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By *lounda OP   Couple  over a year ago

norwich

Is anybody aware if there is some way that people can get a friend requset accepted without you actually agreeing? We have had more than one time when we are suddenly friends with somebody who we have not accepted. Today we had a friend requset which we refused then suddenly this afternoon there is a message saying that they have accepted out friend request not happy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nope.

One of you must’ve accepted the request unless someone else has access to your account.

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By *lounda OP   Couple  over a year ago

norwich

The point is I did not accept and then it showed as they accepted our friend request which we would not have sent very concerned that people have some sort of hack they can do this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Actually its dead easy to click accept accidentally

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The point is I did not accept and then it showed as they accepted our friend request which we would not have sent very concerned that people have some sort of hack they can do this

"

No one told you Fab was going to be this way.

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By *lounda OP   Couple  over a year ago

norwich

You are missing the point we definitely didn't accept but even if we had it would not then come up as they accepted your friend request

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet

You can unfriend them you know.

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By *lounda OP   Couple  over a year ago

norwich

Already done that of course but still very concerned that they were able to look at our private pictures without our consent

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"You are missing the point we definitely didn't accept but even if we had it would not then come up as they accepted your friend request"

Report to admin if you think something is amiss and you've not just got clumsy fingers

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By *eah BabyCouple  over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

No not had this but had messages from people outside our filters ??

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By *eatrice BadinageWoman  over a year ago

In a Sparkly Dress


"Actually its dead easy to click accept accidentally

"

I've done this so I just bulk delete now

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By *lounda OP   Couple  over a year ago

norwich

Thanks (you still don't seem to get the point it could not be clumsy fingers) I was just trying to check if others had experienced similar

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I get around 50 friend requests a day and it's never happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *heekyweebissimWoman  over a year ago

fife,


"You are missing the point we definitely didn't accept but even if we had it would not then come up as they accepted your friend request"

I’ve had this happen a couple of times In the past, but not for years. There may be a little glitch in the system. Hopefully you managed to unfriend them before they viewed your private pictures.

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By *lounda OP   Couple  over a year ago

norwich

I totally agree easy to accept by mistake but this would not then generate a message saying that they had accepted our friend request. It is not easy to make a mistake of sending a friend request is it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What message?

A private message?

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I totally agree easy to accept by mistake but this would not then generate a message saying that they had accepted our friend request. It is not easy to make a mistake of sending a friend request is it?"

I've done it a couple of times tbh.

And I guess if both of you are using the account then that doubles the chance of it happening.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've also had x accepted your friend request and thought wait what I never sent a friend request a couple of times now.... I could swair I've never even seen these profiles before they accepted my friend request but I just assumed I'd accedently clicked something on my phone and sent it while I was distracted or whatever.... I am clumsy and unfocused so sometimes I'll be reading messages and then I'll be making a drink or whatever and when I next look at my phone I'll have clicked on someones profile or added to hotlist or something I didn't mean to do lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have you asked your other half?

Did they send a friend request that's now been accepted?

Sounds the only way this can happen

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

change your password just in case. I haven't heard of friend requests being sent accidentally or a glitch that makes it happen. If once you've changed your password it happens again contact admin

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By *lounda OP   Couple  over a year ago

norwich

Yes she never really does the admin on here so no way would she have done that

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By *lounda OP   Couple  over a year ago

norwich

Contacted admin but ne response

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"Contacted admin but ne response"

you need to be patient, its Sunday and they often take a little while to respond.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd love some random friends....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

I've never jad it in 10 years here but assumed that any system could have a rare bug.

If you contact Admin and report the clear details, they can investigate and it should lead to them being able to understand the issue. They always investigate any reports

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By *tephanjMan  over a year ago

Kettering

Maybe they changed profile names

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd love some random friends...."

Well that didn't work

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This has happened to me also.

Only around 3 times over 10+ years though.

I 100% know it's not clumsy fingers as I don't even look at my friends request let alone accept them.

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