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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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How long do you ladies like sex to actually last? For me personally I don't like it to go on too long. Once I've gotten off I get dry and it hurts so I'd prefer a guy to let loose after that point. I prefer to have sex, both get off and then reat between rounds. |
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The actual penetration part, never timed it but I would guess 10-20 minutes depending on how worked up he's gotten me. "
I've friends who say they expect an hour plus. Like the actual act of sex. Changing positions etc. I thought it was a bit much  |
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Penetration wise is normally about 15 mins, long time wise foreplay and oral are what I'm most interested in as I never orgasm from Penetration alone.
If he needs longer than that I normally make sure I'm well lubed up and reach round to milk him and that makes him tip over quickly as after 20 mins I start getting sore |
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Penetration wise is normally about 15 mins, long time wise foreplay and oral are what I'm most interested in as I never orgasm from Penetration alone.
If he needs longer than that I normally make sure I'm well lubed up and reach round to milk him and that makes him tip over quickly as after 20 mins I start getting sore "
Sounds similar to me. I don't get the banging away for hours thing  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not sure. I like sex where it's natural, interspersed with laughter and breaks for drinks or Colin the Caterpillar faces.
Actual penetration, where it's long enough that I'm not aware of the time and short enough that I'm not getting bored/a bit dried. No idea of times!
Just a good few hours of natural flowing sex and general fun (yeah, that word is a bit grim) and I'm happy and semi-sated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm I don't really know to be honest, I don't like it to be too rushed and as long as there's enough going on and it's not just banging away then I can enjoy it for a while |
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over a year ago
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"I'm not sure. I like sex where it's natural, interspersed with laughter and breaks for drinks or Colin the Caterpillar faces.
Actual penetration, where it's long enough that I'm not aware of the time and short enough that I'm not getting bored/a bit dried. No idea of times!
Just a good few hours of natural flowing sex and general fun (yeah, that word is a bit grim) and I'm happy and semi-sated. "
Hours 
I want a toast and a brew after about 10 minutes, oxygen if I make it to 15 |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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" Just a good few hours of natural flowing sex and general fun (yeah, that word is a bit grim) and I'm happy and semi-sated.
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I want a toast and a brew after about 10 minutes, oxygen if I make it to 15 "
Not hours of actual rogering Bussy, I mean I'm clearly built for stamina not speed but even I couldn't be doing with that. A few hours of say kissing, bit of this, bit of that, funny story time, bit more, power nap, wake up, bit more. You get the idea. |
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"The actual penetration part, never timed it but I would guess 10-20 minutes depending on how worked up he's gotten me.
I've friends who say they expect an hour plus. Like the actual act of sex. Changing positions etc. I thought it was a bit much "
I can feel the chaffing from here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope the people saying 10-15 minutes are including foreplay, cuddles and 8 minutes of tears, apologies and promises that this doesn’t usually happen."
Oh you, I needed that laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope the people saying 10-15 minutes are including foreplay, cuddles and 8 minutes of tears, apologies and promises that this doesn’t usually happen.
Oh you, I needed that laugh. "
I’m glad you find it funny. My previous sexual partners didn’t. |
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"I'm not sure. I like sex where it's natural, interspersed with laughter and breaks for drinks or Colin the Caterpillar faces.
Actual penetration, where it's long enough that I'm not aware of the time and short enough that I'm not getting bored/a bit dried. No idea of times!
Just a good few hours of natural flowing sex and general fun (yeah, that word is a bit grim) and I'm happy and semi-sated. "
This is how I like it too. It doesn't have to be a defined session with a start and finish. I prefer some flirting and wrestling, some kissing and fumbling, some breaks for milk and cookies. Maybe we'll have a little snooze while she's wrapped in my arms and I'm still inside her. There may be orgasms, but it's not all about that. |
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Condoms do have that rubbing effect in my foreskin i find so agree. With me and joanne it came be a few hrs on times. But some times a quicky when the kids are in bed can be just as good. She is multi orgasmic so can cum several times in a quick session even. As long as she is satisfied i am happy but we hace in times fucked off and on all night also if we are both very horney. |
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Sooooo….we seem to be in the minority then! Our quickies are about half an hour! Start to finish is usually 2 - 3 hours for us but that would be maybe half hour to an hour of foreplay and then an hour plus of penetration. We change positions and will switch it up with a bit of oral in between some times. We’d both be disappointed with 10 minutes!
