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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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At some point but not yet.
Men are complex creatures - and they have too much temptation when it comes to dating apps
And then, when they fade away for a week or two, they think it’s acceptable to act like nothings happened
Well I ain’t that person willing to put myself through that again !
Barriers are firmly in place , shan’t be doing that again.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The internet has ruined dating in my opinion.
Where’s the recommendation from a friend. Meeting someone when out
Now it’s too easy to swipe one way or the other based on looks.
Far too many clever wordsmiths out there for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The internet has ruined dating in my opinion.
Where’s the recommendation from a friend. Meeting someone when out
Now it’s too easy to swipe one way or the other based on looks.
Far too many clever wordsmiths out there for me "
It’s horrible really
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"The internet has ruined dating in my opinion.
Where’s the recommendation from a friend. Meeting someone when out
Now it’s too easy to swipe one way or the other based on looks.
Far too many clever wordsmiths out there for me "
If you don't fit into the 'style' box, your swiped into eternity. Yep new dating is shite  X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m glad I’ve never had to do the online dating thing and hopefully I never have to. I much prefer taking to people in real life but it’s frowned upon these days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The internet has ruined dating in my opinion.
Where’s the recommendation from a friend. Meeting someone when out
Now it’s too easy to swipe one way or the other based on looks.
Far too many clever wordsmiths out there for me
It’s horrible really
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I met someone not long back. Thought I’d give it another try.
When texting before messaging they were great. Face to face no actual conversation. Not because of shyness but because the lack of a physical conversation has been lost |
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"The internet has ruined dating in my opinion.
Where’s the recommendation from a friend. Meeting someone when out
Now it’s too easy to swipe one way or the other based on looks.
Far too many clever wordsmiths out there for me
It’s horrible really
I met someone not long back. Thought I’d give it another try.
When texting before messaging they were great. Face to face no actual conversation. Not because of shyness but because the lack of a physical conversation has been lost "
I probably talk too much  x |
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"At some point but not yet.
Men are complex creatures - and they have too much temptation when it comes to dating apps
And then, when they fade away for a week or two, they think it’s acceptable to act like nothings happened
Well I ain’t that person willing to put myself through that again !
Barriers are firmly in place , shan’t be doing that again. "
Women are the same |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At some point but not yet.
Men are complex creatures - and they have too much temptation when it comes to dating apps
And then, when they fade away for a week or two, they think it’s acceptable to act like nothings happened
Well I ain’t that person willing to put myself through that again !
Barriers are firmly in place , shan’t be doing that again.
Women are the same"
I guess everyone has the capability of acting like a twat |
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"At some point but not yet.
Men are complex creatures - and they have too much temptation when it comes to dating apps
And then, when they fade away for a week or two, they think it’s acceptable to act like nothings happened
Well I ain’t that person willing to put myself through that again !
Barriers are firmly in place , shan’t be doing that again.
Women are the same
I guess everyone has the capability of acting like a twat "
The fab covenant x |
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"At some point but not yet.
Men are complex creatures - and they have too much temptation when it comes to dating apps
And then, when they fade away for a week or two, they think it’s acceptable to act like nothings happened
Well I ain’t that person willing to put myself through that again !
Barriers are firmly in place , shan’t be doing that again.
Women are the same
I guess everyone has the capability of acting like a twat "
Women more so than men i would suggest. Thats what excessive choice breeds |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think if I ever became single again,I'd stay that way .
Fab can really taint your view of others lol."
I do honestly feel like I’m going to stay single .
A sad nearly 50 year old with 2 cats, I’m such a catch |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"I think if I ever became single again,I'd stay that way .
Fab can really taint your view of others lol.
I do honestly feel like I’m going to stay single .
A sad nearly 50 year old with 2 cats, I’m such a catch "
Aww don't say that
You never know what's round the corner
I wasn't looking for more than fun ,but met my partner here almost 7 years ago.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I ain't doing shit anymore. No dating, no relationship, no FWB, no FB....honestly I'd rather have a chicken roast.
There you go, I've said it.
Now, who's up for a FAF |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think if I ever became single again,I'd stay that way .
Fab can really taint your view of others lol.
I do honestly feel like I’m going to stay single .
A sad nearly 50 year old with 2 cats, I’m such a catch
Aww don't say that
You never know what's round the corner
I wasn't looking for more than fun ,but met my partner here almost 7 years ago.x"
Honestly ? I think I have probably more chance on here than regular dating apps
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I ain't doing shit anymore. No dating, no relationship, no FWB, no FB....honestly I'd rather have a chicken roast.
