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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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Like many profiles I request that people who message me show their faces. Yet I get a lot of messages which only have cock and torso pics attached. I generally just ignore these.
Now, before anyone says it, I know that is most likely because they have just browsed the pictures and not read the text.
I used to ask for face pics from those who messaged me without. But I found that they would engage in a long, drawn-out chat before they did making it more difficult for me to say, when they EVENTUALLY sent a pic, that they were not for me. I felt that this was manipulative behaviour and didn't like it. Hence the reason why I now do not ask for face pics and simply ignore those messages.
How do others feel about this? |
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If the message intrigues me to look at the profile and the profile appeals I'll ask for a face pic. Even if it's a simple message.
But if none of the above applies then its sayonara.
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over a year ago
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"Like many profiles I request that people who message me show their faces. Yet I get a lot of messages which only have cock and torso pics attached. I generally just ignore these.
Now, before anyone says it, I know that is most likely because they have just browsed the pictures and not read the text.
I used to ask for face pics from those who messaged me without. But I found that they would engage in a long, drawn-out chat before they did making it more difficult for me to say, when they EVENTUALLY sent a pic, that they were not for me. I felt that this was manipulative behaviour and didn't like it. Hence the reason why I now do not ask for face pics and simply ignore those messages.
How do others feel about this?"
I feel pretty much as you do 
I only once got into a chat with a guy here who had no pics, he was really funny though, eventually I asked him for a pic but also stated I was really shallow so if I didn't like the pic I wouldn't speak to him anymore 
Luckily, I liked the pic
... Normally though, I just delete cos in reality they ain't interesting enuff to get me curious. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
My thought is If i initiate the conversation i send a face picture with the first message,.. if someone contacts me i hope they d do the same, doesnt always happen..
I suppose with the limited number of messages i get i can message / continue the dialogue without creating a problem for myself ,,
I dont mind taking that time either gives me a chance to see if i think theyd be on a similar wave length as myself, however sooner or later you both have to show yourselves , im a bit old for blind dates.. |
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I feel that the person or persons who make the first contact should disclose their face pics first.
Prospectors need to be aware that if you send your pic, it's no guarantee that you'll get a pic by return.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like many profiles I request that people who message me show their faces. Yet I get a lot of messages which only have cock and torso pics attached. I generally just ignore these.
Now, before anyone says it, I know that is most likely because they have just browsed the pictures and not read the text.
I used to ask for face pics from those who messaged me without. But I found that they would engage in a long, drawn-out chat before they did making it more difficult for me to say, when they EVENTUALLY sent a pic, that they were not for me. I felt that this was manipulative behaviour and didn't like it. Hence the reason why I now do not ask for face pics and simply ignore those messages.
How do others feel about this?"
i messaged a women with face pictures and in the second message,i asked, could you possibly send me some face pictures to
she got grumpy and rude at me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like many profiles I request that people who message me show their faces. Yet I get a lot of messages which only have cock and torso pics attached. I generally just ignore these.
Now, before anyone says it, I know that is most likely because they have just browsed the pictures and not read the text.
I used to ask for face pics from those who messaged me without. But I found that they would engage in a long, drawn-out chat before they did making it more difficult for me to say, when they EVENTUALLY sent a pic, that they were not for me. I felt that this was manipulative behaviour and didn't like it. Hence the reason why I now do not ask for face pics and simply ignore those messages.
How do others feel about this?"
I feel exactly the same. I say it in my first paragraph in my profile and delete the messages who haven't sent one. I would always send a face pic on an initial email to someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It entirely depends on the reason for the message. If I'm looking to meet that person for fun, then obviously I send a face pic or any other type of pic stated in their profile.
If its just a friendly follow up to something I may have read in the forums, then its maybe not as important. I do usually send one in that case but after screw messages if a good fnversation has evolved. |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Like many profiles I request that people who message me show their faces. Yet I get a lot of messages which only have cock and torso pics attached. I generally just ignore these.
Now, before anyone says it, I know that is most likely because they have just browsed the pictures and not read the text.
I used to ask for face pics from those who messaged me without. But I found that they would engage in a long, drawn-out chat before they did making it more difficult for me to say, when they EVENTUALLY sent a pic, that they were not for me. I felt that this was manipulative behaviour and didn't like it. Hence the reason why I now do not ask for face pics and simply ignore those messages.
How do others feel about this?
i messaged a women with face pictures and in the second message,i asked, could you possibly send me some face pictures to
she got grumpy and rude at me "
If she was still chatting then it was rude. But if she had decided you were not for her then there's no reason for her to send one. |
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I don't mind if one.isn't attached to the first message but I will want to see.one fairly quickly - I have met on the basis of four messages before.
