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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verdi’s are a bit of a catch 22 at the best of times. You cannot get some until you’ve got some, and then it’s a bit like judges holding up score cards."
I never understand the catch 22 comment. How do you think we all managed to get our first verification ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verdi’s are a bit of a catch 22 at the best of times. You cannot get some until you’ve got some, and then it’s a bit like judges holding up score cards.
I never understand the catch 22 comment. How do you think we all managed to get our first verification ?"
tbf its easier in a couple but its a fair point everyone with veris had to get a first one
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people who have verified ne have rarely put any effort in. Some people can't even be bothered to verify me at all
It's sad when I read so many very enthusiastic veris from men to women and that's all I can get.
I'm either just as rubbish in real life as people online think I am or I'm meeting the wrong people.
I would rather keep mine hidden most of the time anyway. I prefer a bit of mystery.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most people who have verified ne have rarely put any effort in. Some people can't even be bothered to verify me at all
It's sad when I read so many very enthusiastic veris from men to women and that's all I can get.
I'm either just as rubbish in real life as people online think I am or I'm meeting the wrong people.
I would rather keep mine hidden most of the time anyway. I prefer a bit of mystery. "
Maybe I should offer my services as a writer. Go for a pint and I'll write your verification.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always like to write details in the verifications but that’s just me in general, I like being articulate.
The “great meet, does what he says on the tin” seem kinda wishy washy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m really not interested in receiving them in all honesty, it’s nice so others can see you are genuine and provides them with confidence you are you but regarding the details of the meet I’d prefer not to see or to share |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
I like receiving them but for me.
The ones I have from friends are enough to prove I'm real, and the other couple are for me and my memories.
I do like writing them though.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most people who have verified ne have rarely put any effort in. Some people can't even be bothered to verify me at all
It's sad when I read so many very enthusiastic veris from men to women and that's all I can get.
I'm either just as rubbish in real life as people online think I am or I'm meeting the wrong people.
I would rather keep mine hidden most of the time anyway. I prefer a bit of mystery.
Maybe I should offer my services as a writer. Go for a pint and I'll write your verification. "
You'll have to fill it with lies then. I'll be expecting an amazing review. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Passed Beyond Reach |
Veris have little or no value really. Nobody gives a bad veris - this person is a complete f$$kwhit avoid. People can choose not to post them anyway. The only real measure they give is an indication of the person.
If its a bloke then most like sees them as popularity notches.
Profiles that say will not meet single guys and all veris are from single guys - shows a lack of honesty in their profile.
The measure of a person/persons is through communication and conversation not through veris, but people but a lot of stead in them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But I see lots of people really leaving each other veris soon as they have met..
I tend not to as majority of the guys I meet on here dont put TS on what they are looking for , so I feel like I’m intruding …
but yeah , I love a good verification |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I insist that she leaves me a verification before we've even got down to business. So when we're having a Smirnoff Ice I fully let them understand that they need to right me a verification to a high standard, as the outcome will determine how well I shall treat their minge.
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
It doesn't bother me really what people write in their veris.Some people I met veried me others didn't either way to doesn't bother me. I'll veri someone I meet if they ask but I don't give explicit veris. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most people who have verified ne have rarely put any effort in. Some people can't even be bothered to verify me at all
It's sad when I read so many very enthusiastic veris from men to women and that's all I can get.
I'm either just as rubbish in real life as people online think I am or I'm meeting the wrong people.
I would rather keep mine hidden most of the time anyway. I prefer a bit of mystery.
Maybe I should offer my services as a writer. Go for a pint and I'll write your verification.
You'll have to fill it with lies then. I'll be expecting an amazing review. "
No lies, just creative writing.  |
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I have two that you would split your sides laughing at they were written by quick witted, articulate males! Very amusing! The most recent one was absolutely ace but I’m buggered if I’m going to declare it  |
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We all have our likes and dislikes. I'm not a fan of reading the whole chapter and verse of what happened and the details...
I show some that were from an organised social, think that's enough to show I'm real.
The ones from private meets are exactly that...private. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its a verification not a review.
If you want it to be erotica then you do you, but I do toll my eyes any time I read about how big and girthy or wet and squirty someone is."
It was more an observation, on how different verifications can we written |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Then there are those that may be written to help offload a less than ideal match onto others.
You need to read between the lines. "
That explains why I have good veris!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think verifications give a little clue to the type of person/people they are. Especially if there is similar recurring comments.
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I think veris only give clues about the people who wrote them. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
We found it very easy to get our first veri. We put a meet up on a Wednesday for a weekend meet, a lovely woman contacted us on Thursday and on Saturday we were enjoying an FFM with her, and then she left us a veri on Sunday (Thank you Craig David).