There you go, I've said it.
Now, who's up for a FAF "
What’s a FAF?? |
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"I think if I ever became single again,I'd stay that way .
Fab can really taint your view of others lol.
I do honestly feel like I’m going to stay single .
A sad nearly 50 year old with 2 cats, I’m such a catch "
You've got a lovely face and nice legs. Go get em! x |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
Morden |
"I think if I ever became single again,I'd stay that way .
Fab can really taint your view of others lol.
I do honestly feel like I’m going to stay single .
A sad nearly 50 year old with 2 cats, I’m such a catch "
There's nothing wrong with having 2 cats.
It's when you have more than 10 people would worry. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think if I ever became single again,I'd stay that way .
Fab can really taint your view of others lol.
I do honestly feel like I’m going to stay single .
A sad nearly 50 year old with 2 cats, I’m such a catch
You've got a lovely face and nice legs. Go get em! x"
Can’t be arsed at the moment lol xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think if I ever became single again,I'd stay that way .
Fab can really taint your view of others lol.
I do honestly feel like I’m going to stay single .
A sad nearly 50 year old with 2 cats, I’m such a catch
There's nothing wrong with having 2 cats.
It's when you have more than 10 people would worry."
True ! Maybe I am more than a crazy cat lady |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
Morden |
"I ain't doing shit anymore. No dating, no relationship, no FWB, no FB....honestly I'd rather have a chicken roast.
There you go, I've said it.
Now, who's up for a FAF
What’s a FAF??"
"Fancy A Fuck". |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I ain't doing shit anymore. No dating, no relationship, no FWB, no FB....honestly I'd rather have a chicken roast.
There you go, I've said it.
Now, who's up for a FAF
What’s a FAF??
"Fancy A Fuck"."
Hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went on a date the other week via an app
After 20 minutes she said she only wants a man over 5’ 10”, no exceptions
I’m 5’ 7”, so at that point completely killed the date. I’m very clear on my height, so still confused why she wasted both of our time when she has such a strict rule/requirement that I clearly don’t meet |
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"I went on a date the other week via an app
After 20 minutes she said she only wants a man over 5’ 10”, no exceptions
I’m 5’ 7”, so at that point completely killed the date. I’m very clear on my height, so still confused why she wasted both of our time when she has such a strict rule/requirement that I clearly don’t meet "
Yeah, 3 inches plainly a passion killer  |
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"I went on a date the other week via an app
After 20 minutes she said she only wants a man over 5’ 10”, no exceptions
I’m 5’ 7”, so at that point completely killed the date. I’m very clear on my height, so still confused why she wasted both of our time when she has such a strict rule/requirement that I clearly don’t meet "
You should have asked her. Put her on the spot and have her explain herself |
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"I went on a date the other week via an app
After 20 minutes she said she only wants a man over 5’ 10”, no exceptions
I’m 5’ 7”, so at that point completely killed the date. I’m very clear on my height, so still confused why she wasted both of our time when she has such a strict rule/requirement that I clearly don’t meet
You should have asked her. Put her on the spot and have her explain herself "
Hmmm....something tells me he wouldn't get an honest answer |
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"I went on a date the other week via an app
After 20 minutes she said she only wants a man over 5’ 10”, no exceptions
I’m 5’ 7”, so at that point completely killed the date. I’m very clear on my height, so still confused why she wasted both of our time when she has such a strict rule/requirement that I clearly don’t meet
You should have asked her. Put her on the spot and have her explain herself
Hmmm....something tells me he wouldn't get an honest answer"
Well she should still be asked. She clearly wasted the guys time |
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"I went on a date the other week via an app
After 20 minutes she said she only wants a man over 5’ 10”, no exceptions
I’m 5’ 7”, so at that point completely killed the date. I’m very clear on my height, so still confused why she wasted both of our time when she has such a strict rule/requirement that I clearly don’t meet
You should have asked her. Put her on the spot and have her explain herself
Hmmm....something tells me he wouldn't get an honest answer
Well she should still be asked. She clearly wasted the guys time"
What's the point? Move on and retry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I went on a date the other week via an app
After 20 minutes she said she only wants a man over 5’ 10”, no exceptions
I’m 5’ 7”, so at that point completely killed the date. I’m very clear on my height, so still confused why she wasted both of our time when she has such a strict rule/requirement that I clearly don’t meet
You should have asked her. Put her on the spot and have her explain herself
Hmmm....something tells me he wouldn't get an honest answer
Well she should still be asked. She clearly wasted the guys time"
I’ve just accepted it and moved on
Not much else I can do really |
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"I went on a date the other week via an app
After 20 minutes she said she only wants a man over 5’ 10”, no exceptions
I’m 5’ 7”, so at that point completely killed the date. I’m very clear on my height, so still confused why she wasted both of our time when she has such a strict rule/requirement that I clearly don’t meet
You should have asked her. Put her on the spot and have her explain herself
Hmmm....something tells me he wouldn't get an honest answer
Well she should still be asked. She clearly wasted the guys time
I’ve just accepted it and moved on
Not much else I can do really "
At this point, yes. I meant more at the time to put her on the spot |
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"I gave up on dating apps a while ago but might give it a try again, unless this thread proves otherwise.
