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"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity. " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity. " I’ve met one or two and they haven’t tried to do that at all. Perhaps because I’m so thoroughly moronic that I’m not seen as much of a challenge ![]() | |||
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"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity. I’ve met one or two and they haven’t tried to do that at all. Perhaps because I’m so thoroughly moronic that I’m not seen as much of a challenge ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think one has to have something to say, to get them to the bedroom ![]() ![]() If one has anything worth listening to | |||
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"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. " ![]() | |||
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"Us really clever people never use that term." ![]() | |||
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"I think one has to have something to say, to get them to the bedroom ![]() ![]() ![]() Hold on tight ![]() | |||
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"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*. *obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad." ![]() | |||
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"I think one has to have something to say, to get them to the bedroom ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. ![]() That would be rather perfect. | |||
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"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*. *obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. ![]() their...I got away with that one! | |||
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"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. ![]() ![]() Maybe you'll get a Kiss From A Rose | |||
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"I think one has to have something to say, to get them to the bedroom ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I never said use your hands ![]() | |||
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"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. ![]() ![]() If the whole of Fab had been set up just to make that line work, it would have been worth it ![]() | |||
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"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Well said English Rose. " I'm going to take a sneak peak at her profile and if the word Sapiosexual is not found I must doubt her integrity! | |||
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"I put off adding that word to my profile for a long time but then added it because I want a true friend with benefits and found a much better connection with smart people. I am aware it sounds very pretentious but decided I dont give a fuck if it works ![]() verbal smut... | |||
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"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*. *obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. ![]() They’re ![]() | |||
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"I'm a boobieosexual ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*. *obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Well said English Rose. I'm going to take a sneak peak at her profile and if the word Sapiosexual is not found I must doubt her integrity!" Yep, it's in there AS BOLD AS BRASS! | |||
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"I put off adding that word to my profile for a long time but then added it because I want a true friend with benefits and found a much better connection with smart people. I am aware it sounds very pretentious but decided I dont give a fuck if it works" I like smart people too, fast decision makers , risk takers, successful, leaders in their field or entrepreneurs , but often when I get to know an “intelligent” person online , they are the opposite and speak in riddles to cover it up | |||
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"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*. *obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. ![]() awww their they're there.... never mind ![]() | |||
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"I put off adding that word to my profile for a long time but then added it because I want a true friend with benefits and found a much better connection with smart people. I am aware it sounds very pretentious but decided I dont give a fuck if it works I like smart people too, fast decision makers , risk takers, successful, leaders in their field or entrepreneurs , but often when I get to know an “intelligent” person online , they are the opposite and speak in riddles to cover it up " Interesting..... | |||
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"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*. *obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*. *obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. ![]() ![]() ![]() of course she should of ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*. *obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*. *obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() should of should have been have ... slipped that one by you ...back of the net!!! ![]() | |||
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"I put off adding that word to my profile for a long time but then added it because I want a true friend with benefits and found a much better connection with smart people. I am aware it sounds very pretentious but decided I dont give a fuck if it works ![]() If I cared about my standing then maybe so. | |||
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"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*. *obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I put off adding that word to my profile for a long time but then added it because I want a true friend with benefits and found a much better connection with smart people. I am aware it sounds very pretentious but decided I dont give a fuck if it works ![]() ![]() | |||
