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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good Morning all.
So I was just thinking, as great as being a singleton can be..
What are the simple things in life you miss the most ?
And rephrased "would miss" for our couples ?
Sunday Morning frolics in bed is one of mine.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I miss the honeymoon period and feeling in love with somebody… you know, that exciting feeling of organising things and desiring somebody. And stupidly enough the warm hugs and kisses (not particularly the sexual ones more like the affectionate ones)
Also, sadly haven’t experienced this for whatever reason, but I want someone to hold my hand in public x haha so silly right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss the honeymoon period and feeling in love with somebody… you know, that exciting feeling of organising things and desiring somebody. And stupidly enough the warm hugs and kisses (not particularly the sexual ones more like the affectionate ones)
Also, sadly haven’t experienced this for whatever reason, but I want someone to hold my hand in public x haha so silly right "
Not silly |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
Southern Wales |
I miss the comfortableness of being with someone who really knows, gets you, loves you, wants to bone you at all hours, would give you their last rolo (and their first) and is just fun to be with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I miss the comfortableness of being with someone who really knows, gets you, loves you, wants to bone you at all hours, would give you their last rolo (and their first) and is just fun to be with."
Intimacy with your best friend feeling |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I miss the honeymoon period and feeling in love with somebody… you know, that exciting feeling of organising things and desiring somebody. And stupidly enough the warm hugs and kisses (not particularly the sexual ones more like the affectionate ones)
Also, sadly haven’t experienced this for whatever reason, but I want someone to hold my hand in public x haha so silly right "
I miss that too, its feels great to walk hand in hand. Like your showing each other off to the world.
Simple things please the most.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I miss the honeymoon period and feeling in love with somebody… you know, that exciting feeling of organising things and desiring somebody. And stupidly enough the warm hugs and kisses (not particularly the sexual ones more like the affectionate ones)
Also, sadly haven’t experienced this for whatever reason, but I want someone to hold my hand in public x haha so silly right
Not silly"
Haha such a simple act that seems to have been un achievable so far … not much in private, but in public. I used to tell myself, it doesn’t matter but it does. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
Southern Wales |
"I miss the comfortableness of being with someone who really knows, gets you, loves you, wants to bone you at all hours, would give you their last rolo (and their first) and is just fun to be with.
Intimacy with your best friend feeling"
Yep. You can get out of bed in the morning looking like Frankenstein and they still love the bones of you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss the honeymoon period and feeling in love with somebody… you know, that exciting feeling of organising things and desiring somebody. And stupidly enough the warm hugs and kisses (not particularly the sexual ones more like the affectionate ones)
Also, sadly haven’t experienced this for whatever reason, but I want someone to hold my hand in public x haha so silly right
I miss that too, its feels great to walk hand in hand. Like your showing each other off to the world.
Simple things please the most.
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Exactly, that’s the message. That it’s the two of you and that you don’t care what others think x
I’ll report back if I’ll ever find that guy who will hold my
hand when walking down the street  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Silly but I miss someone just to watch tv with. Netflix series aren't the same when you don't have to explain what's going on every 5 minutes "
Good one! I love sharing my knowledge in films and tv series!! So I miss that too x snuggling up also while watching Netflix in bed x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss the comfortableness of being with someone who really knows, gets you, loves you, wants to bone you at all hours, would give you their last rolo (and their first) and is just fun to be with.
Intimacy with your best friend feeling
Yep. You can get out of bed in the morning looking like Frankenstein and they still love the bones of you. "
This, this right here I once had and I miss it too x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe not a simple thing, but I miss having someone who knows me deeply. Who will say to me "you are being silly" and "I love you" in the same breath."
Two become one... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I miss the little things, holding hands while out, looking into her eyes and smiling and making her blush, holding her when she least expects it and kissing her, waking up and see her awake and smiling at me, telling her I love her. Hearing her tell me she loves me.
Single life is great too. But I do miss intimacy with someone special |
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"I miss the honeymoon period and feeling in love with somebody… you know, that exciting feeling of organising things and desiring somebody. And stupidly enough the warm hugs and kisses (not particularly the sexual ones more like the affectionate ones)
Also, sadly haven’t experienced this for whatever reason, but I want someone to hold my hand in public x haha so silly right
I miss that too, its feels great to walk hand in hand. Like your showing each other off to the world.
Simple things please the most.
