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If someone removes you as a friend on Fab
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you ask that person why? |
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Not happened yet I don't think but no I wouldn't. |
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Nope. I assume they have their reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As we are in our last few months on here we decided to clear out anyone that we thought that we will never meet.
And yes virtually every one messaged to ask why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Na, why waste your energy. If they want to unfriend you without talking to you first then why should you worry about it x
You'll always have me Jim  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saying that, I will have a shit fit once in a while and delete everyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tricky one, depends how close you where. I've removed friends that i don't talk with. |
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No I wouldn’t ask them why. But I’ve removed people who I’ve not talked to recently then they seem to pop up and ask why  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Na, why waste your energy. If they want to unfriend you without talking to you first then why should you worry about it x
You'll always have me Jim "
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Depends on how close we are.
If we've not chatted in weeks then I wouldn't (I'd assume they were culling their list rather than it being personal), but if it's someone I had spoken to within a few days I'd probably want to check I hadn't inadvertently offended. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Saying that, I will have a shit fit once in a while and delete everyone "
I won't take it personally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. But I shit in their kettle.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. But I shit in their kettle. "
I like your style  |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
"No. But I shit in their kettle. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tricky one, depends how close you where. I've removed friends that i don't talk with."
*Nods* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had people ask why, yes.
I have never asked because it was obvious we would never meet due to distance but have had a laugh over lockdown. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. But I shit in their kettle. "
I'm glad we're not friends! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. But I shit in their kettle. "
If they drink Nescafe original, they won't notice. |
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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"No. But I shit in their kettle. "
Do you work for premier inn?  |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
Just to play devils advocate here. I built up a few friends and initially it would be after passing a few messages and saying the standard "if you're ever passing", then after sending follow up messages and in fact "passing" where they are based so trying to arrange a social you get no reply. What's then the point of being friends? So one by one after hearing nothing for ages I also delete from friends. So if you don't pass messages occasionally you have to ask why are you friends.
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
Helps if you have friends. |
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"Just to play devils advocate here. I built up a few friends and initially it would be after passing a few messages and saying the standard "if you're ever passing", then after sending follow up messages and in fact "passing" where they are based so trying to arrange a social you get no reply. What's then the point of being friends? So one by one after hearing nothing for ages I also delete from friends. So if you don't pass messages occasionally you have to ask why are you friends.
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I agree with this. |
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"No. But I shit in their kettle.
If they drink Nescafe original, they won't notice."
I drink that when it's on offer sometimes  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"[Shit removed from kettle by poster at 03/08/21 08:05:46]"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"[Shit removed from kettle by poster at 03/08/21 08:05:46]"
Best keep an eye on your jar of Nutella as well then...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"[Shit removed from kettle by poster at 03/08/21 08:05:46]
Best keep an eye on your jar of Nutella as well then... "
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
I probably wouldn't notice tbh
My logic is if we are really friends that they either have my number or we talk pretty regularly anyhooo, in which case if it bothered them I'd expect them to mention it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I just follow them home on the bus and post a cock pic through their letterbox  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, just say ah I see you’ve unfriended me, but keep it light and breezy. For example, ‘I see your team are doing well, Ive also seen you’ve unfriended me, both these things I’m light and breezy about, I don’t think I can Emphasise how light and breezy I am about both these things!’
Then wait their reply with bated breath. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm still your buddy Jim  |
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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago
Kettering |
I don't have many friends on here. None that I even chat with so wouldn't miss anyone unfriending me  |
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My biggest reason for doing so is that you haven't talked to me for over a month so i assume you are no longer interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we spoke often I would ask them why. But if they were just friends for perving purposes then I doubt I'd even question it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you even notice? "
Can't perve on their friends only photos anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No aa it’s irrelevant it’s just fab
I unfriend people if not messaging after couple of weeks . Thry can still message though so it’s no problem |
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Friends?
Not exactly Facebook is it? |
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"No. I just follow them home on the bus and post a cock pic through their letterbox "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Friends?
Not exactly Facebook is it?"