But whoever sends the first message, and generally it's the guy, is the one I expect to send the first face pic. Then if I'm interested I will send one back. But if it's a no I will send a polite no thanks and wish then well. But no pic. |
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If I receive a decent message from an interesting profile and they haven't sent a face pic, I'll reply pointing out that the request for one is there in my profile... If they reply again without one, then I delete.
I work on the basis that whoever initiates contact sends one first. |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I don't mind if one.isn't attached to the first message but I will want to see.one fairly quickly - I have met on the basis of four messages before.
But whoever sends the first message, and generally it's the guy, is the one I expect to send the first face pic. Then if I'm interested I will send one back. But if it's a no I will send a polite no thanks and wish then well. But no pic."
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"If I receive a decent message from an interesting profile and they haven't sent a face pic, I'll reply pointing out that the request for one is there in my profile... If they reply again without one, then I delete.
I work on the basis that whoever initiates contact sends one first."
I like this approach and have used it before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think pics are important you have to be attracted to them to get on well, let your self go and have great unhindered fun.
I love it when sent a face pic on the first message, but if they send some body pics that are very hot I will chat with them for a bit, be a bit naughty with them then ask for a face pic. I do like to get to no there personality through messaging, but if I'm unsure about there body pics then I will ask for a face pic straight off to continue, they look great then I will if there not for me then I will politely let them no sorry not my type. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like many profiles I request that people who message me show their faces. Yet I get a lot of messages which only have cock and torso pics attached. I generally just ignore these.
Now, before anyone says it, I know that is most likely because they have just browsed the pictures and not read the text.you haven't got a face photo on your profile
I used to ask for face pics from those who messaged me without. But I found that they would engage in a long, drawn-out chat before they did making it more difficult for me to say, when they EVENTUALLY sent a pic, that they were not for me. I felt that this was manipulative behaviour and didn't like it. Hence the reason why I now do not ask for face pics and simply ignore those messages.
How do others feel about this?"
were's yours ? |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Like many profiles I request that people who message me show their faces. Yet I get a lot of messages which only have cock and torso pics attached. I generally just ignore these.
Now, before anyone says it, I know that is most likely because they have just browsed the pictures and not read the text.you haven't got a face photo on your profile
I used to ask for face pics from those who messaged me without. But I found that they would engage in a long, drawn-out chat before they did making it more difficult for me to say, when they EVENTUALLY sent a pic, that they were not for me. I felt that this was manipulative behaviour and didn't like it. Hence the reason why I now do not ask for face pics and simply ignore those messages.
How do others feel about this?were's yours ? "
In my friends folder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If its someone that I have an interest in then ill send a face pic in one of the messages
I expect one back too,if I don't then I can't be bothered to chat any more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't like the idea of sending out a face pic to someone I've never met or even spoken to. I like to see if there is a mutual interest in each other and gauge whether I think I can trust them before sending my mug out on the internet for someone to attach to link to my cock shots.
if you ask for a face pic on first contact, but then politely decline, you still have their cock and their face pic to do what you want with, which can be worrying to the sender |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I don't like the idea of sending out a face pic to someone I've never met or even spoken to. I like to see if there is a mutual interest in each other and gauge whether I think I can trust them before sending my mug out on the internet for someone to attach to link to my cock shots.
if you ask for a face pic on first contact, but then politely decline, you still have their cock and their face pic to do what you want with, which can be worrying to the sender"
I send my face pic when asked unless I do not intend to meet. I understand your reluctance but many people won't meet without having seen a face pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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yeah i know, i messaged her with face picture, she replied (so you would think if she didnt like my look she wouldnt reply?) then i replied to what she said, then at the end put, oh, do you mind if i could see a face picture to?
i got abuse back haha, think shes left this or was a timewaster or fake
im still standing |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"yeah i know, i messaged her with face picture, she replied (so you would think if she didnt like my look she wouldnt reply?) then i replied to what she said, then at the end put, oh, do you mind if i could see a face picture to?
i got abuse back haha, think shes left this or was a timewaster or fake
im still standing "
Or she was self-conscious about her looks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I send my face pic when asked unless I do not intend to meet. I understand your reluctance but many people won't meet without having seen a face pic."