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Sooooo….we seem to be in the minority then! Our quickies are about half an hour! Start to finish is usually 2 - 3 hours for us but that would be maybe half hour to an hour of foreplay and then an hour plus of penetration. We change positions and will switch it up with a bit of oral in between some times. We’d both be disappointed with 10 minutes!
Cookie (wife) "
100 % with you on that. Due to poor health the reason why I don't meet is because I don't want 10 minute sex. An hour was a quickie with a couple of hours was pretty much standard anything over that you didn't count as you just enjoyed yourself but noticed 3-4hrs had gone, maybe 12 |
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By *ezzelsMan
over a year ago
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And here’s me thinking two minutes is great.. …three if I take my socks and grey yfronts off…I need to go back to library and get out the joy of sex..and I only just put it back.. |
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure. I like sex where it's natural, interspersed with laughter and breaks for drinks or Colin the Caterpillar faces.
Actual penetration, where it's long enough that I'm not aware of the time and short enough that I'm not getting bored/a bit dried. No idea of times!
Just a good few hours of natural flowing sex and general fun (yeah, that word is a bit grim) and I'm happy and semi-sated.
Hours
I want a toast and a brew after about 10 minutes, oxygen if I make it to 15 "
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I hope the people saying 10-15 minutes are including foreplay, cuddles and 8 minutes of tears, apologies and promises that this doesn’t usually happen.
Oh you, I needed that laugh.
I’m glad you find it funny. My previous sexual partners didn’t."
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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I don’t feel sex is just about the penetration part, foreplay, laughing, flirtation and conversation that gets your mind going before he actually enters you can go on for hours, I like the build up, anticipation, the flutters…the penetrative bit doesn’t need to last long if he’s already got me wound up like a coiled spring! A good 15-20mins rogering does me fine Xx
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I don’t feel sex is just about the penetration part, foreplay, laughing, flirtation and conversation that gets your mind going before he actually enters you can go on for hours, I like the build up, anticipation, the flutters…the penetrative bit doesn’t need to last long if he’s already got me wound up like a coiled spring! A good 15-20mins rogering does me fine Xx
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This is so dependent on my mood, sometimes I want a long hard fuck but usually I'd rather do other types of foreplay til I cum first, sometimes we don't have full PiV sex at all and take time to just enjoy each other. Variety is the spice of life but anyone saying they want to pound for hours is a no from me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All night or at least 4-5 hours
But I mean that’s the whole experience not just the sex part
Normally consists off
Some chat and little tease dance and for play
Then sex
Then brake with a little drink like bubbly wine water tea coffee or what ever
With some light harted talk for 5-10 minutes
Then change off outfit
And repeat
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From closing door on car. knocking at door. Waiting for answer at door. Glass of wine, get undressed. Foreplay. Make love various positions. Have shower. Getting dressed. Glass of wine. Kiss goodbye. In car. Text next visit.
Exactly 1 min 35 seconds.
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"From closing door on car. knocking at door. Waiting for answer at door. Glass of wine, get undressed. Foreplay. Make love various positions. Have shower. Getting dressed. Glass of wine. Kiss goodbye. In car. Text next visit.
Exactly 1 min 35 seconds.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From closing door on car. knocking at door. Waiting for answer at door. Glass of wine, get undressed. Foreplay. Make love various positions. Have shower. Getting dressed. Glass of wine. Kiss goodbye. In car. Text next visit.
Exactly 1 min 35 seconds.
Wow "
It's not my fault they take their time answering the door.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you’re talking about actual penetration time, on the right day with the right conditions I can last for hours. Other times maybe 20 mins, maybe more, maybe less. Surely it’s about works at the time? |
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It depends on what kind of mood I'm in...sometimes all I need is for him to bend me over the kitchen worktop and give me a quick servicing, other times a couple of hours can pass and I'll still be wanting more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has to be 1 of the most informative posts I've read on here.. and all seems like we have a similar way of thinking..