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"All I know is I have had sex with ugly guys with wonderful minds and with incredibly attractive guys with average intelligence and the sex had been much better with the former. " I cannot challenge this statement as I was not there. | |||
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"Some people are attracted to athletic bodies, some people are attracted to brains, etc. Sapiophile and sapiosexual mean you are attracted and aroused by a partner showing intelligence, culture, etc. It doesn't mean you think yourself smarter than everyone else. You can have an average body shape yet be attracted to athletic types, can't you?" ![]() | |||
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"Some people are attracted to athletic bodies, some people are attracted to brains, etc. Sapiophile and sapiosexual mean you are attracted and aroused by a partner showing intelligence, culture, etc. It doesn't mean you think yourself smarter than everyone else. You can have an average body shape yet be attracted to athletic types, can't you?" ![]() | |||
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"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*. *obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. ![]() ![]() I missed the humour too...2-0 to you! | |||
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"All I know is I have had sex with ugly guys with wonderful minds and with incredibly attractive guys with average intelligence and the sex had been much better with the former. " Yes, beauty is no indicator of sexual prowess. | |||
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"All I know is I have had sex with ugly guys with wonderful minds and with incredibly attractive guys with average intelligence and the sex had been much better with the former. Yes, beauty is no indicator of sexual prowess." It's not even about prowess though of course that helps. But if they can excite my mind the body quickly follows. | |||
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"What does the Sapio in sexual mean?" Its derived from the Italian left back Antonio Sapioli who played for Inter in the 1930's. He is reputed to have had an IQ of 184 and wrote several books on modernist architecture. | |||
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"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. ![]() ![]() Best come back on the Forums ever! | |||
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"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity. " In my view as a sapiosexual, I listen and watch more than talk. I'm neither above or below anyone else. I just love to hear other peoples thoughts, experiences and views, I find it stimulates the mind and you can make a great connection with a person. As for the bedroom (or wherever sex takes place) I'm more demisexual. | |||
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"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. ![]() ![]() Yes, brilliant ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity. In my view as a sapiosexual, I listen and watch more than talk. I'm neither above or below anyone else. I just love to hear other peoples thoughts, experiences and views, I find it stimulates the mind and you can make a great connection with a person. As for the bedroom (or wherever sex takes place) I'm more demisexual." I like this! You will have to explain demisexual to me as I'm not googling is that laziness? Or I prefer this conversation? | |||
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"What does the Sapio in sexual mean? Its derived from the Italian left back Antonio Sapioli who played for Inter in the 1930's. He is reputed to have had an IQ of 184 and wrote several books on modernist architecture." I'm more interested in his left foot! | |||
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"All I know is I have had sex with ugly guys with wonderful minds and with incredibly attractive guys with average intelligence and the sex had been much better with the former. Yes, beauty is no indicator of sexual prowess. It's not even about prowess though of course that helps. But if they can excite my mind the body quickly follows. " ![]() | |||
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"What does the Sapio in sexual mean? Its derived from the Italian left back Antonio Sapioli who played for Inter in the 1930's. He is reputed to have had an IQ of 184 and wrote several books on modernist architecture. I'm more interested in his left foot!" Knowing Leo! I'm taking this lightly!! | |||
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"Q - How do you know if someone is a sapiosexual? A - They will tell you!!! ![]() Chuckle. | |||
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"I thought a sapiosexual was someone that was aroused by intelligence - i guess they could be thick as 2 short planks but like that the other person is smart? I think some just use the term as others have said to be a bit ‘ im smarter than you’ and others maybe to reinforce that a massive cock and abs isnt what gets them going - they want something between the ears more. That isn’t to say brains and abs with big dick isnt possible theres tons of smart people on here. But theres also tons of knuckle draggers. Attraction is a funny thing isn’t it? Im just waiting for a woman with such bizarre taste that she finds me irresistible ![]() Thanks for the input, all considered opinions are welcome. | |||
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"One doesn't have to be intelligent to be attracted to intelligence. " ![]() | |||
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"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity. I’ve met one or two and they haven’t tried to do that at all. Perhaps because I’m so thoroughly moronic that I’m not seen as much of a challenge ![]() ![]() | |||
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"One doesn't have to be intelligent to be attracted to intelligence. " Agree with this...for this is me! | |||
