctimonious Twats on here Pontificating about married people on here alone.... "prostitution!!! no respect for women!!! cheater!!! not a genuine guy!!!"
Mostly from guys trying to look good on here to attract couples and women... Like we can't see throught your B.S!
Drives me insane how judgemental and up their own arses some people are..
Here's something for ye all to think of, Single, Married, here alone, or with a partner..........
Under the laws Ireland and the UK,and under ANY moral code, when a single person has sex with a married person they are commiting Adultery.... when a married person has sex with another person, with or without consent, in the presence of, or behind the back of their partner, they are committing ADULTERY A.K.A CHEATING....
the Problem about the Higher moral ground is that it's an Awful long way to fall... and eventually you will...
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without consent is rape and is an criminal act... adultery isnt a criminal act...
im not on moral high ground but i just gave my opinion of the OP's point of being here to do things that he couldnt/wouldnt ask his wife to do. and my point is that it would be easier to find an escort who would be more willing to do these things. and i made a comment about alot of guys on here do treat the site as some sort of free knocking shop and im sure you would agree with that point ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know what really ticks me off is the sanctimonious Twats on here Pontificating about married people on here alone.... "prostitution!!! no respect for women!!! cheater!!! not a genuine guy!!!"
Mostly from guys trying to look good on here to attract couples and women... Like we can't see throught your B.C.!
Drives me insane how judgemental and up their own arses some people are..
Here's something for ye all to think of, Single, Married, here alone, or with a partner..........
Under the laws Ireland and the UK,and under ANY moral code, when a single person has sex with a married person they are commiting Adultery.... when a married person has sex with another person, with or without consent, in the presence of, or behind the back of their partner, they are committing ADULTERY A.K.A CHEATING....
the Problem about the Higher moral ground is that it's an Awful long way to fall... and eventually you will...
without consent is rape and is an criminal act... adultery isnt a criminal act...
im not on moral high ground but i just gave my opinion of the OP's point of being here to do things that he couldnt/wouldnt ask his wife to do. and my point is that it would be easier to find an escort who would be more willing to do these things. and i made a comment about alot of guys on here do treat the site as some sort of free knocking shop and im sure you would agree with that point ??"
firstly you said prostitutes and secondly you said 99% of men! your licking arse i'm the hope of getting laid for being a nice guy! I suppose you're hobbies are charity work and helping old ladies cross the road? |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"You know what really ticks me off is the sanctimonious Twats on here Pontificating about married people on here alone.... "prostitution!!! no respect for women!!! cheater!!! not a genuine guy!!!"
Mostly from guys trying to look good on here to attract couples and women... Like we can't see throught your B.C.!
Drives me insane how judgemental and up their own arses some people are..
Here's something for ye all to think of, Single, Married, here alone, or with a partner..........
Under the laws Ireland and the UK,and under ANY moral code, when a single person has sex with a married person they are commiting Adultery.... when a married person has sex with another person, with or without consent, in the presence of, or behind the back of their partner, they are committing ADULTERY A.K.A CHEATING....
the Problem about the Higher moral ground is that it's an Awful long way to fall... and eventually you will...
without consent is rape and is an criminal act... adultery isnt a criminal act...
im not on moral high ground but i just gave my opinion of the OP's point of being here to do things that he couldnt/wouldnt ask his wife to do. and my point is that it would be easier to find an escort who would be more willing to do these things. and i made a comment about alot of guys on here do treat the site as some sort of free knocking shop and im sure you would agree with that point ?? firstly you said prostitutes and secondly you said 99% of men! your licking arse i'm the hope of getting laid for being a nice guy! I suppose you're hobbies are charity work and helping old ladies cross the road? "
well i said escorts in the first post. i dont need to lick arse to get laid here or anywhere else. as for my hobbies neither charity work nor helping old ladies cross road would be hobbies of mine. but i do enjoy angling and other outdoor pursuits.. what are you hobbies ?? |
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By *unduo000Couple
over a year ago
In and around |
"Well it's simple really, the women you meet on this site are a lot more experienced and confident and are here for same reason . They want to be enjoyed and to enjoy sex.
Could you ask your wife girlfriend to rim your ass knowing she'll be kissing the baby in the morning (ha)
Plenty of things because you live and eat together would be out of question
Why would things be out the question just cos you live and eat together?
Exactly what Nippy said
Grouphug (especially for nippy because they drive her nuts/she thinks they're silly) "
My thoughts exactly Nippy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh lordy.
On a brighter note I think ill buy a nu pair of trainers today.red ones what make haldidass
Im keepin the brand name for my fragrence thats comin out
Hals musk "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm married and I'm here to have sex which I don't have at home..simples!
Why? Nobody else's business but mine and my husbands.