Dunno reading a lot of profiles bios it sounds like Facebook  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm still your buddy Jim "
Love you, Kitty. |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
"Helps if you have friends."
Seems I don't have any  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Friends?
Not exactly Facebook is it?"
*Pokes* |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Helps if you have friends.
Seems I don't have any "
Liar! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't, I frequently have a friends clear out, some people the conversation just dwindles and I don't feel comfortable sharing friends only pics anymore, nothing against those people just if we don't chat/meet there is no reason for them to be on my friends list. |
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So many ifs and buts.
If they were a good friend YES
If i'd never met them but wanted sex YES
If i'd put them on my list and we'd never spoken NO
Yada yada ..... Think about YOU not them. Do YOU want them back or are you indifferent ? Then decide. |
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I've removed people who I think only chatted to get the access to friends only pics. If they stop chatting or replying after I've friended them I get rid.
I don't do it instantly but if they've been online and not replied to a few messages in a week they are of my list.
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
"Helps if you have friends.
Seems I don't have any
Liar!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So many ifs and buts.
If they were a good friend YES
If i'd never met them but wanted sex YES
If i'd put them on my list and we'd never spoken NO
Yada yada ..... Think about YOU not them. Do YOU want them back or are you indifferent ? Then decide."
Yada yada doo think about you.
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
Well I'm off to get naked in the sun! |
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"How do you even notice? "
This. I don’t think I would to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well I'm off to get naked in the sun!"
I didn't know they'd brought back page 7 fella. |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
"Well I'm off to get naked in the sun!
I didn't know they'd brought back page 7 fella. "
I don't even reach page 100 these days. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
Iv removed friends its nothing personal xx |
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I presume it's because I've pissed them off and they're not interested in chatting anymore.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't know, I haven't got any friends on here  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I wouldn't know, I haven't got any friends on here "
You have xx |
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I don’t think I’d notice. I’m crap on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ask that person why?"
Not happened yet, but I wouldn’t ask. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I rarely look, but i did notice one recently.. turned out they'd deleted their profile... So then i felt bad for not noticing they'd gone for a bit  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Do you ask that person why?" .why why why
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I rarely look at my friends list so probably wouldn't notice if we hadn't been in touch for a while. It's personal choice who is on there and no I wouldn't ask why I'd been removed x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't know, I haven't got any friends on here
You have xx"
Even though I sing out of tune? x |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I wouldn't know, I haven't got any friends on here
You have xx
Even though I sing out of tune? x"
Who said that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't know, I haven't got any friends on here
You have xx
Even though I sing out of tune? x
Who said that "
No one, they just stood up and walked out  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you ask that person why?.why why why"
I want to see what people say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people stop chatting what's the point in keeping them on your friends list or am I missing something ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. I move on. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Do you ask that person why?.why why why
I want to see what people say."
Dont sweat the small stuff x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't know, I haven't got any friends on here "
Ahem!  |
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I remove friends that I am no longer in regular contact with. I can't see the point in collecting friends. |
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"I remove friends that I am no longer in regular contact with. I can't see the point in collecting friends. "
Same here, but I hate being the one that sends the first message all the time.  |
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I wouldn't ask them. My "friends" list very small..just how I like it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you ask that person why?.why why why
I want to see what people say.
Dont sweat the small stuff x"
Can I sweat the big stuff? x |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Do you ask that person why?.why why why
I want to see what people say.
Dont sweat the small stuff x
Can I sweat the big stuff? x"
Yeah xxx |
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Just like irl friendship should be two way. If you are the one who always initiates the conversation and it's hard work you can't really call them friends.
In a fab context if you only hear from them when they post a new pic or they need support during their latest drama it's time to hit that delete button. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ask that person why?"
Wouldn't it that depend if that person mattered to us or was just a random addition you were coerced into during a weak moment. Shall I unfriend you for science?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't know, I haven't got any friends on here
Ahem! "
Do you have something caught in your throat? Would you like a drink?   |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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No.
For us being “friends” is just about sharing access to “friends only” content.
