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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Recently…had a friend for five years.
Caught feelings….then found out she did too
Took my shot…it didn’t hit the target. "
Sorry to hear this. All the best.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Recently…had a friend for five years.
Caught feelings….then found out she did too
Took my shot…it didn’t hit the target.
Sorry to hear this. All the best...."
It’s all good buddy, I’ve been through worse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love for a best friend....
Have you ever had it?
How did you get over it? If you have!
Sorry if it's been covered before.
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Yes I got the love feels for a long-term male friend. I walked away before Covid Not really got over it yet. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Happens on Fab a lot op, hope you’re ok if it’s a personal post, can’t be easy  "
It's not. Especially as I need to walk away but she needs my support with import stuff. It's hard. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes it's hard isn't it.
I kind of wish there was a switch to press....
So how have people gotten over it?
Though I suspect from the responses most of us haven't...... |
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By *oc30Man
over a year ago
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Childhood friend. Met her again in Medschool ! Fell in Love. Never confessed, though she knew, the whole bloody year knew. Saw her getting married. It was hard , it is what it is ! Chin up and carry on |
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Yup. He was separated from his wife for a long time but we both caught feelings then she decided she wanted another go and he felt it his duty to try and save the marriage which I respect. He admitted he still loves her. Hurts no less though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes. The most painful thing I’ve done I think.
Hope you’re ok OP. Be kind to yourself
Tx"
Ah trying to be kind.
Just got to get to a place that I can be.
Thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very often ppl tend to forget how difficult it is for the rejector too.
It is not easy to tell someone that you don’t love her/him back.
Especially in a society that glorifies love and sees it as the ultimate goal to achieve complete satisfaction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, but I loved him enough to let him go.
We're still friends and he has a gorgeous little boy and a stunning fiance....He's happy and that means the world to me |
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