I always confirm this to a potential sex partner/couple because I respect that they may not want to take it further for their own personal reasons also. |
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By *lutaxiMan
over a year ago
Dundalk |
"I'm married and I'm here to have sex which I don't have at home..simples!
Why? Nobody else's business but mine and my husbands.
I always confirm this to a potential sex partner/couple because I respect that they may not want to take it further for their own personal reasons also."
Well said and far better than I put it earlier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Without consent it's rape ?????
Please read...
if you are married and you have sex with someone WITH your partners consent
ITS STILL ADULTERY CHEATING EXTRA MARITAL SEX ETC !!! |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"Without consent it's rape ?????
Please read...
if you are married and you have sex with someone WITH your partners consent
ITS STILL ADULTERY CHEATING EXTRA MARITAL SEX ETC !!!"
maybe i misread but i stand over every thing else i said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow
Hasn't this thread gone off in a tangent
So we are all agreed we are all here for our own reasons and if someone don't like it, then bugger off and find who you do like
I still wonder why the op thinks it's ok to ask forms ex acts he won't ask from his wife. I feel I do have the right to question this because it was he who bought it to the forum, and therefore up to scrutiny |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow
Hasn't this thread gone off in a tangent
So we are all agreed we are all here for our own reasons and if someone don't like it, then bugger off and find who you do like
I still wonder why the op thinks it's ok to ask forms ex acts he won't ask from his wife. I feel I do have the right to question this because it was he who bought it to the forum, and therefore up to scrutiny "
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"You know what really ticks me off is the sanctimonious Twats on here Pontificating about married people on here alone.... "prostitution!!! no respect for women!!! cheater!!! not a genuine guy!!!"
Mostly from guys trying to look good on here to attract couples and women... Like we can't see throught your B.S!
Drives me insane how judgemental and up their own arses some people are..
Here's something for ye all to think of, Single, Married, here alone, or with a partner..........
Under the laws Ireland and the UK,and under ANY moral code, when a single person has sex with a married person they are commiting Adultery.... when a married person has sex with another person, with or without consent, in the presence of, or behind the back of their partner, they are committing ADULTERY A.K.A CHEATING....
the Problem about the Higher moral ground is that it's an Awful long way to fall... and eventually you will...
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Very well said - can't believe people here, happy to be on a site to barter for sex outside the norm and then thinking they can take the moral high ground on issues because they differ marginally.
Hey - if you are on here you're damned !!. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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if you are married and you have sex with someone WITH your partners consent
ITS STILL ADULTERY CHEATING EXTRA MARITAL SEX ETC !!!"
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adultary and extra marital sex are the same thing and if we're together it certainly aint cheating .
you say it like its a bad thing
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I'm married and I'm here to have sex which I don't have at home..simples!
Why? Nobody else's business but mine and my husbands.
I always confirm this to a potential sex partner/couple because I respect that they may not want to take it further for their own personal reasons also."
when u walk a mile in my shoes then judge me |
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By *lutaxiMan
over a year ago
Dundalk |
"I'm married and I'm here to have sex which I don't have at home..simples!
Why? Nobody else's business but mine and my husbands.
I always confirm this to a potential sex partner/couple because I respect that they may not want to take it further for their own personal reasons also. when u walk a mile in my shoes then judge me"
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi, just curious,
I joined this site to experience new sexual encounters and to do things which the wife wouldn't or I was too embarrassed to ask her to do
What reasons have other married people joined"
Just to remind people what this thread started out as.. I'm not married so I can't comment. |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"Stick to the o.ps question.this thread is about lactating women.if u hav nothin to add to the topic bugger off.
Me I love it 
Look like you could be lactating yourself there... "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The reasons being like most people I like the respect I get from my wife, the vanilla lifestyle she craves and adheres to is at times suffocating . I want to experiment with women who are prepared to experiment, I have made suggestions but her idea of sex doesn't involve any one else or lights on or binds. It's her choice and I respect that and as such I seek my jollies elsewhere
I am honest as to why I'm here and accept knock backs gracefully |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The reasons being like most people I like the respect I get from my wife, the vanilla lifestyle she craves and adheres to is at times suffocating . I want to experiment with women who are prepared to experiment, I have made suggestions but her idea of sex doesn't involve any one else or lights on or binds. It's her choice and I respect that and as such I seek my jollies elsewhere
I am honest as to why I'm here and accept knock backs gracefully"
ur wife and my husband would have a ball in their "vanilla" life..!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blimey!!! This thread was very interesting to read, jaysus some people really got going!!
Everyone has their own opinions and reasons in life!! Come on it's everyday society, a lot of cheating and it's very very common, it's everywhere!! No one what so ever can judge, there a reason why a person cheats, until you walk in their shoes we can never judge!!
I'm not agreeing 100% with cheating but then firstly we are human so if we are in a sexless marriage can you blame a person for seeking somewhere else...
