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Do you actually cmon be truthful now
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The grass is always greener ….
I was in a relationship, and I wanted to swing. I’m now not in a relationship swinging I suppose, and I’d like somebody to fucking cuddle!!!!! 
One day, I might get it right  |
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By *TG3 OP Man
over a year ago
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"The grass is always greener ….
I was in a relationship, and I wanted to swing. I’m now not in a relationship swinging I suppose, and I’d like somebody to fucking cuddle!!!!!
One day, I might get it right "
really you asked her to swing or she was in lifestyle already?  |
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Why not both?
Like, seriously. Ethical non-monogamy exists and anyone can do it.
I have long-term partners, and I also swing and do kink with casual partners.
It's not a one or the other situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The grass is always greener ….
I was in a relationship, and I wanted to swing. I’m now not in a relationship swinging I suppose, and I’d like somebody to fucking cuddle!!!!!
One day, I might get it right really you asked her to swing or she was in lifestyle already? "
There’s not enough alcohol in my house to open that box Fred.  |
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By *TG3 OP Man
over a year ago
Swanage |
"The grass is always greener ….
I was in a relationship, and I wanted to swing. I’m now not in a relationship swinging I suppose, and I’d like somebody to fucking cuddle!!!!!
One day, I might get it right really you asked her to swing or she was in lifestyle already?
There’s not enough alcohol in my house to open that box Fred. "
lol cmon its only me thats listening |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I ask because I don't understand this wanting to have sex with other people if you got great sex with you partner."
So if you’re a great cook you never have takeaway or go out to dinner? |
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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago
London |
I'd say many do, but swinging isn't the same meaning for most. 100s of people aren't into moresomes I find on here, which is a very swinger trait, I'd say. I'd say many singles here are also cheating, which I'm not judging, because there's possibly a lot of reasons for that too.
The only thing I find morally bad here is the various forms of kink shame you see. Unconsciously or intentionally, it shows. Feel like it's hypocrisy in a way that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I ask because I don't understand this wanting to have sex with other people if you got great sex with you partner."
And it’s different and more great sex with other people.
My partner is giving me something else other people could not possibly give me.  |
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Relationship free zone here - definitely not signing up for another 500 years of the cold shoulder and being generally treated like shit.
Just here for the sex. And the laughs. But mainly the sex with fun people. |
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"Why not both?
Like, seriously. Ethical non-monogamy exists and anyone can do it.
I have long-term partners, and I also swing and do kink with casual partners.
It's not a one or the other situation."
To answer your first question, I think maybe forming and sustaining one relationship is the limit of what many people have capacity to manage |
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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I'd say many do, but swinging isn't the same meaning for most. 100s of people aren't into moresomes I find on here, which is a very swinger trait, I'd say. I'd say many singles here are also cheating, which I'm not judging, because there's possibly a lot of reasons for that too.
The only thing I find morally bad here is the various forms of kink shame you see. Unconsciously or intentionally, it shows. Feel like it's hypocrisy in a way that."
Just to clarify that people are entitled to their preference, but you will see people with a preference that doesn't align with all on this site, which I'm guessing we're subconsciously expecting everyone to think the same as ourselves maybe. |
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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago
Paper Town Central, Essex. |
I'll take both.
It's not a question of this or that, but if whoever I'm with is comfortable with the cuddles afterwards, then I'm more than happy to oblige and something I adore.
All part of the aftercare if you ask me. |
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"Like swinging or would you rather have a relationship with great sex and cuddles? "
I would like to be with just one person relationship etc but I am not , so casual hookups it is until something better happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I ask because I don't understand this wanting to have sex with other people if you got great sex with you partner."
Great sex with many partners makes for immense greatness. |
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