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"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity. I’ve met one or two and they haven’t tried to do that at all. Perhaps because I’m so thoroughly moronic that I’m not seen as much of a challenge ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"One doesn't have to be intelligent to be attracted to intelligence. " Innit. ![]() | |||
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"One doesn't have to be intelligent to be attracted to intelligence. Agree with this...for this is me!" For the record - you’re gorgeous- just thought I’d mention it!! X | |||
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"One doesn't have to be intelligent to be attracted to intelligence. Agree with this...for this is me!" I, too, concur. | |||
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"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity. I’ve met one or two and they haven’t tried to do that at all. Perhaps because I’m so thoroughly moronic that I’m not seen as much of a challenge ![]() ![]() ![]() You are a sweetheart x | |||
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"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity. I’ve met one or two and they haven’t tried to do that at all. Perhaps because I’m so thoroughly moronic that I’m not seen as much of a challenge ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"One doesn't have to be intelligent to be attracted to intelligence. Innit. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"All I know is I have had sex with ugly guys with wonderful minds and with incredibly attractive guys with average intelligence and the sex had been much better with the former. Yes, beauty is no indicator of sexual prowess. It's not even about prowess though of course that helps. But if they can excite my mind the body quickly follows. ![]() No i think many people are more visual than i am. Nothing wrong with that just as there is nothing wrong with preferring intelligence. Luckily we all have a myriad of preferences so there is a chance for all to find their lid. | |||
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"All I know is I have had sex with ugly guys with wonderful minds and with incredibly attractive guys with average intelligence and the sex had been much better with the former. Yes, beauty is no indicator of sexual prowess. It's not even about prowess though of course that helps. But if they can excite my mind the body quickly follows. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Always cringe when I see someone describe themselves as sapiosexual Seems pretentious to me " It can be a contentious issue and maybe this (superb) thread can open some mouths or is it hands!? The saga continues.... | |||
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"I prefer casiosexuals. Love a good watch me." A smile for that. | |||
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"Too busy discussing quantum entanglement and recreating history instead of fucking… however it takes a clever girl to pull one" ![]() | |||
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"So it's all OK and fine being heterosexual homosexual bisexual fab straight TV ts CD pansexual, crave big cocks big tits big black cocks bbw ssbbw athletes mathletes diggers joggers gym fit slim fit big fit unfit bdsm smokers ch*kers deep throaters but having sapiosexual / sapiophile in your profile is something that it's OK to poke fun at? (I'm aware it sounds a bit like the old advert) " My good friend, I have respect for you and have seen you around here many times..but if you reread the thread I wouldn't call it arousing a pisstake. | |||
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"I prefer casiosexuals. Love a good watch me." To watch or calculate the next move? | |||
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"I prefer casiosexuals. Love a good watch me. To watch or calculate the next move? " ![]() | |||
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"I prefer casiosexuals. Love a good watch me. To watch or calculate the next move? ![]() ..That!That! | |||
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"I prefer casiosexuals. Love a good watch me. To watch or calculate the next move? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*. *obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad." On rereading this she makes some interesting points and are they partly true? | |||
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"Sapiosexual does and can get quite a bad press at times. It can come across as egotistical or elitist to some, I’ve seen others call it ableist. To me though it’s the fact that a persons mind or intelligence is attractive to another. Words and meanings can be clumsy and open to various personal connotations, language is an imperfect tool after all, but to me it’s fairly straightforward and simple; attraction based on the mental not just the physical. Seeing as how so many seem to base attraction on more than just looks, at least some of that must fall into this for many" ![]() | |||
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"Too busy discussing quantum entanglement and recreating history instead of fucking… however it takes a clever girl to pull one" You should never mess with the timey wimey thing. | |||
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"Looool!" What brings that crazy laughter? ![]() | |||
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"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*. *obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Should HAVE. Just saying ![]() | |||
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"So it's all OK and fine being heterosexual homosexual bisexual fab straight TV ts CD pansexual, crave big cocks big tits big black cocks bbw ssbbw athletes mathletes diggers joggers gym fit slim fit big fit unfit bdsm smokers ch*kers deep throaters but having sapiosexual / sapiophile in your profile is something that it's OK to poke fun at? (I'm aware it sounds a bit like the old advert) My good friend, I have respect for you and have seen you around here many times..but if you reread the thread I wouldn't call it arousing a pisstake." Sure. If you can re read the op and yawn emoji and think it was not pejorative and intended to poke fun I apologise. There are plenty of posts here that are having a jab at those who choose to use that preference. | |||
