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By *renouille OP   Man  over a year ago

brackley

So, meet someone on Fab..

Meetings for sex one to one and small groups became more friendly and turn to what I was thinking a friendship with exchanges of messages related to day to day life.

I enjoyed it then for and unknown or futile reason, all went blank..

So it may have not been a friendship..

Does someone has experimented the same pattern?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Welcome to the forum.

Maybe they had other life stuff going on.

Or maybe they caught feelings for you and decided it was safer to walk away.

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By *renouille OP   Man  over a year ago

brackley

I somehow agreed but if they are "friend" they should be able to be franc and honest and tell you if there is some incompatibility with their life or tell you to back up a bit if they feel for you.

In my personal opinion, whatever the truth, it is better to talk about than suddenly block you and close all contacts..

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By *renouille OP   Man  over a year ago

brackley

Also sometimes it could be reciprocity on the feelings leading to some emptiness...

Never know..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe they liked the companionship at the time, maybe you were a friend but now they have another friend. Maybe they called you friend so as to not hurt your feelings, maybe they replied to your messages because they felt obligated to, maybe you showed a character trait further into the friendship that they didnt like and didnt feel they could share., maybe it's nit a good idea to fuck your friends.

Maybe they met someone who is a potential partner. Maybe she got feels but couldnt tell you, maybe she got feels and she didn't like that.

People come into our lives for a reason a season or a life time.

Sirry bud

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By *renouille OP   Man  over a year ago

brackley

Lots of maybe..

If you don't want take risks, stay away at the beginning, don't be on Fab and meet people intimately.

It could be damaging...

But at least be honest and tell the real reasons.

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By *JB1954Man  over a year ago

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A lot of people on here . This is my opinion . Say they want NSA sex. Now due to human nature etc. Become friends , then have feelings . Which they have not considered or planned for. So then do not respond to messages , block . Try to work out why have feelings ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why don't you look at the time spent as a positive moment - something you enjoyed at that particular time.

Trying to fathom it out, will just drive you crazy.

I'd remember it as it was - and the feelings it gave you.

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By *renouille OP   Man  over a year ago

brackley

I agree with cherishing the good moments.. And it was lots of them.

But this make me think that the other was maybe lying when saying it was good..

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