No relationship or marriage is perfect, but I would speak to my partner and find out why, I just wouldn't stay in a marriage or relationship for sake of it! What's the point, been there done that, cheating gets involved, your the unfortunate to get caught out then next thing boom your the blame for everything!!
So everyone has their own reason and it's their own business, if you have good marriage with communication then you should be able ask to talk to your wife about sexual fantasies etc!!
In today society we are not open and honest enough about sexual preferences or feelings towards it!!! |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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hubby and i are very lucky that we have the same ideas about sex and relationships in that we dont feel one is connected to the other now a lot of ppl would not agree with us and thats fine once we agree with each other thats enough.......but i think if one of us was on a differant page i think the other might have a few affaires under their belt by now......so its not always black and white |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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joined for similar reasons..married at 22 and very lucky that I got the lady I did ...fair play to couples who are on here together but I know that is not for my missus..life's more complicated than most of those ranting at you seem to realise... |
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"Hi, just curious,
I joined this site to experience new sexual encounters and to do things which the wife wouldn't or I was too embarrassed to ask her to do
What reasons have other married people joined"
For me it was fear that shed grab the steak knife and stab me,,,mad bitch, |
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"Blimey!!! This thread was very interesting to read, jaysus some people really got going!!
Everyone has their own opinions and reasons in life!! Come on it's everyday society, a lot of cheating and it's very very common, it's everywhere!! No one what so ever can judge, there a reason why a person cheats, until you walk in their shoes we can never judge!!
I'm not agreeing 100% with cheating but then firstly we are human so if we are in a sexless marriage can you blame a person for seeking somewhere else...
No relationship or marriage is perfect, but I would speak to my partner and find out why, I just wouldn't stay in a marriage or relationship for sake of it! What's the point, been there done that, cheating gets involved, your the unfortunate to get caught out then next thing boom your the blame for everything!!
So everyone has their own reason and it's their own business, if you have good marriage with communication then you should be able ask to talk to your wife about sexual fantasies etc!!
In today society we are not open and honest enough about sexual preferences or feelings towards it!!! "
Why stay in a sexless marriage ? sometimes everything else is fine including real friendship and kids !
Why not discuss it with partner? - after a while all the arguments and discussions have been had and to bring it up again is going over the same old ground, in any case whats the point if she isn't into it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why stay in a sexless marriage????
Kids, love, mortgage,friendship,
Marriage is more about friendship and sex though important is not everything.im not saying that I'm not partly responsible for my situation after all I'm not the same man I was 20 yrs ago, maybe I'm actually crap in the sack and as such she's not prepared to waste energy for her to end up frustrated flocking the bean while I snore away thinking I'm Ron Jeremy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Blimey!!! This thread was very interesting to read, jaysus some people really got going!!
Everyone has their own opinions and reasons in life!! Come on it's everyday society, a lot of cheating and it's very very common, it's everywhere!! No one what so ever can judge, there a reason why a person cheats, until you walk in their shoes we can
Why stay in a sexless marriage ? sometimes everything else is fine including real friendship and kids !
Why not discuss it with partner? - after a while all the arguments and discussions have been had and to bring it up again is going over the same old ground, in any case whats the point if she isn't into it.
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that is the most ignorant question to ask a person. some have no choice but to stay. Children or financial reasons to name but a few. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Id rather my husband was honest if he wasnt happy and ive always told him to be honest as i myself would be...yes it is hard when there are children involved and sex isnt the main reason to leave/cheat or giveup...tbh if i wasnt geting sex i would rater say...i love you very much but i have sexual needs and if you cant fufill them then we need to discuss how we can both be happy...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nothing personal but i wouldnt be rimming you or anyone else ESPECIALLY a stranger or someone i wasnt in a relationship with."
Hows you?
What if it was washed with dove soap???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Your married and cheating on your wife - for what ever reason you have for cheating ITS WRONG! So yes you are BEGGING to be judged for the simple reason is you are cheating on your wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your married and cheating on your wife - for what ever reason you have for cheating ITS WRONG! So yes you are BEGGING to be judged for the simple reason is you are cheating on your wife. "
Red has left the chat rooms and entered the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
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ya mean ya want yer cake and ya want to eat it too. If you have respect for your wife tell her your not happy with the kind of sex she wants it will mean u goin else where to get that kind of sex - if u have to look elsewhere for what ur not getting out of the marraige then you need to leave the marraige. COs she'll sharp leave it if she finds out yer a cheater |
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By (user no longer on site)
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if a single person like me has sex with a married man - im not doing anything wrong becos I AM SINGLE. But the married man is doing wrong becos HE IS MARRIED. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your married and cheating on your wife - for what ever reason you have for cheating ITS WRONG! So yes you are BEGGING to be judged for the simple reason is you are cheating on your wife. "
you are absolutely wrong here.nobody judges him for being married.theres many on here married and seeking their thrills elsewhere.theres reasons for everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if a single person like me has sex with a married man - im not doing anything wrong becos I AM SINGLE. But the married man is doing wrong becos HE IS MARRIED."
