Does she know you dress and has she seen any pictures of you dressed?
Just springing it on her if she knows nothing about it at all then prepare her first by talking a lot and letting her know that this is who you really are and why you've hidden it for so long and why you want to come out to her.
I wish you the very best of luck with it as its a huge step and if it comes off well, very freeing and liberating for you as well as could bring you both closer with a better understanding of each other  |
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over a year ago
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Oh bless you, big day for you.
I still remember my first days in front of friends and family and it very scary indeed but just remember that she’s already accepting of you else she wouldn’t want to see you, that’s 90% of the battle, the rest is all down to nerves and that will pass.
Best of luck and can’t wait to hear all about it  |
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Thanks hun she has known since a d*unk phone call after years ago, she probs suspected for a lot longer. Its taken a while for her to get to the stage where she's able to meet me. Hopefully the first step in moving forward for myself, Been waiting for 2 years for a GIC appointment which I hope transpires next year xx |
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Hope it goes well for you. Just be prepared for whatever reaction she’ll have. When my previous partners in the past, have seen me dressed for the first time, it did get a few different reactions. From laughing (but quickly saying it was the shock) to crying (also the shock) but after the first time, it was never an issue after that.
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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I hope it goes well. There's lots of good advice on here.
I showed my sister a few pics of me in glam mode and then we had a night out in Leeds, which went well. Although I did have to dead arm her a few times for using the wrong name. We had loads of fun. I convinced a load of lads that she was a porn star who specialised in double anal and we had one lad chatting to us whom we couldn't work out who he fancied, me or her 
Let us all know how it goes x |
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Best of luck , but be prepared for shock !
Prepare for lots of questions .
It may take time .
Maybe tell her you like to dress and once she’s digested that ask her if she’d like to see either a pic or real life x |
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"Best of luck , but be prepared for shock !
Prepare for lots of questions .
It may take time .
Maybe tell her you like to dress and once she’s digested that ask her if she’d like to see either a pic or real life x"
Told her that I think I was trans a few years ago, tomorrow is the first time she gets to meet me as me. Got a couple of bottles of wine hopefully she can get comfortable with her new sister xx |
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No advice really just massive virtual hugs x 
