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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!!  |
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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! "
To be fair, they'd probably need a secretary if they were to answer each and every mail.
It's bound to be time consuming and 90% of people on here have lives outside of fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?
Taken from the site FAQs page - try reading them before lambasting 51% of the population.
"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! "
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! "
Send it on a postcard they'll send you back  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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yes prob best allright,lol,hey women why bother putting up posts then if you arent going to msg back,and as for moaning,well its the women i am with who usually do that lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yes prob best allright,lol,hey women why bother putting up posts then if you arent going to msg back,and as for moaning,well its the women i am with who usually do that lmao "
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Eh I’m sorry why would I reply to all mails when the rules state no reply means not interested! We are not here for your pleasure but our own. Don’t like the attitude you know where the delete account button is 
Actually sick of the messages from men who DON’T READ so why should I waste my time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! "
So we have a psychic here that can tell what's true or not , that being the case you should already know why your not getting reply s
I used try reply to all messages , shits s your thanks
Some folk on here assume a reply means a meet , can't take no not interested as a an answer ...
As some one else said no reply not interested move on ,
And ya very informative profile !!!!
Still wondering why no reply ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our profile clearly states we are only attending parties and clubs and are not doing one on one meets with singles or couples at the moment, however we still endeavour to reply to all who've taken time to write us a message, but "Hey how are u?", "How you enjoying the site?" or "Having any fun lately" do not in our mind warrant reply, ever.
A "Nice pics and great profile" message will get a simple "Thank you  "
Flattery will get you everywhere with us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Omg come on I mean cop the fuck on...
It should be really obvious.
How are you or how's your day going or my fav nsa ...
Be original it's boring reading some stupid mails...
Why should I waste MY time.. |
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Most guys don't read profiles send messages even when your profile says not meeting new people.
I use to reply saying not meeting and then get one back saying well let's chat.. . Eh no.
Also how do you reply to Nice tits or wanna fuck . So OP manage your own profile and let others manage theirs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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**site rules say no reply no interest
**do you reply to all junk mail put through your front door?? No because you didn't ask for it or you are not interested
**maybe if someone puts up a status, they got a reply and found what they are looking for and maybe that wasn't you?
**we all get ignored but no point in giving out about it just move on to the next victim
We changed our profile to let people know our summer meeting plans and put it as our status to draw the attention there.... And the messages started instantly... Looking to meet??? Like ffs am I supposed to take time out of my day to politely reply to all these men that didn't take 2 seconds of their time to read the first line of our profile?!
I made a conscious decision afew weeks ago to answer every single mail that we got and I'm sorry but it won't be happening again... From zero effort to just pure abusive I won't be doing that again.
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"**site rules say no reply no interest
**do you reply to all junk mail put through your front door?? No because you didn't ask for it or you are not interested
**maybe if someone puts up a status, they got a reply and found what they are looking for and maybe that wasn't you?
**we all get ignored but no point in giving out about it just move on to the next victim
We changed our profile to let people know our summer meeting plans and put it as our status to draw the attention there.... And the messages started instantly... Looking to meet??? Like ffs am I supposed to take time out of my day to politely reply to all these men that didn't take 2 seconds of their time to read the first line of our profile?!
I made a conscious decision afew weeks ago to answer every single mail that we got and I'm sorry but it won't be happening again... From zero effort to just pure abusive I won't be doing that again.
Hope this answers your question/statement op "
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Filters are wonderful... I rarely get mail (especially just now with my profile hidden), but at least when I do, its from people who are within my preferences.
So I do agree that all those thread comments and status updates bragging/whining about having too much mail is pure attention seeking... unless you're genuinely open to meeting absolutely anyone at all aged between 18 and 99, unverified even by photo, without any public pics, and who only joined in the past week? Really?? Honestly???  |
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I have my filters pretty sorted so I don't get much mail, but I do read the forums a lot and use them to form opinions. Occasionally I change my filters depending on who or what I'm looking for.
I certainly wouldn't respond to someone who gets angry about not getting a response (when the site rules state that no response means not interested). If someone can't follow the site rules they probably wouldn't have a good reaction to a rejection mail.
Just my opinion of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! "
A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are. |
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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are."
And rightly so. |
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are."
Ahhhh didums... don't worry it's nearly the weekend.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are.
And rightly so. "
Oh God that's for sure. I mean who else is going to tell them on a site like this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are.
