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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I've this couple viewing my profile daily, for last few weeks, I've obviously looked at theirs but not shown myself. They're not looking for the likes of me, want slightly younger too, and they've fabbed alot of my pics, should I message them or is it poor etiquette because I'm not what they're looking for according to their profile. |
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We quite often get a lot of fabs from profiles who aren't looking for people like us. We assume they like the pictures and that's it. However I can't see any harm in a brief message saying hello with no expectations on your part. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular looks and fabs is an indication of some interest, but not necessarily an interest in meeting. It could be there is an interest but they are two shy to make the first move.
In the circumstances you described, I’d send a polite message thanking them for the views and fabs, and if they fancied a chat?
Approach with no expectations so you’ve nothing to lose, but potential to gain. |
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Ha ha, such a variety of answers.
Here’s another one…send them a polite message
‘Hey, I see you look at my profile a bit - is there anything in particular that’s interesting or do you look and laugh?’ 
It either starts a conversation or moves it on as if they reply then it’s moved on or if they don’t then you tried to reach out.
It could be one of them and the other isn’t keen. Or shy. Or *insert any number of reasons…
Asking them might answer your questions or you can say nothing and wonder 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely message. They are probably shy and are trying to get noticed.
I do this with everyone that visits my profile. It’s the only way you will find out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely message. They are probably shy and are trying to get noticed.
I do this with everyone that visits my profile. It’s the only way you will find out "
Or just knock one out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely message. They are probably shy and are trying to get noticed.
I do this with everyone that visits my profile. It’s the only way you will find out "
What about if it’s your ex fwb & you don’t know how they will react  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd message out of pure curiosity.
Also etiquette is in the eye of the beholder on Fab so work away and follow your intuition.
I have regulars that perv my profile. Sure the pics are public. I consider that flattery. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"So I've this couple viewing my profile daily, for last few weeks, I've obviously looked at theirs but not shown myself. They're not looking for the likes of me, want slightly younger too, and they've fabbed alot of my pics, should I message them or is it poor etiquette because I'm not what they're looking for according to their profile. "
It might be the guy check and see if it says bicurious?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I've this couple viewing my profile daily, for last few weeks, I've obviously looked at theirs but not shown myself. They're not looking for the likes of me, want slightly younger too, and they've fabbed alot of my pics, should I message them or is it poor etiquette because I'm not what they're looking for according to their profile. "
Fab their photos and send them a wink. If you hear nothing then just don't waste your time.
Be flattered you were on someones wank radar. |
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By *apybarasCouple
over a year ago
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I think there's no right or wrong answer (as the replies seem to indicate). Therefore, you do what want, as long as it's done politely and/or humorously very few people are going to mind.
And those few that do mind are dodged bullets. |
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Tricky because we don't like hard rules, we have guidelines. We have an age range but if we like someone we can go above or below. We prefer couples and bi people, but have happily played with straight and single if we like them too.
We also have no problem people messaging, but recently have blocked single guys due to getting deluged in "hi" nonsense.
So long as your message isn't blocked, the worst they can say is no thank you.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained, go for it. |
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No harm in messaging to say Hi. Just don't be creepy about it and don't jump straight into sex talk. Just say something like you noticed them looking and wondered if they'd like a chat? And go from there. |
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