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over a year ago
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"Is been fussy really a good trait or do you eventually need to "get over yourself" and lower your standards?"
Really?? That's what you are asking?? Unbelievable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why settle for anything less than you believe you're worth? Be it on here or elsewhere.
Certainly on here we're all just here for a bit of fun, there's no minimum or maximium amount required so why "lower your standards"?
Confidence is a trait, an attractive one at that. So no, be confident in your own self worth. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why settle for anything less than you believe you're worth? Be it on here or elsewhere.
Certainly on here we're all just here for a bit of fun, there's no minimum or maximium amount required so why "lower your standards"?
Confidence is a trait, an attractive one at that. So no, be confident in your own self worth."
excellent post and ye I'm talking in the no strings sense not a serious relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would you want to lower your standards. If you wouldn't fancy the person in a bar, you shouldn't have to do it here. Plenty of variety to suit all on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had to read it twice to see if I could get the "get over yourself" comment and I'm still lost...
Would I want to fuck somebody who wasn't up to my personal standards certainly not...
Everyone's standards are different and have their own personal choices but what a silly question...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never lower your standards.
Never settle!!
Demand high standards and when you get them you will be content. If you settle you are always going to be disappointed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Excellent post and ye I'm talking in the no strings sense not a serious relationship "
You shouldn't limit it to anything.
With all due respect, your "get over yourself" comment would lead anyone to believe this is either a rejection fuelled topic or deliberately provoking one; it's such an inane question.
For the avoidance of drama, I'm out  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Excellent post and ye I'm talking in the no strings sense not a serious relationship
You shouldn't limit it to anything.
With all due respect, your "get over yourself" comment would lead anyone to believe this is either a rejection fuelled topic or deliberately provoking one; it's such an inane question.
For the avoidance of drama, I'm out "
so never in ur life have u heard a person say they think they need to lower their standards, that I'm just 2 fussy or hear someone else say it about another person because I have and I'm sure others have. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fussy is good. Stick too what you want. It will come along eventually. Don't be one of these men that fuck anything with a pulse.  "
lol good comment but u can't really relate fussiness as the same for men and women on this website. |
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"Had to read it twice to see if I could get the "get over yourself" comment and I'm still lost...
Would I want to fuck somebody who wasn't up to my personal standards certainly not...
Everyone's standards are different and have their own personal choices but what a silly question...
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lower wat??? Fuck that !!! Fussy ?? 
Jesus man get with the program !!! Aim for the top !!!! Find someone that tickles yer fancy and message them to see if they'll tickle yer bits for ya !!!
Never ever lower your "standards", just search and chat and you will find someone that's everything you're looking for and then game on 
Just be careful in talking about "standards" as some could be upset if they felt you'd dropped your standards just to meet them. Which wouldn't be nice !!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Had to read it twice to see if I could get the "get over yourself" comment and I'm still lost...
Would I want to fuck somebody who wasn't up to my personal standards certainly not...
Everyone's standards are different and have their own personal choices but what a silly question...
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everyone has personal choices but as I already said, Me included, some people could be just to fussy for what their looks allow.im also gonna call it as I see it as fussiness is not in the same regard for men and women on here. If I was a woman on here, with the variety of choice I'd be disappointed if I hadn't a meet in one/two weeks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"lower wat??? Fuck that !!! Fussy ??
Jesus man get with the program !!! Aim for the top !!!! Find someone that tickles yer fancy and message them to see if they'll tickle yer bits for ya !!!
Never ever lower your "standards", just search and chat and you will find someone that's everything you're looking for and then game on
Just be careful in talking about "standards" as some could be upset if they felt you'd dropped your standards just to meet them. Which wouldn't be nice !!! "
i won't but there is a chance I might be just to fussy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why should anyone lower their standards just to help the ego of someone else!!! I don't think so!
Yours truly
FUSSY MADAM
Ahhhh quit being so bloody fussy you "
Sssshhhh you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And if you lower your standards it means you only meet those less desirable, meaning the ones worth meeting don't want to meet you. Says more about you than them really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had to read it twice to see if I could get the "get over yourself" comment and I'm still lost...
Would I want to fuck somebody who wasn't up to my personal standards certainly not...
