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Men. Are you picky?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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Be honest.
You are in a swinging site for sex…..(or maybe not) but this is a site where swinging is the theme. Throw your keys in a bowl, and that’s your partner for the night type of deal isnt it?
Or, do you need an attraction that goes beyond the fact they look good in the photos they post?
*It’s been asked lots of times I know, but as a man (yes, this is true) never realy get the chance to say, I can be quite picky too when it comes to sexual attraction 
Your turn you fussy sods!!! |
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Yes.
I'll flirt with absolutely anyone that I feel I want to be flirty with. I can actually be a flirty person as nothing but just a surface flirt.
But when it comes to giving my time, effort, and attention to people, sex or otherwise, I am very fucking picky. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Yes.
I'll flirt with absolutely anyone that I feel I want to be flirty with. I can actually be a flirty person as nothing but just a surface flirt.
But when it comes to giving my time, effort, and attention to people, sex or otherwise, I am very fucking picky. "
Too fucking picky
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Let’s be honest, is any man really going to admit to not being picky?
Is any Woman? 
Serious question?"
Are women more picky than men? That’s the real question |
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By *red333Man 38 weeks ago
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"Be honest.
You are in a swinging site for sex…..(or maybe not) but this is a site where swinging is the theme. Throw your keys in a bowl, and that’s your partner for the night type of deal isnt it?
Or, do you need an attraction that goes beyond the fact they look good in the photos they post?
*It’s been asked lots of times I know, but as a man (yes, this is true) never realy get the chance to say, I can be quite picky too when it comes to sexual attraction
Your turn you fussy sods!!! "
yes I'm very fussy, i like to like them first, then love them, then shag them  |
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"Let’s be honest, is any man really going to admit to not being picky?
Is any Woman?
Serious question?
Are women more picky than men? That’s the real question "
Women can be on here yes as numbers are in their side  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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"Let’s be honest, is any man really going to admit to not being picky?
Is any Woman?
Serious question?
Are women more picky than men? That’s the real question "
How is it measured?…
A further question.  |
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"Yes.
I'll flirt with absolutely anyone that I feel I want to be flirty with. I can actually be a flirty person as nothing but just a surface flirt.
But when it comes to giving my time, effort, and attention to people, sex or otherwise, I am very fucking picky. "
Bugger ...that's me out then lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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"Let’s be honest, is any man really going to admit to not being picky?
Is any Woman?
Serious question?
Are women more picky than men? That’s the real question
Women can be on here yes as numbers are in their side "
So what about OFF here?
*woody is very aware how this has turned into a conversation about how woman are picky and can be….
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"Yes.
I'll flirt with absolutely anyone that I feel I want to be flirty with. I can actually be a flirty person as nothing but just a surface flirt.
But when it comes to giving my time, effort, and attention to people, sex or otherwise, I am very fucking picky.
Too fucking picky
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Have you two not got it in yet? It’s like the gold blend advert all over again lol |
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Yes I'm picky, as I've got the experience to tell me that when I've not been picky.
that not being picky smashed me to pieces, smashed my self-worth and self-esteem, through selling myself to the lowest bidder. So yes I'm picky these days, as I have worth for myself, and choose not to smash myself to pieces, through my behaviours. I have more Value for myself today. |
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"Yes.
I'll flirt with absolutely anyone that I feel I want to be flirty with. I can actually be a flirty person as nothing but just a surface flirt.
But when it comes to giving my time, effort, and attention to people, sex or otherwise, I am very fucking picky. "
Agree 100% with this. There needs to be some connection/attraction for both parties. |
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By *nj6969Couple 38 weeks ago
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Can't say I'm that picky on looks. As long as I like the person and can have some banter I kind of can find that very attractive.
So not really physically picky to a point of course. But generally nice clean respectful wins the day for us x |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Let’s be honest, is any man really going to admit to not being picky?
Is any Woman?
Serious question?
Are women more picky than men? That’s the real question
How is it measured?…
A further question. "
Notches on the bedpost |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Let’s be honest, is any man really going to admit to not being picky?
Is any Woman?
Serious question?
Are women more picky than men? That’s the real question
How is it measured?…
A further question.
Notches on the bedpost "
But is it though? |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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The word picky is quite an expansive term.
I would say I know what I like and I always do my due diligence before I meet someone.
Each to their own and live and let live.
Some call it having standards which always conjures up ideas of a swinging social hierarchy to some extent
I know what qualities I look for and I say hello
Manners go a long long way, even a polite thanks but no thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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"Let’s be honest, is any man really going to admit to not being picky?
Is any Woman?
Serious question?
Are women more picky than men? That’s the real question
How is it measured?…
A further question.
Notches on the bedpost "
So is more or less, the most picky?….
Or is that measuring succes of being lucky finding the ones for you?….
This could be a continuous question to ponder and find out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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"Yes I am. It's all about self-worth right??
Look at me actually answering the question OP
Mr
And we couldn’t be more proud.
Much appreciated "
*Hi5
Great profile by the way.
Narrator - Woody will tell you he doesn’t read profiles…. He does. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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Picky is perhaps the wrong word - but I do have preferences and standards. If there's no attraction, then it's not going to work for me.
The scope of those preferences is pretty wide ranging though. |
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"Yes I am. It's all about self-worth right??
Look at me actually answering the question OP
Mr
And we couldn’t be more proud.
Much appreciated
*Hi5
Great profile by the way.
Narrator - Woody will tell you he doesn’t read profiles…. He does. "
Thanks Woody. We were under the impression you didn't read them...we stand corrected |
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I wouldn't say I am picky. I don't think there's anything wrong with a spontaneous meet just from the pure physical attraction, but in my opinion, the sex has always been better when you get that build up having gotten to know each other. |
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If I say I'm really picky who would believe me?
I'll let the facts speak for themselves.
7 years here across 4 different profiles with 60-70 verifications plus a few where no verification was offered.
Only 10 percent of those led to sex.
That was by choice rather than circumstance.
I have said no a hell of a lot more than I've said yes in that time.
I like sex but I have never needed it so I'm very relaxed when I refuse it. |
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Oh, and I should also add that needing to know someone before you have sex doesn't make you better than those who have spontaneous meets. As long as everyone's needs are being met, that's all that matters. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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"Yes I am. It's all about self-worth right??
Look at me actually answering the question OP
Mr
And we couldn’t be more proud.
Much appreciated
*Hi5
Great profile by the way.
Narrator - Woody will tell you he doesn’t read profiles…. He does.
Thanks Woody. We were under the impression you didn't read them...we stand corrected "
Spoiler alert. subtext - that’s probably because lots of people assume a lot on Fab.
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There are over 40,000 people on here. I've narrowed down to 300 women that I like.
20 of them are on the forå but I've mentally selected just 6 out of those 20 that take my fancy.
They know who they are.
6 out of the 40,000...yes I'm picky. |
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Yes incredibly, but it's not a conscious action.
It's just how my sexual attraction functions.
I need to get to know people quite intimately first before sexual attraction forms.
So in a way yes and no. I am quite open to the possibility with many people, but the drive actually forms with very few. |
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