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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've always felt like touch is a language, and sex is a conversation. The skills and tricks you have collected are your vocabulary, but you must also have a talent for listening, building on what your partner just said, and maybe the creativity to turn a clever phrase now and then. To me, that interplay is everything and is what makes for an outstanding experience.
So when having sex what are you after in your partner? What makes it good for you ? |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Passion, sensuality, desire, chemistry, respect, someone who appreciates my body and knows my mind, who understands the connection between both and who has the capabilities to tease me, to flick that switch where I just want nothing more than to be enveloped in that person, my hairs stand on end, my body feels like electricity courses through it and he takes me to a place of complete unrelenting euphoria..x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Passion, sensuality, desire, chemistry, respect, someone who appreciates my body and knows my mind, who understands the connection between both and who has the capabilities to tease me, to flick that switch where I just want nothing more than to be enveloped in that person, my hairs stand on end, my body feels like electricity courses through it and he takes me to a place of complete unrelenting euphoria..x"
All the above and the ability to do cowgirl yee has optional  |
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Connection is huge! You need to both understand and respect what makes each other tick. Intimacy, sensuality and desire are also needed. Being 100% comfortable with someone as well. The trust side of things also allows you both to be completely vulnerable with each other with that knowledge and respect that neither person would cross any lines x |
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Connection with your sexual partner. Intense passion that ignites a spark leading to a full blown inferno, making your body crave his touch.
And laughter...if you can't/don't laugh then it's never going to be good x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Connection, passion, excitement and the ability to tune theirself into you sexually. Unfortunately too many seem to forget that vital part and treat sex as a one way fits all
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The best sex I've had has been with people I've genuinely liked, where if we weren't having sex I'd still think they were fantastic people and would love to be friends with them.
Lots of posts have mentioned connection but it's true, being on the same wavelength makes a massive difference. |
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"Passion, sensuality, desire, chemistry, respect, someone who appreciates my body and knows my mind, who understands the connection between both and who has the capabilities to tease me, to flick that switch where I just want nothing more than to be enveloped in that person, my hairs stand on end, my body feels like electricity courses through it and he takes me to a place of complete unrelenting euphoria..x"
Agreed.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were discussing this last night.
For us it would have to be some sort of connection/attraction (Physical or Mental) the idea of someone actually was attracted to you to progress things further and you were seen for more than just your genitalia  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"The best sex I've had has been with people I've genuinely liked, where if we weren't having sex I'd still think they were fantastic people and would love to be friends with them.
Lots of posts have mentioned connection but it's true, being on the same wavelength makes a massive difference."
Perfectly put and very much the case for me as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Connecting in more ways than one, someone who has you laughing one minute and in ecstasy the next. Being comfortable with someone and knowing what makes them tick makes for a hell of a night! |
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Effort, even if it's quite quick he's got to be really hammering into me at least.
Use the hands, explore my body while we fuck, grab my boobs, pull my hair.
