Yes! Absolutely yes. It was an experience for me many years ago. Every encounter with her was like unraveling another layer of deep-rooted sapsiosexuality and mind-blowing sensuality.
Her outer shell held little interest for me, initially. She taught me an invaluable lesson on how "initial perception" can be a dirty term. |
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"Has anyone ended up in bed with someone who on the face of it just wasn't your type? And had a great time? And broadened your horizons as a result?"
I’m not sure how you end up in bed with someone that wasn’t your type? If you have no attraction to them then why are you in that situation in the first place? |
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There has been 1 guy who wasn’t my usual “type” but we got on so well, initially I wasn’t sure if I wanted things to go further than a social but then he kissed me and I was putty in his hands |
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Yes. I have declined the offer to meet a few man who messaged me but then bumped into them at a party or club at a later date. On paper they were not what I was looking for but after meeting face to face I soon realised I had made a mistake as we ended up having some fantastic fun. |
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I think one of the problems a lot of ppl have is being too quick to make a decision regarding attraction. I mean sure you got your preferences, we all have preferences, but in some cases attraction doesnt just appear at first glance and it takes time to manifest
The internet and social media exacerbate the problem as it offers a great deal of choice by expanding that search radius, so many ppl often fall victim to the choice paradox (look it up, theres even a book about it), as a result ppl tend to lean towards those who give them instant stimulation
My very good friend is one of them who i didnt feel an attraction to at first but after a while the attraction built up and a couple times have indulged in some mutual sexual fantasy over text. Sometimes ppl just need to be a little more open minded and see where things go before actually making a proper decision |
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"I think one of the problems a lot of ppl have is being too quick to make a decision regarding attraction. I mean sure you got your preferences, we all have preferences, but in some cases attraction doesnt just appear at first glance and it takes time to manifest
The internet and social media exacerbate the problem as it offers a great deal of choice by expanding that search radius, so many ppl often fall victim to the choice paradox (look it up, theres even a book about it), as a result ppl tend to lean towards those who give them instant stimulation
My very good friend is one of them who i didnt feel an attraction to at first but after a while the attraction built up and a couple times have indulged in some mutual sexual fantasy over text. Sometimes ppl just need to be a little more open minded and see where things go before actually making a proper decision"
I need that attraction straight away otherwise things aren't going anywhere. |
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It has happened in the outside world, not in the fab world that people, usually tenants, clients, and other work related connections, that first got up my nostrils, I've ended up warming to, but generally speaking, if I don't actually fancy someone with immediate effect, they have more chance of raising The Titanic, than what makes me smile as I dry myself down whilst looking in the mirror after taking a shower. |
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Lots of times. Attraction doesn’t always mean chemistry. There’s been times I’ve been physically attracted to someone and the sex has been crap due to lack of chemistry and personality. I’ve taken risks and slept with someone who perhaps wasn’t my “type” and it’s turned out amazing. Sometimes you need to step out of your comfort zone in order to grow. |
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