Depends how curious is curious 
I can assure you this one is curiously curious "
And I'm curious about your curiousness x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I gave up on dating apps a while ago but might give it a try again, unless this thread proves otherwise."
It’s soul destroying in my experience. The apps make people so dispensable as commodities. |
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"I gave up on dating apps a while ago but might give it a try again, unless this thread proves otherwise.
It’s soul destroying in my experience. The apps make people so dispensable as commodities. "
Spot on fella. Like wading through waist deep shit  |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
"At some point but not yet.
Men are complex creatures - and they have too much temptation when it comes to dating apps
And then, when they fade away for a week or two, they think it’s acceptable to act like nothings happened
Well I ain’t that person willing to put myself through that again !
Barriers are firmly in place , shan’t be doing that again. "
I keep looking at dating apps but get cold feet after a few days & bin them off.
Most of the men who get in touch are so obviously only after sex it's not even funny.
I can't imagine actually meeting someone again. I reckon I'll be single for the rest of my life  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
I can't be bothered to do the constant hi, hello, how are you, I'm fine, you're sexy, thank you, you are beautiful, thanks again, I'd like to meet you, not until we've had a proper conversation blah blah blah ad infinitum.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't be bothered to do the constant hi, hello, how are you, I'm fine, you're sexy, thank you, you are beautiful, thanks again, I'd like to meet you, not until we've had a proper conversation blah blah blah ad infinitum.
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Add in, how long have you been single, why are you single, what are you looking for, what’s your type merry go round |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
"I can't be bothered to do the constant hi, hello, how are you, I'm fine, you're sexy, thank you, you are beautiful, thanks again, I'd like to meet you, not until we've had a proper conversation blah blah blah ad infinitum.
Add in, how long have you been single, why are you single, what are you looking for, what’s your type merry go round "
Yep. So tedious |
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"I can't be bothered to do the constant hi, hello, how are you, I'm fine, you're sexy, thank you, you are beautiful, thanks again, I'd like to meet you, not until we've had a proper conversation blah blah blah ad infinitum.
Add in, how long have you been single, why are you single, what are you looking for, what’s your type merry go round "
Arrgh! That’s exactly why I should not go back on there! I hated that small talk when if fact all they ever wanted was sex |
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"I gave up on dating apps a while ago but might give it a try again, unless this thread proves otherwise.
Depends how curious is curious
I can assure you this one is curiously curious
And I'm curious about your curiousness x"
That makes curious even more curious now! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't be bothered to do the constant hi, hello, how are you, I'm fine, you're sexy, thank you, you are beautiful, thanks again, I'd like to meet you, not until we've had a proper conversation blah blah blah ad infinitum.
Add in, how long have you been single, why are you single, what are you looking for, what’s your type merry go round
Arrgh! That’s exactly why I should not go back on there! I hated that small talk when if fact all they ever wanted was sex "
Yeah I hate the inane small talk , I feel like I’m just repeating the same stuff over and over and getting nowhere |
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"I can't be bothered to do the constant hi, hello, how are you, I'm fine, you're sexy, thank you, you are beautiful, thanks again, I'd like to meet you, not until we've had a proper conversation blah blah blah ad infinitum.
Add in, how long have you been single, why are you single, what are you looking for, what’s your type merry go round
Arrgh! That’s exactly why I should not go back on there! I hated that small talk when if fact all they ever wanted was sex
Yeah I hate the inane small talk , I feel like I’m just repeating the same stuff over and over and getting nowhere "
You should really be getting to arranging/going for a drink after a day or so x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't be bothered to do the constant hi, hello, how are you, I'm fine, you're sexy, thank you, you are beautiful, thanks again, I'd like to meet you, not until we've had a proper conversation blah blah blah ad infinitum.
