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Calling all Asians!
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By *ists003 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
Hi guys
How comes there's no exclusive meet for Asian men and women?
If we can get enough people down, I would love it if we all get together in one place for a social... maybe make it a monthly thing? |
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"Hi guys
How comes there's no exclusive meet for Asian men and women?
If we can get enough people down, I would love it if we all get together in one place for a social... maybe make it a monthly thing?"
Great idea! There needs to be a small community of Asians/ South Asian meets. I'm down. |
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I suspect that you will get a more limited response if you keep it to south Asians, better to open it up to all Asians. You might get a better response.
Socials only work if lots of women and couples turn up, otherwise it'll just be a sausage fest |
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It will never happen for the below reasons:
1) Way too many Asian men compared to the MF / F on here
2) Discretion and word spreads like fire in the Asian community if one cant keep their mouth shut
3) Some Asian men do not know how to interact / treat others |
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By *arkLustCouple (MM)
over a year ago
London / Essex |
We used to run parties exclsuively for Asian and Middle Eastern ladies under the aegis of Bollywood Private - There certainly is not a lack of them here but they invariably seem to block out single guys from messaging. From experience I would say it is no more/less difficult to arrange meets with Asians than it is with people of other races. You just need to know how to out the fantasists who only want to talk about it. |
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I can wholly understand the need for south Asian and Asian only groups, with the noticeably hostility from the general non Asian community here.
I can’t see us attending any events but like above said, if there is a way to remove fantasist then that’s a win for those wanting to have a fun social . |
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"It will never happen for the below reasons:
1) Way too many Asian men compared to the MF / F on here
2) Discretion and word spreads like fire in the Asian community if one cant keep their mouth shut
3) Some Asian men do not know how to interact / treat others"
Sadly this is true |
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"It will never happen for the below reasons:
1) Way too many Asian men compared to the MF / F on here
2) Discretion and word spreads like fire in the Asian community if one cant keep their mouth shut
3) Some Asian men do not know how to interact / treat others
Sadly this is true "
This is precisely the reason why we are out!! |
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"It will never happen for the below reasons:
1) Way too many Asian men compared to the MF / F on here
2) Discretion and word spreads like fire in the Asian community if one cant keep their mouth shut
3) Some Asian men do not know how to interact / treat others"
Quite the generalization. Do you have numbers to back this up?
At any rate, I’m in.
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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago
Croydon |
Maybe I've been lucky - had a fair few meets off here, and even a long relationship.
Flip side is a lot of profiles do say no Asians, and no issue with that as everyone has preferences - same way I prefer curvy girls as opposed to slimmer ones, although the 'no asians' thing I'd suggest is partly how I've seen behaviours at clubs etc that Def don't do decent Asian guys any favours. |
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How did a thread for wanting more inclusivity for more Asians - a fairly innocent thread I might add - become a tirade for racist comments under the guise of “their behavior” and “preferences”?
I doubt the poster wanted to know about your personal feelings about Asians. |
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By *inkyguymkMan
over a year ago
Pattaya, Thailand |
"How did a thread for wanting more inclusivity for more Asians - a fairly innocent thread I might add - become a tirade for racist comments under the guise of “their behavior” and “preferences”?
I doubt the poster wanted to know about your personal feelings about Asians."
I think if you read the post correctly, it not inclusive whatsoever. It clearly states "exclusive". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting idea but will need a lot of work and I suspect the first few metres will not be great but build on it and I think with the help of a free more people it is something that could be worth trying. Let’s not leave it to one person. These comments of how Asian men behave etc well there are aholes in all races and so much of this is just stereotypes. |
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Sounds like a great idea, definitely up for building on this
Agree with the generalisation that Asian men don't know how to behave/treat others.....been to many clubs and events and it's not the Asian guys that don't know how to behave, it's most guys who don't understand boundaries / consent / communication/ lack social skills |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think this idea needs to start on a smaller scale. Limited numbers so it’s easier to control and also build the reputation up somewhat. If anyone is interested in the South London area then let’s chat about it a little more. |
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Sorry for being radio silent
I completely forgot I posted this in the first place and was never getting any notifications on my phone,as a result a whole parade of conversations had taken place without me providing any input so I do apologise for this...
Now in terms of setting a meet, I'm not sure how to go about doing this. Would it be best if everyone can commit to a certain date to meet in a bar or pub? |
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"Club/cocktail bar. I cannot hold them in a swingers venue as this is the 1st time such a community will come together so we won't know what to expect.
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Also it's safer as its the 1st one"
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Perhaps I wasn't clear: I have no penchant for swingers clubs. Cocktail bars all the way. It's the only way to imbibe. 🌿🌿 |
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Why does there need to be an exclusive group within this website. If you require an exclusive club/group of racial people I’m sure there are sites out there. I suggest you go in search of such groups and leave this site as it is. |
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"Why does there need to be an exclusive group within this website. If you require an exclusive club/group of racial people I’m sure there are sites out there. I suggest you go in search of such groups and leave this site as it is. "
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Because it's his prerogative. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"... what is wrong with enjoying all the colours and flavours of the rainbow? 🌈
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All colours are not invited. I have Indian heritage and in my personal life S Asians are slightly over represented.
But there's no way they are gonna want me rocking up with pale skin and red hair. This is for mid brown people only. No rainbow. Sepia monochrome.
I'm down with it being exclusionary. But let's not pretend it isn't. xx |
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This thread didn't really go anywhere, as there was too many guys, and not enough ladies/couples
I'm thinking it might be worth setting up a telegram group for the interested parties, let me know on the thread if anyone is interested. |
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"This thread didn't really go anywhere, as there was too many guys, and not enough ladies/couples
I'm thinking it might be worth setting up a telegram group for the interested parties, let me know on the thread if anyone is interested."