Sex with the right person can be like a separate time zone.. when at times you think it wasn't long can turn into a very impressive session |
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"From closing door on car. knocking at door. Waiting for answer at door. Glass of wine, get undressed. Foreplay. Make love various positions. Have shower. Getting dressed. Glass of wine. Kiss goodbye. In car. Text next visit.
Exactly 1 min 35 seconds.
Wow
It's not my fault they take their time answering the door. "
Bad form on their behalf |
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"I'm not sure. I like sex where it's natural, interspersed with laughter and breaks for drinks or Colin the Caterpillar faces.
Actual penetration, where it's long enough that I'm not aware of the time and short enough that I'm not getting bored/a bit dried. No idea of times!
Just a good few hours of natural flowing sex and general fun (yeah, that word is a bit grim) and I'm happy and semi-sated.
Hours
I want a toast and a brew after about 10 minutes, oxygen if I make it to 15 "
If I get to 15 I want an extinguisher. Not 15 all in one in out in out session ....... that's one hell of a long time. Methinks people don't realise how long that is......
Do your finger through your circled fingers starting NOW...... don't stop for 15......
Everyone ! Go! |
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure. I like sex where it's natural, interspersed with laughter and breaks for drinks or Colin the Caterpillar faces.
Actual penetration, where it's long enough that I'm not aware of the time and short enough that I'm not getting bored/a bit dried. No idea of times!
Just a good few hours of natural flowing sex and general fun (yeah, that word is a bit grim) and I'm happy and semi-sated.
Hours
I want a toast and a brew after about 10 minutes, oxygen if I make it to 15
If I get to 15 I want an extinguisher. Not 15 all in one in out in out session ....... that's one hell of a long time. Methinks people don't realise how long that is......
Do your finger through your circled fingers starting NOW...... don't stop for 15......
Everyone ! Go!"
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"We are glutinous and don’t know when to stop.
Once of us has to almost die before we’ll stop 
On meets, it’s been 10 - 15 mins then a drink and chat…then back to it and repeat.
K"
We are the same. Long sessions when have sex are the best but also multiple smaller sessions with breaks sometimes are amazing also. |
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"How long do you ladies like sex to actually last? For me personally I don't like it to go on too long. Once I've gotten off I get dry and it hurts so I'd prefer a guy to let loose after that point. I prefer to have sex, both get off and then reat between rounds."
More than 20 seconds |
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"From closing door on car. knocking at door. Waiting for answer at door. Glass of wine, get undressed. Foreplay. Make love various positions. Have shower. Getting dressed. Glass of wine. Kiss goodbye. In car. Text next visit.
Exactly 1 min 35 seconds.
Wow
It's not my fault they take their time answering the door. "
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"How long do you ladies like sex to actually last? For me personally I don't like it to go on too long. Once I've gotten off I get dry and it hurts so I'd prefer a guy to let loose after that point. I prefer to have sex, both get off and then reat between rounds.
More than 20 seconds "
But less than 30 |
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"We are glutinous and don’t know when to stop.
Once of us has to almost die before we’ll stop
On meets, it’s been 10 - 15 mins then a drink and chat…then back to it and repeat.
K
We are the same. Long sessions when have sex are the best but also multiple smaller sessions with breaks sometimes are amazing also. "
I prefer smaller sessions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are glutinous and don’t know when to stop.
Once of us has to almost die before we’ll stop
On meets, it’s been 10 - 15 mins then a drink and chat…then back to it and repeat.
K
We are the same. Long sessions when have sex are the best but also multiple smaller sessions with breaks sometimes are amazing also.
I prefer smaller sessions "
Whoo hoo. Don't leave me at the door for 1 minute 20 seconds. |
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"We are glutinous and don’t know when to stop.
Once of us has to almost die before we’ll stop
I promise I won't
On meets, it’s been 10 - 15 mins then a drink and chat…then back to it and repeat.
K
We are the same. Long sessions when have sex are the best but also multiple smaller sessions with breaks sometimes are amazing also.
I prefer smaller sessions
Whoo hoo. Don't leave me at the door for 1 minute 20 seconds. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Wow, very interesting thread - I wonder if this is representative or if a lot of people arent responding?
