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Do you all visit clubs or do you meet people solely through this site
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over a year ago
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Met 2 people through here so far. Went to a club last week for the first time and it wasn’t what I expected at all, not sure if I’ll try others. Sort of want to but also a bit disillusioned! |
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I have this vision in my mind of attending a club and it being dirty inside and I wouldn't want to sit down anywhere.
Also I don't like the thought of being naked or towel wrapped around me with strangers who I've just met. |
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I mix it up and have periods when it's more 1 than the other. I like to have a variety of experiences and home or hotel comforts can beat clubs. Though spontaneous meets in clubs and the environment, are great to enjoy |
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"I have this vision in my mind of attending a club and it being dirty inside and I wouldn't want to sit down anywhere.
Also I don't like the thought of being naked or towel wrapped around me with strangers who I've just met."
Oh, and I imagine 90% of the clubbers would be men.
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I've only recently started visiting clubs and find I need to rely on this site less and less. Oddly enought though, I have had more interest from Fab since I started going. Not sure if there's a correlation there though |
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"I have this vision in my mind of attending a club and it being dirty inside and I wouldn't want to sit down anywhere.
Also I don't like the thought of being naked or towel wrapped around me with strangers who I've just met.
Oh, and I imagine 90% of the clubbers would be men.
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No more like 60% |
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"I have this vision in my mind of attending a club and it being dirty inside and I wouldn't want to sit down anywhere.
Also I don't like the thought of being naked or towel wrapped around me with strangers who I've just met."
You can keep your clothes on |
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"I've only recently started visiting clubs and find I need to rely on this site less and less. Oddly enought though, I have had more interest from Fab since I started going. Not sure if there's a correlation there though"
That’s really good to hear! I’d say there is a correlation there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have this vision in my mind of attending a club and it being dirty inside and I wouldn't want to sit down anywhere.
Also I don't like the thought of being naked or towel wrapped around me with strangers who I've just met.
You can keep your clothes on "
I would take my top off so quickly  |
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Most of my meets have been from here.
I have done a few clubs. Never had an issue going on my own, though is nice to go with someone too.
Usually find people to play / chat with, if the mood takes me.
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"I've only recently started visiting clubs and find I need to rely on this site less and less. Oddly enought though, I have had more interest from Fab since I started going. Not sure if there's a correlation there though
That’s really good to hear! I’d say there is a correlation there "
Probably, to be fair it's also helped with my FOMO of having something to do relating to Fab on a Saturday night so definitely worth it for that alone |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"I've only recently started visiting clubs and find I need to rely on this site less and less. Oddly enought though, I have had more interest from Fab since I started going. Not sure if there's a correlation there though
That’s really good to hear! I’d say there is a correlation there
Probably, to be fair it's also helped with my FOMO of having something to do relating to Fab on a Saturday night so definitely worth it for that alone "
Growing confidence too? |
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"I have this vision in my mind of attending a club and it being dirty inside and I wouldn't want to sit down anywhere.
Also I don't like the thought of being naked or towel wrapped around me with strangers who I've just met.
You can keep your clothes on "
I guess not many clubs allow that. I read towels must be worn on another post. |
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"I've only recently started visiting clubs and find I need to rely on this site less and less. Oddly enought though, I have had more interest from Fab since I started going. Not sure if there's a correlation there though
That’s really good to hear! I’d say there is a correlation there
Probably, to be fair it's also helped with my FOMO of having something to do relating to Fab on a Saturday night so definitely worth it for that alone
Growing confidence too?"
Could be that as well. Thanks for letting me know, can't let that get out of control  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've gone through phases where I've fancied trying clubs or socials, then I've went right off the idea again. Never say never, but I'm not sure if it'd be my scene. Plus if I did go, I'd want it to be down south, not local.
Shorter answer: I just meet people through here ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've only recently started visiting clubs and find I need to rely on this site less and less. Oddly enought though, I have had more interest from Fab since I started going. Not sure if there's a correlation there though
That’s really good to hear! I’d say there is a correlation there
Probably, to be fair it's also helped with my FOMO of having something to do relating to Fab on a Saturday night so definitely worth it for that alone "
Yeah that’s great I’m happy you are getting out there! You’re near a club which is a bonus, enjoy yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only met in clubs so far, or had first meet in a club and then.had further meets privately.
Always time to change that! "
I am proactively looking to change it.  |
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"I have this vision in my mind of attending a club and it being dirty inside and I wouldn't want to sit down anywhere.
Also I don't like the thought of being naked or towel wrapped around me with strangers who I've just met.
You can keep your clothes on
I guess not many clubs allow that. I read towels must be worn on another post. "
If it's a naturist club. And certain areas, clothing is not allowed. Tbh I saw many rules broken in clubs. Men walking around fully clothed with just their dicks hanging out. |
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"I have this vision in my mind of attending a club and it being dirty inside and I wouldn't want to sit down anywhere.
Also I don't like the thought of being naked or towel wrapped around me with strangers who I've just met.
You can keep your clothes on
I guess not many clubs allow that. I read towels must be worn on another post.
If it's a naturist club. And certain areas, clothing is not allowed. Tbh I saw many rules broken in clubs. Men walking around fully clothed with just their dicks hanging out."
Sounds intriguing |
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Bit of both, generally prefer home meets as I find them more comfortable.
Saying that…. Clubs are great fun to people watch and I like the social side, plus playing with a crowd / watching is fun. And there is an excitement in meeting someone in a club and making a connection to play. The downside is I don’t like the wipe down leather / lighting etc which all seems a bit naff.. |
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Through the site and depending on how we match we become regular clubs to add others to our mix.. I don't go to clubs to scout I e only met one couple I found equally desirable who matched our chemistry when I had a play partner.
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
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Mostly on here but I like going to clubs but it's getting too expensive.
Most of them are miles away, meaning a hotel stay and lot's of fuel. I've spent £200-£250 before now, just to visit a club. It's not too bad if I can tie it in with something else. |
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