Exactly, that’s the message. That it’s the two of you and that you don’t care what others think x
I’ll report back if I’ll ever find that guy who will hold my
hand when walking down the street "
Ah I hope you do 
And if he's got a good looking brother send him my way  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
I'll know it when I find it. |
I'd probably miss having that simple, comfortable intimacy with someone. Even if it's doing the mundane, like remortgaging or sorting out the hanging baskets, it's joyful because I'm doing it with someone I love and who loves me.
And the language we've developed over time - we have our own little communication style because we know each other so well, the jokes that can have us tearing up with laughter and snorting, the easy answers because we know what the other is thinking, the words of reassurance that we don't need to ask for because there's that connection that means we know when the other needs it.
Most of all, I'd miss him. Even if sometimes he's a proper grumpy old man, my life is better for him being in it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I miss the honeymoon period and feeling in love with somebody… you know, that exciting feeling of organising things and desiring somebody. And stupidly enough the warm hugs and kisses (not particularly the sexual ones more like the affectionate ones)
Also, sadly haven’t experienced this for whatever reason, but I want someone to hold my hand in public x haha so silly right
I miss that too, its feels great to walk hand in hand. Like your showing each other off to the world.
Simple things please the most.
Exactly, that’s the message. That it’s the two of you and that you don’t care what others think x
I’ll report back if I’ll ever find that guy who will hold my
hand when walking down the street
Ah I hope you do
And if he's got a good looking brother send him my way "
Aww thanks lovely!!
I certainly will, would look forward to double dates catch ups haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss the honeymoon period and feeling in love with somebody… you know, that exciting feeling of organising things and desiring somebody. And stupidly enough the warm hugs and kisses (not particularly the sexual ones more like the affectionate ones)
Also, sadly haven’t experienced this for whatever reason, but I want someone to hold my hand in public x haha so silly right
Not silly
Haha such a simple act that seems to have been un achievable so far … not much in private, but in public. I used to tell myself, it doesn’t matter but it does. "
It really does xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I miss the comfortableness of being with someone who really knows, gets you, loves you, wants to bone you at all hours, would give you their last rolo (and their first) and is just fun to be with."
That’s so well put. And someone to share the dog walking! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd probably miss having that simple, comfortable intimacy with someone. Even if it's doing the mundane, like remortgaging or sorting out the hanging baskets, it's joyful because I'm doing it with someone I love and who loves me.
And the language we've developed over time - we have our own little communication style because we know each other so well, the jokes that can have us tearing up with laughter and snorting, the easy answers because we know what the other is thinking, the words of reassurance that we don't need to ask for because there's that connection that means we know when the other needs it.
Most of all, I'd miss him. Even if sometimes he's a proper grumpy old man, my life is better for him being in it. "
Snorting.. love it.
Company is a big miss, just knowing their about.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Miss getting a coffee in a morning and generally being cared looked after 
These things are such simple actions, yet mean so much.. Beautiful "
It's the little things that mean the most!!
Shoot you'll have me looking on pof or tinder in a minute  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Miss getting a coffee in a morning and generally being cared looked after
These things are such simple actions, yet mean so much.. Beautiful
It's the little things that mean the most!!
Shoot you'll have me looking on pof or tinder in a minute "
May see you there then... |
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Having someone to cook for, or being fed. Making a decent meal for one just isn't worth it most nights, and it always tastes better when you've not cooked it yourself.
And the grunts, snorts, hisses and other random noises that translate into a full language only the pair of you understand. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I don't miss anything. I never had anything in my last relationship. That's why I'm single.
I would love to have just one them things in my next relationship "
Mine was the same. I've not had a relationship with the things I miss since my early 20s |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss the honeymoon period and feeling in love with somebody… you know, that exciting feeling of organising things and desiring somebody. And stupidly enough the warm hugs and kisses (not particularly the sexual ones more like the affectionate ones)
Also, sadly haven’t experienced this for whatever reason, but I want someone to hold my hand in public x haha so silly right
I miss that too, its feels great to walk hand in hand. Like your showing each other off to the world.
Simple things please the most.
Exactly, that’s the message. That it’s the two of you and that you don’t care what others think x
I’ll report back if I’ll ever find that guy who will hold my
hand when walking down the street "
i think you will be ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't miss anything. I never had anything in my last relationship. That's why I'm single.
I would love to have just one them things in my next relationship "
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Someone to do things with. Talk, hug, Eat out with, A walk. A couple of drinks all the "normal" stuff. My ex never wanted to do anything even though I constantly tried to suggest things. It's ok being on my own, I go for walks, drinks and take myself out to eat but nice to share the experience o think |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I miss the little things, holding hands while out, looking into her eyes and smiling and making her blush, holding her when she least expects it and kissing her, waking up and see her awake and smiling at me, telling her I love her. Hearing her tell me she loves me. The big things like listening to her day, looking forward to sharing in her dreams and success and helping if I can.
