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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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do you use the who's viewed you feature alot?
For me this is my most used feature, if they've looked they've seen something they like and this is how i get most of my meets  and get talking. Quite often people who look won't mail me and I have to mail them first, and they will often say they have been looking and watching me hoping I message them.. some ladies seem to need they guy to message them first not sure why??
On other occasions though I will view people i see in the browse feature, I did this yesterday and messaged a lovely lady. She messaged me back saying she has been watching me for a while in forums because she liked me. Strange how it seems like many ladies love the guy to contact them... turns out this lady is out of this world she is beautiful, stunning figure, great personality and we seem to get on well so far (if she reads this hope you know who you are!) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I rarely look at mine.
I also started viewing privately after getting "i see you looked at my profile, are you interested" mails all the time. If I looked and was interested I'd have mailed them  "
yes that is the case sometimes, but not for everyone as i mentioned it's quite often people will look but will wait for you to mail them back. Everyone is different though, I just wonder how many chances go on by. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use the viewed you feature but i dont message those that have looked, if they like what they see then they will message, well thats my theory.... 
Doesnt always work out that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use it too and can see some people have viewed me multiple times but I think if they were interested they would have messaged me. May be I'm wrong but I dont like to send messages saying thanks for looking. Think it makes me sound like a stalker lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i like to see who has looked at me, then i sometimes look at their profiles see if there pictures are any good.
i dont send first message as i get enough already. most of the time i am looking at profiles for something to do and am nosy, not looking for someone to meet. |
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I look at the feature but don't contact someone unless they contact me or wink etc.
Sometimes we're out of age range or whatever.
I assume if they've looked and not contacted me then they're probably not interested after viewing the profile.
However, I'll watch this thread with interest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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yes people are quite right, but when someone looks a few times is usually when i will send a message, and many times ladies are very happy when i have and say they were hoping i would. not everyone no but everyone is different, some women like the chase and love to be chased.
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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Not sure why you think they are interested if they look?
They have to look to see if they are interested. I would assume if they look and don't message it is because they are not interested. Not because they are shy lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not sure why you think they are interested if they look?
They have to look to see if they are interested. I would assume if they look and don't message it is because they are not interested. Not because they are shy lol"
indeed, not everyone who looks is interested, but when they look a number of times then it seems to indicate maybe they are interested. I am merely stating that it does happen and has happened to me a number of times where the lady will keep looking until you say something and seem to enjoy been messaged first rather than them do the first message. And i wonder how many of these hint have been missed over the years |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't check it out, if they didn't contact me then cleary they weren't interested. "
I can't see your profile so I can't contact you, sad times, love your profile pic though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't check it out, if they didn't contact me then cleary they weren't interested.
I can't see your profile so I can't contact you, sad times, love your profile pic though x"
I'm not meeting at the moment. When I am meeting, my p e will be on show again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't check it out, if they didn't contact me then cleary they weren't interested.
I can't see your profile so I can't contact you, sad times, love your profile pic though x
I'm not meeting at the moment. When I am meeting, my pe will be on show again. "
ahh good idea, you get to join in the social side without been bombarded x |
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"I rarely look at mine.
I also started viewing privately after getting "i see you looked at my profile, are you interested" mails all the time. If I looked and was interested I'd have mailed them "
Ditto. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There has been this guy that has constantly been looking at me for weeks,loads of times a day,seriously loads of times
I sent him a message saying BOO! and hes deleted his account |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There has been this guy that has constantly been looking at me for weeks,loads of times a day,seriously loads of times
I sent him a message saying BOO! and hes deleted his account "
Bless him..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There has been this guy that has constantly been looking at me for weeks,loads of times a day,seriously loads of times
I sent him a message saying BOO! and hes deleted his account "
I've just had a look at your profile. There are numerous reasons he was looking regularly...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do use the looked at me feature I often send winks if I see someone has looked, and usually get a message back, I like to see who looks and what kind of men I attract, also sometimes they have the feature and see you looked and it just starts up contact in some cases , I like it and think it's useful you can see who perves on a regular basis ha ha  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do use the looked at me feature I often send winks if I see someone has looked, and usually get a message back, I like to see who looks and what kind of men I attract, also sometimes they have the feature and see you looked and it just starts up contact in some cases , I like it and think it's useful you can see who perves on a regular basis ha ha "
it's not just me then xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do use the looked at me feature I often send winks if I see someone has looked, and usually get a message back, I like to see who looks and what kind of men I attract, also sometimes they have the feature and see you looked and it just starts up contact in some cases , I like it and think it's useful you can see who perves on a regular basis ha ha
it's not just me then xx"
Nop lol I perve alot too ha ha xx  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do use the looked at me feature I often send winks if I see someone has looked, and usually get a message back, I like to see who looks and what kind of men I attract, also sometimes they have the feature and see you looked and it just starts up contact in some cases , I like it and think it's useful you can see who perves on a regular basis ha ha
it's not just me then xx
Nop lol I perve alot too ha ha xx "
haha, i saw you perving on me gave me a good excuse to look over your very sexy pics dreaming about the possibilities x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sequence of events when I log on
1) Read any new mail
2) Check if messages sent have been read
3) Check who's viewed me
As to whether I would message someone who has looked at me, this does depend on several factors, the 2 most important being: do they live locally and are they someone that I would like to meet.
I'm sure we've all looked at profiles before and think this is someone I would really like to meet, but you dissuade yourself from doing so as you feel perhaps they would not be interested.
In the past I've done just this, then found they've looked at me. So a short but polite message is my next move, something like 'As we've both looked at each I thought I'd introduce myself'. Can do wonders! |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I keep forgetting about this feature and also people can opt out of being seen as having perved so I guess it is not an accurate reflection of who has viewed you but more of who has viewed you and wants you to know that they have if that makes sense? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't tend to use it very often - I figure if someone has looked and not messaged then it's either because they are not interested or they don't meet our wants.
L xx |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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I perve in stealth mode cos I don't want Funky/Invictus knowing how many times I look at his bum...
I only usually look at who's looked at me to see how many silhouettes in a row have perved me as someone posted in the forum once that they had 14 on the trot - not managed to beat that yet |
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