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By (user no longer on site) OP 51 weeks ago
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Does your prefer the novelty effect that a new sexual partner can provide ?
Do your sexual desire and arousal increase with a new partner or do you prefer the familiarity with all it entails that a regular partner can provide ?
Both can be compatible, it is not one way or the other. I was just wondering where people position themselves on that spectrum. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Everyone enjoys NRE (new relationship energy) but the deeper pleasures come from knowing a person and delving into each other.
Whether we realise it or not, NRE is one of the reasons we all do this. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Everyone enjoys NRE (new relationship energy) but the deeper pleasures come from knowing a person and delving into each other.
Whether we realise it or not, NRE is one of the reasons we all do this."
Totally agree.
By this, you mean swinging ? |
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By *eliWoman 51 weeks ago
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Familiarity sounds rather dreary a term when applied to a person doesn't it?
I love those butterflies I experience when I'm meeting someone new. That stage of excitedly talking and discovering new things, the voicenotes of waffle and joy. That rush of the first kiss, the way someone's body, their responses is oh so very new to me. It's very much new relationship energy and I'm here for that. Slightly addicted to NRE to be honest.
Equally, I love the deeper bonds that come about in time. The ability to relax and enjoy intimacy, learning new things, exploring kinks and desires that I've not had a chance to or have been inspired by the other person.
I'd say I lean more towards to knowing someone, a deeper relationship. I do love the rush of NRE though. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Everyone enjoys NRE (new relationship energy) but the deeper pleasures come from knowing a person and delving into each other.
Whether we realise it or not, NRE is one of the reasons we all do this.
Totally agree.
By this, you mean swinging ? "
Swinging is one way of putting it. Personally I don't class myself as a swinger as it feels like such an old outdated term these days. But essentially, yes - recreational sex, poly, open, whatever you want to call it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 51 weeks ago
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"Familiarity sounds rather dreary a term when applied to a person doesn't it?
I love those butterflies I experience when I'm meeting someone new. That stage of excitedly talking and discovering new things, the voicenotes of waffle and joy. That rush of the first kiss, the way someone's body, their responses is oh so very new to me. It's very much new relationship energy and I'm here for that. Slightly addicted to NRE to be honest.
Equally, I love the deeper bonds that come about in time. The ability to relax and enjoy intimacy, learning new things, exploring kinks and desires that I've not had a chance to or have been inspired by the other person.
I'd say I lean more towards to knowing someone, a deeper relationship. I do love the rush of NRE though."
Would regularity fits better in that context ? |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Everyone enjoys NRE (new relationship energy) but the deeper pleasures come from knowing a person and delving into each other.
Whether we realise it or not, NRE is one of the reasons we all do this.
Totally agree.
By this, you mean swinging ?
Swinging is one way of putting it. Personally I don't class myself as a swinger as it feels like such an old outdated term these days. But essentially, yes - recreational sex, poly, open, whatever you want to call it "
Adding that to your private notes mister  |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Everyone enjoys NRE (new relationship energy) but the deeper pleasures come from knowing a person and delving into each other.
Whether we realise it or not, NRE is one of the reasons we all do this.
Totally agree.
By this, you mean swinging ?
Swinging is one way of putting it. Personally I don't class myself as a swinger as it feels like such an old outdated term these days. But essentially, yes - recreational sex, poly, open, whatever you want to call it
Adding that to your private notes mister "
Just how long are my private notes now?!  |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Everyone enjoys NRE (new relationship energy) but the deeper pleasures come from knowing a person and delving into each other.
Whether we realise it or not, NRE is one of the reasons we all do this.
Totally agree.
By this, you mean swinging ?
Swinging is one way of putting it. Personally I don't class myself as a swinger as it feels like such an old outdated term these days. But essentially, yes - recreational sex, poly, open, whatever you want to call it
Adding that to your private notes mister
Just how long are my private notes now?! "
As long as your cock |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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i only ever really meet new people, rather than agree to repeat meets.
i enjoy that far more, the heightened energy and atmosphere, sparks flying, insane sexual tension... just does it for me.
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Everyone enjoys NRE (new relationship energy) but the deeper pleasures come from knowing a person and delving into each other.
Whether we realise it or not, NRE is one of the reasons we all do this.
Totally agree.
By this, you mean swinging ?