Understand that it's not just about getting the guy to cum, both of us need to be having a good time. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Passion, sensuality, desire, chemistry, respect, someone who appreciates my body and knows my mind, who understands the connection between both and who has the capabilities to tease me, to flick that switch where I just want nothing more than to be enveloped in that person, my hairs stand on end, my body feels like electricity courses through it and he takes me to a place of complete unrelenting euphoria..x"
I was just thinking along similar lines. Some people just drive you a bit crazy with desire and you can’t get enough, they are like a dr*g and sex is mind blowing , others are great , some are good, ok the odd ones meh and you’re the exact person in each case. Sometimes you can guess what they will be like but often you can’t , they speak a certain way or make certain noises or have a certain look or attitude during sex that’s almost out of character and you’re hooked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Passion, sensuality, desire, chemistry, respect, someone who appreciates my body and knows my mind, who understands the connection between both and who has the capabilities to tease me, to flick that switch where I just want nothing more than to be enveloped in that person, my hairs stand on end, my body feels like electricity courses through it and he takes me to a place of complete unrelenting euphoria..x"
Agreed 100% just need a blindfold and restraints  |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
In the west. |
"Passion, sensuality, desire, chemistry, respect, someone who appreciates my body and knows my mind, who understands the connection between both and who has the capabilities to tease me, to flick that switch where I just want nothing more than to be enveloped in that person, my hairs stand on end, my body feels like electricity courses through it and he takes me to a place of complete unrelenting euphoria..x
Agreed 100% just need a blindfold and restraints "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Passion, sensuality, desire, chemistry, respect, someone who appreciates my body and knows my mind, who understands the connection between both and who has the capabilities to tease me, to flick that switch where I just want nothing more than to be enveloped in that person, my hairs stand on end, my body feels like electricity courses through it and he takes me to a place of complete unrelenting euphoria..x"
This sounds so so hot |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
"Passion, sensuality, desire, chemistry, respect, someone who appreciates my body and knows my mind, who understands the connection between both and who has the capabilities to tease me, to flick that switch where I just want nothing more than to be enveloped in that person, my hairs stand on end, my body feels like electricity courses through it and he takes me to a place of complete unrelenting euphoria..x
Agreed 100% just need a blindfold and restraints "
Oh I do love these as an occasional addition |
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Lots of touching and kissing, attentiveness, paying attention to both my responses and what I tell them, communicating their own desires and preferences to me, compatibility, actually giving a damn about my enjoyment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Effort, even if it's quite quick he's got to be really hammering into me at least.
Use the hands, explore my body while we fuck, grab my boobs, pull my hair.
Understand that it's not just about getting the guy to cum, both of us need to be having a good time."
A lot of guys need to read this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've always felt like touch is a language, and sex is a conversation. The skills and tricks you have collected are your vocabulary, but you must also have a talent for listening, building on what your partner just said, and maybe the creativity to turn a clever phrase now and then. To me, that interplay is everything and is what makes for an outstanding experience.
So when having sex what are you after in your partner? What makes it good for you ?"
Connection is one thing but that doesn't always mean great sex.
I like a partner that will explore me and what I like specifically and enjoy the same from me. One who is not rushed and doesn't have their own method they use on everyone. Communication has to be the biggest thing for me but has to work both ways. It's not all about me, it's about then as well. I'm quite happy to try several different things and I'll make the effort to open up a partner and let them go with what they like.
I think quite often guys don't get to indulge as there's so much focus on pleasing the woman. I like to turn that round.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great sex is about great communication and caring about your partner's pleasure. If you start by wanting to please and then listen to your partner to be sure you know what they want (within your boundaries) and then do it enthusiastically, you're off to a great start. |
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By *ibonacciMan
over a year ago
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Personally I think you may be aiming a little low there...
"Good" for many people is just getting some
"Great" might be someone you've fancied for a while riding you like Red Rum then grabbing your cock and sucking you like Dysons engineers can only theorize about as you blow your load every which way but loose
"Outrageously Great" might be number 2 above along with the persons blonde friend sitting on your face cumming at the same time and then you all have tunnocks teacakes or champagne after. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A relaxed atmosphere; no pressure to ‘be this’ or ‘do that’. Just going with the flow and being able to enjoy where it goes."
This is so true. Nothing worse than someone having a list of things you should be doing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wait, sex can be good???
Play your cards right and you’ll find out.
Do you know someone that can help?
I know a guy who knows a guy."
Me too. Wonder if it's the same guy |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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Oh my goodness- I've had a couple of meets recently that have absolutely rocked my world, & I their's, apparently!! One was my age (48) & one was 25 
Both very different, but there was a huge amount of passion & an almost instant connection that made me feel almost as if I'd been in relationship with them! It was a fluke to meet these 2 men in a fairly short space of time, after a long period of fun, but nothing special. It's all about that connection-subsequent meeting have been mind-blowing |
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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
Waddington |
"I've always felt like touch is a language, and sex is a conversation. The skills and tricks you have collected are your vocabulary, but you must also have a talent for listening, building on what your partner just said, and maybe the creativity to turn a clever phrase now and then. To me, that interplay is everything and is what makes for an outstanding experience.
So when having sex what are you after in your partner? What makes it good for you ?"
A lesson in a new language |
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