If it will have no impact on my family, then I keep it to myself. Ailsa has enough shit to contend with already and I’m not really close enough to anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nobody but me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

SW1A1AA

My mum

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By *herry.bombWoman over a year ago

basingstoke

My fiancé.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My sister

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By *y_CinnamonWoman over a year ago

Hampshire

Either my 2 friends I chat to every day, or my other mate who I can tell anything.

Depends what it is really.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Usually it's the doctor of late, giving bad health news.. So I usually have a philosophical chat with them about it, albeit brief.

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By *ddie1966Man over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Just me, myself and I now.

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By *eaAndBiscuit1989Man over a year ago

North West

My mum or my neighbour (best friend)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

unfortunately no one …. Sucks tbh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My mom

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

It depends what it's about, I did have someone special I shared everything with; but sadly thats no longer the case. In future I'll just have to get on with things alone.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

Each other.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My best friend usually.

I don't have family etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Myself to begin with, then to help me make sense with whatever I'm contending with, depending on what it is, I will talk to one of a couple of people.

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By *ittlebirdWoman over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It was my mum

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By *ir SupremacyMan over a year ago

Bolton

Myself...all my family are in Ireland.

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By *illy IdolMan over a year ago

Midlands

I guess it would depend on the particular news, but usually family

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By *edeWoman over a year ago

the abyss

It depends on the news really. If it's something that won't affect anyone else then I just deal with it myself. If it's something that I will have to share with others then I usually try and just tell the necessary people straight away to get it over with. I can deal with my own emotions, having to upset others with the bad news is harder to me

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

My wife, who is my lover, best friend and my confidant.

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By *ags73Man over a year ago

glasgow-ish

Internalise it.

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By *mf123Man over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Myself i share my real news with nobody if i can help it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hubster. He's my best friend, lover and soul mate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I generally deal with it myself

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Myself, it’s nobody else’s business.

The mr

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Scotland/Sienna

"Who is the first person you turn too if you receive bad news? "
you

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"I don’t have anyone.

I deal with everything myself now. "

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"It was my mum

Hugsxx

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"unfortunately no one …. Sucks tbh "

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

fsmily

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman over a year ago

Bliss

Myself first as I need to process it, then its my inner circle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t have anyone.

I deal with everything myself now. "

This makes me sad

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan over a year ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

"Who is the first person you turn too if you receive bad news? "

Oliver...

OLIVEEEERRRR!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Work it out for myself first and then go to mum

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By *sWyldWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

My bestie

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By *arkus1812Man over a year ago

Lifes Departure Lounge in NN9

My Sister

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My mum

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

Each other, goes without saying.

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By *heitaliandreamerMan over a year ago

Northampton

My mum, brother and my two daughters

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By *rgasmicChemistryCouple over a year ago

east coast

H we have had a lot over the last 3 years

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

Depends what it is! Alot of the time my best friend! Used to b my first mother inlaw even though my own mum was still around those days! X

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Myself, possibly a particular friend , depending on the severity of the bad news.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My cat.. She does not answer back but she senses things are not good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My partner and my mum

Miss S x

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By *BWLOVER1965Man over a year ago

Ipswich

Used to be my mum or my best friend my wife both unfortunately passed years ago

Now just deal with it myself

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan over a year ago

A den in the Glen

Well the good news is at least no one has said Mr Jack Daniels etc

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

My Girl, she is my closest confidant and always there for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just deal with it myself, I was brought up not to burden others with my problems and be stoic. It works very well for me.

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