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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so I work in a place where there are a LOT of very beautiful and intelligent women. I mean it’s like the head of the company wanted to surround himself with talented and gorgeous ladies. Everyday into work online or in person I go - is it wrong to really REALLY fancy some of these women? The worst thing is of course you can’t ever say anything right? And to make it work they all really like me, I’m never left alone! (Personality thing not a “fancy me” thing know what I mean?) But I can’t concentrate I think may have to leave but it’s such a good job but I feel I’m being so shallow and 1990s - this is a problem… help! |
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"Ok so I work in a place where there are a LOT of very beautiful and intelligent women. I mean it’s like the head of the company wanted to surround himself with talented and gorgeous ladies. Everyday into work online or in person I go - is it wrong to really REALLY fancy some of these women? The worst thing is of course you can’t ever say anything right? And to make it work they all really like me, I’m never left alone! (Personality thing not a “fancy me” thing know what I mean?) But I can’t concentrate I think may have to leave but it’s such a good job but I feel I’m being so shallow and 1990s - this is a problem… help!"
Yes you should definitely leave...any chance of a reference? |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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Most of my life I've spent working with men. And holy hell some of them have been so damn sexy. I don't know how I managed to keep my hands to myself.
Oh. Hang on. I do. Because I'm an adult and I know that life isn't all about sex even when you're surrounded with hot people.
Just suck it up OP, concentrate on your work and leave the ladies to concentrate on theirs. |
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I work with some very sexy young ladies most of them young enough to be my daughters (or in some cases granddaughters ) but I assure you it is purely professional because I want to keep my job)
however it does not mean that i do not appreciate how hot they are just means I am never going to do anything about it (not that they would be interested in this old man lol) |
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"I work with some very sexy young ladies most of them young enough to be my daughters (or in some cases granddaughters ) but I assure you it is purely professional because I want to keep my job)
however it does not mean that i do not appreciate how hot they are just means I am never going to do anything about it (not that they would be interested in this old man lol)"
Totally agree some are old enough to be be daughters. Defo look but won’t touch.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Most of my life I've spent working with men. And holy hell some of them have been so damn sexy. I don't know how I managed to keep my hands to myself.
Oh. Hang on. I do. Because I'm an adult and I know that life isn't all about sex even when you're surrounded with hot people.
Just suck it up OP, concentrate on your work and leave the ladies to concentrate on theirs."
That’s what I do - every day.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why 1990's? Lol
If you aren't professional enough to control your urges then it's provably best you leave 
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Oh I’m certainly professional enough that’s why my urges are under control. But it’s an interesting talking point. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sorry but if you need to leave your job because you can't concentrate around good looking women then I really pity you.  "
Oh I can concentrate fine. Well most of the time.. I say most I mean some… well I say some… |
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This post is an eye opener! Now I realised what all the sexy women at my work feel when passing by my desk. They looking at me, but have to hide their desires. They are too professional to ask me for a quickie... poor ladies. I bet they release the tension in the toilets. Now I have to live with that guilty feelings of being too sexy. |
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You are not being shallow at all. Just dick led.
You are bi-sexual do you have the same problem around your boss or is he pig ugly ?
I never have any problem separating work from sex. I have worked with good looking men but i've never been stupid enough to see them as fuck fodder. I'm not even sure I could if my head was filled with the tasks in hand.
Suggest to your boss that you don't have enough to do and could you please have a project to keep you extra busy or you are going to have to knock one out before work, in the lunch hour and before leaving the building at night.
Try working from home and wanking 24/7.
Get a fuck buddy.
A blow up dolly
Get one of those things that will electric shock your bollocks every time you look at a female colleague as just fuck fodder.
Uhmmmmmm I think I'm all helped out at the moment.
Good luck. xxxxx So many blokes on here are slobberiing servants to their cocks i'm surprised they get employment.
Is it your menopause luv ?
xxxx Good luck xxxx |
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Nothing wrong with admiring from afar op.
Just maintain an air of aloofness they will assume that you are very professional.
It's ironic that women say that you should be professional speaking as a tradesman who has to go into mainly female based work environments regularly, I've lost count of the amount of dubla entendre aimed at me over the year's and damn right flirting.
It's embarrassing I'm not a piece of meat. 
Worst culprits seem to be school kitchen staff they are very inappropriate.  |
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