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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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I was at a professional reception thingy last night, mostly men and of a certain age.
However, there was one youngish man I chatted to about professionally things. He sent me an email this morning and ended it with:
"I've included my personal email - just in case".
What does that even MEAN?
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over a year ago
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You made an impression on him Lickety
Either he respected your position and professionalism and thinks of you as someone he could work alongside or may be able to help him professionally
Or you wooed him with your friendly intelligent conversation, maturity and rack - and he would like to know more about you
Either way, it is a positive  |
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"You made an impression on him Lickety
Either he respected your position and professionalism and thinks of you as someone he could work alongside or may be able to help him professionally
Or you wooed him with your friendly intelligent conversation, maturity and rack - and he would like to know more about you
Either way, it is a positive "
Or he wants to banana your split! |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"You made an impression on him Lickety
Either he respected your position and professionalism and thinks of you as someone he could work alongside or may be able to help him professionally
Or you wooed him with your friendly intelligent conversation, maturity and rack - and he would like to know more about you
Either way, it is a positive "
My rack was on show. After trying on all my lovely dresses I thought I should wear one.
That last line was after all the professional gubbins. I suspect he is considerably younger than me.
Although, I think I might have looked alright last night as one of the men that was a bit older than me was shocked when I mentioned part of the conversation referenced the year I was born.
I'm just going to ask him what he means and deal with him thinking I'm weird for asking such a question.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"You’ve made an impression, he wants to get naked and do the naughty things x  "
People in the real world don't normally want to get naked with me. It's a most surprising thing if that is the case.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I would say that a personal email address would mean he wants to get personal with you, but wouldn't he have given you his phone number?
I would find that equally confusing.  "
Exactly! Fancy a chat? would be much easier to understand.
I wonder if sending his phone number from his work email might cause an unwanted trail and this is a suitably ambiguous message? |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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""I've included my personal email - just in case".
What does that even MEAN?
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It sounds like the rhetorical equivalent of "In the event of an emergency break glass".  "
Lord knows what messages I was giving off if that's what it means. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm just going to ask him what he means and deal with him thinking I'm weird for asking such a question.
Perhaps that's his name: Justin Case."
That wasn't on his name tag. We all had to wear name badges.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Oooh Lickety! You've pulled
Unless he's only a 5 or below; then he's harassing you and should be hung, drawn and quartered."
I read that wrong at first glance. He's definitely older than 5. 
How did I pull? Was it that I changed masks from the black one I used on the tube to a fancy 'dress' mask?
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Email him saying "Now what?"."
I've just sent one asking what he means.
Now I'm wondering if that sounds weird or passive aggressive. I'd responded to the all the other professionally bits this morning.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Oooh Lickety! You've pulled
Unless he's only a 5 or below; then he's harassing you and should be hung, drawn and quartered.
I read that wrong at first glance. He's definitely older than 5.
How did I pull? Was it that I changed masks from the black one I used on the tube to a fancy 'dress' mask?
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Inadvertently giving him "The eye"? |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Email him saying "Now what?".
I've just sent one asking what he means.
Now I'm wondering if that sounds weird or passive aggressive. I'd responded to the all the other professionally bits this morning.
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Well, you'll know soon enough.
Please keep us informed |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Email him saying "Now what?".
I've just sent one asking what he means.
Now I'm wondering if that sounds weird or passive aggressive. I'd responded to the all the other professionally bits this morning.
Well, you'll know soon enough.
Please keep us informed "
I will let you know - if he responds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Email him saying "Now what?".
I've just sent one asking what he means.
Now I'm wondering if that sounds weird or passive aggressive. I'd responded to the all the other professionally bits this morning.
Well, you'll know soon enough.
Please keep us informed
I will let you know - if he responds."
Im intrigued now, really want to know how it ends lol |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Email him saying "Now what?".
I've just sent one asking what he means.
Now I'm wondering if that sounds weird or passive aggressive. I'd responded to the all the other professionally bits this morning.
Well, you'll know soon enough.
Please keep us informed
I will let you know - if he responds.
Im intrigued now, really want to know how it ends lol"
I suspect badly.
