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Has anyone fallen in love with anyone they've met on FAB?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes us two. 19 months of bliss. Living together 7 months and just moved into our new house few weeks back. Life is good. And just gets better and naughtier by the day xxxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met through here, neither of us wanted a relationship, just NSA sex. We hit it off straight away and have had a fantastic relationship since. We moved in together 4 months ago and life is wonderful.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. But has anyone ended up absolutely hating someone on here to the point you wish they not living jet alone on here hell yeah. Before all the judgements come in if was a 'normal' relationship not a be on here as a couple simply to play then the persons actions would be seen as possessive at best verging on domestic ( emotional ) abuse. All because he decided he had feelings for me and I said I didn't for him. I so pleased to see those who have found each other on here and wish you the best. And I have met some fantastic men on here and not under the illusion all guys are possessive twats on here and certainty not a man hater. He not a man he male and there's a difference between men and just male I have met some MEN on here and love this site |
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Yes but it was wrong time and wrong person for me... though the right person for someone else. I don't think we going looking for love when we are on here I think it happes as we are humans and can't help the way we feel about people... |
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"Proves that most single women on here are usually looking for love under the guise of swinging!  "
Err the last time I looked it took two and in most cases it is with a guy. Just that guys are less likely to post in case they lose their street cred I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I nearly did once
Wouldnt go as far as in love but i did feel i was feeling more for a guy than i should have so i put a stop to the meets before it got any deeper |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I nearly did once
Wouldnt go as far as in love but i did feel i was feeling more for a guy than i should have so i put a stop to the meets before it got any deeper "
Wow I bet that was a very hard thing to do ?xx |
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"Proves that most single women on here are usually looking for love under the guise of swinging! "
no it doesnt
it proves that love can blossom wherever.
i would like to find someone but i am not a fool, i know what this site is and use it for that.....the fact that half the men on here are also on dating sites proves that men are just sneaky and dont admit to wanting to find love lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Proves that most single women on here are usually looking for love under the guise of swinging!
no it doesnt
it proves that love can blossom wherever.
i would like to find someone but i am not a fool, i know what this site is and use it for that.....the fact that half the men on here are also on dating sites proves that men are just sneaky and dont admit to wanting to find love lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I nearly did once
Wouldnt go as far as in love but i did feel i was feeling more for a guy than i should have so i put a stop to the meets before it got any deeper
Wow I bet that was a very hard thing to do ?xx"
a bit but i knew it was for the best
I just told him i felt it was time to move on, he did ask if he had done anything wrong but i said no, its just swinging and meets arnt forever on here
I just felt it was the right thing to do, im not a bunny boiler and i dont have intentions of starting now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Proves that most single women on here are usually looking for love under the guise of swinging!
what aload of bollox
I wonder cupcakes if you can make it clear whether you agree or not ?"
i dont agree !!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fell for someone pretty hard yes. hurt/still hurts now but was my own fault.
Never ever again
its better to have loved and lost and not loved at all"
i liked how i felt at the time.. was kinda untouchable in my own bubble and nothing could get me down... and now its just 'meh'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Proves that most single women on here are usually looking for love under the guise of swinging! "
Not at all....but things happen and feelings develop in any walk of life. Its certainly not the reason I joined Fab, but I have no objection to finding love on here anymore that I would in a bar or my workplace.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fell for someone pretty hard yes. hurt/still hurts now but was my own fault.
Never ever again
its better to have loved and lost and not loved at all
i liked how i felt at the time.. was kinda untouchable in my own bubble and nothing could get me down... and now its just 'meh'. "
not being funny here but you sure it was love and not lust? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not being funny here but you sure it was love and not lust?"
more than likely lust, i never mentioned love just said i fell for someone. Its in the past though. lesson learnt i got burnt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is why i think its better not to have regular meets
Lets be honest none of us are machines and these things happen but i think its less likely to happen if you dont get to know someone to well
We cant help our feelings but we can help how we choose to act on those feeling and even if people do what i did and walk away without saying anything and stop meeting someone if they know they are starting to develop feelings it still hurts, being a swinger does not make us any less human than anyone else |
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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
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We've met a few people we became very fond of as friends and playmates ultimately out of respect and the fact that we clicked. There have been a couple of meets that we both love to bits equally and gain a lot from spending time with them in terms of laughter, flirting, passion and as human beings.
But we are not in love with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've met a few people we became very fond of as friends and playmates ultimately out of respect and the fact that we clicked. There have been a couple of meets that we both love to bits equally and gain a lot from spending time with them in terms of laughter, flirting, passion and as human beings.
But we are not in love with them."
i dont think there are many couples who fall in love as a unit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not being funny here but you sure it was love and not lust?
more than likely lust, i never mentioned love just said i fell for someone. Its in the past though. lesson learnt i got burnt"
we only live one life and sometimes its better to crash and burn or just think yeah ive learnt from it.
makes you a better person.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Proves that most single women on here are usually looking for love under the guise of swinging! "
I'm sorry but I disagree, sometimes these things come up and bite you on the arse when you least expect it! Like I said, human nature... Happily no strings swinging along and it can happen! Believe it or not good sex can sometimes involve love as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Proves that most single women on here are usually looking for love under the guise of swinging! "
I wouldn't say most or even half but there are a number who have it as a possibility. There are some men too I would assume but most men are here to fuck and move on. I do know a number of men though who have been pestered by women who wanted more than no strings and some even left the site to avoid it. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Proves that most single women on here are usually looking for love under the guise of swinging!