Admittedly, that gave us a very distorted impression of how easy it was to meet lovely women on Fab for FFMs, but for a while we were living the dream!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We found it very easy to get our first veri. We put a meet up on a Wednesday for a weekend meet, a lovely woman contacted us on Thursday and on Saturday we were enjoying an FFM with her, and then she left us a veri on Sunday (Thank you Craig David).
Admittedly, that gave us a very distorted impression of how easy it was to meet lovely women on Fab for FFMs, but for a while we were living the dream! "
...and then you woke up...  |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"We found it very easy to get our first veri. We put a meet up on a Wednesday for a weekend meet, a lovely woman contacted us on Thursday and on Saturday we were enjoying an FFM with her, and then she left us a veri on Sunday (Thank you Craig David).
Admittedly, that gave us a very distorted impression of how easy it was to meet lovely women on Fab for FFMs, but for a while we were living the dream!
...and then you woke up... "
Yes...but the reality has been pretty fantastic anyway!  |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
We had some really funny ones that we lost when people left which I was gutted about, I don’t get why that happens, why can’t the veri stay under person no longer on site? I used to like reading them when I wanted a reminder of the fun and a giggle  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had some really funny ones that we lost when people left which I was gutted about, I don’t get why that happens, why can’t the veri stay under person no longer on site? I used to like reading them when I wanted a reminder of the fun and a giggle "
Same here I have quite a few that have gone because they have left the site! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its a verification not a review.
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Exactly. The whole purpose is to confirm that the person is real and turns up.
I'm not interested in reading about what went on and how wonderful it was because everyone is different |
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I have neither received or given verifications during my time on Fab nor do I wish to.
In life outside of Fab I never give feedback for any service I have received or any items I have purchased, the whole system is alien to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do miss having any veri's and those little reminders of people. Im not very good at writing them for others but I do like reading them, they give another insight into character. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only have them as it helped getting access the forums and it let's people know in "genuine". I did have a couple of amazing ones and have wrote some decent ones in the past but because they were very positive but not overtly sexual it attracted alot of the "creepy question askers" on fab. Also people were bugging those I had met to have threesomes with me without talking to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had some really funny ones that we lost when people left which I was gutted about, I don’t get why that happens, why can’t the veri stay under person no longer on site? I used to like reading them when I wanted a reminder of the fun and a giggle
Same here I have quite a few that have gone because they have left the site!"
I lost a fair few during lockdown . They will be back. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"^ For anyone wondering why there are so few women in this site, it's because they're all with Mr Nice
Ahhhh Mr nice he’s a great bloke "
He doesn't need more verifications  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"^ For anyone wondering why there are so few women in this site, it's because they're all with Mr Nice
Ahhhh Mr nice he’s a great bloke "
So are you matey . And yes its rude to spit ..Ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verifications are a show of appreciation to the person you meet - not vital nor in some cases not needed - but a nice reminder of your time spent together, so they should be complimentary
J xx  |
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"It always makes me piss the differing levels of effort put into written veris.
Some are really articulate and some, well you've all seen them "
She sucks like a Dyson and squirts like a fountain and loves it in all holes... Treat her with respect. |
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By *vriderMan
over a year ago
Chester |
I'd honestly prefer verifications to be changed to a simple tick box style.
Is this person real?
What more do you need?
I don't like the social media popularity competition that life has turned into and verifications do feel very similar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd honestly prefer verifications to be changed to a simple tick box style.
Is this person real?
What more do you need?
I don't like the social media popularity competition that life has turned into and verifications do feel very similar. "
We all use fab in our different ways.Each to their own I guess.
For me it's nice to read veris as you can get a feel for that person . I also like to read the veris people leave.  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Its a verification not a review.
If you want it to be erotica then you do you, but I do toll my eyes any time I read about how big and girthy or wet and squirty someone is."
All my hidden veris talk about how big and girthy I am  |
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"I'd honestly prefer verifications to be changed to a simple tick box style.
Is this person real?
What more do you need?
I don't like the social media popularity competition that life has turned into and verifications do feel very similar. "
You can do that if you wish in the manage verifications part of your account. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It always makes me piss the differing levels of effort put into written veris.
Some are really articulate and some, well you've all seen them "
For one of my best friends here I did a one sentence one. Don't think we fell out after that.  |
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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago
south west |
I just wish that they weren’t removed when the poster leaves fab. I think I have in the region of 15 veri’s or similar, but most are from two women, who verified me, left, rejoined, reverified, left etc!! One of these two has left about 5 times now!! |
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