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Is this normal on here?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I had a message a couple of days ago that I read and looked at the profile. The profile a 1 pic which was a standard dick pic and very little info on it so I didn’t bother replying. Today he sent a message telling me I should get tattoos on my face to cover it up! Why are some people so rude?
I’d love to have the time to reply to every single message but don’t! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know it sounds easy but ignore the haters, look at it from outside and you immediately think well that’s a dickhead right there, block and wonder who raised them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not the website that's the issue, it's the people that send the messages.
It's always been a thing and always will.
Take it as a compliment. They really wanted to fuck you. The worse the insults the more the fancy you and the sadder they are..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately the internet allows some people to be even more dickish than in real life. I got called boring the other day because I didn't want to suck the cock of someone I'd never spoken to before nor even seen a photo of 
Block and move on, the issue is theirs not yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not the website that's the issue, it's the people that send the messages.
It's always been a thing and always will.
Take it as a compliment. They really wanted to fuck you. The worse the insults the more the fancy you and the sadder they are.. "
This is so true! 
Miss S x |
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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago
Lancashire |
"So I had a message a couple of days ago that I read and looked at the profile. The profile a 1 pic which was a standard dick pic and very little info on it so I didn’t bother replying. Today he sent a message telling me I should get tattoos on my face to cover it up! Why are some people so rude?
I’d love to have the time to reply to every single message but don’t! "
Unfortunately some men on here just can't take the fact that not all women on here want to sleep with them, or even chat to them.
We aren't all like this and can only apologies for the idiots, there actions spoil it for the oral ones on here. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I wouldn't ssay normal, but perhaps more common than is desirable.
Ten years ago I had a message telling me I should be grateful for any attention as a fat 47 year old. I'm even fatter at 57, and get even fewer messages but questionable attention still doesn't make me want to submit* to their requests.
*Submission is what they really want.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally think it’s just over eager men it’s definitely not you
I don’t usually make the first move think it’s more like club rules fab I don’t speak till I’m spoken to
Good boy like that
Also kinky fucker but there you go can’t have everything lol |
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
"So I had a message a couple of days ago that I read and looked at the profile. The profile a 1 pic which was a standard dick pic and very little info on it so I didn’t bother replying. Today he sent a message telling me I should get tattoos on my face to cover it up! Why are some people so rude?
I’d love to have the time to reply to every single message but don’t! "
Unfortunately it happens. Some men don't take rejection kindly. I'm afraid you have to develop a broad back on here and ignore the insults.
You look great by the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally think it’s just over eager men it’s definitely not you
I don’t usually make the first move think it’s more like club rules fab I don’t speak till I’m spoken to
Good boy like that
Also kinky fucker but there you go can’t have everything lol "
Over eager is a bit of a polite way of putting it.....they are rude, self entitled, self important fucking idiots.
To the OP, sorry it happened. Have to do your best to ignore it, block and reporting helps.
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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago
Lancashire |
"I wouldn't ssay normal, but perhaps more common than is desirable.
Ten years ago I had a message telling me I should be grateful for any attention as a fat 47 year old. I'm even fatter at 57, and get even fewer messages but questionable attention still doesn't make me want to submit* to their requests.
*Submission is what they really want.
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Curvaceous not fat  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't ssay normal, but perhaps more common than is desirable.
Ten years ago I had a message telling me I should be grateful for any attention as a fat 47 year old. I'm even fatter at 57, and get even fewer messages but questionable attention still doesn't make me want to submit* to their requests.
*Submission is what they really want.
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That’s awful! I think some people just expect others to fall at their feet! X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pay them no attention just block and report! I get multiple insults a week on here. Some men have fragile ego’s."
Just saw your status and I’ve started to just delete messages where people obviously haven’t bothered to read my profile! It’s so frustrating! X |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
Orpington |
You need very very VERY thick skin to be on fab...once you are able to ignore the haters and ignorant people (which are quite a few I'm afraid) you will enjoy fab to it's fullest.
I'm sorry for your bad experience, but if you stay persistent, you will find some decent people on here...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pay them no attention just block and report! I get multiple insults a week on here. Some men have fragile ego’s.
Just saw your status and I’ve started to just delete messages where people obviously haven’t bothered to read my profile! It’s so frustrating! X"
Don't read the profile, often send a unsocialised dick pic then post on the forums asking why they never have any luck on here 
Miss S x |
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"So I had a message a couple of days ago that I read and looked at the profile. The profile a 1 pic which was a standard dick pic and very little info on it so I didn’t bother replying. Today he sent a message telling me I should get tattoos on my face to cover it up! Why are some people so rude?
I’d love to have the time to reply to every single message but don’t! "
No it's not normal but it happens a lot. It's some sad pathetic little man who's upset you won't have sex with him so he all he has is insults.
Report, block and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pay them no attention just block and report! I get multiple insults a week on here. Some men have fragile ego’s.
Just saw your status and I’ve started to just delete messages where people obviously haven’t bothered to read my profile! It’s so frustrating! X"
It’s annoying as hell lol about 95% of the messages I get are from unsuitable guys lol |
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"....Today he sent a message telling me I should get tattoos on my face to cover it up!... "
Message him back to tell him its a great idea, and you're booked in to get '*username of the idiot* is a limp dicked cockwomble' inked on your forehead...then block him so he can't reply |
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"I wouldn't ssay normal, but perhaps more common than is desirable.
Ten years ago I had a message telling me I should be grateful for any attention as a fat 47 year old. I'm even fatter at 57, and get even fewer messages but questionable attention still doesn't make me want to submit* to their requests.
*Submission is what they really want.
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Err.....you're hot to trot  x |
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It’s just an immature dickish reaction from someone who thinks he’s being powerful, but in all honesty his Mummy never taught him right and wrong.
Rise above it, there’s plenty of decent guys around. |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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Barely spend time here these days, good to see things haven’t changed and people are still dicks.
OP, don’t worry one more minute about that person, block them and carry on chatting to people worthy of your time. It most definitely is not you, it’s them. |
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There are lots on here that behave disgracefully, from narcissists who think are God's gift to those that think there must be something wrong with you if you say no. That's why so may people have such long block lists. However there are lots of nice people too. As many said, block and don't give it another thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Abuse does happen unfortunately.
I got abuse because I didn’t reply within 20 minutes of his message, so apparently I was rude
You either block single men, or learn to brush it off (which is wrong, but that’s just how it goes) |
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Sad truth is, it's a free site and as such its legitimate community are subject to all the pathetic bullshit some individuals feel the need to put out into the world they are so clearly frustrated with. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Sad truth is, it's a free site and as such its legitimate community are subject to all the pathetic bullshit some individuals feel the need to put out into the world they are so clearly frustrated with. "
They're part of the community.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some bloke called me a boring cunt because I said we're not compatible. Something about me never finding anyone because I'm so awful.
I apologised and said I would love to meet him. He said cool... when?  |
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"Some bloke called me a boring cunt because I said we're not compatible. Something about me never finding anyone because I'm so awful.
I apologised and said I would love to meet him. He said cool... when? "
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"Sad truth is, it's a free site and as such its legitimate community are subject to all the pathetic bullshit some individuals feel the need to put out into the world they are so clearly frustrated with.
They're part of the community.
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They're really not If they behave loke that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Simple fact is. Normality on here goes thus… oh my god you’re gorgeous. Sorry .. not interested…. Wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole anyhow you minger. Sums it up really |
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