Ahhhh didums... don't worry it's nearly the weekend. "
Ok Mummy. |
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are.
Ahhhh didums... don't worry it's nearly the weekend. Ok Mummy."
Good boy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are.
Ahhhh didums... don't worry it's nearly the weekend. Ok Mummy.
Good boy. "
Mummy can I stay in your bed tonight. |
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are.
Ahhhh didums... don't worry it's nearly the weekend. Ok Mummy.
Good boy. Mummy can I stay in your bed tonight."
Youh can't even stay in my locality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are.
Ahhhh didums... don't worry it's nearly the weekend. Ok Mummy.
Good boy. Mummy can I stay in your bed tonight.
Youh can't even stay in my locality. "
But I promise to be good mummy.I won't go near your head lights or try to put my boat into your harbor. |
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are.
Ahhhh didums... don't worry it's nearly the weekend. Ok Mummy.
Good boy. Mummy can I stay in your bed tonight.
Youh can't even stay in my locality. But I promise to be good mummy.I won't go near your head lights or try to put my boat into your harbor."
That's not a bit weird...ehh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are.
Ahhhh didums... don't worry it's nearly the weekend. Ok Mummy.
Good boy. Mummy can I stay in your bed tonight.
Youh can't even stay in my locality. But I promise to be good mummy.I won't go near your head lights or try to put my boat into your harbor.
That's not a bit weird...ehh"
No mummy I'm not weird.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are.
Ahhhh didums... don't worry it's nearly the weekend. Ok Mummy.
Good boy. Mummy can I stay in your bed tonight.
Youh can't even stay in my locality. But I promise to be good mummy.I won't go near your head lights or try to put my boat into your harbor.
That's not a bit weird...ehh No mummy I'm not weird. "
 this site cracks me up.. no wonder its hard for single fellas here with this carry on  |
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are.
Ahhhh didums... don't worry it's nearly the weekend. Ok Mummy.
Good boy. Mummy can I stay in your bed tonight.
Youh can't even stay in my locality. But I promise to be good mummy.I won't go near your head lights or try to put my boat into your harbor.
That's not a bit weird...ehh No mummy I'm not weird.
this site cracks me up.. no wonder its hard for single fellas here with this carry on "
the only universe in which single guys would find it harder by that carry on was if this site was renamed trollswingers.com
and even then not so much |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are.
Ahhhh didums... don't worry it's nearly the weekend. Ok Mummy.
Good boy. Mummy can I stay in your bed tonight.
Youh can't even stay in my locality. But I promise to be good mummy.I won't go near your head lights or try to put my boat into your harbor.
That's not a bit weird...ehh No mummy I'm not weird.
this site cracks me up.. no wonder its hard for single fellas here with this carry on
the only universe in which single guys would find it harder by that carry on was if this site was renamed trollswingers.com
and even then not so much "
if this is what most single lads are like on here, then i dont blame girls or couples for not writing back to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There should be an auto reply function just tap to send a polite no thanks. Everyone wins "
Or people could use their common sense to infer it from the lack of a reply. Everyone wins that way too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Eh I’m sorry why would I reply to all mails when the rules state no reply means not interested! We are not here for your pleasure but our own. Don’t like the attitude you know where the delete account button is
Actually sick of the messages from men who DON’T READ so why should I waste my time "
This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There should be an auto reply function just tap to send a polite no thanks. Everyone wins "
That would be so handy but with a function that they can't reply back to no thank you because usually it's thought 'ooooh I got a reply they're interested' 
I know there's a block button but I save that for the really special ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are."
Or maybe it's because they have lives outside of fab...ya know work,kids,family and friends stuff like that and replying to every msg isn't possible...and prob because they've had time wasters msg in the past on top of it all.. |
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are.
Ahhhh didums... don't worry it's nearly the weekend. Ok Mummy.
Good boy. Mummy can I stay in your bed tonight.
Youh can't even stay in my locality. But I promise to be good mummy.I won't go near your head lights or try to put my boat into your harbor.
That's not a bit weird...ehh No mummy I'm not weird.
this site cracks me up.. no wonder its hard for single fellas here with this carry on
the only universe in which single guys would find it harder by that carry on was if this site was renamed trollswingers.com
and even then not so much
if this is what most single lads are like on here, then i dont blame girls or couples for not writing back to them"
I think most of the single lads are afraid to say what they think in case they upset the ladies.I always find it's better say what you think than to be sucking up to people. |
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are.