Add in, how long have you been single, why are you single, what are you looking for, what’s your type merry go round
Arrgh! That’s exactly why I should not go back on there! I hated that small talk when if fact all they ever wanted was sex
Yeah I hate the inane small talk , I feel like I’m just repeating the same stuff over and over and getting nowhere
You should really be getting to arranging/going for a drink after a day or so x"
Yeah but initially it’s the same chat over and over |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
Id hate to be back on the dating scene ... i wouldnt know where to start lol last time was the good old fashioned meet in the dancing hit it off and take it from there ..there was no internet or apps ..good old chatting up face to face  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Id hate to be back on the dating scene ... i wouldnt know where to start lol last time was the good old fashioned meet in the dancing hit it off and take it from there ..there was no internet or apps ..good old chatting up face to face "
Lucky you |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I’ve met some really nice people in here on Facebook dating, on tinder, on the next door app and at my gym. You just get good at going slowly getting to know people & picking out good ones. I think people are often just in such a rush to couple up and don’t do their homework |
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"At some point but not yet.
Men are complex creatures - and they have too much temptation when it comes to dating apps
And then, when they fade away for a week or two, they think it’s acceptable to act like nothings happened
Well I ain’t that person willing to put myself through that again !
Barriers are firmly in place , shan’t be doing that again. "
I had a real blast with online dating a few years back. I met some lovely women, a few ‘nutters’, one where I had to involve the police. In fact, her actions scared off the one woman that I thought ‘ wow! I want to be with this girl for the rest of my life’. I drifted a little after that then got fed up with the whole thing. Women!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't be bothered to do the constant hi, hello, how are you, I'm fine, you're sexy, thank you, you are beautiful, thanks again, I'd like to meet you, not until we've had a proper conversation blah blah blah ad infinitum.
Add in, how long have you been single, why are you single, what are you looking for, what’s your type merry go round
Arrgh! That’s exactly why I should not go back on there! I hated that small talk when if fact all they ever wanted was sex
Yeah I hate the inane small talk , I feel like I’m just repeating the same stuff over and over and getting nowhere
You should really be getting to arranging/going for a drink after a day or so x"
Be surprised how many ‘are busy’ or not available until 3/4weeks down the line , and just want to converse over messages without a phone call for that duration |
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"I can't be bothered to do the constant hi, hello, how are you, I'm fine, you're sexy, thank you, you are beautiful, thanks again, I'd like to meet you, not until we've had a proper conversation blah blah blah ad infinitum.
Add in, how long have you been single, why are you single, what are you looking for, what’s your type merry go round
Arrgh! That’s exactly why I should not go back on there! I hated that small talk when if fact all they ever wanted was sex
Yeah I hate the inane small talk , I feel like I’m just repeating the same stuff over and over and getting nowhere
You should really be getting to arranging/going for a drink after a day or so x
Be surprised how many ‘are busy’ or not available until 3/4weeks down the line , and just want to converse over messages without a phone call for that duration "
Oh yeah, had that. Red flag. Never gonna meet |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"At some point but not yet.
Men are complex creatures - and they have too much temptation when it comes to dating apps
And then, when they fade away for a week or two, they think it’s acceptable to act like nothings happened
Well I ain’t that person willing to put myself through that again !
Barriers are firmly in place , shan’t be doing that again. "
Any man would be lucky to have you .
I'm sure sooner rather than later you will find the right person |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At some point but not yet.
Men are complex creatures - and they have too much temptation when it comes to dating apps
And then, when they fade away for a week or two, they think it’s acceptable to act like nothings happened
Well I ain’t that person willing to put myself through that again !
Barriers are firmly in place , shan’t be doing that again.
Any man would be lucky to have you .
I'm sure sooner rather than later you will find the right person "
Thank you ! Same to you xx |
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"I gave up on dating apps a while ago but might give it a try again, unless this thread proves otherwise.
It’s soul destroying in my experience. The apps make people so dispensable as commodities. "
I’m a little confused tbh. You have a good physique, cracking legs, seem pretty articulate and - according to your veris - you’re attractive too.
I’d say you were very dateable.
I’d certainly be interested if you were local. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I gave up on dating apps a while ago but might give it a try again, unless this thread proves otherwise.
It’s soul destroying in my experience. The apps make people so dispensable as commodities.
I’m a little confused tbh. You have a good physique, cracking legs, seem pretty articulate and - according to your veris - you’re attractive too.
I’d say you were very dateable.
I’d certainly be interested if you were local. "
Thank you , can’t dm but that’s lovely. I definitely share that interest ! |
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