"Just wondering how common is it for women to squirt? It's never happened for me but would love to experience it. If you have what made you squirt? Oral & fingers, penetrative? "
No idea how common. I can’t. We went to a tantric session once where the guy apparently specialised and said that every woman has the ability to do it. He said I squirted… I dunno, didn’t feel anything and he was being quite vigorous in his motion. |
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over a year ago
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haha the blokes that say they can make any woman squirt just want to roughly finger you until you wet yourself
good job if you can get it
btw did I mention I can make any woman squirt let me prove it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex was a squirter and I learned with her what worked and what didn't. Through that I've been able to help others achieve it (Christ that makes me sound so big headed, I'm trying to be as coy as possible) I do think it's all about how comfortable you are with the other person |
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"Just wondering how common is it for women to squirt? It's never happened for me but would love to experience it. If you have what made you squirt? Oral & fingers, penetrative?
No idea how common. I can’t. We went to a tantric session once where the guy apparently specialised and said that every woman has the ability to do it. He said I squirted… I dunno, didn’t feel anything and he was being quite vigorous in his motion. "
Hilarious;
He tells you you squirted but you didn’t feel anything...... sounds like an expert to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have done a couple of times with my ex who knew the correct technique, but I really couldn't see what all the fuss is about. The motion he used to achieve it didn't feel anything more than 'meh' and I didn't come. I'd rather have a regular old non-squirting orgasm. |
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Squirting isn’t an orgasm but for me they can both arrive simultaneously.
It’s a different sensation and I love it. But you need to trust the person your with to truly relax into it. And you need to press the g spot (spongy tissue at the front of the vagina) firmly with fingers or a toy (glass or steel works best). |
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You just hit the nail right on the head. Some guys actually believe that making a woman squirt is giving her an orgasm, and it's not!
In my experience, bearing in mind that I've been circumcised, so I can stay hard for prolonged periods of time to pleasure a woman. What I find works every time is gripping my cock close to the bell end, then with the increased surface area of my cock, thumb, and forefinger, rubbing on her clit intensely, you'll not fail to hit a spot that makes her squirt. Once she does, hold your cock end on the spot, then repeat until she tells you when to stop, then slide your cock inside her and as you fuck like minx, she should have the most intense orgasm. Whether you want to let go yourself then, or carry on further to give her multiple, depends on how well you know your woman, and what she likes, if indeed she is multi orgasmic, not all women are, and that's not being disrespectful of those who aren't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have never squirted and I shudder when guys profess to be able to make me;
I'm not a performing Monkey
It does not determine your prowess
I'm not a cow that wants to be milked
Just stop it
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never squirted and I shudder when guys profess to be able to make me;
I'm not a performing Monkey
It does not determine your prowess
I'm not a cow that wants to be milked
Just stop it
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I think and it literally is just a thought, I’ve done it twice - to me that shows that it’s not the be all and end all  |
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over a year ago
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"Just wondering how common is it for women to squirt? It's never happened for me but would love to experience it. If you have what made you squirt? Oral & fingers, penetrative? "
So…I have…a lot..
Always fingers…hard and fast…
If penetrative usually me on top works best…
A completely different sensation from a “normal” orgasm |
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By *uskieMan
over a year ago
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I've had the pleasure of making 3 women squirt for the first time. Each time, it's been long foreplay, taking them to the brink a few times then having them stand up and being able to know where to put your fingers and reading their body language.
There have been few times where i've done similar and didn't happend.
They had all said it was an incredible feeling, totally lose control and different than just cuming.
For me, to take a woman to that point, is a real turn on for me; but the whole point of sex for me it pleasure her. |
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I love women who squirt, I don't think it is common, I'd say around 1% of Sexually active women do, maybe 5% have the potential but don't know how or not been stimulated correctly and some are afraid or too self conscious/embarrassed so surpress it.
They never mentioned it in my sex education class at school.
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"Just wondering how common is it for women to squirt? It's never happened for me but would love to experience it. If you have what made you squirt? Oral & fingers, penetrative? "
I’ve only ever had one woman fail to squirt for me. And that includes quite a few women who were adamant that they couldn’t. Sometimes it’s really easy and can be achieved within a few seconds, but sometimes it can take a little longer.
I’ve noticed, that if she’s not ready yet, she will be during penetrative sex, so have some fun, then try again.
Usually achieved from oral and fingers.
I hope you find the guy who can help you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always squirted when I have an orgasm, but the amount I squirt can vary greatly, from a small amount to full on bed saturated. I have found that when I get fisted I cum the most so squirt the most.
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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago
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Making a woman squirt is very much like servicing a prestige vintage car…..( best Swiss Tony impression!) …. I have little idea how to ‘make’ a woman squirt - in my experience if she is relaxed and aroused it happens from Tim to time… it’s not like trying to ring the bell at the fairground… the harder you try - I think the less likely it is…. |
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When me a my fb are meeting - I always have to make her squirt for my satisfaction and mainly hers.