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"I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist. " Can you explain ableist (most able?) and classist to us..it would help. Thanks for your input though. | |||
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"So it's all OK and fine being heterosexual homosexual bisexual fab straight TV ts CD pansexual, crave big cocks big tits big black cocks bbw ssbbw athletes mathletes diggers joggers gym fit slim fit big fit unfit bdsm smokers ch*kers deep throaters but having sapiosexual / sapiophile in your profile is something that it's OK to poke fun at? (I'm aware it sounds a bit like the old advert) My good friend, I have respect for you and have seen you around here many times..but if you reread the thread I wouldn't call it arousing a pisstake. Sure. If you can re read the op and yawn emoji and think it was not pejorative and intended to poke fun I apologise. There are plenty of posts here that are having a jab at those who choose to use that preference. " Intended more to be humourously provocative to create discussion. | |||
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"I'm sapient. Not so sure about the sexual. I have got an awful lot of books though. Some of them I've even finished colouring in ![]() Aaaah yes, but did you stay within the lines? | |||
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"I'm sapient. Not so sure about the sexual. I have got an awful lot of books though. Some of them I've even finished colouring in ![]() Broad shoulders (No jibe intended) are needed to bear that humour. I hope it can get the green light! | |||
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"I'm sapient. Not so sure about the sexual. I have got an awful lot of books though. Some of them I've even finished colouring in ![]() I’ve read all this thread with interest … the fact I snort laughed huuugely at “innit” and this post makes me know where abouts I am on intelligence levels ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So it's all OK and fine being heterosexual homosexual bisexual fab straight TV ts CD pansexual, crave big cocks big tits big black cocks bbw ssbbw athletes mathletes diggers joggers gym fit slim fit big fit unfit bdsm smokers ch*kers deep throaters but having sapiosexual / sapiophile in your profile is something that it's OK to poke fun at? (I'm aware it sounds a bit like the old advert) My good friend, I have respect for you and have seen you around here many times..but if you reread the thread I wouldn't call it arousing a pisstake. Sure. If you can re read the op and yawn emoji and think it was not pejorative and intended to poke fun I apologise. There are plenty of posts here that are having a jab at those who choose to use that preference. " ![]() | |||
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"I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist. Can you explain ableist (most able?) and classist to us..it would help. Thanks for your input though. " Ableism is discrimination against disabled people. Classism is prejudice against people belonging to a particular social class, although in practice it's aimed exclusively at "lower" ones. | |||
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"So it's all OK and fine being heterosexual homosexual bisexual fab straight TV ts CD pansexual, crave big cocks big tits big black cocks bbw ssbbw athletes mathletes diggers joggers gym fit slim fit big fit unfit bdsm smokers ch*kers deep throaters but having sapiosexual / sapiophile in your profile is something that it's OK to poke fun at? (I'm aware it sounds a bit like the old advert) My good friend, I have respect for you and have seen you around here many times..but if you reread the thread I wouldn't call it arousing a pisstake. Sure. If you can re read the op and yawn emoji and think it was not pejorative and intended to poke fun I apologise. There are plenty of posts here that are having a jab at those who choose to use that preference. ![]() | |||
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"I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist. Can you explain ableist (most able?) and classist to us..it would help. Thanks for your input though. Ableism is discrimination against disabled people. Classism is prejudice against people belonging to a particular social class, although in practice it's aimed exclusively at "lower" ones. " Why should Sapiosexuals be accused of prejudicing the disabled..I don't see the link? | |||
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"I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist. Can you explain ableist (most able?) and classist to us..it would help. Thanks for your input though. Ableism is discrimination against disabled people. Classism is prejudice against people belonging to a particular social class, although in practice it's aimed exclusively at "lower" ones. " Is the implication then that if you are disabled or of "lower class" that you can not/are not attracted by "intelligence"? That would seem rather nonsensical. | |||