We have spent more time talking with some who are not “friends” than others who have been on that list. |
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If we haven’t chatted in a long while or their interests have moved away from ours then we would remove them as friends.
Mostly though, we like to keep in touch and see how people are doing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I delete everyone I haven’t chatted to for at least a month. If you don’t chat then you’re not friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just deleted one  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you ask that person why?
Wouldn't it that depend if that person mattered to us or was just a random addition you were coerced into during a weak moment. Shall I unfriend you for science? "
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"Do you ask that person why?"
No. It’s their choice to do so, and we’re sure they have a reason. If it’s something we did or said then it would be useful (but not essential) to know. Particularly if it’s someone we had met for more than social interaction.
We assume our “friends” run a friend list like ourselves. If there is no longer an interest or prospect of meeting or conversation has just faded or not gained any traction to begin with, then off you go!
It takes two to start a friendship but one to end it,
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Your kettles are safe from me. For today anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't know, I haven't got any friends on here
Ahem!
Do you have something caught in your throat? Would you like a drink?  "
Chokes |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Your kettles are safe from me. For today anyway."
Hugs xxxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't know, I haven't got any friends on here
Ahem!
Do you have something caught in your throat? Would you like a drink? 
Chokes "
**gets behind you, ready to perform the heimlich  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope |
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It's also entirely possible they've left and come back fairly quickly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah, I'm sure they have their reasons and it seems a bit pushy to ask |
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Nope, I just block them as I'll have no more need to contact them or look at their profile again. Happened to me this morning, can't say I was too bothered anyways I suspect it was a single male pretending to be a couple so was nothing more than a time waster. Nice wife though. Onwards and upwards.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend not to even look at my friend's list, for most of the people I chat to regularly, I either do so through other means like watsapp or Kik, or I have still their chat log in my messages.
So if I had someone on my friends list who deleted me I probably wouldn't even know, or care. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was quite put out when I noticed an FWB was no longer on my friends list
I asked him why he had unfriended me ..he replied he didn't know as he didn't have friends in Fab. (he had 1 friend)
A day or so later I remembered that I had actually unfriended HIM myself.... because I didn't like seeing his status,s ect in my update feeds.
I did not confess to him that I had done this.
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Another Time |
Never had an actual friend "unfriend", but plenty of so called Friends unfriend - depends on why they friended you in the first place, on both profiles.
Not worth pursuing it.
Same as being so disliked - not something you should brood over - or loose any sleep over. |
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"Do you ask that person why?"
\_@_/ no need... their perogative... moving on...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I deleted some one the ofter day he was my first ever meet we met loads of times had great craic banter but I could see him getting distant with his messages. It broke my heart to do it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No never. To be fair I rarely look at my friends list and wouldn't really notice. Had it happen before where one person pointed out that I hadn't noticed and I certainly didn't remove them. Then it happened a second time. I don't get why. |
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"No never. To be fair I rarely look at my friends list and wouldn't really notice. Had it happen before where one person pointed out that I hadn't noticed and I certainly didn't remove them. Then it happened a second time. I don't get why. "
Add me and we'll put it to the test.  |
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I wouldn’t let it worry me, people here like to move on to the next new shiny thing, I would still talk to them even if they did unfriend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, doesn’t bother us. We just assume they have their reasons xx |
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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in the middle not the..... |
Nah doesn't bother me, they obviously have their reasons why |
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"Do you ask that person why?"
No! |
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"Nope, doesn’t bother us. We just assume they have their reasons xx"
Hello stranger.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What if your kinda d*unk one Saturday night and Accidentally remove all your friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My biggest reason for doing so is that you haven't talked to me for over a month so i assume you are no longer interested. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My biggest reason for doing so is that you haven't talked to me for over a month so i assume you are no longer interested. "
Spot on  |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
No, some like me will do it to clear out those that haven't spoken me for ages, I am sure the same goes for a lot of other people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, doesn’t bother us. We just assume they have their reasons xx
Hello stranger. "
Hi hon, hope you’re ok xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You made me think of what a good friend actually means. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if your kinda d*unk one Saturday night and Accidentally remove all your friends "
...well judging by all the "I wouldn't notice" and "don't care" comments, this has to be the most genius FR idea that you have stumbled accross!!
