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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am attracted to men who aren't conventionally attractive, if that's what you mean... If I find them attractive, then they are attractive, right?  "
Yes indeed. I think. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am attracted to men who aren't conventionally attractive, if that's what you mean... If I find them attractive, then they are attractive, right? "
Can you give any examples |
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We ain’t even got a chance in hell mate
Seems everybody is after a 6packed hung like a horse type of guy
I wish I could live up to that level of standard but I can’t
I have skillz which are good enough for me to be able to play |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We ain’t even got a chance in hell mate
Seems everybody is after a 6packed hung like a horse type of guy
I wish I could live up to that level of standard but I can’t
I have skillz which are good enough for me to be able to play "
I get I've no chance but I was more interested in what Ariel said about conventional attractiveness |
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As an unattractive man I whole heartily support this kink and more than willing to do all I can to help this undiscovered kink reach mainstream fab and wider audiences so it gets the recognition and acknowledgment it deserves hehe  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As an unattractive man I whole heartily support this kink and more than willing to do all I can to help this undiscovered kink reach mainstream fab and wider audiences so it gets the recognition and acknowledgment it deserves hehe "
Kink or fetish ?? |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
"I am attracted to men who aren't conventionally attractive, if that's what you mean... If I find them attractive, then they are attractive, right?
Can you give any examples "
I have a massive crush of Steve Buscemi... and Greg Wallace makes my knickers twitch every time I see him  |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
"We ain’t even got a chance in hell mate
Seems everybody is after a 6packed hung like a horse type of guy
I wish I could live up to that level of standard but I can’t
I have skillz which are good enough for me to be able to play "
I call bullshit! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am attracted to men who aren't conventionally attractive, if that's what you mean... If I find them attractive, then they are attractive, right?
Can you give any examples
I have a massive crush of Steve Buscemi... and Greg Wallace makes my knickers twitch every time I see him "
Does anyone know of a plastic surgeon who could make me look like Greg. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We ain’t even got a chance in hell mate
Seems everybody is after a 6packed hung like a horse type of guy
I wish I could live up to that level of standard but I can’t
I have skillz which are good enough for me to be able to play
I call bullshit! "
I'm hooked  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone is attractive to some...it's just a very small percentage... Even those you consider your competition"
Ever felt attracted to someone because of their forum persona |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
"Everyone is attractive to some...it's just a very small percentage... Even those you consider your competition
Ever felt attracted to someone because of their forum persona "
Lol not that alone, no |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone is attractive to some...it's just a very small percentage... Even those you consider your competition
Ever felt attracted to someone because of their forum persona
Lol not that alone, no"
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"We ain’t even got a chance in hell mate
Seems everybody is after a 6packed hung like a horse type of guy
I wish I could live up to that level of standard but I can’t
I have skillz which are good enough for me to be able to play
I call bullshit! "
That’s what I’ve experienced and encountered unless it’s due to the colour of my skin I’ll never know as they seem to move on |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
"We ain’t even got a chance in hell mate
Seems everybody is after a 6packed hung like a horse type of guy
I wish I could live up to that level of standard but I can’t
I have skillz which are good enough for me to be able to play
I call bullshit!
That’s what I’ve experienced and encountered unless it’s due to the colour of my skin I’ll never know as they seem to move on "
It's just attraction... I have no idea what it is that makes someone attractive and someone else not... It's just something I really like in their face and personality... It doesn't have to be anything specific that someone doesn't fancy about you or does... It's weird like that... Doesn't mean you're ugly/not good enough, it's just weird... Ask anyone that's dated a twin  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We ain’t even got a chance in hell mate
Seems everybody is after a 6packed hung like a horse type of guy
I wish I could live up to that level of standard but I can’t
I have skillz which are good enough for me to be able to play
I call bullshit!
That’s what I’ve experienced and encountered unless it’s due to the colour of my skin I’ll never know as they seem to move on
It's just attraction... I have no idea what it is that makes someone attractive and someone else not... It's just something I really like in their face and personality... It doesn't have to be anything specific that someone doesn't fancy about you or does... It's weird like that... Doesn't mean you're ugly/not good enough, it's just weird... Ask anyone that's dated a twin "
Clever never thought of the twin thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you attracted to unattractive men
If so does that make them attractive
And if so please pm me. "
The men you talk about may not be attractive in the general sense but may be attractive to people for different reasons , beauty is in the eye of the beholder , while one person might not feel attractive to a certain type of person is attractive to another ..that's what makes it so wonderful. |
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"As an unattractive man I whole heartily support this kink and more than willing to do all I can to help this undiscovered kink reach mainstream fab and wider audiences so it gets the recognition and acknowledgment it deserves hehe
Kink or fetish ?? "
Your right, though similar it should really be classed as a fetish
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"I am attracted to men who aren't conventionally attractive, if that's what you mean... If I find them attractive, then they are attractive, right?