I wouldn't say most or even half but there are a number who have it as a possibility. There are some men too I would assume but most men are here to fuck and move on. I do know a number of men though who have been pestered by women who wanted more than no strings and some even left the site to avoid it. "
I agree with this, some have gone to extremes to avoid the clingy women on here....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Proves that most single women on here are usually looking for love under the guise of swinging!
I wouldn't say most or even half but there are a number who have it as a possibility. There are some men too I would assume but most men are here to fuck and move on. I do know a number of men though who have been pestered by women who wanted more than no strings and some even left the site to avoid it. I agree with this, some have gone to extremes to avoid the clingy women on here.... "
yet ive found it to be the other way round
I have only started having feelings for one man in 11 years of doing this, and i didnt act on it, it didnt tell him how i felt, i wasnt clingy, i just told him i didnt want to meet him again and moved on
However in the 11 years of doing this i have lost count of the amount of clingy guys i have met, i've had guys ask me to move in with them, ask if they can move in with me, tell me they dont want me meeting any more, tell me they want us to start meeting as a couple, call me up if i have had a new verification asking why i met someone else etc
so im no experience men can be far more clingy than women on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely in lust, but not in love...having said that I've never been in love at all. If it happened not sure what I'd do about it to be honest...I'm not the best at expressing those kind of emotions! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely in lust, but not in love...having said that I've never been in love at all. If it happened not sure what I'd do about it to be honest...I'm not the best at expressing those kind of emotions! x"
ditto. I fell for someone once. She was blunt to the point of cruelty while dealing with it but i cant say i blame her....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thing single women always have a favourite meet that they deepdown would be with if the other person felt the same.I know I have but that's my secret lol |
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"Proves that most single women on here are usually looking for love under the guise of swinging!
I wouldn't say most or even half but there are a number who have it as a possibility. There are some men too I would assume but most men are here to fuck and move on. I do know a number of men though who have been pestered by women who wanted more than no strings and some even left the site to avoid it. I agree with this, some have gone to extremes to avoid the clingy women on here....
yet ive found it to be the other way round
I have only started having feelings for one man in 11 years of doing this, and i didnt act on it, it didnt tell him how i felt, i wasnt clingy, i just told him i didnt want to meet him again and moved on
However in the 11 years of doing this i have lost count of the amount of clingy guys i have met, i've had guys ask me to move in with them, ask if they can move in with me, tell me they dont want me meeting any more, tell me they want us to start meeting as a couple, call me up if i have had a new verification asking why i met someone else etc
so im no experience men can be far more clingy than women on here"
This has also been my experience (though not to the same extent!). It is generally men asking me for further meets and not the other way around. Sometimes I have felt that there is a fine line between keeping in touch and possibly showing interest in more. |
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"I thing single women always have a favourite meet that they deepdown would be with if the other person felt the same.I know I have but that's my secret lol "
Whenever I get that feeling I imagine them 10 years down the line, beer in hand in front of the football. The feeling soon passes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thing single women always have a favourite meet that they deepdown would be with if the other person felt the same.I know I have but that's my secret lol "
I do too. Shhh... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. In the last few weeks.
The good lady in question is adorable, lovely, filthily delicious and loves me too....
Did I think it would happen? Fuck no...but Im very glad it has...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. In the last few weeks.
The good lady in question is adorable, lovely, filthily delicious and loves me too....
Did I think it would happen? Fuck no...but Im very glad it has... "
congratulations xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. In the last few weeks.
The good lady in question is adorable, lovely, filthily delicious and loves me too....
Did I think it would happen? Fuck no...but Im very glad it has...
congratulations xx "
Thank you Sassy...
Believe it or not Im not the sort of person who falls in love easily...I've been in love before, but I don't tend to fall for someone quickly. I've had women on here mention the r word to me quite a few times which leads mevto believe that a lot of women join this site to find a monogamous relationship, cameras a lot of men will join dating sites to shaggy so that the ratio is tipped firmly in their favour....
But I didn't think this would happen as I wasn't really after a relationship at all.
The tell tale signs are that not only are we highly compatible sexually (rather than hour or two meets where we have sex three or four times along with other scarlet pleasures which Im used to, we are spending days together, fucking round the clock like rampant animals and indulging in every perversion we can dream up) but I feel like I want to protect her from harm and always go to sleep thinking about her...
Now I don't want to give up swinging and she doesn't want me to, only asks that I don't tell her about any meets I've had as she gets jealous. On the contrary though I don't mind her seeing other men still as I adore the thought of her being pleasured..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At least people on here have one big thing in common, so it wouldn't surprise me if a lot of people didn't fall in love on here. (Wish it'd happen to me though.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Heading that way for me
Split with ex last year, came back on fab this year, was only looking for nsa fun but life had other plans. Only 2 months in but going so well I have to pinch myself sometimes |
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Well it's over a year since I moved in and we are still blissfully happy, (sick buckets on the right lol). We're engaged now - not set a date yet, but we have noticed a big change in our swinging - we virtually don't now but we're ok with that. We don't go looking for meets but when we have time we go to socials and hopefully will find time to go clubbing again. We still can't believe we fell in love and that it caused so much upheaval with me giving up a well paid job and moving 175 miles from my home but I would definitely say it was worth it |
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