Swinging is one way of putting it. Personally I don't class myself as a swinger as it feels like such an old outdated term these days. But essentially, yes - recreational sex, poly, open, whatever you want to call it
Adding that to your private notes mister
Just how long are my private notes now?!
As long as your cock "
You can see it from there?! |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Everyone enjoys NRE (new relationship energy) but the deeper pleasures come from knowing a person and delving into each other.
Whether we realise it or not, NRE is one of the reasons we all do this.
Totally agree.
By this, you mean swinging ?
Swinging is one way of putting it. Personally I don't class myself as a swinger as it feels like such an old outdated term these days. But essentially, yes - recreational sex, poly, open, whatever you want to call it
Adding that to your private notes mister
Just how long are my private notes now?!
As long as your cock
You can see it from there?!"
You’ve sent me a picture the other day, haven’t you ? |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Everyone enjoys NRE (new relationship energy) but the deeper pleasures come from knowing a person and delving into each other.
Whether we realise it or not, NRE is one of the reasons we all do this.
Totally agree.
By this, you mean swinging ?
Swinging is one way of putting it. Personally I don't class myself as a swinger as it feels like such an old outdated term these days. But essentially, yes - recreational sex, poly, open, whatever you want to call it
Adding that to your private notes mister
Just how long are my private notes now?!
As long as your cock
You can see it from there?!
You’ve sent me a picture the other day, haven’t you ? "
Yuh, I was just teasing |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Everyone enjoys NRE (new relationship energy) but the deeper pleasures come from knowing a person and delving into each other.
Whether we realise it or not, NRE is one of the reasons we all do this.
Totally agree.
By this, you mean swinging ?
Swinging is one way of putting it. Personally I don't class myself as a swinger as it feels like such an old outdated term these days. But essentially, yes - recreational sex, poly, open, whatever you want to call it
Adding that to your private notes mister
Just how long are my private notes now?!
As long as your cock
You can see it from there?!
You’ve sent me a picture the other day, haven’t you ?
Yuh, I was just teasing "
It was a rather long tease |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Everyone enjoys NRE (new relationship energy) but the deeper pleasures come from knowing a person and delving into each other.
Whether we realise it or not, NRE is one of the reasons we all do this.
Totally agree.
By this, you mean swinging ?
Swinging is one way of putting it. Personally I don't class myself as a swinger as it feels like such an old outdated term these days. But essentially, yes - recreational sex, poly, open, whatever you want to call it
Adding that to your private notes mister
Just how long are my private notes now?!
As long as your cock
You can see it from there?!
You’ve sent me a picture the other day, haven’t you ?
Yuh, I was just teasing
It was a rather long tease "
What's a girl to do...  |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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I like familiarity. The more you know someone the more comfortable you become around them, you can really let yourself relax.
The thrill of meeting someone new is so exciting. All the build up to towards actually meeting them, the sexual tension and finding out things about them, The first kiss is just an unmatched feeling!. |
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By *eliWoman 51 weeks ago
I'll know it when I find it. |
"Familiarity sounds rather dreary a term when applied to a person doesn't it?
I love those butterflies I experience when I'm meeting someone new. That stage of excitedly talking and discovering new things, the voicenotes of waffle and joy. That rush of the first kiss, the way someone's body, their responses is oh so very new to me. It's very much new relationship energy and I'm here for that. Slightly addicted to NRE to be honest.
Equally, I love the deeper bonds that come about in time. The ability to relax and enjoy intimacy, learning new things, exploring kinks and desires that I've not had a chance to or have been inspired by the other person.
I'd say I lean more towards to knowing someone, a deeper relationship. I do love the rush of NRE though.
Would regularity fits better in that context ? "
I think so. Possibly. Regular could mean that you see them a few times a year though! It's quite nuanced and hard to explain.
I just know familiarity is in the same category as the word meet for me.
If either was used by a lover or partner I'd probably leave Fab.
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"Does your prefer the novelty effect that a new sexual partner can provide ?
Do your sexual desire and arousal increase with a new partner or do you prefer the familiarity with all it entails that a regular partner can provide ?
Both can be compatible, it is not one way or the other. I was just wondering where people position themselves on that spectrum. "
Had fwbs for 7yrs and 4.5yrs and a few others for a decent amount of time - for the most we were shagging both inventively and enthusiastically every time we saw each other.
New people are just that, new people. You meet as you have interest in each other, with luck there's a spark whether you return or not |
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