Everyone's standards are different and have their own personal choices but what a silly question...
everyone has personal choices but as I already said, Me included, some people could be just to fussy for what their looks allow.im also gonna call it as I see it as fussiness is not in the same regard for men and women on here. If I was a woman on here, with the variety of choice I'd be disappointed if I hadn't a meet in one/two weeks "
I haven't had one in 3 months from here, imagine how I feel  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not about being fussy it's about having standards .. sympathy fucks or feeling like you have to fuck someone is stupid.. "Hi let's fuck".. We ain't got no time for that shit lol  |
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over a year ago
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"A person who creates a "league" in their mind is showing a lack of confidence and doubt in themselves. Saying someone is out of your league is basically saying youre not equal. "
in fairness looks wise missdirty I don't think everyone is! I'd be confident enough and I approach women but there is certain ones I'd like at and think, no point o havnt a hope
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"A person who creates a "league" in their mind is showing a lack of confidence and doubt in themselves. Saying someone is out of your league is basically saying youre not equal. in fairness looks wise missdirty I don't think everyone is! I'd be confident enough and I approach women but there is certain ones I'd like at and think, no point o havnt a hope "
Certain ones like who? Are they different to women youd normally approach or would you not try for fear of being knocked back? Im trying to understand what you mean. |
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"A person who creates a "league" in their mind is showing a lack of confidence and doubt in themselves. Saying someone is out of your league is basically saying youre not equal. in fairness looks wise missdirty I don't think everyone is! I'd be confident enough and I approach women but there is certain ones I'd like at and think, no point o havnt a hope
Certain ones like who? Are they different to women youd normally approach or would you not try for fear of being knocked back? Im trying to understand what you mean."
ones who I think I havnt a hope of succeeding with. |
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"A person who creates a "league" in their mind is showing a lack of confidence and doubt in themselves. Saying someone is out of your league is basically saying youre not equal. in fairness looks wise missdirty I don't think everyone is! I'd be confident enough and I approach women but there is certain ones I'd like at and think, no point o havnt a hope
Certain ones like who? Are they different to women youd normally approach or would you not try for fear of being knocked back? Im trying to understand what you mean.ones who I think I havnt a hope of succeeding with."
Chance your arm with anyone ya want, all they can say is no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't put a league in your head.
A lot of really good looking women are desperate and needy, and you can score them just by being confident.
That's if you're into casual. |
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"Is been fussy really a good trait or do you eventually need to "get over yourself" and lower your standards?"
I don't think it's being fussy I think it's about giving people a chance.. Some people have delusions of grand ure but you might be passing on the best see ever! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Had to read it twice to see if I could get the "get over yourself" comment and I'm still lost...
Would I want to fuck somebody who wasn't up to my personal standards certainly not...
Everyone's standards are different and have their own personal choices but what a silly question...
everyone has personal choices but as I already said, Me included, some people could be just to fussy for what their looks allow.im also gonna call it as I see it as fussiness is not in the same regard for men and women on here. If I was a woman on here, with the variety of choice I'd be disappointed if I hadn't a meet in one/two weeks I haven't had one in 3 months from here, imagine how I feel "
is that with effort? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't put a league in your head.
A lot of really good looking women are desperate and needy, and you can score them just by being confident.
That's if you're into casual."
....score?.....as in..any hole is a goal? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is been fussy really a good trait or do you eventually need to "get over yourself" and lower your standards?"
Absolutely nothing wrong with being fussy. As long as ur not up ur own ass pardon my language |
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I'm very much aware of what I'm looking for and I am happy with my high expectations and standards.
However, I like to be open minded and not to loose on a good adventure and fantasy realization, so sometimes other factors are important enough to change my priorities temporarily.
It's nobody's business really if I do change them or not. I have one life and I want to make sure I experience as much as I want and am comfortable with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm very much aware of what I'm looking for and I am happy with my high expectations and standards.
However, I like to be open minded and not to loose on a good adventure and fantasy realization, so sometimes other factors are important enough to change my priorities temporarily.
It's nobody's business really if I do change them or not. I have one life and I want to make sure I experience as much as I want and am comfortable with. "
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