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Is guys wearing high heels still taboo?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve worked in make dominated environments a lot.
So my first reaction is “ how the hell are you going to drive a forklift in those!”
My liberal self thinks. Knock yourself out and wear what you want, if you were ever going to go out in those, 2022 is that year to do it.
I wear nail varnish now and again (a throw bock from My school days, and it rarely gets a mention.  |
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"Been wearing extreme heels and platforms for 15years or so, but still seem to put off most women 
What do we think?"
Im not looking to be abrasive here, but are you really surprised that most women dont like it? |
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"Been wearing extreme heels and platforms for 15years or so, but still seem to put off most women
What do we think?
Im not looking to be abrasive here, but are you really surprised that most women dont like it? "
Some will like it though. Yes most not but that fun of here as some will |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been wearing extreme heels and platforms for 15years or so, but still seem to put off most women
What do we think?"
You are entitled to wear what you want. Women are entitled to like it or not. If you want to broaden your appeal don’t wear stuff that sone won’t like. Or be yourself and focus on those who appreciate you in some fab heels.
Life doesn’t have to be this complicated |
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"Been wearing extreme heels and platforms for 15years or so, but still seem to put off most women
What do we think?
You are entitled to wear what you want. Women are entitled to like it or not. If you want to broaden your appeal don’t wear stuff that sone won’t like. Or be yourself and focus on those who appreciate you in some fab heels.
Life doesn’t have to be this complicated "
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
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"Why???? Heels are soooooo uncomfortable.i avoid them like the plague.
Heels enhance the probability of getting laid. It’s science. "
I've never needed heels to get laid, it's not really a requirement anymore I don't think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why???? Heels are soooooo uncomfortable.i avoid them like the plague.
Heels enhance the probability of getting laid. It’s science.
I've never needed heels to get laid, it's not really a requirement anymore I don't think. "
I was being ironic. I generally wear flats these days myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It certainly shouldn’t be.
I was dommed once by a guy wearing heels and a waistcoat corset. He was straight as an arrow, but loved mixing up his choices of clothing. It was really attractive. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Prefer flats myself but whatever you want to wear then embrace it. Sooner or later someone will admire your individuality.  "
I prefer flats, mostly as I'm pretty nimble and generally move a lot more smoothly in flats  |
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I don't think it taboo at all these days or even controversial. However its doesn't mean lots more women will fancy you. I think that's more a matter of what people are attracted to in a person's image than their feelings on societal norms and whats ok to wear (or not).
Anyways regardless of what you wear what's most important (with regards attraction and image) is being comfortable in your own skin and totally owning your look. |
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love wearing my heels and they have to be stiletos too for me. make me feel more femme in them it shouldn't really as most women do not wear them.
Broke a pair the other day and was gutted, asked a cobler to repair and they say they couldn't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a lover of men dressed nothing turns me on more than a man in heels especially boots I go hard as nails just seeing a photo my fantasy is to be with someone and I’m trying my hardest on here.
Please keep doing it x |
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I don’t think taboo is quite the right word, it is about acceptability. Theoretically in this day and age it shouldn’t be a problem but inequitably, it still is. …
It is acceptable for a woman to wear flat shoes, jeans trousers etc, and be feminine. It is not however ‘acceptable’ and transcends convention if a man were to wear a skirt, and or heels…. but accept some feel comfortable doing so … but so very very rarely.
If I’m in Rachel mode, I will wear a skirt and (always) heels .. I think that is more acceptable / tolerable, than if I was in bloke mode to wear the same.
Maybe one day convention will change.
R xx |
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I don’t think it’s taboo but it’s probably not going to make you more attractive to the majority of women. It may well
Make you more attractive to a minority of women, as long as your fine with that knock yourself out |
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"I don’t think it’s taboo but it’s probably not going to make you more attractive to the majority of women. It may well
Make you more attractive to a minority of women, as long as your fine with that knock yourself out"
I don’t think this about trying to make oneself ‘more attractive to women .. it is about freedom of expression. I fully realise that as a TV, i turn off probably 99% of women, and accept that. I am just grateful there is but a very special few who I don’t turn off, or who accept me. If it was about appealing to women in the wider sense .. I’d probably be better if hiding myself away ….been there and done that!
R x |
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"I don’t think it’s taboo but it’s probably not going to make you more attractive to the majority of women. It may well
Make you more attractive to a minority of women, as long as your fine with that knock yourself out
I don’t think this about trying to make oneself ‘more attractive to women .. it is about freedom of expression. I fully realise that as a TV, i turn off probably 99% of women, and accept that. I am just grateful there is but a very special few who I don’t turn off, or who accept me. If it was about appealing to women in the wider sense .. I’d probably be better if hiding myself away ….been there and done that!
R x"
You should be free to dress as you please, hopefully we are getting closer to that.
But I was responding to the OP who stated that it seems to put women off. |
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By *ister CMan
over a year ago
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"Been wearing extreme heels and platforms for 15years or so, but still seem to put off most women
What do we think?"
I think its niche and the positivity towards it will be proportional to that niche. |
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"Been wearing extreme heels and platforms for 15years or so, but still seem to put off most women
What do we think?"
I think as long as your happy then go for it. It wouldn’t put me off I would probably want to know how you manage to wear extreme heels without breaking anything.  |
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