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over a year ago
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I always own up except for the following situations..
Being caught on the counter
Caught banging on the sofa
That also applies to the shower
If I'm caught on camera
Someone sees the marks on my shoulder
Or if they hear the screams getting louder
Otherwise I'm honest
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hmmm that depends on what it is....
But I usually can’t live with the guilt so I own up pretty much straight away. "
I get the layers of potential blame |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Always face up to it and take the consequences. As a kid I cut a doll's hair and denied doing it so my little sister got the blame. She got such a telling off! The guilt was horrendous  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I own my mistakes so I can lern from them. If you don't that show me you are dishonest and distrustful."
I was thinking more of like snaffling kids chocs tbh...
But I get where you are coming from  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always own up except for the following situations..
Being caught on the counter
Caught banging on the sofa
That also applies to the shower
If I'm caught on camera
Someone sees the marks on my shoulder
Or if they hear the screams getting louder
Otherwise I'm honest
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Younger always tried to shift the blame but I'm a rubbish liar and the guilt would crack me eventually ...
Did you have a tell"
Still do. I start smiling when I'm lying. Can't keep a poker face at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always face up to it and take the consequences. As a kid I cut a doll's hair and denied doing it so my little sister got the blame. She got such a telling off! The guilt was horrendous "
did you ever get found out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes....If I’m at fault, and quickly, like to keep short accounts , learn and move on"
Its a good outlook, what about the silly little things are they as important |
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"I own my mistakes so I can lern from them. If you don't that show me you are dishonest and distrustful."
this, however, with social situations, often I need them pointed out me me first, I often don't realise I've done something nor that it was wrong or why...usually its a blunt truthful reply with no filter, it's not meant in malice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yup.
No point lying. Own up, deal with it and move on.
Makes life so much easier in the end. "
I agree with the big things, but the little things are fun to tease over |
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"I always own up except for the following situations..
Being caught on the counter
Caught banging on the sofa
That also applies to the shower
If I'm caught on camera
Someone sees the marks on my shoulder
Or if they hear the screams getting louder
Otherwise I'm honest
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What about the bathroom floor ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've gotten wise to the lady tactics of it's the blokes fault even if I did it  "
Its more of a testing my boundaries than an all out blame personally, I like to see what his reactions are to me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends if there's indisputable evidence that it was me... "
No escaping that one
I do like it when you try to talk your way out of this then bamn they show you it |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It depends really. I'm quite good at owning up if something is my fault but of course I'd like to think that.
I get frustrated when things clearly aren't/I'm told I've done something and there's evidence to show otherwise. But then again maybe that's my bias coming into play. |
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"Yup.
No point lying. Own up, deal with it and move on.
Makes life so much easier in the end.
I agree with the big things, but the little things are fun to tease over"
Oh, well if we are on about silly things, then yes I will sometimes deny them for a bit to have a little fun or wind a mate up. Often with a cheeky grin on my face |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It depends really. I'm quite good at owning up if something is my fault but of course I'd like to think that.
I get frustrated when things clearly aren't/I'm told I've done something and there's evidence to show otherwise. But then again maybe that's my bias coming into play."
I have that fustration and will argue my point home over and over, sometimes too far and I will have to walk away |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yup.
No point lying. Own up, deal with it and move on.
Makes life so much easier in the end.
I agree with the big things, but the little things are fun to tease over
Oh, well if we are on about silly things, then yes I will sometimes deny them for a bit to have a little fun or wind a mate up. Often with a cheeky grin on my face "
Yes thats fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always face up to it and take the consequences. As a kid I cut a doll's hair and denied doing it so my little sister got the blame. She got such a telling off! The guilt was horrendous
did you ever get found out"
I confessed many years later... |
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