"calm been a year How you meant to get verified if no meet 70% ment with no meets no answers on messages this site is crap"
This site is great. You get what you put in & ive looked at your profile & there is nothing that would make me reply to a message much less want to meet you |
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If you’re looking for advice OP what I will say is that you’d benefit from having a more relaxed attitude. A profile with text that describes what you want and what you offer. And finally, a few pictures to show off to whoever you’re interested in.
Oh and btw, you should not be seeking meets right now in my view. Stay safe.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"calm been a year How you meant to get verified if no meet 70% ment with no meets no answers on messages this site is crap"
You could adapt your profile to make it more appealing or just leave the site.. you have a choice.
Plenty of us like it  |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
ribble valley |
Try chilling out and messaging people with respect. It's a lot harder on fab to pull a girl than in a pub, when she's had a few babychams On fab, the lady has hundreds of choices, you've gotta make her want you. Try redoing your profile, to make it interesting, and add pics so people can see if you're thier "cup of tea". Would you message a faceless profile? Hope this helps |
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"i will have to read lots of profiles to get an idea but surely thanks everyone for suggestions i ll definitely work on it"
There are lots of posts with some great advice if you search profile help in the forums |
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If you're so bothered about getting verified, why haven't you been to any clubs or socials?
You live in a massive city, not the back of beyond (like us) so you've no shortage of such things.
And by the way, moaning on forums is not an attractive trait. |
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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago
wiltshire |
"If you're so bothered about getting verified, why haven't you been to any clubs or socials?
You live in a massive city, not the back of beyond (like us) so you've no shortage of such things.
And by the way, moaning on forums is not an attractive trait."
We are all entitled to a shout and moan from time to time. |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
Oh green arrow.......op instead of posting every couple of weeks you cant get a meet, how about paying attention to previous good advice?
No public pics still, 2 line bio....effort equals results |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
"i will have to read lots of profiles to get an idea but surely thanks everyone for suggestions i ll definitely work on it"
Look through the Forum index for similar threads on this issue and see what's been suggested, advice wise!
OP, you're up against so many other guys, all seeking the same thing.
Thus, you need to stand out against everyone else. You have to, in effect, "SELL" yourself in all the right ways & words, to get yourself noticed.
Your profile is without public pics; would-be contacts like to see a face at the very least.
The written content is 2 lines; you have to increase that with what you seek plus what you can contribute to any meet.
As said by others, people check the Green Arrow link beside your username, to get an idea of what you are like as a person. Your fortnightly negative oriented posts could count against you?
See what we mean?
Your success on here wholly depends on your effort, plus having lots of Patience and Perseverance.
The site DOES work if you approach it in the correct way.
Good luck. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"Oh green arrow.......op instead of posting every couple of weeks you cant get a meet, how about paying attention to previous good advice?
No public pics still, 2 line bio....effort equals results "
Interesting! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does “The green arrow” mean ? "
The green arrow next to your name shows what you’ve posted recently in the forums (or like your last few threads you’ve posted) so it can reveal a lot about a person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"NEVER MET ANYONE WANT MORE ANY SUGGESTIONS "
Would you find your profile appealing?
No pics, “let’s meet and have sex” is hardly charming either.
So are you expecting people to turn up on a blind date and just fuck you because they are on a swingers site? Put the graft in and you may have some more success.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you’re looking for advice OP what I will say is that you’d benefit from having a more relaxed attitude. A profile with text that describes what you want and what you offer. And finally, a few pictures to show off to whoever you’re interested in.
Oh and btw, you should not be seeking meets right now in my view. Stay safe. "
Exactly this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does “The green arrow” mean ?
The green arrow next to your name shows what you’ve posted recently in the forums (or like your last few threads you’ve posted) so it can reveal a lot about a person "
Awww right! & thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does “The green arrow” mean ?
Click on the green arrow next to a user's name in the forums..can see the recent threads they have posted to."
Thanks x |
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, just go with the flow, no need to stress. Be calm bro.