Can you give any examples
I have a massive crush of Steve Buscemi... and Greg Wallace makes my knickers twitch every time I see him "
Tbf Steve Buscemi is an amazing actor and great guy. He’s a volunteer firefighter, that he never uses to publise himself and same with humanitarian work. Shit maybe I do as well as he’s a top bloke xx
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"As unattractive blokes we can always live in hope that there’s a chance that a lovely woman or couple whom would be willing to get acquainted with us "
Hope, smote! Promote it as fetish until it culturally recognised like many others and then there a niche to meet like minded people you have a chance to connect with |
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By *red333Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"I am attracted to men who aren't conventionally attractive, if that's what you mean... If I find them attractive, then they are attractive, right?
Can you give any examples "
lyle lovett and julia roberts?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I seen loads of average looking men with lots of verifications. So it's obvious it's their personalities got people wanting to write about them"
Hope they are reading that |
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By *red333Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"I seen loads of average looking men with lots of verifications. So it's obvious it's their personalities got people wanting to write about them"
yes exactly everyone sees beauty in different ways |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
"I seen loads of average looking men with lots of verifications. So it's obvious it's their personalities got people wanting to write about them"
Or that average is always the best place to be? |
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If you find an unattractive bloke attractive then that makes them attractive surely?
I have a soft spot for a geeky bloke and gingers, but I need personality too to find someone attractive.
I couldn't say anyone I found attractive was unattractive though it's kind of a contradiction.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I seen loads of average looking men with lots of verifications. So it's obvious it's their personalities got people wanting to write about them
Or that average is always the best place to be? "
Is slightly under average of any interest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally subjective, however what I do know is that for me a distasteful personality quickly makes a person unattractive, regardless of physical appearance. |
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I am not remotely 'six-packed', nor 'hung', but lots of beautiful women have shown interest in me.
I'm not saying hot bodies, huge cocks, and Henry-Cavill jawlines don't help! But clearly, they aren't ALL that matters. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Totally subjective, however what I do know is that for me a distasteful personality quickly makes a person unattractive, regardless of physical appearance. "
Can a nice personality make an unattractive person seem more appealing? |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
"Totally subjective, however what I do know is that for me a distasteful personality quickly makes a person unattractive, regardless of physical appearance. "
I am finding the older I get, the more things are putting me off someone, very quickly... Or I am just less likely to put up with certain behaviour, maybe |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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I am far more attracted to personality than physical appearance. Yes, granted, I need to not be totally repulsed by their face, but I definitely put more emphasis on what kind of person they are than what they look like. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am far more attracted to personality than physical appearance. Yes, granted, I need to not be totally repulsed by their face, but I definitely put more emphasis on what kind of person they are than what they look like. "
So have you ever found yourself attracted to someone simply through forum banter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally subjective, however what I do know is that for me a distasteful personality quickly makes a person unattractive, regardless of physical appearance.
I am finding the older I get, the more things are putting me off someone, very quickly... Or I am just less likely to put up with certain behaviour, maybe "
Yes I think as you get older you realise what are the things that you do and don't like and pick up on them quickly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally subjective, however what I do know is that for me a distasteful personality quickly makes a person unattractive, regardless of physical appearance.
Can a nice personality make an unattractive person seem more appealing?"
It can also work the other way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally subjective, however what I do know is that for me a distasteful personality quickly makes a person unattractive, regardless of physical appearance.
I am finding the older I get, the more things are putting me off someone, very quickly... Or I am just less likely to put up with certain behaviour, maybe "
Perhaps a case of older and wiser, knowing what you want and less likely to tolerate things. |
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It’s Schrödinger’s attractiveness. You’re simultaneously attractive and unattractive until someone fancies you or doesn’t.
But then Heisenberg kicks in. When you’re attractive to someone your attractiveness quotient rises. Being fancied has changed the attractiveness of the thing being fancied. |
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"Totally subjective, however what I do know is that for me a distasteful personality quickly makes a person unattractive, regardless of physical appearance.
