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By *r Bants OP   Man 6 weeks ago

Aberdeen/Dundee/Kirkcaldy

Is there such a liking for Big Beautiful Men? We only ever hear about women but I just wondered if BBM is even a thing?

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By *wingoftheKingersMan 6 weeks ago

The Delta Quadrant

I think it is quite rare here in the forum. Dad bod v gym bod v BBM is not usually the discussion

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By *adyJayneWoman 6 weeks ago

East Lancashire

I thought this was a thread about blackberry messenger...

showing my age there

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By *dam1971Man 6 weeks ago

Bedford

It’s definitely a thing, for every perversion there’s a pervert, thankfully

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By *r Bants OP   Man 6 weeks ago

Aberdeen/Dundee/Kirkcaldy

I just seen on another thread about BBW and how common it is. Seems to be a nice way of describing a big lady and I get that. But never see anything nice for the larger men

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By *r Bants OP   Man 6 weeks ago

Aberdeen/Dundee/Kirkcaldy


"I thought this was a thread about blackberry messenger...

showing my age there"

Do BlackBerry even make phones anymore?

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By *lice.Woman 6 weeks ago

The Black Country

The term I see used in various places, is BHM. Big handsome men. But Big beautiful men works too.

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By *onko the SaneMan 6 weeks ago

Dumfries ish

wonder if i qualify

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By *usty Belle xWoman 6 weeks ago

South Derry


"I thought this was a thread about blackberry messenger...

showing my age there"

I did too I thought it was back haha

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By *ecadent_DevonMan 6 weeks ago

Devon

Woman are BBWs. Blokes are Fat

Woman are Slim. Blokes are skinny

Women are Powerful. Blokes are arrogant

Woman are Playful. Blokes are Perverts

This was supposed to be be a Haiku......

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By *dam1971Man 6 weeks ago

Bedford


"Woman are BBWs. Blokes are Fat

Woman are Slim. Blokes are skinny

Women are Powerful. Blokes are arrogant

Woman are Playful. Blokes are Perverts

This was supposed to be be a Haiku......"

Actually I’ve found the exact opposite. Women get judged far more harshly than men

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By *ecadent_DevonMan 6 weeks ago

Devon


"Woman are BBWs. Blokes are Fat

Woman are Slim. Blokes are skinny

Women are Powerful. Blokes are arrogant

Woman are Playful. Blokes are Perverts

This was supposed to be be a Haiku......

Actually I’ve found the exact opposite. Women get judged far more harshly than men"

That’s the beauty of life eh? We all have different experiences......

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By *dam1971Man 6 weeks ago

Bedford


"Woman are BBWs. Blokes are Fat

Woman are Slim. Blokes are skinny

Women are Powerful. Blokes are arrogant

Woman are Playful. Blokes are Perverts

This was supposed to be be a Haiku......

Actually I’ve found the exact opposite. Women get judged far more harshly than men

That’s the beauty of life eh? We all have different experiences......"

Or that when presented with the same experiences, we draw different conclusions?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan 6 weeks ago

Devon


"Woman are BBWs. Blokes are Fat

Woman are Slim. Blokes are skinny

Women are Powerful. Blokes are arrogant

Woman are Playful. Blokes are Perverts

This was supposed to be be a Haiku......

Actually I’ve found the exact opposite. Women get judged far more harshly than men

That’s the beauty of life eh? We all have different experiences......

Or that when presented with the same experiences, we draw different conclusions?"

So my opinion and experiences are “wrong” then?

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By *acey_RedWoman 6 weeks ago

Liverpool

I think it's BHM for men.

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By *adyJayneWoman 6 weeks ago

East Lancashire


"Woman are BBWs. Blokes are Fat

Woman are Slim. Blokes are skinny

Women are Powerful. Blokes are arrogant

Woman are Playful. Blokes are Perverts

This was supposed to be be a Haiku......

Actually I’ve found the exact opposite. Women get judged far more harshly than men

That’s the beauty of life eh? We all have different experiences......

Or that when presented with the same experiences, we draw different conclusions?

So my opinion and experiences are “wrong” then? "

Where did he say that? He said that two people, from the same situation can draw different conclusions.

As a woman I can tell you that I'm not powerful, I'm bossy.

I don't have an opinion, I'm a know it all.

I am not playful, I'm a tease, asking for it and don't have agency over my own body.

If I reject someone who called me a BBW believe me it quickly turns to 'Fat ugly heffer'.

Women aren't slim, they are 'too skinny', or twigs.

I'm not saying that men aren't subject to scrutiny on appearance but it is nothing compared to that of women.

This is my lived experience, not once, but repeatedly, the experience of my peers and friends....

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By *acey_RedWoman 6 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Woman are BBWs. Blokes are Fat

Woman are Slim. Blokes are skinny

Women are Powerful. Blokes are arrogant

Woman are Playful. Blokes are Perverts

This was supposed to be be a Haiku......

Actually I’ve found the exact opposite. Women get judged far more harshly than men

That’s the beauty of life eh? We all have different experiences......

Or that when presented with the same experiences, we draw different conclusions?

So my opinion and experiences are “wrong” then?

Where did he say that? He said that two people, from the same situation can draw different conclusions.

As a woman I can tell you that I'm not powerful, I'm bossy.

I don't have an opinion, I'm a know it all.

I am not playful, I'm a tease, asking for it and don't have agency over my own body.

If I reject someone who called me a BBW believe me it quickly turns to 'Fat ugly heffer'.

Women aren't slim, they are 'too skinny', or twigs.

I'm not saying that men aren't subject to scrutiny on appearance but it is nothing compared to that of women.

This is my lived experience, not once, but repeatedly, the experience of my peers and friends.... "

I've been both 3 stone lighter and 3 stone heavier than I am now and yep to all you just said.

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By *aure1001Man 6 weeks ago

Severn Heaven

I've always known them as YFB's.

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By *r MystiqueMan 6 weeks ago

Up North

It’s BDM actually

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By *r Bants OP   Man 6 weeks ago

Aberdeen/Dundee/Kirkcaldy


"I've always known them as YFB's. "

Who ate all the pies?

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