Someone was trying to do this on another thread, but it seems to have gone nowhere! |
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Guys I've setup a telegram but I haven't got an actual group. I've got a mixture of responses and so far it's 90 percent men and 10 percent females or couples. If I can get an even balance then that group is created in a heartbeat.
Tbf I've not been monitoring fab much as its too distracting
Will try and keep tabs on this forum though.
Apologies to everyone |
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By *over.Man 18 weeks ago
North West Travel |
"Guys I've setup a telegram but I haven't got an actual group. I've got a mixture of responses and so far it's 90 percent men and 10 percent females or couples. If I can get an even balance then that group is created in a heartbeat.
Tbf I've not been monitoring fab much as its too distracting
Will try and keep tabs on this forum though.
Apologies to everyone "
Did this post ever amount to anything...? |
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I did setup a telegram group and kept the group split 50/50
However a lack of couples could make the date then subsequently proposed alternative dates... at which point no one was responding so I just shut it down altogether. |
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By *wertyjk01Man 18 weeks ago
NW London/Kent/Midlands |
I'd be interested in fostering a little community of Asian swingers, we have a limited time on the planet, let's make the most of it.
Build it and they will come - or something along those lines haha |
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By *over.Man 18 weeks ago
North West Travel |
Lol I don't know if it's a stuck up thing. Ladies on here just tend to be quite overwhelmed with interest cos of the ratio of men/women/couples.
And of course with such an overwhelming supply of men, I'm sure anyone would be extra picky with the few that do make it through the door.
Just frustrating from the single males perspective but we can't expect them to be putting out for just anyone and everyone that wants to take them to bed haha |
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"Yeah it's a Shane... I love an Asian bird but shame most of them are stuck up these days."
That is a REALLY bad attitude to have.
A VERY rude comment.
Are you bitter because you have been rejected?? |
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By *icoDTFMan 13 weeks ago
West Mids |
Should get back on this mate, I think you could be onto something if we can make it happen! I’m more than happy to help aswell with logistics or anything that I could do to make it happen. I think the hardest part will be getting a good split of F & Couples compared to Males |
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By *wertyjk01Man 12 weeks ago
NW London/Kent/Midlands |
"Honestly man... ive tried hard af but not getting any where hence ive moved on
I dont mind creating a small group for us Asian fellas to meet up and find some Asian girls at a bar or club?"
Honestly might be the play tbh, get a group of guys who actually can commit to doing things and then branching out when already established. Id be down to get involved and can help with some of the organisation |
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"OK guys. I'm gonna setup a group on telegram. Spaces are limited
Message me with the following details
Female/Male/Couple
Age(s)
Location
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Sent you my details. Would be great to be in a group with like minded Asians enjoying some fun. I feel like we are frowned up being an Asian male.
The comment about Asian men that don’t know how to respect and treat others is so true. Unfortunately, it’s a lot worse when alcohol is involved. Hopefully, we start to build a better reputation. |
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By *kHornyMan 6 weeks ago
sheffield |
Hi, i am looking for the rite guy to come and approach my wife while we are at the pool and steam room at the hotel.. she is 35 uk born pakistani, we hv children so therefore we hv to plan.
We are planning on a date nite 1 day stay in hotel at canary warf mid JUNE. We hv not done this b4, my wife is aware of my fantacy and just laughs it off, i get her to tell during sex how she wants to be fuked by another guy and she does..it wud be good if you could come and talk to us to gain her confidence while we r in the sauna or pool and then next time it would be easy to fuk. She is always wears a hijab outside and never shows her body, however this time she has agreed to wear sexy clothes in the sauna, and later go out for a walk in central london showing cleavage and arse by wearing short dress. Pm me and let me knw, if u r the rite 1, will keep u posted once dates r confirmed |
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"It will never happen for the below reasons:
1) Way too many Asian men compared to the MF / F on here
2) Discretion and word spreads like fire in the Asian community if one cant keep their mouth shut
3) Some Asian men do not know how to interact / treat others"
100 percent agree and furthermore having attended club events I’ve noticed some Asian SM’s attend in groups and hang around together (once even seen a guy in a club on the phone to his mate and waiting for him, pretty they were Straight) which isn’t appealing to MF’s or SF’s regardless of ethnicity |
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Hubby is of South Asian descent.
From bitter experience, we would never join a group with single Asian men.
Before anyone says anything, we KNOW there are decent ones, but it just isn't worth the risk.
Got followed round by a couple of Asian guys in a club once, trying to be very silly. They pushed it too far when they tried to touch!!
Hubby isn't the type to be easily intimidated. One got hurt, the others vanished. Yes, they were that bad!!
Asian couples though, we would love to meet you !! |
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By *os19Man 1 week ago
Edmonton |
Although I didn’t see this as a problem it could be viewed as a problem.A few months ago at Rios I was with my FWB a white English lady.I was approached by a Indian looking male.He spoke to me in another language.He then asked me in English if I speak Bengali.I told him I am Greek Cypriot and only speak Greek and English.After making small talk with me and my FWB he asked us if we would be interested in having a 3sum with him.I looked at my FWB who said no.He walked away and him and his mates didn’t say a word to us for the rest of the night. |
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I'm British Asian. I've been successfully meeting as one of a MF couple as well as a single guy for aeons. It is a fact that by and large people on here are looking for black guys, almost every profile specifically states BBC and hardly any would meet Asians with the Asians females and couples invariably blocking single guys. Having said that I've had fantastic times with those who would. |
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