Can a nice personality make an unattractive person seem more appealing?
It can also work the other way"
Definitely true. I've done a 180 degree reversal on my opinions of some people on here after they posted something absolutely toxic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Totally subjective, however what I do know is that for me a distasteful personality quickly makes a person unattractive, regardless of physical appearance.
Can a nice personality make an unattractive person seem more appealing?"
I think credit can be given yes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Totally subjective, however what I do know is that for me a distasteful personality quickly makes a person unattractive, regardless of physical appearance.
Can a nice personality make an unattractive person seem more appealing?
I think credit can be given yes. "
Then there is hope. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s Schrödinger’s attractiveness. You’re simultaneously attractive and unattractive until someone fancies you or doesn’t."
Or both, or neither. Open the box and find out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attraction is usually classified into five main types:
Sexual attraction. This involves an intense desire for intimate sexual contact with others of the same or different genders,
Physical attraction
Emotional attraction
Romantic attraction
Aesthetic attraction |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s Schrödinger’s attractiveness. You’re simultaneously attractive and unattractive until someone fancies you or doesn’t.
Or both, or neither. Open the box and find out "
Isn't it invariably empty |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s Schrödinger’s attractiveness. You’re simultaneously attractive and unattractive until someone fancies you or doesn’t.
Or both, or neither. Open the box and find out
Isn't it invariably empty "
No, there’s a cat in it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s Schrödinger’s attractiveness. You’re simultaneously attractive and unattractive until someone fancies you or doesn’t.
Or both, or neither. Open the box and find out
Isn't it invariably empty
No, there’s a cat in it. "
What's it's name. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s Schrödinger’s attractiveness. You’re simultaneously attractive and unattractive until someone fancies you or doesn’t.
Or both, or neither. Open the box and find out
Isn't it invariably empty
No, there’s a cat in it.
What's it's name. "
I don’t believe it was given a name |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s Schrödinger’s attractiveness. You’re simultaneously attractive and unattractive until someone fancies you or doesn’t.
Or both, or neither. Open the box and find out
Isn't it invariably empty
No, there’s a cat in it.
What's it's name.
I don’t believe it was given a name "
That's sad. |
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"Attraction is usually classified into five main types:
Sexual attraction. This involves an intense desire for intimate sexual contact with others of the same or different genders,
Physical attraction
Emotional attraction
Romantic attraction
Aesthetic attraction"
God help anyone that ticks all of those boxes off for me |
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We all see others differently - how many times have we heard or said ‘I don’t see what she sees in him’ or vice versa.
It can be how you sell yourself too, on dating sites sometimes I’m about to swipe left simply looking at first photo then look at the second with a different pose maybe smiling for instance which makes them look nicer, more appealing.
I sometimes worry about my fab pics (mainly hidden at present) as I worry they make me look more sexy than I am cause I only put the best ones on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Attraction is usually classified into five main types:
Sexual attraction. This involves an intense desire for intimate sexual contact with others of the same or different genders,
Physical attraction
Emotional attraction
Romantic attraction
Aesthetic attraction
God help anyone that ticks all of those boxes off for me "
Be a special person to be ticking all those boxes, |
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"Attraction is usually classified into five main types:
Sexual attraction. This involves an intense desire for intimate sexual contact with others of the same or different genders,
Physical attraction
Emotional attraction
Romantic attraction
Aesthetic attraction
God help anyone that ticks all of those boxes off for me
Be a special person to be ticking all those boxes, "
It would be an exhausted, well fed, spoiled, laughing and adored person…
(Did I mentioned exhausted)?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Attraction is usually classified into five main types:
Sexual attraction. This involves an intense desire for intimate sexual contact with others of the same or different genders,
Physical attraction
Emotional attraction
Romantic attraction
Aesthetic attraction
God help anyone that ticks all of those boxes off for me
Be a special person to be ticking all those boxes, "
I think one forumite does  |
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"Attraction is usually classified into five main types:
Sexual attraction. This involves an intense desire for intimate sexual contact with others of the same or different genders,
Physical attraction
Emotional attraction
Romantic attraction
Aesthetic attraction
God help anyone that ticks all of those boxes off for me
Be a special person to be ticking all those boxes,
I think one forumite does "
Oooh is this a confession that someone ticks all of your boxes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Attraction is usually classified into five main types:
Sexual attraction. This involves an intense desire for intimate sexual contact with others of the same or different genders,
Physical attraction
Emotional attraction
Romantic attraction
Aesthetic attraction
God help anyone that ticks all of those boxes off for me
Be a special person to be ticking all those boxes,
It would be an exhausted, well fed, spoiled, laughing and adored person…
(Did I mentioned exhausted)? "
they woukd be living the dream, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Attraction is usually classified into five main types:
Sexual attraction. This involves an intense desire for intimate sexual contact with others of the same or different genders,
Physical attraction
Emotional attraction
Romantic attraction
Aesthetic attraction
God help anyone that ticks all of those boxes off for me
Be a special person to be ticking all those boxes,
I think one forumite does
Oooh is this a confession that someone ticks all of your boxes?"