Im a little different to most it seems. Im not a huge fan of penetration - I enjoy it in small anounts, but I get pretty bored after a few minutes.
Probably 5-10 minutes max of penetration is all I want, or twice that if spread out in several small chunks across a play session. But seriously, less is more!
The whole sex session should last a whole lot longer though. When Im really horny I like a couple of hours if possible! There is so so much you can do without sticking a penis/dildo in a vagina if you let your imagination run wild! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well it all depends on what you are calling sex are you just referring to penis in vagina/arse time or the entire act of having sex.
I mean today I have a meeting that last just over 2 hours, in that time I made him come 3 times, but at no point did his penis penetrate me in any way. As it was not that kind of sexy act we enjoy together.
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"The actual penetration part, never timed it but I would guess 10-20 minutes depending on how worked up he's gotten me.
I've friends who say they expect an hour plus. Like the actual act of sex. Changing positions etc. I thought it was a bit much "
An hour is never too much... |
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"How long do you ladies like sex to actually last? For me personally I don't like it to go on too long. Once I've gotten off I get dry and it hurts so I'd prefer a guy to let loose after that point. I prefer to have sex, both get off and then reat between rounds."
Would you say then that if he did get you off too early you wouldn't dry up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Short sessions don’t do anything for both of us. At least half hour good hard fucking, different positions lots of kissing and foreplay on top and then repeat and again and again until we are all exhausted and tired. X |
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Wow, very interesting thread - I wonder if this is representative or if a lot of people arent responding?
Im a little different to most it seems. Im not a huge fan of penetration - I enjoy it in small anounts, but I get pretty bored after a few minutes.
Probably 5-10 minutes max of penetration is all I want, or twice that if spread out in several small chunks across a play session. But seriously, less is more!
The whole sex session should last a whole lot longer though. When Im really horny I like a couple of hours if possible! There is so so much you can do without sticking a penis/dildo in a vagina if you let your imagination run wild! "
Agreed 100 percent |
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"And here’s me thinking two minutes is great.. …three if I take my socks and grey yfronts off…I need to go back to library and get out the joy of sex..and I only just put it back.."
Oh there's a book. Can I borrow it when your done ? |
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"How long do you ladies like sex to actually last? For me personally I don't like it to go on too long. Once I've gotten off I get dry and it hurts so I'd prefer a guy to let loose after that point. I prefer to have sex, both get off and then reat between rounds.
Would you say then that if he did get you off too early you wouldn't dry up?"
Plenty of lube |
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"How long do you ladies like sex to actually last? For me personally I don't like it to go on too long. Once I've gotten off I get dry and it hurts so I'd prefer a guy to let loose after that point. I prefer to have sex, both get off and then reat between rounds."
How long is long? |
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"How long do you ladies like sex to actually last? For me personally I don't like it to go on too long. Once I've gotten off I get dry and it hurts so I'd prefer a guy to let loose after that point. I prefer to have sex, both get off and then reat between rounds.
How long is long? "
Till you pass out? |
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"How long do you ladies like sex to actually last? For me personally I don't like it to go on too long. Once I've gotten off I get dry and it hurts so I'd prefer a guy to let loose after that point. I prefer to have sex, both get off and then reat between rounds.
How long is long? "
2 inches |
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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago
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"How long do you ladies like sex to actually last? For me personally I don't like it to go on too long. Once I've gotten off I get dry and it hurts so I'd prefer a guy to let loose after that point. I prefer to have sex, both get off and then reat between rounds.
How long is long?
2 inches "
I can manage that. Just.  |
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"How long do you ladies like sex to actually last? For me personally I don't like it to go on too long. Once I've gotten off I get dry and it hurts so I'd prefer a guy to let loose after that point. I prefer to have sex, both get off and then reat between rounds.
How long is long?
2 inches
I can manage that. Just. "
I could manage it too just about. |
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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago
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"We go for about one to two hours, most of which is foreplay including and oral. Penetration is up to five minutes or so. Reading somebody wanting an hour of penetration makes Hannah's eyes water. "
Mine too |
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