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Absolutely, OP. Disgusting bedrooms, bathrooms, personal hygiene (like dirty fingernails) is very off putting.
I recently refused a meet with someone down to a disgusting house when we met for coffee. |
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"Absolutely, OP. Disgusting bedrooms, bathrooms, personal hygiene (like dirty fingernails) is very off putting.
I recently refused a meet with someone down to a disgusting house when we met for coffee."
*Checks finger nails.....oh. |
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"Absolutely, OP. Disgusting bedrooms, bathrooms, personal hygiene (like dirty fingernails) is very off putting.
I recently refused a meet with someone down to a disgusting house when we met for coffee.
*Checks finger nails.....oh. "
100%, untidy houses and dirty fingernails are what we look for and it's a turn off and move on straight away.. |
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"Absolutely, OP. Disgusting bedrooms, bathrooms, personal hygiene (like dirty fingernails) is very off putting.
I recently refused a meet with someone down to a disgusting house when we met for coffee.
*Checks finger nails.....oh.
100%, untidy houses and dirty fingernails are what we look for and it's a turn off and move on straight away.. "
I'm doomed. |
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I don't tend to get too judgy cause I have adhd so my room is often chaos. However if its like low quality photos and there's nothing else jumping out... It'd be a turn off yes. Rubbish lying around is a huge no no. Difference between shoes littering the hall behind an outfit pic and a cock/lynx can picture with empty take away boxes behind it  |
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"Absolutely, OP. Disgusting bedrooms, bathrooms, personal hygiene (like dirty fingernails) is very off putting.
I recently refused a meet with someone down to a disgusting house when we met for coffee.
*Checks finger nails.....oh. "
A certain amount of blood is only to be expected.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We try not to judge but if the background is super messy than it can be a little off putting. Mrs has a big thing about fingernails too, always looks closely at people fingernails on pics like an absolute psychopath 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I please point out, the background on ours, where there is stuff on the bed.. It is just clothes/lingerie so I feel that is acceptable plus I've blurred it anyway
I did have to crop out a Smyths bag out of one of our pictures.
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By *odieCI5 OP Man
over a year ago
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Well glad I’m not the only one, I actually got put off by ragging curtains hanging all over the place, and an old busty up chest of draws, it looked like a bombed out building ha ha, and strangely enough, no condoms in any pics, huge no no, hope she doesn’t see this ha ha |
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By *odieCI5 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Absolutely I do! I know it’s judgmental but I like what I like 
Unmade beds, toilet seat up, floordrobes are my biggest turn offs. "
Oh toilet seat up is a bit harsh ha ha, I’m a man and live alone, ha ha no reason to have the seat down, ha ha bless you |
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"Dose anyone else look at the background in house pics, and if it’s a mess, it is a big turn off ha ha maybe I’m fussy "
All the time. I notice the back ground before the person/ people. Ha ha |
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Oh definitely! And i don't understand why guys take pics of themselves in grubby mirrors  saw one delightful profile pic with no duvet cover! A bit of untidiness is okay but when your carpet is clearly overdue a vacuum, I worry hygiene isnt well looked after |
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Yes, yes and yes.
There is a female local to me and her pics are awful. The total mess is unreal. The place must stink.
It's worrying that she clearly doesnt notice it 
It bothers me that much that I wouldnt meet a guy who has met her. And her equally minging friend |
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