Single life is great too. But I do miss intimacy with someone special "
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"I miss the little things, holding hands while out, looking into her eyes and smiling and making her blush, holding her when she least expects it and kissing her, waking up and see her awake and smiling at me, telling her I love her. Hearing her tell me she loves me. The big things like listening to her day, looking forward to sharing in her dreams and success and helping if I can.
Single life is great too. But I do miss intimacy with someone special "
This! I love my freedom but it's the just having someone there sometimes I miss x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love being single but am really lucky to have a few fwb with whom I have close connections with.. so when we get together we do the hand holding in public.. dinner & drinks out, morning spooning and when not together regular chats about our days.
We just enjoy the moments we are together but then go back to our single lives. I call it dating lite.. just all the nice bits of dating but no drudgery or taking each other for granted
Best of both worlds IMHO.. |
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By *inxybWoman
over a year ago
Durham |
There’s so many things I miss, but one thing that always makes me smile is when I’m in the supermarket I happily remember my husband always saying in a rather loud voice, “Minxy, do you want a finger or two?” as he waved a box of Cadbury’s chocolate fingers in the air with a glint in his eye! Happy memories are all that’s left |
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The everyday intimacy - holding hands, cuddling on the sofa watching TV, when you're cooking and feel his hands around your waist and get a kiss on your neck. The little routines you get into. The smile that greets you when you've been out. And generally just having someone to share things with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I miss the little things, holding hands while out, looking into her eyes and smiling and making her blush, holding her when she least expects it and kissing her, waking up and see her awake and smiling at me, telling her I love her. Hearing her tell me she loves me. The big things like listening to her day, looking forward to sharing in her dreams and success and helping if I can.
Single life is great too. But I do miss intimacy with someone special
This! I love my freedom but it's the just having someone there sometimes I miss x"
It’s a lovely feeling knowing your best friends at home to greet you with a kiss, and a hug that instantly makes your day better. Even if your having a good day x |
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It's a very specific thing for me, and it only works within the intimacy of a relationship.
I love being driven home in the dark after a night out, chatting shit when coccooned in the safe bubble of the car, secure in our own little world.
I really do miss that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The everyday intimacy - holding hands, cuddling on the sofa watching TV, when you're cooking and feel his hands around your waist and get a kiss on your neck. The little routines you get into. The smile that greets you when you've been out. And generally just having someone to share things with. "
All of this |
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Conversation, a film or food with someone, spooning, the security you feel when you are with someone. That person that you want to ring or text when you open your eyes in the morning. But I would much rather be single than in an unhappy relationship  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I miss the comfortableness of being with someone who really knows, gets you, loves you, wants to bone you at all hours, would give you their last rolo (and their first) and is just fun to be with."
Totally agree... |
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"The everyday intimacy - holding hands, cuddling on the sofa watching TV, when you're cooking and feel his hands around your waist and get a kiss on your neck. The little routines you get into. The smile that greets you when you've been out. And generally just having someone to share things with. "
All of this! Plus little inside jokes, feeling completely comfortable enough around someone to reveal deep desires and dreams, knowing that someone has your back, spooning.
Loneliness had me go back for one night to my ex ltr a while ago. That was most definitely a mistake!  |
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"Good Morning all.
So I was just thinking, as great as being a singleton can be..
What are the simple things in life you miss the most ?
And rephrased "would miss" for our couples ?
Sunday Morning frolics in bed is one of mine. "
Morning sex for sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ll report back if I’ll ever find that guy who will hold my
hand when walking down the street "
Slide over to Glasgow and I'll hold your hand walking through the city streets and parks (and I'll chance my arm with a cheeky bum squeeze to) x |
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"Conversation, a film or food with someone, spooning, the security you feel when you are with someone. That person that you want to ring or text when you open your eyes in the morning. But I would much rather be single than in an unhappy relationship "
Above and have someone who "gets me", someone who has consideration for me as I would him, "that look" when you glance across to them, no words required; someone to look forward going home to, do the usual "couple" things... I can dream! |
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"I don't miss anything from the past but I yearn for affection shown by physical touch, being wanted, having a partner in crime etc... "
Agree with the being wanted. Being single is hard, nobody trusts single men, that goes for fab or any other way of finding people for different situations!
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