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"I think there is a big difference between a sapiophile and a sapiosexual though both are massively overused on Fab. A sapiosexual is aroused by intelligence. That is not the same as saying that they find intelligent people more arousing,it is a fetish like being aroused by feet. It means there need be no attraction or interest in the rest of the person, the display of intelligence alone is enough to create sexual arousal. I may be wrong but it seems unlikely that there would be a many people with this rather unique fetish as Fab profiles would have you believe. A sapiophile is a person who's primary romantic attraction to a person is intellectual. This is perhaps closer to what many mean in that they prefer a person with a perceived level of intelligence as they connect better with such people - whether or not they intend the romantic implications of this word is a different question. Preferring the company of intelligent people, having more of a connection with them and therefore having better sex isn't sapiosexual. Watching a video of Steven Hawking explain the radiative loss of matter from black holes and finding yourself unable to resist having a wank is. Aside from that, it's an inaccurate way of saying I don't tend to get on with people I consider thick so unless you reach my arbitrary standards of intelligence I'm unlikely to like you never mind fuck you. Oh, and when I say intelligent I mean not less than me but preferably not too much more as that will make me feel inadequate. Just my opinion of course ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If Sapiosexual means being attracted to highly intelligent people, what's the correct term for being attracted to people who are reasonably intelligent, can construct coherent sentences with correct spelling, and go like a steam train? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm sapient. Not so sure about the sexual. I have got an awful lot of books though. Some of them I've even finished colouring in ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If Sapiosexual means being attracted to highly intelligent people, what's the correct term for being attracted to people who are reasonably intelligent, can construct coherent sentences with correct spelling, and go like a steam train? ![]() Horny! Or if it’s a steam train Hornby!!! - I’ll let Myself out…again!! | |||
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"I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist. Can you explain ableist (most able?) and classist to us..it would help. Thanks for your input though. Ableism is discrimination against disabled people. Classism is prejudice against people belonging to a particular social class, although in practice it's aimed exclusively at "lower" ones. Why should Sapiosexuals be accused of prejudicing the disabled..I don't see the link?" You are probably using the word disabled in a wider sense than just physical..but if so wouldn't even that seem offensive to many? | |||
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"I am attracted to intelligence but there has to be physical attraction as well. I am not attracted to arrogance - who is? - and find compassion and a sense of humour go a long way towards forming a connection with somebody." ![]() | |||
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"I am attracted to intelligence but there has to be physical attraction as well. I am not attracted to arrogance - who is? - and find compassion and a sense of humour go a long way towards forming a connection with somebody. ![]() That's a serious statement and not a flirt! | |||
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"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity. " So true that . But I feel they should have such educational qualifications to say they’re smart & intelligent to be honest. Not just being street smart .. that doesn’t mean they’re sapiophiles are they ?? X lol | |||
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" A very informative and well considered opinion. Fact checkers can check those definitions given and should." They're the ones in the dictionary which is of course where any true sapiosexual would look ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" A very informative and well considered opinion. Fact checkers can check those definitions given and should. They're the ones in the dictionary which is of course where any true sapiosexual would look ![]() ![]() ![]() Exactly - mines got pictures in it too!!! ![]() | |||
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"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity. So true that . But I feel they should have such educational qualifications to say they’re smart & intelligent to be honest. Not just being street smart .. that doesn’t mean they’re sapiophiles are they ?? X lol " I'm interested as to why you mentioned street smarts in that. Are you saying that it's really only all a matter of having guile in your choices..and that covered by a screening of another's intellect? | |||
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" A very informative and well considered opinion. Fact checkers can check those definitions given and should. They're the ones in the dictionary which is of course where any true sapiosexual would look ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" ![]() How is that relevant to what the word means, you might well have said, why do vegans go shopping on a Tuesday ?! | |||
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" I’m tempted to make myself look as hideous as possible - turn up quoting Keats and Shakespeare and demand sex! " Is that a dagger I see before me ? ![]() | |||
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"I couldn’t describe myself as sapiosexual as for me it’s a combination of both looks and personality/intellect that makes me want to meet someone. That’s hardly unusual - particularly amongst fellow forumites. I do find it quite fatuous when many people on here claim to be sapiosexual. I’m tempted to make myself look as hideous as possible - turn up quoting Keats and Shakespeare and demand sex! " Should I laugh! | |||
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"I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist. Can you explain ableist (most able?) and classist to us..it would help. Thanks for your input though. Ableism is discrimination against disabled people. Classism is prejudice against people belonging to a particular social class, although in practice it's aimed exclusively at "lower" ones. Why should Sapiosexuals be accused of prejudicing the disabled..I don't see the link?" The concept of sapiosexuality is inherently ableist because the markers of "intelligence" in our society are intrinsically ableist too. Literacy is the big obvious one; the society-wide assumption is that someone who struggles with reading and writing is "less intelligent", which discriminates against people with conditions like dyslexia. Seriously – speak to any neurodiverse individual, and they'll have endless stories of being treated like they're an idiot just because their brains operate differently to the socially mandated "norm". | |||