*message reads: "Fuck I'm so sorry, I was so d*unk on the weekend I foolishly and accidentally deleted my whole friends list, and you are one of my closest I've sent you a new one so we can reconnect"
Anyone wants to cut and paste that, fill your boots, let me know how you get on! 
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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There's a big difference between being actual real friends and ones on a friends list. You can find real friends on Fab, they don't mean less because they aren't on a list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they remove me, then they have reason to and that is down to the parties own choice.
I’ve recently removed a friend that continuously adds me as a friend but never replies to messages etc. |
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"Nope, doesn’t bother us. We just assume they have their reasons xx
Hello stranger.
Hi hon, hope you’re ok xx"
I'm my usual cheerful self.
PM if you ever fancy a catch up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ask that person why?"
Yep. Don’t always get a truthful answer though, including from one, universally loved, firm forum favourite!!
Not overly bothered about it happening but it always nice to get the real reason in case it’s something I’ve done and can avoid in the future. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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He doesn't ask. ^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He doesn't ask. ^"
He doesn't tell ^  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had one couple de-friend me, and whilst I was curious, I just assumed they had changed what they were looking for.
It’s people’s prerogative isn’t it. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"He doesn't ask. ^
He doesn't tell ^ "
Shes a repeater ^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He doesn't ask. ^
He doesn't tell ^
Shes a repeater ^"
She's a nice tale teller  |
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"He doesn't ask. ^
He doesn't tell ^
Shes a repeater ^
She's a nice tale teller "
She's a repeater ^  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"He doesn't ask. ^
He doesn't tell ^
Shes a repeater ^
She's a nice tale teller "
Shes beautiful x
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Some just nosy and others just not interested anymore and move on  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Some just nosy and others just not interested anymore and move on "
Hes opinionated ^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He doesn't ask. ^
He doesn't tell ^
Shes a repeater ^
She's a nice tale teller
Shes beautiful x
^"
She tells me off ^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some just nosy and others just not interested anymore and move on
She's opinionated ^"
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People are always having friend clear outs. Probably sound a bit weird to say that you'd even noticed tbf |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"He doesn't ask. ^
He doesn't tell ^
Shes a repeater ^
She's a nice tale teller
Shes beautiful x
^
She tells me off ^"
Hes being dramatic
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People are always having friend clear outs. Probably sound a bit weird to say that you'd even noticed tbf"
what's weird about checking his friends out? |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Some just nosy and others just not interested anymore and move on
She's opinionated ^"
Hes the father of my unborn baby
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some just nosy and others just not interested anymore and move on
She's opinionated ^
Hes the father of my unborn baby
^"
FFS Yas keep that on the down low  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had one couple de-friend me, and whilst I was curious, I just assumed they had changed what they were looking for.
It’s people’s prerogative isn’t it. "
Sometimes it's fat fingers if you are juggling a mobile phone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some just nosy and others just not interested anymore and move on
She's opinionated ^
Hes the father of my unborn baby
^
FFS Yas keep that on the down low "
He's the Daddy ^ |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Some just nosy and others just not interested anymore and move on
She's opinionated ^
Hes the father of my unborn baby
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FFS Yas keep that on the down low "
No you can look after it after iv pushed it out x^ |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Some just nosy and others just not interested anymore and move on
She's opinionated ^
Hes the father of my unborn baby
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FFS Yas keep that on the down low
He's the Daddy ^"
Your uncle ^ |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I’ve had one couple de-friend me, and whilst I was curious, I just assumed they had changed what they were looking for.
It’s people’s prerogative isn’t it.
Sometimes it's fat fingers if you are juggling a mobile phone "
Fat fingers rule ^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had one couple de-friend me, and whilst I was curious, I just assumed they had changed what they were looking for.
It’s people’s prerogative isn’t it.
Sometimes it's fat fingers if you are juggling a mobile phone "
I’m far too good at things like that .
