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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Today my friend and I had a chat about her 18yr old daughter, and she's joined a dating site to meet men.
My friend and I think she's way too young and should be out there meeting guys the old fashioned way through college and socially.
So I done a little experiment tonight and I'm shocked by what I've discovered just now to see how many 18 yr olds are on fab and I'm shocked to see Donegal had two MEET VERIFIED PROFILES on here.
There's 1 in Wexford.
1 in Westmeath.
1 in Mayo.
1 in Galway.
Dublin our capital has none.
Cork=Zero
Limerick=None
My daughter is 20 and I certainly wouldn't be happy to see her on a swinging site.
How would you feel if YOUR DAUGHTER was on here?
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over a year ago
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Well if I have a daughter in years to come I wouldn't like her to be here but it would be hypocritical of me. I'd want her to fall in love at 16 and marry the guy later in life and live happily ever after but more than likely she will be having casual sex as a teen. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Omg dirty Donegal! 
While in general I agree it's a better way for young people to build up experience by socialising rather than websites, it seems to become more and more the norm that youngsters use the web to date or experiment their sexuality and theoretically there's nothing wrong with it if it weren't for nativity, being gullible and not having developed the instinct for predators that lurk on here. It all boils down to the maturity of each individual and their 'street smartness'. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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RO.
I have no problem with my daughter trying swinging when she's older more mature but I personally think 18 is so young.
I'm a older woman so when my daughter is in her 30's obviously it's her choice and decision I'm hoping she will be sexually capable by then.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Doghunter.
Yes! DurtyDonegal!
Who'd have ever thought?
My first post so apologies if I'm not doing it right 
At 18 I feel like it's she's still so immature and could be easily taken advantage of.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"RO.
I have no problem with my daughter trying swinging when she's older more mature but I personally think 18 is so young.
I'm a older woman so when my daughter is in her 30's obviously it's her choice and decision I'm hoping she will be sexually capable by then.
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People are having sex at 14/15. Alot would have already had sexual activity with 10 or more people by 18. I'm only reaching those numbers now at 26 haha. People are growing up faster than ever. They're not as innocent as you think. |
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"Today my friend and I had a chat about her 18yr old daughter, and she's joined a dating site to meet men.
My friend and I think she's way too young and should be out there meeting guys the old fashioned way through college and socially.
So I done a little experiment tonight and I'm shocked by what I've discovered just now to see how many 18 yr olds are on fab and I'm shocked to see Donegal had two MEET VERIFIED PROFILES on here.
There's 1 in Wexford.
1 in Westmeath.
1 in Mayo.
1 in Galway.
Dublin our capital has none.
Cork=Zero
Limerick=None
My daughter is 20 and I certainly wouldn't be happy to see her on a swinging site.
How would you feel if YOUR DAUGHTER was on here?
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What business is it of yours what site she is on or exploring ? I was on here since I was 18 and know others also ? It hasn’t affected me.
Tinder is as bad if not worse as it’s not as private as fab profiles or similar sites and every young one is on it am sure your friend maybe be on about tinder . |
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My daughter is 16 and I would not be happy! Kids are way to young to be having nsa. I was 16 when I started having sex and I’ve been totally open with my daughter about my experiences. If she did want to join a site I would be chatting with her and advising her.
People lie about their ages on this all the time so a 18 yr old could well be under age! I won’t go under 25 and even at that I’m wary of meeting them as they tend to be younger.
Whatever happened to meeting people and having personal experience and not just through a site! It’s how you grow and develop and mature |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can understand that if you had kids you wouldn't like them on here but put it into perspective what would your parents say if they found out you we're on here?  age shouldn't be a factor everyone has there own preference at the end of the day and it's there choice to be here also.  even I'm still classed as too young and I get on great so I've no complaints. Also I love how it's based on an 18yr girl are 18yr boys not classed in this too? |
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"I can understand that if you had kids you wouldn't like them on here but put it into perspective what would your parents say if they found out you we're on here? age shouldn't be a factor everyone has there own preference at the end of the day and it's there choice to be here also. even I'm still classed as too young and I get on great so I've no complaints. Also I love how it's based on an 18yr girl are 18yr boys not classed in this too? "
I wouldn’t want my son on here either not till they are older |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My daughter is 16 and I would not be happy! Kids are way to young to be having nsa. I was 16 when I started having sex and I’ve been totally open with my daughter about my experiences. If she did want to join a site I would be chatting with her and advising her.
People lie about their ages on this all the time so a 18 yr old could well be under age! I won’t go under 25 and even at that I’m wary of meeting them as they tend to be younger.
Whatever happened to meeting people and having personal experience and not just through a site! It’s how you grow and develop and mature"
Fabbers are human too,you know.