Either I have asked the wrong question or he indicates it is an overture to more and I discover he's below my acceptable age range and I'm old enough to be his mother.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was at a professional reception thingy last night, mostly men and of a certain age.
However, there was one youngish man I chatted to about professionally things. He sent me an email this morning and ended it with:
"I've included my personal email - just in case".
What does that even MEAN?
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In case you fancy him?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Email him saying "Now what?".
I've just sent one asking what he means.
Now I'm wondering if that sounds weird or passive aggressive. I'd responded to the all the other professionally bits this morning.
Well, you'll know soon enough.
Please keep us informed
I will let you know - if he responds.
Im intrigued now, really want to know how it ends lol
I suspect badly.
Either I have asked the wrong question or he indicates it is an overture to more and I discover he's below my acceptable age range and I'm old enough to be his mother.
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So don't ask how old he is!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Email him saying "Now what?".
I've just sent one asking what he means.
Now I'm wondering if that sounds weird or passive aggressive. I'd responded to the all the other professionally bits this morning.
Well, you'll know soon enough.
Please keep us informed
I will let you know - if he responds.
Im intrigued now, really want to know how it ends lol
I suspect badly.
Either I have asked the wrong question or he indicates it is an overture to more and I discover he's below my acceptable age range and I'm old enough to be his mother.
So don't ask how old he is! "
Just do him anyway....so what? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Email him saying "Now what?".
I've just sent one asking what he means.
Now I'm wondering if that sounds weird or passive aggressive. I'd responded to the all the other professionally bits this morning.
Well, you'll know soon enough.
Please keep us informed
I will let you know - if he responds.
Im intrigued now, really want to know how it ends lol
I suspect badly.
Either I have asked the wrong question or he indicates it is an overture to more and I discover he's below my acceptable age range and I'm old enough to be his mother.
So don't ask how old he is!
Just do him anyway....so what? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People in the real world don't normally want to get naked with me. It's a most surprising thing if that is the case.
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You might be very surprised if you knew the truth.. and from what your pictures tell |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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People in the real world don't normally want to get naked with me. It's a most surprising thing if that is the case.
You might be very surprised if you knew the truth.. and from what your pictures tell "
I'm a short, fat middle-aged woman. I'm practically invisible in the real world and almost invisible on here. |
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People in the real world don't normally want to get naked with me. It's a most surprising thing if that is the case.
You might be very surprised if you knew the truth.. and from what your pictures tell
I'm a short, fat middle-aged woman. I'm practically invisible in the real world and almost invisible on here. "
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Well, you shine brighter than the most magnificent supernova to us all. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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People in the real world don't normally want to get naked with me. It's a most surprising thing if that is the case.
You might be very surprised if you knew the truth.. and from what your pictures tell
I'm a short, fat middle-aged woman. I'm practically invisible in the real world and almost invisible on here.
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Well, you shine brighter than the most magnificent supernova to us all."
Thank you, I think. I'm now a little worried about the black hole. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we sometimes spend so much time in the swinging fraternity that we forget that 'outsiders' may find us attractive too, even if that attraction is simply an interest in knowing more about you
Having had the pleasure of your company, I can confirm that you hold an enchatment; there is an openness, a warmth, a ready wit, a smile, an intelligence about you that is just so natural
Why shouldn't a guy see that and find it attractive, regardless of his age, especially as you probably share common interests and values too?
As I said yesterday though, whatever his motive, I only see it as a positive reflection of your meeting |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I think we sometimes spend so much time in the swinging fraternity that we forget that 'outsiders' may find us attractive too, even if that attraction is simply an interest in knowing more about you
Having had the pleasure of your company, I can confirm that you hold an enchatment; there is an openness, a warmth, a ready wit, a smile, an intelligence about you that is just so natural
Why shouldn't a guy see that and find it attractive, regardless of his age, especially as you probably share common interests and values too?
As I said yesterday though, whatever his motive, I only see it as a positive reflection of your meeting "
Thank you, Bussy. I've also become unused to being around real people.
By the way, I love your typo. I do chat a lot. |
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If I’d given you or any Lady my personal email or number it’s for one reason. To keep in touch.
Could be just to be friends but that’s generally when you’ve chatted to someone for some time.