I live in fear of accidentally deleting a telegram convo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ask that person why?"
Nawww...tbh the reason they did so is their's alone,l wouldn't be getting upset, if you have to go down that road and ask what's the point in being a friend with them anyway..it's Fab and tbh ,even if it was in real life l wouldn't be bothered asking there either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No just assume not suitable for them I clear mine out if don’t see a possible fun friendship or if the updates I don’t like too like to keep my screen tidy and pleasant  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"No just assume not suitable for them I clear mine out if don’t see a possible fun friendship or if the updates I don’t like too like to keep my screen tidy and pleasant "
She's ladyluck^ |
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I dint think id even register if had happened to be honest. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
I have only noticed this a couple of times over my time on fab.
One I wondered but turned out he had blocked me, I never did know why.
The other I talk to every day and he asked me why we weren't friends any more. I guess that one was a bug in the matrix somewhere. Or an accidental removal. |
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Nope.
We have been added as a friend and then blocked. Couldnt really care. |
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"Some just nosy and others just not interested anymore and move on
Hes opinionated ^"
You better believe it |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
KIDLINGTON |
I wouldn't ask and I wouldn't expect to be asked if I removed someone.
We have our reasons at the time. Would feel a little needy asking someone why they removed you especially if you haven’t avent chatted for a while. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Some just nosy and others just not interested anymore and move on
Hes opinionated ^
You better believe it "
Iv been told off ^ |
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No, they have their reasons just like I have mine for removing someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some just nosy and others just not interested anymore and move on
Hes opinionated ^
You better believe it
Iv been told off ^"
Go stand in the corner and face the wall  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No we wouldn't ask |
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I get rid of some when they haven't been on site for more than a year. When it's only eleven months though, I assume that they might just be a bit busy and will be online again soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It hasn't happened to me yet...But no I defo wouldn't ask them...that to me would be drama...I'm not into picking someone's brain  |
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I just add them to my list of who to haunt when I'm a ghost. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just add them to my list of who to haunt when I'm a ghost. "
Ghost the ghoster. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a few bad moods and ended up just deleting everyone from friends lists and hot lists. Nearly deleted my account a few times! I blame the admins though!  |
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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago
Longridge |
"No. But I shit in their kettle. "
Did you boil it too? If you switched it on then that's unforgivable.
A pot of slugs works wonders put in a microwave with no lid on fir 6 minutes as I did when I was a kid.
Microwaves were New and very expensive!!
I got de-friended at school for that one.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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[Removed by poster at 03/08/21 16:41:16] |
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"[friend Removed by poster at 03/08/21 16:41:16]"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My "friends" on here are people I've met or intend to meet. If the trail goes cold then I remove them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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She's a remover. ^ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It hasn't happened to me yet...But no I defo wouldn't ask them...that to me would be drama...I'm not into picking someone's brain "
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=em328ua_Lo8 |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Some just nosy and others just not interested anymore and move on
Hes opinionated ^
You better believe it
Iv been told off ^
Go stand in the corner and face the wall "
Ok will you stand behind me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm still your buddy Jim
Love you, Kitty."
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"I've had a few bad moods and ended up just deleting everyone from friends lists and hot lists. Nearly deleted my account a few times! I blame the admins though! "
Even deleted me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few bad moods and ended up just deleting everyone from friends lists and hot lists. Nearly deleted my account a few times! I blame the admins though!
Even deleted me "
Awww don't! ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No Friends, no worries!  |
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If I have to remove them they probably shouldn’t have been there in the first place |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"I've had a few bad moods and ended up just deleting everyone from friends lists and hot lists. Nearly deleted my account a few times! I blame the admins though!
Even deleted me
Awww don't! ?"
We good now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good If someone removes you as a friend on Fab everyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few bad moods and ended up just deleting everyone from friends lists and hot lists. Nearly deleted my account a few times! I blame the admins though!
Even deleted me
Awww don't! ?
We good now "
Still need to make it up to ya!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite often it's an attention thing. Don't play their mind games |
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