Was talking to one of my single friends today who would love to meet her Mr Right. She is beautiful inside and out so I said to her that everyday a stranger or someone she knows fancies her but doesn't have the courage (for whatever reason) to tell her. How many of us have been attracted to someone and didn't have the courage to say. I know myself that if someone told me that they fancied me I'd be delighted. Obviously I'm in a relationship so I would never act on it but I'd be flattered. Wouldn't it be great if for one day everyone had the courage to tell their crush that they think they're hot, how many admirers would we have, maybe someone at the bus stop who we see each morning or the office delivery guy. I'm a hopeless romantic lol  |
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"Was talking to one of my single friends today who would love to meet her Mr Right. She is beautiful inside and out so I said to her that everyday a stranger or someone she knows fancies her but doesn't have the courage (for whatever reason) to tell her. How many of us have been attracted to someone and didn't have the courage to say. I know myself that if someone told me that they fancied me I'd be delighted. Obviously I'm in a relationship so I would never act on it but I'd be flattered. Wouldn't it be great if for one day everyone had the courage to tell their crush that they think they're hot, how many admirers would we have, maybe someone at the bus stop who we see each morning or the office delivery guy. I'm a hopeless romantic lol "
Send her my way so |
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That would be great alright but think of it from the person who is in love with you and you with somebody else. Or if you just think if him/her as a friend. How awkward would that person feel and how embarrassed they would feel. Getting the courage to say it and then nothing. It is almost better to not know at times. But I do agree it would be great if it worked out for some people. |
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"That would be great alright but think of it from the person who is in love with you and you with somebody else. Or if you just think if him/her as a friend. How awkward would that person feel and how embarrassed they would feel. Getting the courage to say it and then nothing. It is almost better to not know at times. But I do agree it would be great if it worked out for some people."
that's true but my motto in life is what's there to loose, sometimes putting yourself 'out there' may mean getting knocked back, but what if your risk paid off, how great would that be.  |
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"Yep - that was me years and years ago. A quiet shy person
Slipped up big time I never told her  "
we've all had those moments, being young and unsure. Everyone has a fear of rejection, we put up walls to protect ourselves and I think as we get older we keep our guard up even more, which is why I think that my 30+ single friends find it hard to meet men, I took a risk and it paid off |
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"Too many bad experiences have beaten romanticism out of me I'm afraid
Destined to be forever single"
there are nice men out there, unfortunately we have to kiss a few frogs before we find our prince, the bad experiences that you have will make you appreciate a good man, don't give up on love and never settle for less than you deserve x |
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"Too many bad experiences have beaten romanticism out of me I'm afraid
Destined to be forever single there are nice men out there, unfortunately we have to kiss a few frogs before we find our prince, the bad experiences that you have will make you appreciate a good man, don't give up on love and never settle for less than you deserve x "
They keep dying on me
I ain't killing another! |
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It's always nice to get a compliment
The amount of guys that told me they'd always fancied me when I split with my ex. Some were friends I'd known for yrs.
Just a shame when u wouldn't be used to getting them, u don't know how to react when u do 
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Definitely am a believer in this. Did it myself with Mr a year ago and a year later we're engaged and happier than ever. Best compliment and best idea I had chasing him. So don't be scared to admit to someone sure the worst can happen is their not interested |
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"Was talking to one of my single friends today who would love to meet her Mr Right. She is beautiful inside and out so I said to her that everyday a stranger or someone she knows fancies her but doesn't have the courage (for whatever reason) to tell her. How many of us have been attracted to someone and didn't have the courage to say. I know myself that if someone told me that they fancied me I'd be delighted. Obviously I'm in a relationship so I would never act on it but I'd be flattered. Wouldn't it be great if for one day everyone had the courage to tell their crush that they think they're hot, how many admirers would we have, maybe someone at the bus stop who we see each morning or the office delivery guy. I'm a hopeless romantic lol "
I'd have to sense some body language that she might be into me before I'd say anything |
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"Definitely am a believer in this. Did it myself with Mr a year ago and a year later we're engaged and happier than ever. Best compliment and best idea I had chasing him. So don't be scared to admit to someone sure the worst can happen is their not interested "
Excellent and delighted for both of you!
That's the message to send.
Chance your arm and see what happens. Worst is rejection but at least you know then and can focus on the rest of your future
Even better if more ladies got out of the "he has to ask me" mindset, like you did  |
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By *ineMan
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"Life is too bloody short.
Tell the one you care for.
Wish I had the balls...
This...... "
FFS don't listen to me. I tried it recently, cocked up badly, and got blocked too. Its probably too late for me to change that now
Find your own way.
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