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"I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist. Can you explain ableist (most able?) and classist to us..it would help. Thanks for your input though. Ableism is discrimination against disabled people. Classism is prejudice against people belonging to a particular social class, although in practice it's aimed exclusively at "lower" ones. Is the implication then that if you are disabled or of "lower class" that you can not/are not attracted by "intelligence"? That would seem rather nonsensical. " No, that is not the implication at all. You've got it exactly backwards. The issue is that the concept of "sapiosexuality" discriminates against people who don't display the socially accepted markers of a certain very narrow kind of intelligence. | |||
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"I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist. Can you explain ableist (most able?) and classist to us..it would help. Thanks for your input though. Ableism is discrimination against disabled people. Classism is prejudice against people belonging to a particular social class, although in practice it's aimed exclusively at "lower" ones. Why should Sapiosexuals be accused of prejudicing the disabled..I don't see the link? The concept of sapiosexuality is inherently ableist because the markers of "intelligence" in our society are intrinsically ableist too. Literacy is the big obvious one; the society-wide assumption is that someone who struggles with reading and writing is "less intelligent", which discriminates against people with conditions like dyslexia. Seriously – speak to any neurodiverse individual, and they'll have endless stories of being treated like they're an idiot just because their brains operate differently to the socially mandated "norm". " ![]() | |||
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"I couldn’t describe myself as sapiosexual as for me it’s a combination of both looks and personality/intellect that makes me want to meet someone. That’s hardly unusual - particularly amongst fellow forumites. I do find it quite fatuous when many people on here claim to be sapiosexual. I’m tempted to make myself look as hideous as possible - turn up quoting Keats and Shakespeare and demand sex! " verily milady i would pump thine arse with vigour rarely seen outside of the most dedicated of sodomites!! - fancy a shag?? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Sapiosexual is by definition finding intelligence attractive. I consider myself sapiosexual and the intelligence I value is emotional intelligence above all. I wouldn’t say that’s a bad thing, quite the opposite in fact. I think it’s fair to say that although NSA is perfect for some in the lifestyle for a good proportion a bit more depth to an encounter is preferred. It shows what you’re after not what you are. Also it’s a lot more inclusive than many would think. Hence it’s a popular word in the lgbtq+ community as it shows what ones preferences are without being specific but equally demonstrating ones ability to find attraction in ways far less shallow than just looks. For example; I see many women in vanilla life say they want a man who is good at sensing their feelings. That is interpersonal intelligence. " Beautifully put. | |||
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"Some intellectuals enjoy the company of us less learned people. ![]() Dickensian diatribe has never gone out of fashion though ![]() | |||
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"Well if anyone is a Sapiosexual don't message me as I had to look up the word ![]() You win the internet today. ![]() | |||
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"I couldn’t describe myself as sapiosexual as for me it’s a combination of both looks and personality/intellect that makes me want to meet someone. That’s hardly unusual - particularly amongst fellow forumites. I do find it quite fatuous when many people on here claim to be sapiosexual. I’m tempted to make myself look as hideous as possible - turn up quoting Keats and Shakespeare and demand sex! Should I laugh!" Not if you didn’t find it amusing - no! | |||
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"I couldn’t describe myself as sapiosexual as for me it’s a combination of both looks and personality/intellect that makes me want to meet someone. That’s hardly unusual - particularly amongst fellow forumites. I do find it quite fatuous when many people on here claim to be sapiosexual. I’m tempted to make myself look as hideous as possible - turn up quoting Keats and Shakespeare and demand sex! verily milady i would pump thine arse with vigour rarely seen outside of the most dedicated of sodomites!! - fancy a shag?? ![]() ![]() I’ll be there in half an hour! ![]() | |||
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"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity. " You what? Come again? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity. You what? Come again? ![]() ![]() You're clearly not Sapiosexual ![]() | |||
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"I think one has to have something to say, to get them to the bedroom ![]() "How's u?" Will that do? ![]() | |||
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"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity. You what? Come again? ![]() ![]() ![]() Sorry, I'm lost! Just give me tits and arse! | |||
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"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity. You what? Come again? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity. You what? Come again? ![]() ![]() ![]() Will one tit do? | |||
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