It really annoys me when people leave Fab and rejoin with a new user name but no photos and no info on their profile then bombard you with a few messages that just say "hi" followed up with one saying why aren't you chatting to me we used to talk - uh because I have no idea who you are and I have never met/chatted to someone from your town!
I have no issue with people leaving and rejoining that's your choice but we are not psychic so will not know who you are |
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"I've just been told that this is a tactic used by desperate men to drag you into a conversation  "
Without a doubt, when I ask about their old usernames and point out that I have a very good memory, they suddenly go all quiet |
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It's not just men. It's men and women. For me on the forums someone whose name or pics I don't recognise will reference something as if they 'know' me or we have common memories and I do think, I have NO idea who you are.
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"It's not just men. It's men and women. For me on the forums someone whose name or pics I don't recognise will reference something as if they 'know' me or we have common memories and I do think, I have NO idea who you are.
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This 
Its actually easier to assume I don't know any of them until they wish to reveal themselves |
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I just imagine we are all in a stage play, they exited upstage left as one character, got changed and entered for the final act as someone else. I just improvise until I know what’s going on. 