I don't even want to get into conversation without a face pic. I am here to meet people (as well as forum fun) and for me I am attracted to a face, not torso or a cock. I always reply and then delete messages of those that don't attract me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yeah i know, i messaged her with face picture, she replied (so you would think if she didnt like my look she wouldnt reply?) then i replied to what she said, then at the end put, oh, do you mind if i could see a face picture to?
i got abuse back haha, think shes left this or was a timewaster or fake
im still standing
Or she was self-conscious about her looks."
true, but we are on a site to meet arent we? its nice to see who your talking to
im far from perfect but i still send the pictures! |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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"yeah i know, i messaged her with face picture, she replied (so you would think if she didnt like my look she wouldnt reply?) then i replied to what she said, then at the end put, oh, do you mind if i could see a face picture to?
i got abuse back haha, think shes left this or was a timewaster or fake
im still standing
Or she was self-conscious about her looks.
true, but we are on a site to meet arent we? its nice to see who your talking to
im far from perfect but i still send the pictures!"
I know but perhaps some people have bitten off more than they can chew!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yeah i know, i messaged her with face picture, she replied (so you would think if she didnt like my look she wouldnt reply?) then i replied to what she said, then at the end put, oh, do you mind if i could see a face picture to?
i got abuse back haha, think shes left this or was a timewaster or fake
im still standing
Or she was self-conscious about her looks.
true, but we are on a site to meet arent we? its nice to see who your talking to
im far from perfect but i still send the pictures!
I know but perhaps some people have bitten off more than they can chew!!"
true |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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"yea loads of cock pics to send but when you ask for a face pic they come bk with the site won,t let me upload a face pic the mind boggles lol "
Yup I love that one. Makes me hit delete at warp 9. |
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"yea loads of cock pics to send but when you ask for a face pic they come bk with the site won,t let me upload a face pic the mind boggles lol "
Maybe they have a purple bald head and only one eye? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel that the person or persons who make the first contact should disclose their face pics first.
Prospectors need to be aware that if you send your pic, it's no guarantee that you'll get a pic by return.
I agree
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I don't ask for any photos in my profile as I think it should be obvious I will want to know what they look like at some point before meeting.
I tend to find most of the better quality messages come from people who send a face pic, without me asking, within the first couple of messages anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
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A couple who were great to chat with sent us some face pics after a few messages when I saw them I quickly replied that I was sorry we weren't after mm but mf only to get the reply we are mf I didn't know what to say so I'm a bit embarrassed to say I did not reply :S  |
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"I will send a face pic if I am messaging someone with a view to meet. I won't if it is just chatting though unless they ask for one "
The only time I send a face pic in the first message is when it is a photo of their granny gaffa taped to a chair and telling them which bank account to put the money in.
Have I said too much? |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"I will send a face pic if I am messaging someone with a view to meet. I won't if it is just chatting though unless they ask for one
The only time I send a face pic in the first message is when it is a photo of their granny gaffa taped to a chair and telling them which bank account to put the money in.
Have I said too much?"
Keep her she's skint |
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"I will send a face pic if I am messaging someone with a view to meet. I won't if it is just chatting though unless they ask for one
The only time I send a face pic in the first message is when it is a photo of their granny gaffa taped to a chair and telling them which bank account to put the money in.
Have I said too much?
Keep her she's skint "
Oh bollox......... I'll have to sell the chair on ebay. |
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"A couple who were great to chat with sent us some face pics after a few messages when I saw them I quickly replied that I was sorry we weren't after mm but mf only to get the reply we are mf I didn't know what to say so I'm a bit embarrassed to say I did not reply :S "
That was sooo funny! I cant bear social embarrassment but that one's a classic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Isn't it a case of If you show me yours, then I'll show you mine ? 
Mind you, once you've seen my ugly mug you might have run for the hills, never to be heard from again
I've a face pic on my profile too, so generally ask, that if they might be interested, that they have a peek at me.....
Saves a lot of time  |
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"Like many profiles I request that people who message me show their faces. Yet I get a lot of messages which only have cock and torso pics attached. I generally just ignore these.
Now, before anyone says it, I know that is most likely because they have just browsed the pictures and not read the text.
I used to ask for face pics from those who messaged me without. But I found that they would engage in a long, drawn-out chat before they did making it more difficult for me to say, when they EVENTUALLY sent a pic, that they were not for me. I felt that this was manipulative behaviour and didn't like it. Hence the reason why I now do not ask for face pics and simply ignore those messages.
How do others feel about this?"
pretty much the same feeling, we also have a sentance on our profile that we like people to use as a subject, if its not in the subject we just delete. How can anyone 'love your profile' if they just looked at your pictures?.xxx |
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