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"Half the guys on here say Hi it gets monotonous if someone is giving you a clue what pisses them off and you are moaning about it then you have a lot to learn.  "
I'm gay and its mostly on women's profiles so doesn't actually affect me, but just find it a bit weird. What's a good alternative to Hi then? |
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"Half the guys on here say Hi it gets monotonous if someone is giving you a clue what pisses them off and you are moaning about it then you have a lot to learn.
I'm gay and its mostly on women's profiles so doesn't actually affect me, but just find it a bit weird. What's a good alternative to Hi then?"
What on earth is your issue then! |
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"Half the guys on here say Hi it gets monotonous if someone is giving you a clue what pisses them off and you are moaning about it then you have a lot to learn. "
At least he is asking what else he could say. First messages are over hyped on here a little bit. Yes you want to "stand out" but most good conversations develop organicially anyway and not with some convoluted opening line.
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"Half the guys on here say Hi it gets monotonous if someone is giving you a clue what pisses them off and you are moaning about it then you have a lot to learn.
I'm gay and its mostly on women's profiles so doesn't actually affect me, but just find it a bit weird. What's a good alternative to Hi then?
What on earth is your issue then! "
Like I said, I just find it a bit weird to say don't start a conversation with Hi. Just wondering what they want people to say instead |
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"What's up with people saying not to start a conversation with Hi, how are you etc? What else would you say to someone first??"
If you can try and relate it to something you liked in their profile.
I have given uo profile searching and only mail people I like the sound of off the forum which helps with the opening mail already.
The odd time a funny status uodate will catch my eye but again that helps with a first mail |
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"Half the guys on here say Hi it gets monotonous if someone is giving you a clue what pisses them off and you are moaning about it then you have a lot to learn.
At least he is asking what else he could say. First messages are over hyped on here a little bit. Yes you want to "stand out" but most good conversations develop organicially anyway and not with some convoluted opening line.
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What do you say to the bi/gay guys you contact in your first message? |
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"Half the guys on here say Hi it gets monotonous if someone is giving you a clue what pisses them off and you are moaning about it then you have a lot to learn.
At least he is asking what else he could say. First messages are over hyped on here a little bit. Yes you want to "stand out" but most good conversations develop organicially anyway and not with some convoluted opening line.
What do you say to the bi/gay guys you contact in your first message?"
Afraid I am straight, but I have already tried to give my advoce to the OP above, I'm not sure the approach needs to change dramatically depending om the gender or sexual oriantation of the person |
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"Half the guys on here say Hi it gets monotonous if someone is giving you a clue what pisses them off and you are moaning about it then you have a lot to learn.
At least he is asking what else he could say. First messages are over hyped on here a little bit. Yes you want to "stand out" but most good conversations develop organicially anyway and not with some convoluted opening line.
What do you say to the bi/gay guys you contact in your first message?"
Hi, how are you? Something along those lines |
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"Half the guys on here say Hi it gets monotonous if someone is giving you a clue what pisses them off and you are moaning about it then you have a lot to learn.
At least he is asking what else he could say. First messages are over hyped on here a little bit. Yes you want to "stand out" but most good conversations develop organicially anyway and not with some convoluted opening line.
What do you say to the bi/gay guys you contact in your first message?
Afraid I am straight, but I have already tried to give my advoce to the OP above, I'm not sure the approach needs to change dramatically depending om the gender or sexual oriantation of the person"
Ok so that's what you say to the guys well good luck with that. |
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"Half the guys on here say Hi it gets monotonous if someone is giving you a clue what pisses them off and you are moaning about it then you have a lot to learn.
At least he is asking what else he could say. First messages are over hyped on here a little bit. Yes you want to "stand out" but most good conversations develop organicially anyway and not with some convoluted opening line.
What do you say to the bi/gay guys you contact in your first message?
Afraid I am straight, but I have already tried to give my advoce to the OP above, I'm not sure the approach needs to change dramatically depending om the gender or sexual oriantation of the person
Ok so that's what you say to the guys well good luck with that. "
Have plenty of luck with it thanks  |
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"What's up with people saying not to start a conversation with Hi, how are you etc? What else would you say to someone first??"
...because most of those convos go:
"Hi"
"Hi"
"How are you?
"Great thanks. You?"
"Fancy meeting?"
"No thanks"
"F*#$ off ya fat slag"
So no don't just start with Hi. Say a bit about yourself to give the other person a clue to wtf you are about. |
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"What's up with people saying not to start a conversation with Hi, how are you etc? What else would you say to someone first??
...because most of those convos go:
"Hi"
"Hi"
"How are you?
"Great thanks. You?"
"Fancy meeting?"
"No thanks"
"F*#$ off ya fat slag"
So no don't just start with Hi. Say a bit about yourself to give the other person a clue to wtf you are about."
Isn't that what your profile is for? |
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"What's up with people saying not to start a conversation with Hi, how are you etc? What else would you say to someone first??
...because most of those convos go:
"Hi"
"Hi"
"How are you?
"Great thanks. You?"
"Fancy meeting?"
"No thanks"
"F*#$ off ya fat slag"
So no don't just start with Hi. Say a bit about yourself to give the other person a clue to wtf you are about.
Isn't that what your profile is for?"
You right BoyforDaddy...that's what the profile is for..if she want to know more about you , she can go and look at your profile too...I usually say Hi first then ask to meet up...I am not looking a girlfriend from here just fun..there are other site for dating girlfriend/boyfriend....No meet then in my block trash list...why stressing when you have the block button ....Thank you Admin  |
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Nothing wrong with being polite (although on here I have found it doesn’t make a blind bit of difference). If you were in a pub or club how would you approach someone and introduce yourself?
Manners and being polite cost nothing. I |
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"Wanna see my cock is a much better way to start  oh yes and loads of cock pictures never get enough woodie doesn't appreciate them though
Especially the ones sitting on the loo ....hot or what "
although if the seat is up |
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"What's up with people saying not to start a conversation with Hi, how are you etc? What else would you say to someone first??
...because most of those convos go:
"Hi"
"Hi"
"How are you?
"Great thanks. You?"
"Fancy meeting?"
"No thanks"
"F*#$ off ya fat slag"
So no don't just start with Hi. Say a bit about yourself to give the other person a clue to wtf you are about.
Isn't that what your profile is for?"
I would need a reason to look at their profile. 50 hi messages just get deleted. I'm not that desparate for a fuck ta. |
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"Wanna see my cock is a much better way to start oh yes and loads of cock pictures never get enough woodie doesn't appreciate them though
Especially the ones sitting on the loo ....hot or what although if the seat is up "
Cream myself ....i do like watersports |
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"Half the guys on here say Hi it gets monotonous if someone is giving you a clue what pisses them off and you are moaning about it then you have a lot to learn. "
Honestly most of the time I start with something like that...if I can talk about something that they put in their profile great! But it isn’t alway that easy when most profiles are not so much about them as a person, but more about what they don’t want, or want sexually... so it kinda difficult not to use a generic opening line... unless your a person who likes to open with want to fuck?... |
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