Honestly, I'm not sure what people's issue is, if someone is over the age of consent, then they make their own choices. Its not as though the d*unken (or under other influences) night out scene isn't without its risks and bad decisions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that we need to understand how much exposure 18 year olds have online nowadays! Fab is a step up but probably not far off tinder or the likes. Best thing to do is to educate I suppose. |
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"I think that we need to understand how much exposure 18 year olds have online nowadays! Fab is a step up but probably not far off tinder or the likes. Best thing to do is to educate I suppose. "
Correct I think the older generation don’t realize fully |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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Age does not equate to maturity. There are some who have figured out their likes and dislikes earlier than others. I have adult children and what they do sexually is their business as long as they are safe and clued in which I do consider them to be.
No judgement from me on this one. And I am aware of one of my adult children being on a site and have dealt with it exactly as above.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well agree on dating thing bit young but if there only looking for bit fun there adults so can make there own decision once there smart about it lot weird guys on this and after reading about that tinder guy women and even men have be more cautious when meeting people online |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just read through all the comments completely forgot about the post sorry.
I have to laugh at the anger of some of the replies.
It's none of my business I'm simply giving my opinion that I think it's too young.
At 18 these young people should be out with their friends socialising and meeting people in college. The tinder rapist is one of the reasons I'd be very concerned obviously.
Plus at 18 is anyone really that sexually mature not to be taken advantage of? Young teens are easily manipulated and when I think of all the older men looking to meet younger girls it makes me shudder!!
Yes I think it's sick and no I'd not be happy with a 48yr old man fucking my 20yr old daughter.
Thankfully my daughter is in college and has a excellent social life lots of friends and a boyfriend so I don't have to worry about her like that.
Maybe some day she will join a site like this but right now she's doing the normal thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well agree on dating thing bit young but if there only looking for bit fun there adults so can make there own decision once there smart about it lot weird guys on this and after reading about that tinder guy women and even men have be more cautious when meeting people online"
I completely agree.
Finally know how to reply to messages on a post. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think that we need to understand how much exposure 18 year olds have online nowadays! Fab is a step up but probably not far off tinder or the likes. Best thing to do is to educate I suppose.
Correct I think the older
generation don’t realize fully "
Ouch talk about angry. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My daughter is 16 and I would not be happy! Kids are way to young to be having nsa. I was 16 when I started having sex and I’ve been totally open with my daughter about my experiences. If she did want to join a site I would be chatting with her and advising her.
People lie about their ages on this all the time so a 18 yr old could well be under age! I won’t go under 25 and even at that I’m wary of meeting them as they tend to be younger.
Whatever happened to meeting people and having personal experience and not just through a site! It’s how you grow and develop and mature"
Very well said.
God could you imagine a mother and daughter being on fab! OMG! |
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I joined a site similar to fab when I was in my early 20's but I do agree they should be out meeting people in the pub college etc.
The internet is and has become a dangerous place for people. Especially younger people.
Christ I sound like an auld lad |
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About 80% + of young people now meet online. The art of face to face conversation, charm etc is gone from initial first meetings. Online is the new norm.
Two of my sons met their wives online, the 3rd met his wife in Coppers. Lol
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"About 80% + of young people now meet online. The art of face to face conversation, charm etc is gone from initial first meetings. Online is the new norm.
Two of my sons met their wives online, the 3rd met his wife in Coppers. Lol
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Good auld Coppers. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Just read through all the comments completely forgot about the post sorry.
I have to laugh at the anger of some of the replies.
It's none of my business I'm simply giving my opinion that I think it's too young.
At 18 these young people should be out with their friends socialising and meeting people in college. The tinder rapist is one of the reasons I'd be very concerned obviously.
Plus at 18 is anyone really that sexually mature not to be taken advantage of? Young teens are easily manipulated and when I think of all the older men looking to meet younger girls it makes me shudder!!
Yes I think it's sick and no I'd not be happy with a 48yr old man fucking my 20yr old daughter.
Thankfully my daughter is in college and has a excellent social life lots of friends and a boyfriend so I don't have to worry about her like that.
Maybe some day she will join a site like this but right now she's doing the normal thing."
There's plenty older women drooling over twenty something guys and that is ok is it in ur mind |
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"About 80% + of young people now meet online. The art of face to face conversation, charm etc is gone from initial first meetings. Online is the new norm.
Two of my sons met their wives online, the 3rd met his wife in Coppers. Lol
Good auld Coppers."
Should be called the LUV Garden or something similar. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Today my friend and I had a chat about her 18yr old daughter, and she's joined a dating site to meet men.
My friend and I think she's way too young and should be out there meeting guys the old fashioned way through college and socially.
So I done a little experiment tonight and I'm shocked by what I've discovered just now to see how many 18 yr olds are on fab and I'm shocked to see Donegal had two MEET VERIFIED PROFILES on here.
There's 1 in Wexford.
1 in Westmeath.
1 in Mayo.
1 in Galway.
Dublin our capital has none.
Cork=Zero
Limerick=None
My daughter is 20 and I certainly wouldn't be happy to see her on a swinging site.
How would you feel if YOUR DAUGHTER was on here?
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Why to young why do they feel it's necessary I'll never know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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God could you imagine a mother and daughter being on fab! OMG!
That's happened I believe they are still here well one is  "
It's a small world and I imagine similar things happen fairly frequently
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18 year old joined up, made her way through all the chat regulars, aged from 35 - 50 years old.