Disagree with you as even if you are single you are still party to adultery.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your married and cheating on your wife - for what ever reason you have for cheating ITS WRONG! So yes you are BEGGING to be judged for the simple reason is you are cheating on your wife.
you are absolutely wrong here.nobody judges him for being married.theres many on here married and seeking their thrills elsewhere.theres reasons for everything."
Indeed their is but people will still judge  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your married and cheating on your wife - for what ever reason you have for cheating ITS WRONG! So yes you are BEGGING to be judged for the simple reason is you are cheating on your wife.
you are absolutely wrong here.nobody judges him for being married.theres many on here married and seeking their thrills elsewhere.theres reasons for everything.
Indeed their is but people will still judge "
that they will.as a fellow "cheater" i couldnt give a continental fuck who judges me.i wish i had the time to waste by judging people...!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To me cheaters are disgusting low lifes with no moral compass making endless excuses about why they reason its ok,,,,Get a Divorce stop being a Liar.. "
Lolololololol |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"ya mean ya want yer cake and ya want to eat it too. If you have respect for your wife tell her your not happy with the kind of sex she wants it will mean u goin else where to get that kind of sex - if u have to look elsewhere for what ur not getting out of the marraige then you need to leave the marraige. COs she'll sharp leave it if she finds out yer a cheater"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ya mean ya want yer cake and ya want to eat it too. If you have respect for your wife tell her your not happy with the kind of sex she wants it will mean u goin else where to get that kind of sex - if u have to look elsewhere for what ur not getting out of the marraige then you need to leave the marraige. COs she'll sharp leave it if she finds out yer a cheater
ah red how i missed u xxxx "
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"To me cheaters are disgusting low lifes with no moral compass making endless excuses about why they reason its ok,,,,Get a Divorce stop being a Liar.. "
Jee Tom - don't hold back anyway - tell us what you feel. That's the thing about a moral compass , everybodys points to a slightly different place. Different people have different rankings of relative morality. The law takes care of most of the extreme bits. For the rest of it - people do their best to get on in life - to do some good and hopefully mot to hurt others.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well it's simple really, the women you meet on this site are a lot more experienced and confident and are here for same reason . They want to be enjoyed and to enjoy sex.
Could you ask your wife girlfriend to rim your ass knowing she'll be kissing the baby in the morning (ha)
Plenty of things because you live and eat together would be out of question"
get ur wife a toothbrush ....problem solved |
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"Well it's simple really, the women you meet on this site are a lot more experienced and confident and are here for same reason . They want to be enjoyed and to enjoy sex.
Could you ask your wife girlfriend to rim your ass knowing she'll be kissing the baby in the morning (ha)
Plenty of things because you live and eat together would be out of question get ur wife a toothbrush ....problem solved "
Lol. as ever some good advice from uncle Jack,,, |
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"Well it's simple really, the women you meet on this site are a lot more experienced and confident and are here for same reason . They want to be enjoyed and to enjoy sex.
Could you ask your wife girlfriend to rim your ass knowing she'll be kissing the baby in the morning (ha)
Plenty of things because you live and eat together would be out of question I have to disagree with you totally if mr. Curvy ever wanted to do anything he'd ask not go behind my back and ask a complete stranger. You must not have the courage to ask her.. If your that in love with someone you will try new things I've tried loads of new things even b4 we signed up here... Trust me if she brushes her teeth after rimming ya she'll be fine kissing the baby "
Then chuck the toothbrush in the bin?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To me cheaters are disgusting low lifes with no moral compass making endless excuses about why they reason its ok,,,,Get a Divorce stop being a Liar.. "
But you don't mind meeting those "disgusting low life's" for sex???
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your married and cheating on your wife - for what ever reason you have for cheating ITS WRONG! So yes you are BEGGING to be judged for the simple reason is you are cheating on your wife.
you are absolutely wrong here.nobody judges him for being married.theres many on here married and seeking their thrills elsewhere.theres reasons for everything.
Indeed their is but people will still judge that they will.as a fellow "cheater" i couldnt give a continental fuck who judges me.i wish i had the time to waste by judging people...!!! "
Well said my dear |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your married and cheating on your wife - for what ever reason you have for cheating ITS WRONG! So yes you are BEGGING to be judged for the simple reason is you are cheating on your wife.
you are absolutely wrong here.nobody judges him for being married.theres many on here married and seeking their thrills elsewhere.theres reasons for everything.
Indeed their is but people will still judge that they will.as a fellow "cheater" i couldnt give a continental fuck who judges me.i wish i had the time to waste by judging people...!!! "
Well said |
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