It is indeed but as always there is a but... |
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"Attraction is usually classified into five main types:
Sexual attraction. This involves an intense desire for intimate sexual contact with others of the same or different genders,
Physical attraction
Emotional attraction
Romantic attraction
Aesthetic attraction
God help anyone that ticks all of those boxes off for me
Be a special person to be ticking all those boxes,
It would be an exhausted, well fed, spoiled, laughing and adored person…
(Did I mentioned exhausted)?
they woukd be living the dream, "
Keyword there being dream |
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"Attraction is usually classified into five main types:
Sexual attraction. This involves an intense desire for intimate sexual contact with others of the same or different genders,
Physical attraction
Emotional attraction
Romantic attraction
Aesthetic attraction
God help anyone that ticks all of those boxes off for me
Be a special person to be ticking all those boxes,
I think one forumite does
Oooh is this a confession that someone ticks all of your boxes?
It is indeed but as always there is a but..."
There always is…. It sucks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Attraction is usually classified into five main types:
Sexual attraction. This involves an intense desire for intimate sexual contact with others of the same or different genders,
Physical attraction
Emotional attraction
Romantic attraction
Aesthetic attraction
God help anyone that ticks all of those boxes off for me
Be a special person to be ticking all those boxes,
It would be an exhausted, well fed, spoiled, laughing and adored person…
(Did I mentioned exhausted)?
they woukd be living the dream,
Keyword there being dream "
Kinda tongue in cheek...lol... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Attraction is usually classified into five main types:
Sexual attraction. This involves an intense desire for intimate sexual contact with others of the same or different genders,
Physical attraction
Emotional attraction
Romantic attraction
Aesthetic attraction
God help anyone that ticks all of those boxes off for me
Be a special person to be ticking all those boxes,
I think one forumite does
Oooh is this a confession that someone ticks all of your boxes?
It is indeed but as always there is a but...
There always is…. It sucks "
I know  |
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"We ain’t even got a chance in hell mate
Seems everybody is after a 6packed hung like a horse type of guy
I wish I could live up to that level of standard but I can’t
I have skillz which are good enough for me to be able to play
I call bullshit!
That’s what I’ve experienced and encountered unless it’s due to the colour of my skin I’ll never know as they seem to move on "
Maybe it's more your pessimistic attitude that puts people off, plenty of conventionally average looking guys on fab who get lots of attention from women on fab |
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I have found (Mr) that Venus (Mrs) will get lots of attention which is brilliant....whereas me I feel if I dont make the effort to approach someone no-one approaches me....when I do approach someone I am so self conscious of my appearance that I find it hard to relax and be me. I get that is a me problem but I have to say if you have self reservations for not being the "norm" confidence is hard to gain.
The joke past towards me further back in this thread is commonplace as if its ok to do that. Usual things that happen in a club most dont even realise makes me self doubt even more so like standing at a bar, standing in a crowded area, these can all be things that rip my confidence to bits. So what I am trying to say is in my humble opinion if a man doesnt feel he is attractive for one reason or another their confidence to be naturual will be scuppered. If that makes any sense to you then your better than me lol
Mars |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"I am far more attracted to personality than physical appearance. Yes, granted, I need to not be totally repulsed by their face, but I definitely put more emphasis on what kind of person they are than what they look like.
So have you ever found yourself attracted to someone simply through forum banter. "
Absolutely. I've messaged a few people as a result and even gone on to meet some of them face to face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am yes. I love to suck cock at the local gloryhole to help the unattractive feel desired. My top customer is RexHoles.
I paid for a bloke to suck my cock. I feel hard done to now "
lmfaooooo touché |
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"I am yes. I love to suck cock at the local gloryhole to help the unattractive feel desired. My top customer is RexHoles.
I paid for a bloke to suck my cock. I feel hard done to now
lmfaooooo touché "
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