Out of the finger, tounge and penetration... I always find the finger gets her to squirt the fastest (motion and direction) |
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I can, it’s not the be all and end all, and it doesn’t happen every time with anyone. I much prefer a few waves of an intense orgasm. I tend to do it with me top or fast pentetration with fingers or a toy. But careful with fingers and keep those nails short. |
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over a year ago
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I do it to myself with a gspot vibrator and he does it to me using a regular finger rhythm on my gspot its a different feeling orgasm to a clitoral orgasm |
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By *ANDCOCouple
over a year ago
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It’s about the mind and creating the environment for it to happen. Not pressuring it. The lady has to “let go” and trust their partner. They will feel pressure and need to let it all happen. Whatever happens happens mentality. Some ladies find doing it the shower technique wise helps. Explore and have fun. (We are still trying to find the right bedding solution for it! Not quite at paddling pool stage - but not far off it !)  |
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over a year ago
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I never have, and didnt really want to before joining and seeing how much fun it looks like. Interesting reading the posts though, i didnt know it was a different feeling to an orgasm....made me even more interested in doing it now...if i can hahaha |
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over a year ago
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Unfortunately a lot of guys these days place more importance on trying to make a woman squirt rather than being able to give her a good orgasm.
I know which option I’d choose every time!
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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I think it’s mostly chemistry/lust and her feeling relaxed and able to make a mess then basic finger or cock techniques , it’s never an effort or needing special moves. Personally I love it , hot gushing/squirting on my cock while fucking , but I gather it’s nothing special for the woman |
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"Just wondering how common is it for women to squirt? It's never happened for me but would love to experience it. If you have what made you squirt? Oral & fingers, penetrative? "
Well from what I know.
It feels like you need to pee most people hold back when in fact you should release.
But never think about it just dont hold back when you get that feeling and push alittle.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s just piss you know
I beg to differ! It does not smell like urine and my fwb makes me squirt multiple times "
Two types
One is sex wee
The other is from a gland.
And yes smell is very different.
The G shot (inside to the front wall) feels like a small pillow pad when that gets hard rub push thank me later. |
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"Just wondering how common is it for women to squirt? It's never happened for me but would love to experience it. If you have what made you squirt? Oral & fingers, penetrative? "
It happened to me back in my earlier 20s it was only a friend at the time who had told me it happened to her, I knew what had happened to me thankfully it was outside so no messy sheets to be cleaned haha
Fast forward 15+ yrs I got interest in all things kinky that I started exploring my body (very late starter) very shy when It comes to playing with myself I know it’s only natural 
Not sure if it was down to company and not being relaxed enough but never been able to cum always seemed to hold back was beginning to think something was wrong with me I guess i feared making a mess from past experience but slowly realising it’s something I can do and guys genuinely like it (why I do not know cos it’s messy  haha Although still getting the hang of it myself but I can only do it through vibration of my wand and even then it’s hit and miss. On a road of discovery at the minute so watch this space xx |
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"Just wondering how common is it for women to squirt? It's never happened for me but would love to experience it. If you have what made you squirt? Oral & fingers, penetrative?
It happened to me back in my earlier 20s it was only a friend at the time who had told me it happened to her, I knew what had happened to me thankfully it was outside so no messy sheets to be cleaned haha
Fast forward 15+ yrs I got interest in all things kinky that I started exploring my body (very late starter) very shy when It comes to playing with myself I know it’s only natural
Not sure if it was down to company and not being relaxed enough but never been able to cum always seemed to hold back was beginning to think something was wrong with me I guess i feared making a mess from past experience but slowly realising it’s something I can do and guys genuinely like it (why I do not know cos it’s messy haha Although still getting the hang of it myself but I can only do it through vibration of my wand and even then it’s hit and miss. On a road of discovery at the minute so watch this space xx"
Best of luck on your journey. Please keep us all updated xxx |
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"I never have, and didnt really want to before joining and seeing how much fun it looks like. Interesting reading the posts though, i didnt know it was a different feeling to an orgasm....made me even more interested in doing it now...if i can hahaha"
Yea a few females have mentioned its different sensation to an orgasm.... Which not all enjoy either.
It's one of those things, if it happens it happens point trying to make that the goal when in the bedroom.... Each person is different on how it is achieved and for some it's takes longer than others.
Plus I know some girls who are also embarrassed by it, so also need to think is it something they enjoy or is it something you enjoy |
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I’ve been with one girl who squirted it was a lovely surprise I was licking/sucking her clit and fingering/pressing her Gee spot at the same time I was surprised how much came out I was soaked and loved it!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can, but I didn't realise I could til about 4 years ago when a guy who knew what he was doing showed me I very easily could. There is a technique to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have only experienced it with finger play and I’ve managed to do it myself too. I was quite proud of that! That wasn’t quite the gush you’d expect but I did make quite a puddle  |
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