A lot of them had said previously that 18 was too young for them, when chatting to 30 year old women.
Women would be much less likely to be with an 18 year old from my experience on here anyway. Although a lot of them might have sex with a young guy if he stays around for a while.
In conclusion. even 10 years ago 18 year olds were going dogging with 50 year old men they met online and having strangers bend them over cars. Nothing has changed. |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"Just read through all the comments completely forgot about the post sorry.
I have to laugh at the anger of some of the replies.
It's none of my business I'm simply giving my opinion that I think it's too young.
At 18 these young people should be out with their friends socialising and meeting people in college. The tinder rapist is one of the reasons I'd be very concerned obviously.
Plus at 18 is anyone really that sexually mature not to be taken advantage of? Young teens are easily manipulated and when I think of all the older men looking to meet younger girls it makes me shudder!!
Yes I think it's sick and no I'd not be happy with a 48yr old man fucking my 20yr old daughter.
Thankfully my daughter is in college and has a excellent social life lots of friends and a boyfriend so I don't have to worry about her like that.
Maybe some day she will join a site like this but right now she's doing the normal thing."
People are allowed to disagree with you. Just because an opinion isn't the same as yours doesn't mean it is angry.
Normal people are swinger's. If you think it's so wrong, why are you on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just read through all the comments completely forgot about the post sorry.
I have to laugh at the anger of some of the replies.
It's none of my business I'm simply giving my opinion that I think it's too young.
At 18 these young people should be out with their friends socialising and meeting people in college. The tinder rapist is one of the reasons I'd be very concerned obviously.
Plus at 18 is anyone really that sexually mature not to be taken advantage of? Young teens are easily manipulated and when I think of all the older men looking to meet younger girls it makes me shudder!!
Yes I think it's sick and no I'd not be happy with a 48yr old man fucking my 20yr old daughter.
Thankfully my daughter is in college and has a excellent social life lots of friends and a boyfriend so I don't have to worry about her like that.
Maybe some day she will join a site like this but right now she's doing the normal thing.
People are allowed to disagree with you. Just because an opinion isn't the same as yours doesn't mean it is angry.
Normal people are swinger's. If you think it's so wrong, why are you on here? "
No normal people aren't swingers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Normal people are swinger's. If you think it's so wrong, why are you on here?
Hit the nail on the head there Madame B  "
But surely normal people don't let other people ##### their partner. |
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Normal people are swinger's. If you think it's so wrong, why are you on here?
Hit the nail on the head there Madame B But surely normal people don't let other people ##### their partner. "
Normal to some may not be normal to others.... it's called life... |
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Normal people are swinger's. If you think it's so wrong, why are you on here?
Hit the nail on the head there Madame B But surely normal people don't let other people ##### their partner. "
You're right, they don't.
It's only the superhumans that let that happen, cos they're ####ing the ####ers partner at the same time. Not sure but I think it's called "swinging" but obviously you might want to correct me |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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Normal people are swinger's. If you think it's so wrong, why are you on here?
Hit the nail on the head there Madame B But surely normal people don't let other people ##### their partner.
Normal to some may not be normal to others.... it's called life..."
And it's just Normal people doing their normal thing. |
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Normal people are swinger's. If you think it's so wrong, why are you on here?
Hit the nail on the head there Madame B But surely normal people don't let other people ##### their partner.
Normal to some may not be normal to others.... it's called life...
And it's just Normal people doing their normal thing. "
Exactly |
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Normal people are swinger's. If you think it's so wrong, why are you on here?
Hit the nail on the head there Madame B But surely normal people don't let other people ##### their partner.
Normal to some may not be normal to others.... it's called life...
And it's just Normal people doing their normal thing.
Exactly"
No their is nothing normal about ###### someone else's partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Normal people are swinger's. If you think it's so wrong, why are you on here?
Hit the nail on the head there Madame B But surely normal people don't let other people ##### their partner.
Normal to some may not be normal to others.... it's called life...
And it's just Normal people doing their normal thing.
Exactly No their is nothing normal about ###### someone else's partner."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Normal people are swinger's. If you think it's so wrong, why are you on here?
Hit the nail on the head there Madame B But surely normal people don't let other people ##### their partner.
Normal to some may not be normal to others.... it's called life...
And it's just Normal people doing their normal thing.
Exactly No their is nothing normal about ###### someone else's partner. *there "
Where I can't see it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh it's hilarious to see the hypocrisy at times, if you don't agree with the lifestyle why stay on fab?
L Who me?"
I was talking in general, but you must feel the cap fits so  no there seems to be a few here that see swinging as wrong, immoral etc.. and I just wonder why they are here so.
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"Oh it's hilarious to see the hypocrisy at times, if you don't agree with the lifestyle why stay on fab?
L Who me?
I was talking in general, but you must feel the cap fits so no there seems to be a few here that see swinging as wrong, immoral etc.. and I just wonder why they are here so.
L"
I don't know what other people's reasons for being on here. But I do know why I'm here.I could actually do with a good cap if you have one to spare. |
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