Ahhhh didums... don't worry it's nearly the weekend. Ok Mummy.
Good boy. Mummy can I stay in your bed tonight.
Youh can't even stay in my locality. But I promise to be good mummy.I won't go near your head lights or try to put my boat into your harbor.
That's not a bit weird...ehh No mummy I'm not weird.
this site cracks me up.. no wonder its hard for single fellas here with this carry on
the only universe in which single guys would find it harder by that carry on was if this site was renamed trollswingers.com
and even then not so much
if this is what most single lads are like on here, then i dont blame girls or couples for not writing back to them I think most of the single lads are afraid to say what they think in case they upset the ladies.I always find it's better say what you think than to be sucking up to people."
I dont think single lads are afraid to speak their minds.just read the forums .they well able to post.they may not like other peoples opinnions though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP, a few things.
1. Your profile is only seven weeks old and very sparse.
2. You only have one verification and it's not very impressive IMHO.
3. We are not at your beck and call. Some of us receive hundreds of messages a day. Until the site comes up with a sophisticated form of filtering out the blank/lameass/dickus profiles, it gets rather tiresome writing out endless variations of "no, thank you".
4. Even when we DO answer, we run the risk of getting rude responses. One such specimen who went at length in initial contacts assuring me that he liked "curvy large women" ended up calling me a 'fat whore' because I rejected him. For that reason, the creators of fab have created a way to stop people sending repeat messages and expecting responses.
5. If you don't fancy your odds here, go to a singles bar. Chances are if you can't score there then you won't get much luck here either. |
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"OP, a few things.
1. Your profile is only seven weeks old and very sparse.
2. You only have one verification and it's not very impressive IMHO.
3. We are not at your beck and call. Some of us receive hundreds of messages a day. Until the site comes up with a sophisticated form of filtering out the blank/lameass/dickus profiles, it gets rather tiresome writing out endless variations of "no, thank you".
4. Even when we DO answer, we run the risk of getting rude responses. One such specimen who went at length in initial contacts assuring me that he liked "curvy large women" ended up calling me a 'fat whore' because I rejected him. For that reason, the creators of fab have created a way to stop people sending repeat messages and expecting responses.
5. If you don't fancy your odds here, go to a singles bar. Chances are if you can't score there then you won't get much luck here either."
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If I don't get a reply or it gets deleted then enough said. I haven't made an impression and I don't expect the lady to try and formulate a reply.
Take your oil and move on.
Maybe a site improvement would be to have default "polite" responses as radio buttons that send a wee reply and delete the email at the same time.  |
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"If I don't get a reply or it gets deleted then enough said. I haven't made an impression and I don't expect the lady to try and formulate a reply.
Take your oil and move on.
Maybe a site improvement would be to have default "polite" responses as radio buttons that send a wee reply and delete the email at the same time. "
And add in an automatic block function |
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! "
Its saves on the horrible nasty abuse we get when we reply with a no thanks. So yes I'd take been called rude any day over the abuse |
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"must be great for all the women,who get soooooooooooooo much mail,that they cant be bothered to reply to a mail,even by no thanks.systematic of the way this site has gone down over the last number of years,but they luv to put posts up,on their status,which is very rarely true!!!!! A lot of them probably are to busy looking at themselves in the mirror telling themselves how wonderful and important they are.
Ahhhh didums... don't worry it's nearly the weekend. Ok Mummy.
Good boy. Mummy can I stay in your bed tonight.
Youh can't even stay in my locality. But I promise to be good mummy.I won't go near your head lights or try to put my boat into your harbor.
That's not a bit weird...ehh No mummy I'm not weird.
this site cracks me up.. no wonder its hard for single fellas here with this carry on
the only universe in which single guys would find it harder by that carry on was if this site was renamed trollswingers.com
and even then not so much
if this is what most single lads are like on here, then i dont blame girls or couples for not writing back to them I think most of the single lads are afraid to say what they think in case they upset the ladies.I always find it's better say what you think than to be sucking up to people."
your right there it's kinda pathetic tho I feel |
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"Because you send a message doesnt mean you're owed a reply, you are owed nothing. Put on your big boy pants, dry your eyes and move the fuck on"
you chill out please
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