If it’s a one off chat and then personal details. I think he wants to get to know you more intimately |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If I’d given you or any Lady my personal email or number it’s for one reason. To keep in touch.
Could be just to be friends but that’s generally when you’ve chatted to someone for some time.
If it’s a one off chat and then personal details. I think he wants to get to know you more intimately "
I thought it was just for a work collaboration but that last line confused things.
It may have meant nothing as he hasn't responded about the work stuff or that last line. Men are confusing.
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"If I’d given you or any Lady my personal email or number it’s for one reason. To keep in touch.
Could be just to be friends but that’s generally when you’ve chatted to someone for some time.
If it’s a one off chat and then personal details. I think he wants to get to know you more intimately
I thought it was just for a work collaboration but that last line confused things.
It may have meant nothing as he hasn't responded about the work stuff or that last line. Men are confusing.
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Got LinkedIn for that.
Send a personal message, something simple like how’s your weekend going. Then thank him for wanting to keep in touch by giving you his email.
It then puts the onus on him to show his true intentions. Hopefully that’ll be him asking you out. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"If I’d given you or any Lady my personal email or number it’s for one reason. To keep in touch.
Could be just to be friends but that’s generally when you’ve chatted to someone for some time.
If it’s a one off chat and then personal details. I think he wants to get to know you more intimately
I thought it was just for a work collaboration but that last line confused things.
It may have meant nothing as he hasn't responded about the work stuff or that last line. Men are confusing.
Got LinkedIn for that.
Send a personal message, something simple like how’s your weekend going. Then thank him for wanting to keep in touch by giving you his email.
It then puts the onus on him to show his true intentions. Hopefully that’ll be him asking you out. "
Nooo! I sent the last message. He may be working, or busy with family. I know nothing about him other than his name, job and workplace. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Thinking about it OP if he gave you his email is it possible he is attached and wouldn't give you his number instead?"
Indeed. That thought has crossed my mind. He couldn't mislead me about his name and workplace as we met at a professional thingy.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thinking about it OP if he gave you his email is it possible he is attached and wouldn't give you his number instead?
Indeed. That thought has crossed my mind. He couldn't mislead me about his name and workplace as we met at a professional thingy.
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I'm a cynical fuck though so I'm sure it's legit.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thinking about it OP if he gave you his email is it possible he is attached and wouldn't give you his number instead?
Indeed. That thought has crossed my mind. He couldn't mislead me about his name and workplace as we met at a professional thingy.
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Perhaps he was hoping you would poach him to work for/ with you? |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Thinking about it OP if he gave you his email is it possible he is attached and wouldn't give you his number instead?
Indeed. That thought has crossed my mind. He couldn't mislead me about his name and workplace as we met at a professional thingy.
Perhaps he was hoping you would poach him to work for/ with you?"
That is highly unlikely. He's in a very niche role in a different field.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was at a professional reception thingy last night, mostly men and of a certain age.
However, there was one youngish man I chatted to about professionally things. He sent me an email this morning and ended it with:
"I've included my personal email - just in case".
What does that even MEAN?
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What a lovely compliment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thinking about it OP if he gave you his email is it possible he is attached and wouldn't give you his number instead?
Indeed. That thought has crossed my mind. He couldn't mislead me about his name and workplace as we met at a professional thingy.
Perhaps he was hoping you would poach him to work for/ with you?
That is highly unlikely. He's in a very niche role in a different field.
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Ooooh definitely a flirt then. 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lickety' has been offline for two days now. Do you think she's finally eloped with the mysterious you-know-who? "
I hope so.
That she's happy... not that she's sodded off....  |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Lickety' has been offline for two days now. Do you think she's finally eloped with the mysterious you-know-who?
I hope so.
That she's happy... not that she's sodded off.... "
I've been ghosted by a man who contacted me! He must be on here, surely?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lickety' has been offline for two days now. Do you think she's finally eloped with the mysterious you-know-who?
I hope so.
That she's happy... not that she's sodded off....
I've been ghosted by a man who contacted me! He must be on here, surely?
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His loss!
Ugghhh though  |
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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago
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It was acknowledgement of a good connection with you, that he's open to explore further. He's not signalled any further clarity, so it could be for you both to develop and explore, if it seems right to you. |
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