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By *ickie_Ranking OP Man over a year ago

London

Have you ever been attracted to someone you know who's unattractive but there's something about them that makes them attractive?

It's not a riddle or tongue twister

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

If I find them attractive, they're attractive to me.

I don't care if they're not attractive to anyone else really.

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By *ingerTwistWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

I mean, my not to secret celeb crush is John Malcovitch. Some people who look peculiar are just hot.

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

If I find them attractive then they're attractive because I find them attractive, so I guess not

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By *hris 1000200Man over a year ago

kells

If I'm attracted to someone ,I'm attracted to them, simple, it's not one thing more a combination of sorts

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I know that some of the people I find attractive are not conventionally beautiful by traditional or modern standards.

But they're fucking gorgeous to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You mean a BOBFOC then OP?

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By *eadinthecloudsMan over a year ago

Manchester

If you find them attractive they’re not unattractive

Everyone’s not necessarily dialled into the same beauty standards. It’s ok to find anyone beautiful.

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By *tsJustKateWoman over a year ago

London

How can they be unattractive to me if I find them attractive????

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

No. If I knew/felt they were unattractive to me, I wouldn't be attracted to them. It's not a riddle but I don't understand.

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By *r TriomanMan over a year ago

Somewhere Southwest

"Have you ever been attracted to someone you know who's unattractive but there's something about them that makes them attractive?

It's not a riddle or tongue twister "

If there's something about them that attracts you, surely that makes them attractive? Or are you saying that there are many different ways that a person can be attractive and attraction isn't just physical? If that's the case, who knew?

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Hampshire

I'm often attracted to people who probably wouldn't be considered 'conventionally' attractive. The human race has only survived because people are attracted to all sorts of folks.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"You mean a BOBFOC then OP? "

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By *uri00620Woman over a year ago

Croydon

I can think people are attractive by most standards but not for me. I mean I find Seth Rogen attractive where most probably would not

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"I know that some of the people I find attractive are not conventionally beautiful by traditional or modern standards.